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Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by IGBOGENE27(m): 7:52am On Mar 14, 2021
[quote author=LordOfTheGame post=99864827]


Thanks bro.... I sincerely hope that things turn around for good for me. It's not easy watching yourself growing past your prime stage yet no reliable commitment on sights. I am the church and morally decent type of guy and I've hoped to meet a likeminded lady but all I get is rejections and unacceptance. Some will even accuse me of coming after them because of documents which is not true but even if that's the case, at least I deserved to be listened to and observed to know my true intents. I don't believe that I have not set my priorities right or do not know what I want. My greatest surprise was when I carried out some sort of experiment by going for the kind of girls I would naturally not be seen with but in other to find out if am being too selective or mindful of class and social status, but to my surprise, she turned me down. And the worst is that none of them will ever tell me what I did wrong or how bad I was. Instead they've always told me how great and nice I am, caring and loving but then... no one gives me a chance. One even told me that any woman that opens herself and gives me a chance for love will be in paradise while still living on earth. This particular girl, I've waited for her for two good years and she haven't said anything concrete to me. Rather what she always says was that she's not yet ready, I mean a lady of 32 or above. It was later I discovered that she was secretly going out with a guy in the same church we all attends before they had a problem and that broke me down then I gave up on her. Then I met one who's from delta and everything started on the good side and she asked so many questions both the naughty ones and decent ones and I tried and provided answers to them, she contacted her family and I did same to mine, spoke with her mum several times and everything was moving fine but she haven't said yes yet, all of a sudden she started acting up. Started talking as if I'll not be able to take care of her. I bought her a lot of gifts but she didn't show real appreciation or excitement. All these things went on for over eight months and i was still waiting for her YES so that our both families can proceed, her big brothers even quarrelled with her and accused her of playing with men's emotions and she went crazy and flared up and that was the end of the whole story and that's when her mum revealed to me that she's been playing with men's emotions and I was not the only one. We just ended the whole thing about two months ago before this one that's dealing with me now, afyer she returned from her country last month. Though I've known her since one year ago and we became friends.
Bros the matter is too big for me to handle alone... I wish I can put a stop to all these things and be free from this world and the stress. That's how I feel sometimes...


To avoid all this unwarranted emotional stress, go to your home town and pick a girl of your choice and marry. You can't just be wasting your years on earth wooing women.

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Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by TheRedpillguy: 7:58am On Mar 14, 2021
Regected the redpill. You are doomed .
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Nobody: 8:26am On Mar 14, 2021
LordOfTheGame:


Make you dey careful oooh. Some ways are not really good ways.
sure bro.. thanks

meanwhile if u get job connect u fit still link me up sha, I'm a graduate but I can do any job to survive

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Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Nobody: 8:27am On Mar 14, 2021
Keepem:
Lol which of the abroad countries you dey?
lol United State of Nigeria a.k.a Boko Haram grin
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by worriedguy(m): 8:33am On Mar 14, 2021
Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

good morning bro, I hardly comment on nairaland but since you have a similar experience as mine I will give you my own advice base on my experience.


I met this girl in 2016 when I was a fresher in the university, we were in the same department. I really liked this girl..so I told her my feelings for me, she told me she didn't want any relationship. but I wasn't taking no for an answer but she kept giving me a NO, I gave up and gave her space...she came around after she noticed I don't give her attention anymore...we kept going off and on throughout my stay in the university, anytime I tell her I want her relationship she get angry and give me a no,when I stay away from her for a while...she comes back again and we become friends again...she is this decent time so this made me love her more.

we were supposed to graduate last year but covid 19 didn't let that happen, but something happened before the lockdown. I found out she was in a relationship with another guy and they were even living together, when I heard this I couldn't believe as I normally visit her and spend hours in her place, so how come she is living with a guy and I didn't know? so I decided to confront her myself, and she told me they have been living together since her 300l(we are doing a 5 yrs course) so imagine someone I was begging for a relationship for 5 yrs living with another guy...she always give me a No, but at the same time constantly give me greenlight, so for 5yrs I was confused if this babe really likes me.


I cut off every communication with her after I learnt about her co habiting, when we resumed school this year, she tried getting close to me as usual, but I already know her game, I can't let her continue deceiving me.

why am I telling you my story? it's very similar to mine, if she really wants to date you, she won't continue to give you a no. she is just trying to eat her cake and still have it by coming close to you.

my advice...cut off every communication with her, you don't need her...it will likely end in tears for you

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Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by unmask: 9:05am On Mar 14, 2021
Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.
make plenty money
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by LordOfTheGame: 9:11am On Mar 14, 2021
McStoic:


There is definitely something you are not doing well. You are not supposed to just act the bad boy trait. You need to show a woman you can live without her. You need to make it a part of you. And get me right, being a bad boy doesn't mean you will be sociopath or always act against women. It centres of being confident and doing things on your own terms as well being in charge without being needy. It's a whole lot more than just acting.

Do you know that there are some brutally honest facts about every girl you are interested in? You can cut the chase short by confidently picking on that and hitting up and she will be all over you. I THINK YOU ARE TOO PREDICTABLE, THAT'S ONE THING THAT KILLS INTEREST BEFORE YOU EVEN GET STARTED...


THERE ARE SECRETS I CANNOT STATE HERE THOUGH, UNLESS I KNOW HOW PECULIAR YOUR CASE IS. Cheers

Thanks for your honest concern bro... feel free to email me.
markchibyke83@gmail.com
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by AljaanIVQ007(m): 9:16am On Mar 14, 2021
RedSquid:
I have the cure. Do not reply her chat message earlier than one hour after she sends them

Do not call her first for the next few months

Do not act excited around her but just normal.

If you can, don't call her, chat her, go anywhere she can spit you. Withdraw yourself and stay in this mode for one week


After 2 weeks let's see who'd be toasting you. If she doesn't chase you, I owe you


Take back your power from her.

more so...she wants to see the guy finish,before making her decision...He should majorly avoid "see finish"... He shouldnt disclose anything bout himself again till he hits the spot...
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by LordOfTheGame: 9:16am On Mar 14, 2021
[quote author=IGBOGENE27 post=99869487][/quote]

I don't think this idea will work well because I don't know any girl as a girlfriend in my town and I'm not so confident doing that because I live in Europe and you know the risk of bringing a girl you know nothing about to Europe, anything can happen. Some of the people who did that are regretting it. But then, will I marry her and leave her in Nigeria, that will also amount to being married single and I don't and won't subscribe to infidelity that's why I have decided to find one here.
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by ugooo88(m): 10:13am On Mar 14, 2021
lardor:
try to create a special bound when meeting her, be funny, make her feel comfortable with u, dont pressured her again

Mba nu. Don't do that angry angry angry
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by harmony75: 10:33am On Mar 14, 2021
she likes you, but taking her time to study you so let her make the moves first and watch her feelings!
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by vislabraye(m): 11:24am On Mar 14, 2021
Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

You don't want anyone to talk to you about redpill and you don't want to be called a simp. It's like you're running away from the solution.
But that aside, she knows she's beautiful and many men are after her. Maybe you should get a plan B. You're too emotionally invested.
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Lostchild(m): 2:20pm On Mar 14, 2021
Everester

I will advice you to pretend she doesn't exist and see if she get unhappy or angry with you. Too many times I have seen women/ladies get angry and fought against me because I rejected their friendship
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Saintkollyjoe: 2:21pm On Mar 14, 2021
Do you want to marry her? If yes. I mean do you have the mental and financial capacity to be a husband right now? Then tell her you want to marry her in 3months time and you will not have sex until marriage and tell her that if she says no, you will stop disturbing her ever. Women respond well to strength and power of a man who means business!
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by pizzzy(m): 2:28pm On Mar 14, 2021
At some point you replied someone that getting her number was a miracle, come on bro a miracle is when opera Winfrey sends u a dm for whatever reason asking you to send ur account details and after that you a 50 million naira bank alert from opera. not when one mumu girl gives you her phone number

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Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 2:55pm On Mar 14, 2021
Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.
I have this friend, each time he is drunk, he keeps shouting, "I am not drunk, I am not drunk". OP, hen I saw the title of your post, I suspected you are a simp. I drew my conclusion when, just like my friend, you started shouting "I am not a simp". Well, my advice is take it easy. Give her just a few details about yourself. Let her know you little by little over time.
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by phazotron(m): 4:32pm On Mar 14, 2021
Leave that time waster simple.
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by McStoic(m): 4:35pm On Mar 14, 2021
LordOfTheGame:


Thanks for your honest concern bro... feel free to email me.
markchibyke83@gmail.com

Ok nwanne. Noted!! I will get back to you..

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Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by trilacos: 4:37pm On Mar 14, 2021
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Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Cashify: 5:35pm On Mar 14, 2021
You already know stay away from her for a while
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by DedeNkem: 5:39am On Mar 15, 2021
Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

You don't just love someone you just met. You've lust for her.

Any woman who gives you her number, simply because you asked, likes you.

Do exactly what RedSqiud stated.
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Phyde: 7:25pm On Mar 15, 2021
RedSquid:
I have the cure. Do not reply her chat message earlier than one hour after she sends them

Do not call her first for the next few months

Do not act excited around her but just normal.

If you can, don't call her, chat her, go anywhere she can spit you. Withdraw yourself and stay in this mode for one week


After 2 weeks let's see who'd be toasting you. If she doesn't chase you, I owe you


Take back your power from her.
Mod. give this bros 3 bottles.

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Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by McStoic(m): 8:39pm On Mar 15, 2021
LordOfTheGame:


Thanks for your honest concern bro... feel free to email me.
markchibyke83@gmail.com

I sent you a mail
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 11:34pm On Mar 15, 2021
SmellySperm:

I no follow bros,I don pass that bombing level..


na as them block my us whatsap number i come fall back to hangout, just to dey update my womanwink

Abeeg!!!!where ona dey see bomb to see female clienteven for IG dem females no dey answer me.........

All this male to male patrol too dey stress........
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Nobody: 11:52pm On Mar 15, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:


Abeeg!!!!where ona dey see bomb to see female clienteven for IG dem females no dey answer me.........

All this male to male patrol too dey stress........
my gee na luck o, client dey IG Sha...that gay work still sure sha
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 11:57pm On Mar 15, 2021
SmellySperm:

my gee na luck o, client dey IG Sha...that gay work still sure sha

Baba!!!!those male client too get strong mind abeeg..........unlike dose female ones wey get flexible mind.............

The idiot wey dey mind hand too stubborn..........
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 11:59pm On Mar 15, 2021
SmellySperm:

my gee na luck o, client dey IG Sha...that gay work still sure sha

Baba!!!!those male client too get strong mind abeeg..........unlike dose female ones wey get flexible mind.............

The idiot wey dey my hand too stubborn..........
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Nobody: 6:13pm On Mar 16, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:


Baba!!!!those male client too get strong mind abeeg..........unlike dose female ones wey get flexible mind.............

The idiot wey dey my hand too stubborn..........
lol no worry bro... hustle must pay..

meanwhile abeg update me once dem disburse covid19 relief funds abroad
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Everester: 7:19pm On Mar 25, 2021
I really thank everyone for their comments, God bless u all
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Ofemini(m): 8:59pm On Apr 04, 2021
[quote author=LordOfTheGame post=99864827]


I have carefully read you our write up bro. It will not be out of place to connect if you please. All will be fine.
Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by LordOfTheGame: 9:03pm On Apr 04, 2021
[quote author=Ofemini post=100489670][/quote]

Oh really? Which of my post a did you read, pls?

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Re: She Is Rejecting My Advances, Yet Wants To Know Everything About Me by Ofemini(m): 9:24pm On Apr 04, 2021
LordOfTheGame:


Oh really? Which of my post a did you read, pls?

Your quest and efforts for a life partner.

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