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TheUndercover:
Do not tempt a desperate man.

He'll jump on your head

TheUndercover:
Every time a woman makes herself laugh at her husband's often-told jokes she betrays him. The man who looks at his woman and says ''What would I do without you?'' is already destroyed.

hmm

TheUndercover:
Every time a woman makes herself laugh at her husband's often-told jokes she betrays him. The man who looks at his woman and says ''What would I do without you?'' is already destroyed.

hmm

TheUndercover:
A woman's best love letters are always written to the man she is betraying.

this babe don finish me be that ooo

This thread has really opened my eyes,when you apply some of the things you get here to your day to day activities then dealing with fellow humans just got easier.

TheUndercover:
Loyalty:

“…besides your closest friends and loved one’s, it’s every man for himself in this world.” -Felix Dennis

Most contacts have zero loyalty to you; if they calculate that the benefits you deliver to them is less than the cost you impose upon them, they will abandon you without hesitation. They care about their own interests, not your well being.

The number of people who will stay loyal to you and continue helping you even when they have nothing to potentially gain from doing so is less than 5; if you were to carry out suicide tomorrow, there are less than 5 people on the planet who would actually care.

Be good to these people; they are worth more than any worldly wealth you might ever gain. There are many things money can buy, but real loyalty is not one of them.

You might think the only way to find out who is truly loyal to you is to experience catastrophe and see who continues to stand by you, but you would be wrong.

Me like this....

TheUndercover:
Never complain, particularly in front of others. People have their own problems to worry about; hearing about yours only annoys them.

Caveat: You can charm a person by complaining about the same thing they are complaining about. Hatebond with them; hate the same things, and the same people, who they hate.

The truth of the matter is, I can not hate others because someone I am trying to attract hates those people.

The person I am trying to attract can look bush if he or she wants that.

sylve11:
The truth of the matter is, I can not hate others because someone I am trying to attract hates those people.

The person I am trying to attract can look bush if he or she wants that.

I think you miss the point. Don't join to hate, but pretend to.

foreman:
I think you miss the point. Don't join to hate, but pretend to.

Okay.

Now I understand.

TheUndercover:
Do not get too friendly with your employees. It starts to eat into your authority and makes their productivity go down - as they expect more leeway and start slacking off. You're their boss, not their friend. Act like it.

I will carve this into my door.

TheUndercover:
Caveat: Dominance is sexy. Women are more likely to agree with something, if they are touched on the arm during the request. [/b]

I can attest to this. Never knew theres power attached to it. Wow....

TheUndercover:
Stop living your life as if karma will reward you for your goodness and smite your enemies for their badness. A mystical moral payback system does not exist.

Error...

TheUndercover:
A wise man should not hesitate to marry an ugly looking girl if she is of a reputed family.

But even if a girl is extraordinarily beautiful, he should not marry her if she is from a ill-reputed family.

Word!

TRADELYN:
I met a virgin lady from Nairaland.com as Ubunja always advises us, but she's too stubborn.

TheUndercover:
- Women are more pliable in the company of competing women.

- Once a girl knows she can get sexless intimacy from you, she will curse you with that for as long as you allow it to happen.

So so so true!

TheUndercover:
Never believe a conversation to be confidential.

Whatever you do, pretend like it is getting video taped, whatever you say, pretend like it is getting recorded. This is of utmost importance if you are a person standing in public focus.

Interesting....

TheUndercover:
Be prepared for betrayal from anyone, anywhere and at any time. Never fool yourself into believing they would never commit a heinous betrayal against you.

Under the right circumstances, more people than you would think are capable of pushing the dagger into your back.

True!

TheUndercover:
Branch Swinging:

It is extremely rare that a woman will leave a man she is romantically involved with without first lining up a new man she can go to.

Women who will leave a man, to be single, are extremely rare.

Wow....

TheUndercover:
Emotional Investment:

Women don’t just lose attraction when you give them more than they give you, they also lose attraction if you do anything to indicate that you WOULD give them more than they give you. In the preemptive negotiation before the actual exchange women subconsciously “test” you to see how “invested” you are in them – if your investment exceeds theirs, they have already won the negotiation, even though no actual goods or services were exchanged.

Here’s an example from a text conversation:

Her: What are you doing tonight?
Me: My plan is to [whatever I’m planning on doing tonight]. What are you doing?
Her: Well, my plans have been thrown into a tizzy.

Let’s look at her last text. Normally, if somebody tells you that their plans have been thrown into a tizzy, your natural reaction is to ask why. That’s what a reasonable, compassionate person would do. But her last text is actually a very subtle shit test to get me to CARE about her plans and HELP her fix them. If I text back “why what happened?” I’ve proven that I’m willing to help. Wrong move! I told her I already have plans so her plans being ruined are not my problem.

Also, her response was not responsive to my question “what are you doing?” so I don’t text back. After she realizes I won’t text back she then texts me explaining what happened to her plans (hint: I still don’t care) and then tries to come where I am. Her shit test failed.

This got me laughing ...

TheUndercover:
When you give a man one of your secrets, if he is dominant over his woman, he is the only one who will know your secret.

When you give a man one of your secrets, if his woman is dominant over him, he will reveal your secret to 'her'

No lies here.

Well done my man....

TheUndercover:
If a guy can control his sexual drives and can avoid distraction from women.

It is impossible to not to be successful.

True...but as deep as Ocean

TheUndercover:
Power Imbalances:

In most relationships, the power dynamic is governed by dependency; whichever party needs the other less is the party that wields power.

If you need them more than they need you, they wield power over you. If they need you more than you need them, you wield power over them. If you both need each other intensely, or you both have little or no need for each other, your power levels are equal.

The power dynamic being governed by dependency is true of almost all types of relationships; business, romantic, even friendship. Do what you can to minimize the degree to which you are dependent on others, and maximize the degree to which they are dependent on you.

All time classic.