Extinguish/Putoff your Kpoli because you will be liable to die young.

Ohizfly:
light my Kpoli

just2endowed:


Unbelievable... Money

Yes unbelievable but true, I know a woman that collected loan to buy first and second car for her husband, she even built her husband's land

Peace91:
I hope you are a virgin?

What do you think?

Does she use d money gotten from cheating in paying d bills? Doesn't d woman have hands and legs she can use to hustle for d family upkeep?
Ur husband can't pay bills b/c he is still alive,what of uncountable numbers of widows in Nigeria?Do they use their vagina to pay bills?
Senseless people!!!

What is he still waiting for? Till they asked him to help them throw away the used condom and washed the soiled bedsheet?

Nwachi22:


What to do? �

Marriage is for better and for worse.

Gbam nwachi u get am



So op please endure, and pray for her, she will change, married men cheat too

As he has found out
He is not to drink water from her hand
He is not to eat anything she cooks
Even if na him cook am and she takes out of it
He is to throw the food away.
Lastly he is not allowed to sleep with her
If he does all this
He will die
No be every he just slummed and died be heart attack
Some deaths na abomination cos am

Divorce but hunger might deal with you

if actually what you are telling us is true and the man in question has catch the wife red handed then he should go for divorce because marriage is for better or for worse, the excuse of one partner not able to pay bills is not anough excuse ones wife to be messing around, nowadays marriage is co-parenting, the bills is no longer on one individual. another question I want to ask, can't she work with her hand instead of cheating

tosik:
so the question is too difficult for you to answer?? anyway, let's wait for the elders to help us out

am one of the elders, am consulting my oracles. I'll soon tell you what they said.

realitycheck000:
Thanks sir..

You are most welcome.

Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?

She is not cheating on him because he can't afford to pay bills, she is cheating on him to pay the bills...they're two different things!

You need to be careful when handling issues.
What really do you mean by cheating?
How are things been going on before now?
What really is the underlying problem to be precise?

Why does the wife think the best way she can assist her husband is by cheating on him? What happened to her own business? Or was she outrightly a prostitute before the hubby agreed to marry her?

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IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you

Nna
you are a genius,,,, I swear.........simple mathematics
Never will a non-virgin or a community sperm deport be sincere in marriage
If you know, you know

Toto wey don chop uncountable prick

This usually happens when a woman who previously did not have a large earning power suddenly finds herself having to bear the financial burden of the whole family alone.

This problem is usually caused by men who demand sexual favours before patronising female suppliers

Omo things dey happen ooo I just thank God I have all it takes to keep a woman for the house. Hmmm men I wouldn't think a second the end of her in my home.

IgweOfNnewi:
What do you think?

If you are not then keep quit, and keep that advice to yourself.

Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?

Let the wife disgrace him sef,why marry when you got financial issues?

I told him to send her packing(seperation) & from there file for divorce.

I really don't see any problem there...the man and the woman have switched positions...The woman has become the man and the man have taken up the woman's position ...it therefore bestow on the woman all the privileges of being a man which includes the right to taste different soups.

Op if your friend feels comfortable with the new_man taking care of the Bills and uncomfortable with her_him enjoying the manly privileges, he should grow bigger balls and assume his rightful place by being the provider of his household otherwise he is the infidel mentioned in the bible.


My 2cent.

vebiwe6569:
Follow

Pay on delivery?

IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you

Nice one. God is indeed the best match maker

Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?

I believe this is your case
I will advise you to hold her red handed
Because poverty can make you believe anything.

This is how I got information about a girl sleeping with all man in that area,

When I came close to her ... She his a different person from what I had and hard working girl , no nonsense person too.

Be careful people can gossip for the world.

princechiemekam:
What was your answer?

I told him to send her packing(separation) then file for a divorce

Hmmm!

Catch her red-handed first.

OyinO:
I have advised the men that marriage is not for people of this generation, but they won't listen. The Era of marriage and Loyal women passed away with our Mothers' era.
From the moment she's paying the bills alone, she's justified by her conscience to start cheating. Later, worst things will follow suit. So it's better to escape before it's too late.

Many don’t understand the dynamics and concept of marriage. Some are living in the 18th century in their heads bt they want the benefits of the 21st century. They are the most confused people on Earth.

So this platform has now become a place where people come to ask stupid or rhetorical questions

I hope cheating has brought them out of poverty!

IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you

Guy you speak my mind,I can't marry non-virgin.The thought of her sleeping with men before will consume me.

Stop talking like a child, who told you being a virgin is a guarantee that a woman will make a good and faithful wife?
They are men who get married to virgin as wife and those women still cheat. If your friend is lucky to marry a good woman then that's his luck and not because she was a virgin. Who told you virgin wives Don't cheat? Your friend is only married for two years and you are here bragging on hi behalf. Advise your friend to better get himself a job and not to seat comfortable thinking all is well if not one day, the wife go get fed up and insult him. De dia the brag for two years marriage.

IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you