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Let me tell you OP, Many guys out there are naturally Redpilled, by d way wat is the meaning of being a Redpliler?
In my own definition, I ll say dat being Redpilled simply means, not allowing a woman to manipulate you as a guy, the act of being able to detect all d manipulative ways of a woman, as man being in TOTAL CONTROL of your relationship with a woman, Dix is my summary of wat Redpill is all about,
Am not telling u by assumption, in my community many guys both literate and illiterate posses Dix attitude naturally, same way with SIMPS,
In my own case I naturally hate girls who hv entitlement mentality, but wen I stumbled on Redpill thread here in NAIRALAND, I learned more, so forget it Redpill exist both online and offline.

Pple de Sha

Injury jox messed Hazard career up, He ll regret leaving Chelsea

chatinent:
Na so, nna m.

Nnaaee amaghi kwam na enwere onye na atari asusu anyi otua, n'ime NAIRALAND , echem na Abu m okacha mara na asusu Igbo oo , jisie Ike, ina eme ofuma, uwa dikwara gi na mma

chatinent:
It is because there is sb you believe who is always willing to lend you.


Na food you come this life come chop? Ị kpebiri igbu onwe gị, chukwu nnam ehhh!


At a point in my life, I was paying my rents, bills, had a brother staying with me and I was paid ₦12k monthly. I had no one to lend me money.



Hello my brother,
I will not lie to you, neither will I mince words nor patronise you...thank God on Sunday I sha don't know you in person.

If the company provides accommodation for you...which translates that you don't pay rents, ekwesiri iji ntu kukasiagi isi!

I am not saying ₦25k is too big...but damn it, I read a post of a noble man here who is married and probably with kids now surviving on ₦35k monthly...ginwa họọrọ ịbụ onye na -eri oké nri. I don't think it's even because you wallow in gluttony...onu uto akugbola gi!

What nonsense! What akpiridacity!

If you aren't Igbo to understand what I am typing, na your problem.

I am catering for four of my siblings staying with me with nobody to borrow from, or an extra hand. The key is buying things in bulk. Avoid onu uto! Learn to drink water while you eat...eat small, drink water small! Six wraps of fufu does not mean you have made it in life...people eating two haven't died finish! Hapu umu agbogho!!

Better diverse your income and stop living a scavenger life or start making a scale of preference before ma pata gi aka.


Lalasticlala, come and carry your brother before I lose my temper.

Well, I'll add more things since you decided to update the thread with the below:

You need to stop depending on one source of income then!

Ikpofelam

;Dna so nal

Calm down next season He might win it

Nice move

Obi

Nawaoo see observation

What is good is good

Wat is good is good no cap

pansophist:
[b] what I do that makes people respect me.

1. I own my shit. One thing you'll never see me do is to borrow money from you, or expect you to pay my bills (eg if we go out), or by just becoming a burden to people. Never. I'll rather sweep Oshodi expressway to Mile 2 and get paid, than beg for money. My life motto is that I must be able to carry my own weight at least.

2. Self-treatment. I don't eat, drink, or digest any rubbish because it's sweet. So smoking, drinking beer and soda, and any unhealthy substance is a no-no. You are what you eat. If you eat junk, you'll look like junk. If I lift my shirt right now, you'll see clean six-packs. No joke. Eating for nutrition instead of taste is a key to self-respect. Let food by thy medicine. And the best part is that you'll be fine and healthy.

3. Useless friends - I get mentioned a lot on nairaland for example, but if you don't have a sense I won't waste single energy responding to you. I have few friends, and they matter. If I call three of my friends right not that I need cash, four will respond positively. That doesn't mean I ask, just telling you the quality of friends I keep. If you keep idiots as friends, you'll suffer from idiotic problems.

4. Keeping to my lane - in fact, it is only on nairaland I write a lot but in real life, I'm a damn introvert. I'll be looking like I did not know anything but my brain has done all the quadratic equations and guessed accurately what anyone is up to. So yea, do not go where you're not invited and keep to yourself. Don't talk anyhow. It's tempting I know, but just shut up man.

5. Competence - this is the most important one. You must be good at something. Pick one thing and do it well. It can be anything, but it's easier if you're passionate about it. For example, when I was in school, I was known as the best writer and speaker. Like seriously it's impossible to sleep if I handle the mic. Dem no born you well. Try am. You can't. I've always been interested in how the human mind process words, and calibrated my speech in such a way that sparks your interests and brings out that childlike curiosity that has been beaten away by the suffering of adulthood.

When you're good at something, people will come to you for it. And it brings confidence. You'll feel good about yourself and your ability, and respect will come naturally.

6. Exercise. I hold the opinion that you can't feel confident if you know deeply that you're not physically attractive. When you can easily get in and out of relationship and have options scattered around you, you'll have confidence as it signifies your value. Think about it, why do young girls of maybe 17, that are broke, have no achievement in the real world but have ego the size of aso rock? Yea you guess right. They are at their prime, naturally attractive, hence the confidence. They know the value they hold, and it let them navigate life with pride. As a man, you can tap from it too. Go lift heavy weight man, eat healthy and rock a bad ass beard. Fine like mad. Even if you're an idiot, your confidence will sky rocket.

7. Self-disappointment - stop it. You said you'll visit grandma but didn't go, or that you'll loose weight but slack. Or your new year resolution dumped. Come on man. If you disappoint yourself, then its impossible to respect yourself. Do shit you want to do, dutifully. And do things that are hard. The only way out is always through it. If you can't rely on the promise you gave yourself, why would someone else do? Treat yourself like someone you care for. It's hard I know, but its the way out.

8. Be proactive about life, not reactive. Don't wait until things get worse in your life before you fix it. If a friend is bad for you, don't wait until you become their victim before cutting them off, or as they day, prevention is better than cure. Also, don't be a lifter, unless you're up there already. People will shame you when you live your life with audacity and responsibility, and that's a good reason to dispose such folks.

As you grow in your development journey, you'll realise that you'll become detached from the general populace, because quite frankly, most people don't want to better themselves. Especially in Nigeria. Its a lonely journey but worth it, and you'll never want to go back. Your life will be far more peaceful, and stressless. The less develop a person is, the more expensive it is to be their friend. For example non of my friends will busy my call because of fear that I want go beg for something. Instead, they would know that my call is always a blessing. Good discussion, nice business deals and more. Now try date a typical girl that see you as a wallet, or be friends to those useless friends that talks only about football drinks women etc you get the point.

Would have written more, but I'm tired. Digest this one first. Later jare. [/b]

You hv said it all Bro, nice write-up

Nice advice, I blv OP must hv gotten something here

Nice advice here, I blv OP must hv gotten something here

JESHAL:
KNOW THY WORTH

All over the world Betas constitute the absolute majority. Betas in this sense will refer to guys who do not take the redpill because not all redpillers are alpha, but no redpiller can be a beta.

Now, Betas are called simps because they believe that women have more value than them. Betas think having the pussy is the greatest thing since cold Ice cream. Betas believe that the pussy is gold and its very great.

As a great gamer in training, I want to tell you that the pussy is the most useless thing in the world. Why?


Who drives civilization?
Who created almost all technology?
Who rules the world politics?
Who invented your phone?
Who were the greatest scientists?
The greatest musicians?
The greatest sportmen?
In fact, the greatest everything?

MEN! We are gods!

We are the most valuable sex!

Dont ever believe because one woman has pussy, youre worthless!

Men are great! Manhood is the greatest achievement because we are the ones who conquer life. Women do absolutely nothing reallt important. This is not misogyny, its the truth.

Consider, while you hustle for money, what is your girlfriend or wife doing? Probably posting nonsense on instagram or whatsapp! Women are the most useless bunch ever!

You are worthy. Women should beg you with ses

You should be worshipped by woman by the mere fact you are a man. The most important creation!


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Making sense

Making sense

Too much of anything is bad, always use ur NO6

Right from secondary school I hv always pray to stay alone and am staying alone

From secondary school I hv always pray to stay alone and am staying alone, Neve had a roommate, unless a coper who stayed with me 4 six months

Sometimes I don't blame G guys Sha, D economy is very bad, but crime no b d way shaa

The match go make sense shaa

Na 4 pple wey won protest shaa

Hmmm am I the only one thinking about Anti-Christ gradually coming

TVTKOKO:
o f course, Messi did not play the EPL

What of the likes of Eric Cantona and
David Beckham?

Raalsalghul:
Do you mean this same fellow that has refused to score a goal in the 5th rated league in the world?

Messi don't need to score goals to prove His worth Bro

Is well

Good one

Educative

You think many here will take U serious? Only few dat GOD want to use Dem to bless you,
Bro am in dsame shoe with you but I hate begging bcoz they will think you are a scammer, sort 4 ur means outside Dix forum, my candid advice tho

I think it depends how they separated

Beta meat oo