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Carchoice:
I am silent reader too. I was and still guilty of what the posters on the thread are preaching against. My conscience don’t let me comment.

I will talk about sexual desire and self control


The sex I had last year and some parts of this year could hold me for the next 10 years no cap. I’m always ashamed to say it. There was a day I had sex with 4 different ladies. One at 5am because She slept over and left in the morning. Another lady came at around 3pm and stayed till 7pm thereabout. I saw her off to the estate gate and saw two ladies going to a nearby hotel. I signaled one and collected her contact. Got home and got bored all of a sudden. I called her to come to my place, She told me her condition and we had an agreement. Few minutes later She called back that She can’t leave her cousin alone . She asked to bring her along. We had a new bargain. Both ladies came and I had sex with them. Sorry I had to post all this but just to give insight on where I am coming from. This is one of the many sexcapades I have had. And more of it happened this year.


I started asking myself questions as to how I get the energy to partake in all these endless and fruitless sex parties. I called it endless because you will never get permanent satisfaction from it. Few days later the urge comes back, what to do and to what end? You get trapped in a loop trying to satisfy what you didn’t create nor understand;.


I started doing research and reading online. What I saw made me realized I had been wasting something very vital to human and especially Man(male) because man is a creator(created in God’s image).

Sexual energy when rightly used is what makes a man to thrive, create and aim for success, it can make you godly too. This energy is like a fuel you put in a car to take you to a preferred destination. Where the wastage occurs is when you lack the knowledge to rightly use it or when the means to exercise this energy is readily and cheaply available(sex and masturbation). This then turn into a habit because that is what you can see as the only means to suppress this energy force which you don’t understand.

I have a friend I met through my brother. This young man is well to do. Different kinds of women visits him almost every day and night. But you know the surprising thing? He hardly have sex with them. Sometimes months you see him with different ladies but no sex. He tried explaining something to me but I couldn’t comprehend it because of my love for pvssy.

Fast forward this year during my research was when I got to understood what this young man was really doing. He was like me too. He liked sex so much but he found a way to hold on to the energy and put it to use.


Here’s what he did; He found out frequent ejaculation is a problem, he knew he had gotten used to having sex always, he couldn’t just do away with women completely but continued inviting them over just to be around him. I’m going to explain something I think many people here will not understand. Do you know that you can feel sexually fullfilled just by having a lady around you? On your bed, a lady you can just gist with, play with, even at the sight of seeing her buubs, you get satisfied without having actual sex. Some men even go as far as pre-intimacy, suck buubs and they are okay. He doesn’t go far more than the above mention because he had already conditioned his mind that, that 2 to 5min pleasure of sex is a disaster to his success and spiritual journey.


if you are very much into meeting with hook up ladies, they will tell you stories of high caliber men they met and spent some time with and they gave lots of cash but didn’t have sex with them. You and I will think they are impotent or ritualist.


Few days ago, I was relaxing and I sensed the energy was coming, it comes in form of energy waves, at first an overwhelming feeling but not specified. Reason why i said not specified is, this feeling is an energy, it is not just a sexual energy, your feedback to this energy is what it holds on to. It’s like the universe knocking on your door telling you it’s time to create something. What is it you are going to create? You have no idea. There are two major creations that takes place, the creation of life, which is having sex, getting a lady pregnant and giving birth thereby adding to the life circle. The second creation is the creating of the environment for the life you created to thrive. Your life was created this way too.



Back to the energy waves, This makes most people get irrational and irritated because they don’t understand what is happening to them. The females get this too. For a man, the moment you see an erotic photo of a lady or you unfortunately let your mind wander to how Sandra rode your dlck the last time. The energy automatically hold onto that thought and expresses it sexually. We have a choice to make at this stage but we mostly end up with no choice than to call Sandra or a new catch to express this energy in the form of sex or masturbation.


And immediately you finish having this sex or masturbation, there comes a feeling of “fulfillment”, whereas feeling of fulfillment is supposed to come when you achieve a success feat. Success doesn’t have to be becoming a millionaire, any work you successfully completes is success. But instead you get fulfilled just from releasing semen. Most times the zeal to do other things dies immediately.

If you feel guilty after sex or masturbation, your subconscious mind is actually talking to you but you have no idea how to communicate with it and understand what it’s saying. Religious people calls this sin.


I have come to realize that Bible and Quran teachings on fornication and abstinence is nature’s law and not some religious jargons.


I’m not telling anyone to stop having sex, I’m just telling my observations as to why do I keep having sex, unfulfilled and endless sex, trying to understand what this sexual urge really is.


Being a redpiller is deeper than anyone thinks. Women are never the problem and will never be. I have started to see women as women and not the problem but as an agent that depletes my energy, but this only happens when you allow it, because you are unknowingly using your energy against your desire to create feats for sexual pleasure.

I have also started looking to make friends with women that are on no sex friendship, ladies that you can’t discuss sexual topics with and they will also know you are a hard nut to crack. A woman will only manipulate you and turn you into a simp when She notices you express your energy on sexual related stuffs. She can notice this just from mere interaction. A simple YES or NO to some of their questions can give you away.


About paying for sex, I’m guilty as charge I can be sentenced to life imprisonment. No CAP. A man that has made up his mind to pay for sex is vulnerable to manipulation. He is Vulnerable to all the women he finds attractive and wanting to lay. Paying for sex is bowing to the pressure of your sexual desire. You are already manipulated.


As a redpiller, if you don’t remove sex from the equation and learn to make platonic friends with women, you are not a redpiller and you will never fully understand what it means to be a redpiller. And even if you maintain a platonic relationship with a lady and one day you see a crack or a vulnerability in the friendship and sex is readily available, can you reject it and be the one to end the relationship by telling her she’s trying to take advantage of you just as the way women do men?



Sorry for the long post. Na everyday I Dey learn from the thread, I just thought I should contribute today.

Making sense

fineberry:
I swear to God my brother... Double dating is not my thing I swear down. This Lucifer fall m0y hand, this banny take my joy ajeh.

Well you know Opinion iis is like a nose everybody has one, 4 me, I ll tell you to Give her 2nd Chance and observe her very well, dax my take tho. But u hv d final say. Hv a nice day

Are u dating only Her? Say the Truth

Una don Tok finish ahbi anyway nice match I must say

Bigredmachine:
Man city would lose this match with hard labour... They will labour hard and still lose...

Man-city go score 4 Dix match

Mane don make am 2

chloedogie:
Lol. On normal hand or betting hand? Let us know sir

You sopox know nal

ma373733:
I have a question o

Actually I work in an office where there are three married women . they're all in Thier late twenties and thirties with 1 child each .me I don't have their time always minding my bizz when they bring their feminism bullshit I join them infact I'll say even more extreme feminist things (lol them sef go dey shock )but I act just the opposite they Always see girls I hangout with and how I spin my plates they always say I'm a psychopath (who cares?) Whenever they shit test I don't fuckkking respond I notice the best way to play women game is not to play the game atall. Back to my point
One thing I notice is they always talk bad about Thier husband's not appreciating them and other disrespectful thing they say about Thier husband's sometimes gets me angry like wtf who sent you to work?you confused low budget feminists!
And they're very loyal to my boss! I even believe is sleeping with one of them sef
Because my boss is darkpilled I saw some of his books in his computer dark psychology everywhere!
Infact his wife is a full time house wife.
. and one thing I notice about women is when issues concern men lol they'll be United! But in guys it's opposite if you wan scatter guys now eh just bring girl matter come everywhere go scatter.

My questions
why is it that women who campaign for equality when they're given same chance they're not Always happy to work and do other men stuffs same time they don't want to sit at home and become house wives?

And why are working women so loyal to their bosses than Thier husbands?

Am waiting for an answer to your question

Man U is not reliable at all

Chelsea fans I no won hear noise oo , una won beat City how many times self

Winning match 4 de reds

City to win

CaveAdullam:
Since you don't know what to do, let me tell you. But before then:

1. Love beclouds a man sense of reasoning; a man in love is never wrong and will never take corrections, even if he gets burnt, he will blame himself for acting wrongly.

2. A man with money deems TRP irrelevant. Being rich and redpilled with women is like oil and water, they never mix. Outliers are soups (normal soup we eat).

Because he wants to prove that he is better than other men, and that he can take care of his woman without any fear, a man blinded by romance will always want to make his woman happy even at his own expense. The worst is investing in a woman that is not procreating for you, you are simply sowing seeds on rocky surfaces.

NB: showing some romantic care and some lovey-dovey isn't bad, but the problem is that men don't know the scale and when to stop, but will rather prefer to go extreme, and when they get burnt they come up on social media lamenting. (It is extremely difficult for a man with money to stay redpilled and know how to relate with women and maintain his resources around them). Anyways, alpha fvck, beta bucks.

Now my advice:

1. Buy her the phone.

2. Buy her a powerbank (King0G, 2021).

3. Buy her solar panel and inverter.

4. Buy her a big rechargeable lamb.

5. Buy her music box.

6. Make sure you enrol her in a school so that in future both of you can be traveling oversea for short courses.

7. First rent an apartment for her, but as time progresses, ensure you buy a land and build for her a house.

If you don't follow this advise, it means you don't love your nice woman and you are not man enough.

PS: I'm a broke keyboard warrior and it is the truth! Real life, " Na 4 10 naira kulikuli you go classify me join".

Thanks.

Have a nice day!

sajmark:
Good Day Kings...

I love Dix

Nice 1

Nice 1

So like Dix now Man-U don komot for ordinary EFL cup ? Dix early morning?

Nice 1, another entertainment

As u see me so, I no send u oo, but dat 1 no mean say I no de wish you well oo long life 2baba

Spontaneous007:
I will never forget when this coco cracked a joke about heaven and hell. That was his funniest joke I could remember. He bashed basketmouth, Obasanjo and so many others. The guy na cruise.

I can help you market your goods and services to over 200k audiences. Chat me up on 0.9.0.1.3.2.6.6.4.6.2

In dat joke Some Nigerians was complaining to d Angel telling Him say U think is easy to b human being Bovi my man at a point He said Nigerians will change the list, and JESUS will b like. Infact if u are a Nigerian go one side

Spontaneous007:
I will never forget when this coco cracked a joke about heaven and hell. That was his funniest joke I could remember. He bashed basketmouth, Obasanjo and so many others. The guy na cruise.

I can help you market your goods and services to over 200k audiences. Chat me up on 0.9.0.1.3.2.6.6.4.6.2

In dat joke Some Nigerians was complaining to d Angel telling Him say U think is easy to b human being Bovi my man at a point He said Nigerians will change the list, and JESUS will b like. Infact if u are a Nigerian go one side

Am jox speechless, my own wahala no b worse shaa, but is too much 4 me, But I blv in GOD

My man

nairalee:
My favorite man city player.

Not all leadership positions should be done through elections o

Aswear u jox said my mind, D guy too good

Mehn can Dix b true?

2018 will be ever green iny life.
1- Loosing my Dad in the cold hands of death
2- getting admission.
3- Getting a job dat am using to sponsor my academics.
4- Leaving our family house and staying alone, which I hv always pray 4 since secondary school days
But in everything I thank GOD. Once there's life there's hope. Believe

The bitter truth b say none of them is going to win the primary election let alone the president, as far as Tinubu and Atiku is contesting

Am a Chelsea and Barca fan but am surprised dat Man U couldn't nak Dix boys atleast 0-3 anyway I still blv dat they ll qualify Dix group stage, but is a bad starting no cap

Nnaaee av to refresh NAIRALAND to check Man-U match oo on d front page , Mehn football is unpredictable at times , well I blv dat Man-U will qualify at the group stage