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danski:
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Bro we d same

Imo pple where una de

Lilsameey:
,...All I know is that both redpillers,simps, feminist,etc,....All of them met the wrong person, who messed them up.

What of me that is yet to meet?

Nnaaee nawaoo

Talented

Kobojunkiee:
I wouldn't send them for sex therapy but maybe to a psychologist or psychiatrist instead.

You are very funny

We the Igbo's can never rule Nigeria, dax d bitter truth

Nice 1 Mike Tyson

Dix is very common in schools nal, jox dat many victims don't hv D guts to take it up. Maybe Dix student get long leg, dax Naija 4 U

HellVictorinho:
A person that was XYZ during courtship can become 123 after courtship.

You don carry street language enter d thread many pple won't understand ur slang oo

Many here wey yab Dix guy also voted 4 Him bcox of 1 or 2k, some think GEJ is a weak man, I no de pity Nigerians again in terms our leaders, na una go still vote den come here kom de make noise

GboyegaD:
This real man must sha explore and exploit despite all the bros explanation of their relationship. Oga, no need for to much explanation.

Na Tru nal

Kobojunkiee:
To counsel her about what though?

A sex therapist? Some people are just the way they are and are happy like that. If you start making her believe she is not normal, that one na new wahala.

It depends the of Her understanding and maturity shaa

What is ur brand of drink? you nailed it

Omo Dix 1 u are saying won't b easy oo, it takes alot of discipline and determination to engage in a workout, and consider His position as a pastor. 4 me I ll advice Him to take His wife to a relationship councilor or a sex therapist, how u see am?

Kobojunkiee:
Refocus that additional energy somewhere else instead of trying to create problems in his marriage where there really isn't any.

wait Leme get u right, do u mean he shud start going away match?

Kobojunkiee:
Well, unless you both have a heart to heart about your sexual preferences, even if during courtship, there is no way and no blood test yet to confirm these things.

In the Op's case, he was himself a virgin who probably wanted someone like him so the sex talk was not quite sufficiently covered before marriage. He seems to have also believed that he could teach the woman to follow his pace but has learned the hard way that there is no truth to that myth. [size=8pt][/size]

So, I am afraid he has no choice but to accept the situation that he has been resisting for the past 9 years, refocusing that extra energy on something else.

. Now uv summarize the whole thing, so wat advice do u hv 4 the OP?

Kobojunkiee:
All this one na lie

And let me guess, you also think all women who work as prostitutes all have high sex drives/libido?

All that na myth... women can fake it if they want to decieve you so don't fall for such nonsense too easily.

The example u are giving me is very far from wat OP is saying Bro. He said His wife won't even bother to introduce sex without Him initiating it. So are u saying Dix is difficult to observe in ur partner?

Kobojunkiee:
A real man?

By simply observing a woman for a period, you can tell whether she has a high libido or not?

The sad of this is that of those I know who also formed "real man" back in the days, all ended up in situations that defied explanation given their initial claims.

Wen I say real men, I don't know ur perception about it tho. But in Dix case about sex, a guy can easily detect if ur partner is a sex freak, normal or hv a low libido. Unless d partners are not making out during there courtship day's, hope u understand me now?

50% of pple saying they ll eat wen their man is not eating cannot do it, and many guys saying they can't do such can do worse, no b SM we de again, everybody de form boss

Kobojunkiee:
You assume that everyone's definition of courtship includes sex games, right?

And you didn't expect me to ask you this question to ascertain the mindset with which you approach the issue of courtship?

Newsflash, just because a woman acts like a IndecentStar during your courtship periods does not mean she will act the same way through marriage.. so be careful that you are not easily deceived by that too.

A real man will b able to know what His fiance is capable of doing with ur experience during counting, courtship is a period of examination of ur partner consciously and unconsciously

It is individual preference, some guys can accept and some won't, if a guy is a good cook den teach her how to cook, life no get manual,

Kobojunkiee:
How in the world could courtship have helped in this case?

Really!! so someone can ask me such question? If your fiance is displaying such attitude during courtship, it is in your hand to accept or move away from the relationship. If the Man observe Her attitude towards sex in there courtship day's and He didn't say anything, then He has Himself to blame.

This is why courtship is very important b4 marriage, but wait oo U said 9yrs? And u haven't complained in d early stage of d marriage, why now?

Any part except Igbo's bcox Dem go even win the primary election, dax d bitter truth

Let's b watching shaa, but I won't be surprised if she didn't go to prison or Her punishment may not be too cruel, no b Naija again

Nnaaee, nawaoo, even as I broke so, am still wondering wetin go make me think of suicide , RIP MAN

Goosh, Dix is very irritating, what a painful way to die RIP little girl

KiNg0G:
exactly brotherly, you get rhymes.

though some men, go applaud am say na real man him be for am to deny the girl request to have 2 meat.

but on a deeper thinking,...what if i blocked all loop holes from the start of our relationship,so that my girl nor go even get that liver at all to request for extra servette, talkless 2meat publicly, so that she nor go disgrace me(and i won't have to say no)

na him be the Respect when you talk.

you done dash me one keyword... CONTROL-FULL TIME

Making sense

Nice 1, making His broda and His wife jealous, we understand

deedy111:
OK but in this context, I'm specific about black and white people's IQ, I guess the white skin color could affect their IQ

The answer to ur question is there

Wetin de wonder me b say, even pple dat voted 4 Him will also b insulting Him here Next 2yrs una go vote 4 Atiku or Tinubu and after una go come here de rant, no b Nigerians finished GEJ with insults thinking is BUHARI is d new messai abeg make we hear word. Our problem is from us, ordinary 1 or 2k u don sell ur vote .