You and your fiancee have dated since 2016, you understand each other and are compatible, but suddenly when it's time to marry each other the two of you are suddenly confused , you two are jokers. Why didn't you meet priests in the first few years of the relationship? Why should you two give room for people to dabble into the beautiful union so that they destroy it? She has prayed and hasn't seen anything, concerning you, two priests have not said anything as well, though they are fake priests, because a real priests would have seen/ told you the things to expect from each other after marriage, at least a little hint. Your girls mum should withdraw and stop confusing her daughter. Hair being cut in dream is a bad omen, it means losing ones glory, blessings, breakthroughs, etc, it has nothing to do with widowhood or marriage. Your girl is probably facing an attack from somewhere, maybe from village people who wouldn't want you both to be joined in marriage. Yes with prayers a bad dream can be cancelled, wed your girl properly, and stop these drama.

LilMissFavvy:
You and your fiancee have dated since 2016, you understand each other and are compatible, [b]but suddenly when it's time to marry each other the two of you are suddenly confused , you two are jokers. [/b]Why didn't you meet priests in the first few years of the relationship? Why should you two give room for people to dabble into the beautiful union so that they destroy it? She has prayed and hasn't seen anything, concerning you, two priests have not said anything as well, though they are fake priests, because a real priests would have seen/ told you the things to expect from each other after marriage, at least a little hint. Your girls mum should withdraw and stop confusing her daughter. Hair being cut in dream is a bad omen, it means losing ones glory, blessings, breakthroughs, etc, it has nothing to do with widowhood or marriage. Your girl is probably facing an attack from somewhere, maybe from village people who wouldn't want you both to be joined in marriage. Yes with prayers a bad dream can be cancelled, wed your girl properly, and stop these drama.

@LilMissFavvy,

The bold statements above were just unnecessary. At no time in my original post did I tell you we were confused. You may wish to go through my post again. Don't be in a hurry.

Mare so, my fiancée's mum isn't confusing her daughter in any way. She's even the one encouraging my fiancee (her daughter) that everything will be fine, that they will just have to be prayerful. So I wonder where you're getting the "confusion" from my writeup.

However, you still made some valid points and an insight at your last three sentences.

I appreciate.

Thanks.

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

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One's hair been cut in the dream means loss of one's glory. It could be physical, spiritual, marital, business or career, marital or even financial glory. So just pray against loss of glory. You need a conviction that indeed, this man or woman is your spouse. You don't need to have a dream in which you hear a voice telling you this person is not your wife or husband, just ask God for little signs and He will show you

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SUPERSTITIOUS NIGERIANS...
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• A woman dreaming that a man other than her husband has cut her hair: That man is inviting her husband to have a relationship with another woman to exact revenge from her, and she will have an argument with that enemy.
• Seeing a woman’s tress or plaits of hair cut: She will never have a child.
• Cutting one’s own hair without help: Will pay back debts. 

You have not stated clearly how the dream went. The above might help

Men, the dream no mean anything.. Chill na just mental problem. Una too much put mind for Divine revelation na cos am. If dream the manifest e for don Red for me. 28yrs of bad dream but we still kicking like we Kelvin gate.

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.

All of una head sef no too too correct...did your own mama and papa or the girl's papa and mama visit any stupid bloody priest before they got married..? If you put you life and destiny in the hands of charlatans you would never make a head way in life. We are africans and better we treat our issue the African way.. all these trouble of suspiciousness and all that's start when al these bloody pastors and priest elevated themselves to the position of been God of men.......!!

The africans of old don't visit any bloody priest before getting married and their marriage always last till the end...!! Ask yourself what the secret is...!!

LMS1:
lol op the kind of comments you will get down there from nairaland religion warlords will make you sleep one eyed closed tonight. aswear
Truth is that scientifically dreams are basically human mind inventing its own thoughts when the host is asleep.
secondly dont spend your life believing in false prophecies cus your mind and life will be totally controlled by what you you hear and believe.
I know you are religious but most so called PRIEST practices the bible doctrine in a different way thus injecting 5million cubic meter of fear into your soul
there is nothing wrong with your wife to be,
all the fault is in the religion you practice.
stop letting someone else dream put you in 'THINKINGNATION'
#Emanticipate yourself from mental slavery oh africans!..

......baba pray to God and leave the rest....let nature take its course......if u be a child of God, nothing shall happen to you...God reveals to redeem....pray nd go on with ur wedding...another thing u should consider is, maybe someone is trying to discourage either of u to ho on with the marriage...if u both love each other, go to God as a couple and pray and move on with ur wedding......i nor know ur place i for come chop party jollof....nothing sweet reach am!

Whatever the dream they had always rebuke it. Believe and trust in God that is what guides me alot.

This article of mine was published in 2018. It might help.

http://mymusingsonmarriage..com/2018/07/does-god-choose-wives-for-people.html?m=1

I have a lot to say about these, but I can't for want of space.

You can reach me via email: agwudestiny@live.com

Pray bro

Cover yourself and yours

Abstain and repent from every evil you've touched

LMS1:
lol op the kind of comments you will get down there from nairaland religion warlords will make you sleep one eyed closed tonight. aswear
Truth is that scientifically dreams are basically human mind inventing its own thoughts when the host is asleep.
secondly dont spend your life believing in false prophecies cus your mind and life will be totally controlled by what you you hear and believe.
I know you are religious but most so called PRIEST practices the bible doctrine in a different way thus injecting 5million cubic meter of fear into your soul
there is nothing wrong with your wife to be,
all the fault is in the religion you practice.
stop letting someone else dream put you in 'THINKINGNATION'
#Emanticipate yourself from mental slavery oh africans!..

You're the man. Thumbs up for you.

You have dipped yourself in too much spiritual things......I hate all these families going from priest to priest seeking for divine revelation before you can marry the woman of your choice.
listen, prophets will mislead, confuse and scatter your relationship for you and probably bleep your wife or fiancee.
Commit everything into Gods hand and perfect every imperfections in your relationship and forthcoming marriage.
Don't complicate things for yourself by visiting people up and down.....be wise man!!!!

LilMissFavvy:
You and your fiancee have dated since 2016, you understand each other and are compatible, but suddenly when it's time to marry each other the two of you are suddenly confused , you two are jokers. Why didn't you meet priests in the first few years of the relationship? Why should you two give room for people to dabble into the beautiful union so that they destroy it? She has prayed and hasn't seen anything, concerning you, two priests have not said anything as well, though they are fake priests, because a real priests would have seen/ told you the things to expect from each other after marriage, at least a little hint. Your girls mum should withdraw and stop confusing her daughter. Hair being cut in dream is a bad omen, it means losing ones glory, blessings, breakthroughs, etc, it has nothing to do with widowhood or marriage. Your girl is probably facing an attack from somewhere, maybe from village people who wouldn't want you both to be joined in marriage. Yes with prayers a bad dream can be cancelled, wed your girl properly, and stop these drama.

What nonsense are you talking. How on earth do you call priests you never met, fake?

@Op, continue praying. God being silent is still a form of communication meaning, continue praying until God says something. The keyword is tarry until you receive the message. Don't give up on your relationship. If you offended God in the cause of the courtship. Confess to God and sincerely ask for forgiveness. God is merciful and compassionate to take you back and strengthen the crooked parts.

Even if it takes 6 months, continue praying and strengthening your part to a deeper relationship with God.

Remember, you are a chosen person and different from the world.

Peace and grace be with you.

Wilespo:
......baba pray to God and leave the rest....let nature take its course......if u be a child of God, nothing shall happen to you...God reveals to redeem....pray nd go on with ur wedding...another thing u should consider is, maybe someone is trying to discourage either of u to ho on with the marriage...if u both love each other, go to God as a couple and pray and move on with ur wedding......i nor know ur place i for come chop party jollof....nothing sweet reach am!

@Wilespo, no worry, you go surely get the invite.

Down south naim be my base. So prepare.

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.

Stop stressing yourself bro have no fear...you both are destined for each other.....you've fasted and prayed right ....then it won't come to pass because someone is trying to stop your wedding from happening

Doublefingers, e don spoil. You fvck up. Why you go bring this kain matter to public forum?

Pray in silence.

It means you won’t have to be spending much on her hairdo.. what a lucky man you’re ...

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.

The meaning of that dream is madness
Check from both side if any family member have run mad before. ...

blinking001:
Run for your life....

For what? Because of dream? Seriously?

DoubleFingers:




@Wilespo, no worry, you go surely get the invite.

Down south naim be my base. So prepare.

...no yawa bros...i no be regular church goer o but make i pray for u....that dream, whatever it is will turn to good for u in reality.....as far as u and ur woman have decided to do the right thing by getting married, na good news go end am...all the blessings of holy matrimony shall be ur portion....happy married life bro

What kind of priest did you people visit? Never did God promise to lead his children through dreams although dreams could mean a lot. For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. The primary way God leads is through His Spirit in your inward man. What you trying to do is unscriptural and will open you up for demonic activities. Your mind will be so polluted. Now to dreams, any dream that you dream and you don't have the interpretation immediately you wake up, forget about it. God will not confuse his children. He speaks plainly. This is coming from a man who God began talking to through dreams, trance, visions, audible voices and his word. So I know better. Get Kenneth Hagin How You Can be Led By The Holy Spirit. There is more I would have told you but let me allow you to digest this.

DoubleFingers:
N/B:

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

If God has never spoken to you before this issue came up, brother be rest assured God will not speak concerning this because you are not connected to Him

For her hair to be cut in the dream, it means that someone is stealing her glory or is about to steal her glory. But not to worry, it can be repossessed back. She just needs to be prayerful and also worship God in spirit and in truth. I don't see any reason why you both shouldn't marry. If you love each other, marry.
Personally, I believe that the set of people that should wait for God to choose a partner for them should be those that wants to work for God. Other than that, if you are both compatible and live each other, get married.

it is well.
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MadamExcellency:


What nonsense are you talking. How on earth do you call priests you never met, fake?

@Op, continue praying. God being silent is still a form of communication meaning, continue praying until God says something. The keyword is tarry until you receive the message. Don't give up on your relationship. If you offended God in the cause of the courtship. Confess to God and sincerely ask for forgiveness. God is merciful and compassionate to take you back and strengthen the crooked parts.

Even if it takes 6 months, continue praying and strengthening your part to a deeper relationship with God.

Remember, you are a chosen person and different from the world.

Peace and grace be with you.

Thanks MadamExcellency.

Your words are indeed soothing.

Don't mind the person you quoted. Some persons here can be careless with their words.

Personally, I don't have that time to start countering them.

One love.

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have

Thanks.

Better a broken courtship than a broken marriage
If she has not gotten divine confirmation all these years and they are already having bad dreams, maybe they should be left alone. God's ways are not man's

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

Dear Op, I have an advice for you, and I hope you follow it. Kindly call this prophetess, she'd guide you by the spirit of God. (Prophetic)

Mummy prophetess: 0-8-1-6-3-6-5-6-8-9-0

God will see you through. Please, keep me updated. Shalom!

Yusufisraelj:
@DoubleFingers

There are three ways to know the will of God:

1. Peace of mind

2. Divine revelation (personally)

3. The place of the prophetic

But understand this every African family once had altars that were erected to the allegiance of spirits besides that of Christ, on accepting Christ it does not automatically drive them out bkos a covenant cannot be cast instead certain activities as prescribed in scriptures would have to be carried out. Most people don't settle this part of the equation.

Hence sometimes anything good that is coming into a family those spirits will fight it by bringing false dreams or revelation.

I'll advice you listen to Apostle Joshua Selman message on the mystery of deliverance part 1 to 4



To your second question the answer is NO a capital one, there are people whom God showed their spouses and ended up with a divorce, that's bkos while they've done well with their spiritual life, but never attended to their finances diligently, expressing love to each other in appropriate ways, establishing a place of understanding each other, learning the art of love making and great sex to satisfy each other and lasty how to manage the interference of third parties in the union.

Replied like a true brainwashed African