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Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

The only reason I liked your post was because of your edited post. Nairaland is Childrenland, under age broke jobless kids with cheap data, don't bring your problem here and expect any great advice.

If you know what is good for you leave that married woman alone. What kind of matured advice do you want? Tomorrow now you will start blaming the devil. We all know what she wanted from you.Young man, be wise and flee from that woman she will destory you.

Read the usual inscription on a fuel tanker and advice yourself with it.
Simply take a bow and leave that scene!

CaptainPrice1:
If her husband is on Nairaland, he can easily know you are referring to his wife with the little information from your story.

Make una dey try hide the real info.

That is because you're reading a playlet highly inspired to keep you entertained & engaged.

sageer1706:
Oga are u seeking for advice or u are here to quarrel us

Abi now?

I don't know what your motive is but did you even try to wonder what the man would do if he discovers you're the one managing the wife's spa? Na u by yourself say the man na richman.

What made you think she won't ask for sex? Or the old feelings won't come back??

What about your own schedules at Lagos?? Are you willing to abandon then and rush to Abuja to start serving your ex?

What if you mismanage the business, don't you think you might become her sworn enemy??..

Some risk/enjoyment are not worth it at all.

Lo. Everyone is principled.

If you need the pay very badly, you can take up the job but you have to be very careful. Emotion can defeat your discipline. Trust me, she can bring you down anytime. If you are very ok, don't take up the job to avoid complications for your life.

Remember, sweet things kill sometimes.

Kpekus kiee you there

U no get sense at all, u post nonsense and u dey find mature responses this is actually the most credible ansa I’ve read so far epa

Draslo:
Mature responses only.

Las Las... U go fvck her con dey say na devil work... Use ur head man

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Why denying the obvious or what ulterior motive are you suspecting if not sex?

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Hmm. That’s tricky. But if you’re only doing it for a favor and it’s not really for the money anyway then to avoid any unnecessary temptation just stay away from her.

you said your flesh is weak, you have a soft spot for her, & you think she has an ulterior notice so then why pursue the matter further and end up in an affair? Practice self-restraint and kindly decline.

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

If u need the extra money or atleast it adds up

If the time is convenient.

If she’s not the promiscuous type

If u won’t be seeing her at all or often.

If Ure not going to be having any form or private work meetings.

If u can handle it efficiently.

Now If all these are clear I don’t see any issues here.

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

oga commot for hia.. you use your fingers to type that your flesh is very very weak,isn't that to say you shall have sex with her if she initates it Use your sense and stop bringing all your problems on the internet ,people who know you in real life are here too

Give me one reason we no suppose fear women







The future is really PHIMALE

aBeg ghost am jor. you dey lag she dey abj. you even consider flight stress at all. Come weekends come catch cruise

What's it with Ex issues recently on FP?

Everywhere Ex, Ex, Ex.



Smh.

baralatie:
what is the cost implicationn of this first.

in simple terms what is the weekly amount that she is going to cough out for this your service

hotel lodging (Friday to Sunday)=#60000
flight cost=#100000
miscellaneous=#10000
total= #170000 per weekend (excluding fees)

she owns an oil and gas wetin again...saloon

haaa!

Abi o

SmellingAnus:
I think you already know that you will definitely fvck her itchy hornnny pussy like a pornstaaar... so why exactly do you need our advice...

hahahahaha wereeeeey , no kii me abeg u

BaeMercy:
The lady in question is a b*tch and will always be a bitch
How can you be married and still want your ex?
Her intentions are not genuine
If it was, she would have informed her husband about you
Some women can never change
Like you said she married a big guy, if you have an affair with her and he later finds out
Don't you think he can harm you? Don't lose your life over an unrepentant cheat if her husband is not enough let her find someone else


Marriage don't change people, people change for marriage

Before you marry a big lady who wears designers investigate her source of income most of them are into sex business so you won't end up paying for DNA test up and down

Chase a chick, never chase a bitch
Don't take her offer

Wow nice advice coming from a lady.

Awesome

Draslo:
O ti fi ori gbale.

So if you have a soft spot for someone then you want to have sex with them. Take my advice and f*** off.

Not that I am judging you but you wrote your flesh is very very weak too

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Your flesh is very very weak abi? People gave their 1 cent yet you are still not OK with that.
You know the answer to your question.

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

My advice is if you can be discipline with your dealings with her on her job offer, then go with her

She needed some one she can trust and that person is you

BaeMercy:
The lady in question is a b*tch and will always be a bitch
How can you be married and still want your ex?
Her intentions are not genuine
If it was, she would have informed her husband about you
Some women can never change
Like you said she married a big guy, if you have an affair with her and he later finds out
Don't you think he can harm you? Don't lose your life over an unrepentant cheat if her husband is not enough let her find someone else

Marriage don't change people, people change for marriage

Before you marry a big lady who wears designers investigate her source of income most of them are into sex business so you won't end up paying for DNA test up and down

Chase a chick, never chase a bitch
Don't take her offer

You have got killer lines!

SmellingAnus:
you can deceive many persons but you can't deceive your uncivilized dvck that it will not fvck a pussy of someone you have a soft spot for after giving you a Greek Gift...

He is the one exposing himself with words like "soft spot", " good person ", " chat here and there" e.t.c that I can't remember in his epistle. He is definitely going to bang her because the op knows the motive of the ex and he is playing along. LA LA LE Friday something must go down. The ex is obviously not enjoying her sex life with her husband. . ..

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Na kpash come so oo. Brace up for the sweetness

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Human factor is a very big problem while managing a business in Nigeria, you hardly get some one who won’t be looking for ways to cheat on you, and they will be using the adage “ is were you are working that you will eat from “ but they have forgotten they are actually stealing.
I think she trust you with her money.
She has been with you, and she knows your type of person.
Her husband don’t have to know your past with his wife.
You are coming in for business,
Business is business
,
And your relationship with her should end in business.

If she wants more from you, resign!

Draslo:
I don tire for you people. How many times do I need to say it? I don't have any intention of sleeping with her. Even if she does, I'm man enough to handle the situation. Shallow thinkers and men made from precum, the lot of you!

Shut up jor na nonsense you dey talk. Handle wetin are you sure? Infact I no trust you sef. people go tell you say shora fun obinrin you no hear. dem go just set you up? Ase boy

Uprightness100:
My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding.

Flee from a Strange woman!
For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil,
But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

Hear me now therefore My Son,
Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house,
Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel,
Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger,
And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed.

I Have Spoken my son! The Choice is yours to take.

How tf is he ur son ffs
All this pastor people dey always reason say them dey above person.. u better get sense.

If the business is beauty spa like you say it will be good for you to manage one; extra income in today's Nigeria. Besides, if you collect the flight ticket money but enter a bus you save an extra N70k per trip. Moreover, you will still get paid for your work. Furthermore, you meet upwardly mobile women and men. Nice place to work and get paid if the spa is in a good location. Well exposed young ladies mostly ugly but well endowed also patronise beauty spas. Generally speaking it's a nice place to meet future girlfriends or fornication accomplice. Your Ex is married so avoid getting killed by some rich dud you Dont know much about. Grab the money and walk.

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

TUEEEH ON YOUR FACE.
I gat nothing to say, Cuz this matter is depper than the pussy of an Hoe.
TUEEEEH