I broke up with this lady two years ago and forgot about her.. Since then she has never crossed my mind as anything important.

Last two weeks i saw a message popped up my WhatsApp from a new number, i replied and we started chatting. She has sent me "I miss you" and "I still love you" several times.

This girl said she wants us to get back together and her pushing me to get back to her is frustrating me.

How do I avoid this lady without hurting her?

Congrats bro . I will gladly accept her back, it shows your type are rare in the dating game.

Ask her to do a test in any reputable clinic make sure you go with her, before you have any thing sexually with her....

Did i hear you say how do u avoid this lady without hurting her?

Someone you've not been together with for over 2years and probably might have tried other options and saw that none worked out, then she remembers you and feels you were better and could come back into ur life at any point in time. Why not ask yourself if the other ppl she tried had worked out, will she have come back to you?... Accept her and learn the hard way since u guys have decided not to be principled in certain things........

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Why not politely let her know, that you have moved on? Or... Are you still in love with her?

If whatever caused the separation is still visibly present, I'd advise you both; to quit and reconciliation.

Otherwise, you both can forget "pride" and just find a way to build back the relationship.

I rest my case.

Accepting her back is a sucide mission.

Manson1:
Did i hear you say how do u avoid this lady without hurting her?

Someone you've not been with together for over 2years and probably might have tried other portions and saw that none worked out, then she remembers you and feels you were better and could come back into ur life at any point in time. Why not ask yourself if the other ppl she tried had worked out, if she'll come back to you... Accept her and learn the heard way since u guys have decided not to be principled in certain things...

This is totally a wrong submission of how thinks truly works...


If this is true love, it will eventually stand...

I've seen a video of a lady who married a man and they divorced for 20yrs and got back and remarried.

We keep pushing away our luck.

@OP, if you do not want her, you should tell her, there's no way to tell her that it won't hurt her.

It's better to do it now that it is early than to play along.

Just tell her that you have moved on and now have a serious relationship that you adore and wouldn't want to destroy it for nothing.

And tell her you'd love to block her.

Go to Aladura C.C.C & ask for prayers to repel her...Thank me later...

You really have to ascertain if her intentions are genuine before you get close to her again, and for you to even bring up the matter here seeking our opinion, simply means you still like her, else you'd have shunned her yourself

Love is really hard to comprehend.....

Just imagine.....After two fvcking years,the banny wanna come back?

Well,it clearly means she has tried other options just like someone aforementioned,but it seemed none of them worked out...Then she thought perhaps you were the best and must had learnt her lesson..

My input here is that,if you still love her, accept her back bro.........But use your brain......

Nairalanders must be wondering why I haven't been bashing and insulting people of late . But they won't understand that I don change finish via say I don see how life really be

Sonnobax15:

Love is really hard to comprehend.....

Just imagine.....After two fvcking years,the banny wanna come back?

Well,it clearly means she has tried other options just like someone aforementioned,but it seemed none of them worked out...Then she thought perhaps you were the best and must had learnt her lesson..

My input here is that,if you still love her, accept her back bro.........But use your brain......

Nairalanders must be wondering why I haven't been bashing and insulting people of late . But they won't understand that I don change finish via say I don see how life really be

Let me help you with your usual meme

ObamaMessi typing from psychiatric hospital

Make una no take am serious

obinna58:
ObamaMessi typing from psychiatric hospital

Make una no take am serious

I'm not ObamaMessi..who is he? pls.

People don full this thread also! Nairalanders no dey use relationship matter play.

Redpillers sef don land

What happened in the first place?

This thread go full…
Anyways, GGMU

Make we tell him?
Just for the sex that's all.
You will still become the victim

Run oo...

Messi1:
I broke up with this lady two years ago and forgot about her.. Since then she has never crossed my mind as anything important.

Last two weeks i saw a message popped up my WhatsApp from a new number, i replied and we started chatting. She has sent me "I miss you" and "I still love you" several times.

This girl said she wants us to get back together and her pushing me to get back to her is frustrating me.

How do I avoid this lady without hurting her?

Do you have a block button.........

Then go back to her!
You want to say no without hurting her?
Here is how to do it.
Invite her to your house over a weekend.
Spend time together.
Take her shopping.
Knack her very well.
Get her pregnant.
Visit her parents.
Put a ring on her finger.
Invite your friends, hers and her pastor.
Then say no.

Don't forget to update us.

The question now is…




Do you want her back?

Why did you break up in the first place? There is something you are not telling us

You want to Go back to that sufferness God save you from.
All the best, don't come and blame the devil later o
If it later comes out , Good or Bad , please take responsibilities.
My own advice

There is something we are not getting here!

You broke up with her or she broke up with you

Why did you break up with her or why did she break up with you?

That you have forgotten about her simply suggest you are done with her.

So, Bro, we can't decide for you here. Man up and decide for yourself. But note: what you won't eat again don't bother to smell it!

Messi1:
I broke up with this lady two years ago and forgot about her.. Since then she has never crossed my mind as anything important.

Last two weeks i saw a message popped up my WhatsApp from a new number, i replied and we started chatting. She has sent me "I miss you" and "I still love you" several times.

This girl said she wants us to get back together and her pushing me to get back to her is frustrating me.

How do I avoid this lady without hurting her?

You’re her last option lol
Especially after being dumped by others
Be wise

I can relate also, I had to run for my life

Tell her it’s over and block her if you are really serious

Nothing bad with it. Weigh the pros and cons by urself and decide. He who wears the shoe knows where it pinches.