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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by PissfulProtester: 10:57am On Apr 18, 2021
realitycheck000:
Op let us know your response to your friend? Or did you told tell him to hold

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Ipromote: 10:57am On Apr 18, 2021
Too bad
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by SadiqBabaSani: 10:57am On Apr 18, 2021
Even in Christianity whia Divorce is seen as a seen, Wen Adultery is involved yu re very permited to severe all ties with her
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Twelfthman: 10:57am On Apr 18, 2021
Lol it is like your friend don't value his life abi?
A man who's wife cheat is already dead it is just a matter of time. If you lucky to catch her divorce and send the hoe out of your life.

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by fitinwell: 10:58am On Apr 18, 2021
Do you have an answer
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by realitycheck000: 10:58am On Apr 18, 2021
Thanks sir.. grin [quote author=PissfulProtester post=100897705][/quote]
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Ckonnet: 10:58am On Apr 18, 2021
naija4life247:


Divorce the bitch before she brings bastards home for you to train.

The man can't even train his own children talk more of ordinary.
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by RedpillAnalyst: 10:58am On Apr 18, 2021
Hope is not a strategy, red pill doesn't lie. Strive to be the provider in a relationship, do be in the position of pity.

The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. - Briffault's Law.

https://redpillers.com/discussion/topic/important-things-in-life-men-should-not-know-harsh-redpill-knowledge/#post-1675

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by ogubolokento(m): 10:59am On Apr 18, 2021
But is not new about today's digital wives and marriage,he shouldn't border himself that's their attitude jo....
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by iammolise(m): 11:00am On Apr 18, 2021
And that woman will still come home, all innocent and cordial like a Saint, use that same hand she used to hold another man's pweek to cook for the house, and then seduce u in bed to bribe u and close ur mouth/thoughts... Chai! Women.

They use emotional blackmail ; they employ a fear-emotion-guilt tactics to get what they want using the FOG (fear, obligation and guilt ) dynamics to stir up anxiety so as to coerce u into doing more of their bidding. This is how they are and if u are too "simp" and lack control, insistence and discipline as a man u will always be a puppet in the hands of women.

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Lexusgs430: 11:01am On Apr 18, 2021
Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?


Does he not benefit from her paying the bills..... He divorces her, he starts to suffer alone...... grin


She gives him money, he collects it and spends it....... grin

Biko, pass me this entrepreneur's number....... wink

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Omoluabi16(m): 11:01am On Apr 18, 2021
Foolish woman. Rather than seek for ways to support your man, you go sleeping around. May we not marry wrong partners!

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by DrFunmisticGlow: 11:02am On Apr 18, 2021
iammolise:
And that woman will still come home, all innocent and cordial like a Saint, use that same hand she used to hold another man's pweek to cook for the house, and then seduce u in bed to bribe u and close ur mouth/thoughts... Chai! Women.

They use emotional blackmail ; they employ a fear-emotion-guilt tactics to get what they want using the FOG (fear, obligation and guilt ) dynamics to stir up anxiety so as to coerce u into doing more of their bidding. This is how they are and if u are too "simp" and lack control, insistence and discipline as a man u will always be a puppet in the hands of women.
women learnt it from men. Stop all this wailing.

Let the man op's adult male friend leave the woman and fend for himself.

Or is he that poor that his pride has gone to the gutter?

He is asking jamb question because he cannot put food on his table and has to beg his adulterous wife for pocket money. If he knows he cannot fend for himself, let him carry his cross and greet his wife husband

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Seunspyder(m): 11:02am On Apr 18, 2021
Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?




OP tell your friend to go and get a good job and stop wasting the innocent girl life ✌️

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by omonnakoda: 11:02am On Apr 18, 2021
GIDIBANKZ:
I sense in my SPIRIT that OP wife is CHEATING on HIM and his frnds wife..

O.P is trying to HIDE his SHAME
Does that matter?

small pikin dey worry you

No be everything eye see mouth dey talk
Just FEM !! and observe if you have nothing to say

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by kizyalex10(m): 11:03am On Apr 18, 2021
Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?
lolz is quite unfortunate,but its a very common trend now in our society,the rate married women cheats now eh,will make u call men learners,especially the ones who their husband cannot provide every basic things for.so brothers if a woman is pushing u into marriage nd making u believe she will manage with u and she does nt have a proven means to prove that she can support u,plz run away,she jst want to use u and get d title mrs and then flirt around .try nd be stable first and if she then decides to cheat when u have satisfied her basic needs then u knw u re in real shit..men always say one woman dey kill preek,women dont say theirs oo ,they practice it codedly,most dont stay with one preek

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by zionaigbokhan: 11:04am On Apr 18, 2021
Sad seriously, I'll walk away.
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by bmdmix3: 11:04am On Apr 18, 2021
sorry but ur friend is foolish
no honor

unless he married a hoe
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by GeneralPula: 11:05am On Apr 18, 2021
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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by iHart(m): 11:05am On Apr 18, 2021
Ndukings92:
Nwoke nwanyi na enye nri no na oku mmuo, owu ite a joke... For my culture, the day u discover ur wife as an infidel is d day u stop eating her food. The next action is to take her back home
follow this advice. If you can't take her back to her people, move out from the house. Please and please, stop eating her food. If she ever cheat on you in your matrimonial bed and you eat her food, from then onward your life will become a misery until you eventually die!!!

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Goldbw122(m): 11:05am On Apr 18, 2021
That is very wrong na, they should communicate on how they should go about their financial aspect of life because cheating is not good and it emotional damage your relationship..
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by PROPHETmichael: 11:06am On Apr 18, 2021
Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?

The truth of the matter is, since you discovered this about your friend's wife, you also want to light her.

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Nwachi22(f): 11:06am On Apr 18, 2021
Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?

What to do? �

Marriage is for better and for worse.
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Jerrick(m): 11:07am On Apr 18, 2021
Me self post one yesterday, those p*ssy creatures are something else. Click on my moniker to read my story too grin

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Equity15(m): 11:08am On Apr 18, 2021
Na God go save us from that gender.
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by DrFunmisticGlow: 11:08am On Apr 18, 2021
iHart:
follow this advice. If you can't take her back to her people, move out from the house. Please and please, stop eating her food. If she ever cheat on you in your matrimonial bed and you eat her food, from then onward your life will become a misery until you eventually die!!!
let him starve there!!

Not as if i condone the cheating tho! Let me hear the woman's side too.

So infidels have mouth to talk. I hope He finally understands what it feels like to be the woman in the relationship.
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by blamingthedevil: 11:09am On Apr 18, 2021
Women cheat for any reason
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by just2endowed: 11:10am On Apr 18, 2021
IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you

Unbelievable... Money
Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by OyinO: 11:11am On Apr 18, 2021
I have advised the men that marriage is not for people of this generation, but they won't listen. The Era of marriage and Loyal women passed away with our Mothers' era.
From the moment she's paying the bills alone, she's justified by her conscience to start cheating. Later, worst things will follow suit. So it's better to escape before it's too late.

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by franchasng: 11:11am On Apr 18, 2021
Women love sex more than men but by natural gift they are more discrete with their sex escapedes than men.


Women love sex so much but by natural order, they are more selective with their sex partner which makes them turn down some guys and accept some.

Once a woman finds her desired sex mate, then she will unleash the sexual demon in her. She can even go 10 rounds and ready for more.



So op, bill payment aside your wife abi your friends wife is exhibiting her true natural love for sex like most women. Forget the ladies that pretend like they don't like sex, give them their desired prick inside house, in secret and watch her waist turn to jangolover shocked shockedcheesy cheesy grin grin grin

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Re: Dilemma Of A Friend by Nobody: 11:12am On Apr 18, 2021
IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you
I hope you are a virgin?

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