UyaiIncomparabl:
Do NOT try it. I repeat, do NOT try it. You will live to regret it. Men do NOT forget easily. Except, of course, you have resolved in your mind that you're not going ahead with the marriage plans again, then fine, tell him and say your goodbyes. Anything aside from that, you are on your own. If he chooses to accept you back, you will never have peace in that marriage. You will keep getting daily reminders of how you cheated on him, and how cheap you are. Udo!

You are bad person.

drlateef:





Confessing to your creator and believing He has forgiven you should be enough to have a rest of mind. Confessing it to all other sinners does not raise your status no guarantee forgiveness. Rather it will worsen your situation.

Marriage is honorable and bed undefiled.
He that hides his or her sin shall not proper.
A wise man will build his house on the rock.
Confess ur sins to one another.
If ur conscience condemns u, God is greater than our conscience.
Says the holy book.

Wallade:


It is funny when you quote Bible on this case. She has the option to shut up forever or confess and face the consequences.

If I am in her shoes, I will shut up about it forever.

If she hides it now and and become known later, she would still face the consequence .That is essence of those bible verses.

royalamour:


You are bad person.

Lol. Agreed.

Poloyanabo2:
Confession has destroyed many marriages, unless the act can destroy the man unknowingly if kept secret,
I'll advise you or whoever to keep it a lifetime secret,
Ignorance is bliss,
Unless you don't need your marriage or you intend continuing hoeing after marriage.
The only person that deserves the confession is Jesus cos only him can forgive you.
I'm not supporting evil, I'm only giving an advice I'll give myself and anyone.

All these snakes. And you will have the heart serve food to him? Even with the sacrilege you committed?

Haba! Women and secret.

Which only Jesus are you referring to?

No matter how you try to justify this evil act, the truth will fight you all the days of your life.

SmellySperm:
no point telling him coz you'll still cheat on him after the marriage anyways

meanwhile,he should run a DNA test for his first seed..
I just have trust issues with you females

nothing but truth

Randy housewives

drlateef:





Confessing to your creator and believing He has forgiven you should be enough to have a rest of mind. Confessing it to all other sinners does not raise your status no guarantee forgiveness. Rather it will worsen your situation.

Would have been good if it were that simple. But life doesn't work like that.

There will always be certain situations where it is imperative you also confess and make amends to he who you wronged.

Jodha:
Confess and allow him/her the decision to stay or leave. ...

jodha...



favour is dat u ??

For she to sleep with her ex there is a probability that the husband to b can't or does not satisfy her sexual fantasies.... So she will eventually cheat again even after marriage so if it's me(Godforbid) I will kindly advice her to still explore till she find someone else who can or she reconciles with her ex.... Everyone deserves to b with who makes them happy n satisfy them sexually

Excited right?

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


I have repeatedly tested and confirmed this law to be true.

As a matter of fact I will still retest the law in the next 2 months cos an ex of mine recently told me she will be coming on a visit to my town; there is no way I will not bang her when she comes

You know what they say about "karma" ?. . .

I feel u can blow ur ex till few days to her wedding...u guys were already committing adultery and sincerely since wedding hasn't taken place,u guys are still committing adultery and not fornication..

November24:
Useless gender

Walahi

royalamour:


All these snakes. And you will have the heart serve food to him? Even with the sacrilege you committed?

Haba! Women and secret.

Which only Jesus are you referring to?

No matter how you try to justify this evil act, the truth will fight you all the days of your life.

I'm a guy!

Verysmart101:


Really!!! Who told u that u can hide a dirty secret for a life time.Dont be deceived.

Ok

Greystone:


It happened to me.
She confessed a few days to our introduction.
I wish she hadn’t told me.

I loved her so much.

But after the confession, the trust was gone forever.

# After God, fear women.

Did you still get married to her?

Nigeria girls are useless...all of dem

She shouldn't confess anything. She should just try not to do it again.

Yewandequeen:
You see only women have the power to forgive and forget about their partner cheating.

Men will never forgive you nor forget. The trust would be gone forever and would cost you your relationship.

Don't tell him if you still value your relationship. However, desist and flee from any form of temptation from any ex or anything that has third legs, we are human we sometimes make mistakes. Lastly, genuinely ask forgiveness from God and move on.

Enjoy your home.

Enjoy which home? Something built on a lie? Even God isn’t involved in that marriage cos that makes God a liar too until she confesses....

men like us don't marry someone that have ex, so I'll leave it with men that married ladies with their past dickexperience to shook mouth for this

I am a very emotional person, just tell me biko, i would take no offense, so you go and marry your ex, like someone said, eye wey go follow me till night no suppose dey give me serious issue at day-time.

Pls avoid ur husband of dna heartbreak...na pitty am.why first son nor dey get luck for woman mater..ma pls if u love ur innocent first son husband go back to your ex.just an advise

Isokoson1:
Nigeria girls are useless...all of dem

the furure is pusssy

Noooo. Why should she confess? For what na? Thought the marriage act says "before finally walking down the aisle, sleep with your ex either as a parting gift or as past memory to hold onto should your future husband end up not being good enough"
Yeye dey smell.

nameo:


Did you still get married to her?

No.

She we broke up but many months later.

She got married to someone else.

OP, I will tell Jarius for you,he is a fellow

no start wetin u no go fit to finish

if you told me as ur fiance, that's the end of our relationship

Rubbish n u expect him to clap for u....
will call off d wedding with out remorse

Everything around this your post tells me you are a girl.and you are the culprit. Why are you disguising. Don't destroy your future, quit the extra marital affairs. Your ex has your mumu button.

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

Who does that

Hmm