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Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

! .... Tell him you cheated on him . .. he'll understand

Like seriously you are MAD.

Skullano:
Like seriously you are MAD.

Am not mad...

Your conscience will decide.

But I'm sure most people will tell you to take it to your grave. ..

What I do know is that you may never have peace of mind until you confess... plus these things always find a way of blowing up in people's faces at the most unexpected time.

no point telling him coz you'll still cheat on him after the marriage anyways

meanwhile,he should run a DNA test for his first seed..
I just have trust issues with you females

SmellySperm:
no point telling him coz you'll still cheat on him after the marriage anyways

meanwhile,he should run a DNA test for his first seed..
I just have trust issues with you females

Wisdom is what you have got my brother

Confession is good..

Women who have had good sexual interaction with their EX's tend to go back to them, and fvck them again and again

It's not WISE to tell him oooooo... MEN are not WIRED to FORGET easily... He might forgive you but he'll suspect you for life.. He might even call DNA TEST for the first child.... As a WOMAN Wey looseguard, Go and flush yourself..

The truth be say if I'm your husband, I'll divorce you, I don't deceive myself.. My SANITY is PARAMOUNT.. EYE WEY GO FOLLOW YOU FINISH THE DAY NO SUPPOSE DEY SEE ANYHOW AROUND 7:00am..

To start with, why should someone that is getting married still be sleeping with their exes weeks to their wedding..

There is possibility of them continue sleeping together after the wedding...

Someone can not tell me that nonsense and expect me to forgive her.. With Ex for that matter

Hmmm....Okafor's law at work here..

Do NOT try it. I repeat, do NOT try it. You will live to regret it. Men do NOT forget easily. Except, of course, you have resolved in your mind that you're not going ahead with the marriage plans again, then fine, tell him and say your goodbyes. Anything aside from that, you are on your own. If he chooses to accept you back, you will never have peace in that marriage. You will keep getting daily reminders of how you cheated on him, and how cheap you are. Udo!

Confess and have peace of mind

Until you tell us the real story, we won’t proffer solution to your question.

Just cease and desist from the act in future.

No need to confess, otherwise you will just rock the boat unnecessarily

Please don't do it

None of our business

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

It happened to me.
She confessed a few days to our introduction.
I wish she hadn’t told me.

I loved her so much.

But after the confession, the trust was gone forever.

# After God, fear women.

Modified:
For those asking me; We broke up some months later and she ended up
marrying an entirely different person not her ex.

All I can say is "Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things".

Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

Tajbol4splend:
Women who have had good sexual interaction with their EX's tend to go back to them, and fvck them again and again

That is my niggarrrrrrrrrrrrrr...
That is why a smart niggarrrr should never break up with his girl in a violent way

Nonsense

PrimadonnaO:
Your conscience will decide.

But I'm sure most people will tell you to take it to your grave. ..

What I do know is that you may never have peace of mind until you confess... plus these things always find a way of blowing up in people's faces at the most unexpected time.

100% facts, it will eat you up inside.

Hmm...what you should address first is why did you sleep with your ex? If you realize you can't do without him or his staffing, biko, don't put a brother in future pains.

As for confessing, please do that which gives you peace.

Confess to him but you will loose your marriage. Simple as abc.
Don't confess but you will or may have some guilt unless you ask God for forgiveness and block every avenue to contact your ex henceforth.

is her fiance married her already, all this small small pikin self what a rubbish post

You already confessed here,so confess to your fiancée as well to free your mind...

Confession has destroyed many marriages, unless the act can destroy the man unknowingly if kept secret,
I'll advise you or whoever to keep it a lifetime secret,
Ignorance is bliss,
Unless you don't need your marriage or you intend continuing hoeing after marriage.
The only person that deserves the confession is Jesus cos only him can forgive you.
I'm not supporting evil, I'm only giving an advice I'll give myself and anyone.

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

Ok