If your wife still respects you then just leave it for GOD one day GOD will raise you back up to pay the bills.

iHart:
follow this advice. If you can't take her back to her people, move out from the house. Please and please, stop eating her food. If she ever cheat on you in your matrimon[color=#006600][/color]ial bed and you eat her food, from then onward your life will become a misery until you eventually die!!!

Please what happens to a woman when her husband cheats on their matrimonial bed ?

Tell him to chill ...it is normal now.

He should just find another side chick and enjoy life to the fullest .. when she needs divorce she can come and have it

It only sad that some men exist that can sleep with thier own mother if given the sligtest chance.

IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you

No one has quoted your wonderful post because they are a generation of vipers.

Your post is true especially for the south

Bible does not give a man a guarantee of finding a job, man can only try.

ehay:


Please what happens to a woman when her husband cheats on their matrimonial bed ?

They will come and you it's better for men to cheat because men dont feel emotions and blablabla

Only God can save males from their selfishness

Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?

Let him pay the bills or stup and allow the woman pay the bills.

IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you

the notable word here is "God's choice" God can choose who has fornicated in the past but has repented and dedicated to Him presently. I have seen a virgin married to a pastor who cheated once and it took a long process for them to bury that hideous experience and become very close as man and wife again.

Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?

Economy hard...
Some of this 21st century ladies to have our mothers resilience...

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matm:
Does she use d money gotten from cheating in paying d bills? Doesn't d woman have hands and legs she can use to hustle for d family upkeep?
Ur husband can't pay bills b/c he is still alive,what of uncountable numbers of widows in Nigeria?Do they use their vagina to pay bills?
Senseless people!!!

Widows get more assist than women whose husbands are alive. A cousin who had a promising business could not get assist from the family because her jobless husband was alive, the money was rather given to a widow cousin.

The worst thing that can happen to a man is to find yourself in a financial mess after marriage especially if you don't have an understanding partner. If both of you don't have any issues between you yet, I think that is a simple decision to make, but if you already have kids together, I will advise you take precautions to keep off her escapades for now, depending on your rapport with her, you can confront her with the allegation, but be warned that this can lead to more troubles since you are not the one footing the bills, it is like you're stranded in the marriage for now. Once you're able to find your way out of your financial woes, then you can call her bullsh*t. We are really in a materialistic world that money is the only confidant one can rely on now, not even a partner, even your family can betray you. But if you can find a way to be self-reliant a little bit, then that is a good start to take back control of your life.

exactly

GIDIBANKZ:
I sense in my SPIRIT that OP wife is CHEATING on HIM and his frnds wife..

O.P is trying to HIDE his SHAME

Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?

Bros divorce her and save your already damage pride.

For you the singles out there study your babe/guy before taking it to the next level.

IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you

My Boss would say women are weird.
Some will jump from man to man when single and when they marry, they stay faithful.
Others won't do nada when they are single. But would go on fxcking spree when married because any bastard can be brought to the husbands house.

Except the Lord choose for you most times, you would choose a hoe.

JONSYN7154:
am one of the elders, am consulting my oracles. I'll soon tell you what they said.

alright bro,wishing u all the best from your oracles.

Ndukings92:
Nwoke nwanyi na enye nri no na oku mmuo, owu ite a joke... For my culture, the day u discover ur wife as an infidel is d day u stop eating her food. The next action is to take her back home

are you from Benue State?

Ndukings92:
Nwoke nwanyi na enye nri no na oku mmuo, owu ite a joke... For my culture, the day u discover ur wife as an infidel is d day u stop eating her food. The next action is to take her back home

God will bless you my brother.......he needs to walk away from that woman.

zimmaking:
Guy you speak my mind,I can't marry non-virgin.The thought of her sleeping with men before will consume me.

And are you a virgin yourself if not who will marry the ones you have slept with or don't you think those men will prefer to marry them virgins too.
It is foolish to think a virgin is one with a hymen when there are now creams and drugs to deceive men can you stay in a relationship without sex since you dey find virgin up and down.

Better work on yourself and marry for reasons that will make the love last instead of obsessing over a woman's past and who she slept with at the time the thought of her sleeping with other men tells such Lady that you don't have priorities in regards to the relationship and will be a very jealous partner
Every sane Lady should run away from a man who will be preoccupied thinking about the men she was in bed with prior.Very sick thought.

I think it's safe to say that a cheating man should not get married. he should live by himself and not drag a woman into it. I hope I am speaking the minds of responsible guyz like myself here.

chatinent:
The way you automatically became your friend amazes me. Such a good way to play anonymity.


I'll advise he divorces her if he's caught her red-handed.

Red-handed how many times.......

DrFunmisticGlow:
women learnt it from men. Stop all this wailing.

Let the man op's adult male friend leave the woman and fend for himself.

Or is he that poor that his pride has gone to the gutter?

He is asking jamb question because he cannot put food on his table and has to beg his adulterous wife for pocket money. If he knows he cannot fend for himself, let him carry his cross and greet his wife husband

Women learnt it from men? So men werw doing it with cows before women came along

pacespot:
The worst thing that can happen to a man is to find yourself in a financial mess after marriage especially if you don't have an understanding partner. If both of you don't have any issues between you yet, I think that is a simple decision to make, but if you already have kids together, I will advise you take precautions to keep off her escapades for now, depending on your rapport with her, you can confront her with the allegation, but be warned that this can lead to more troubles since you are not the one footing the bills, it is like you're stranded in the marriage for now. Once you're able to find your way out of your financial woes, then you can call her bullsh*t. We are really in a materialistic world that money is the only confidant one can rely on now, not even a partner, even your family can betray you. But if you can find a way to be self-reliant a little bit, then that is a good start to take back control of your life.

So because the woman is providing he should lose his sense as a man? He should swallow shit because a woman he kept in his house is providing for him. Lord have mercy

Zubydeangelo:
I'll go straight to the point...A friend of mine(very close) confided in me that his wife is cheating on him because he can't afford to pay the bills any longer. Asking me if he should divorce her or still be with her and let her continue paying the bills?

Asking for a friend?

GIDIBANKZ:
I sense in my SPIRIT that OP wife is CHEATING on HIM and his frnds wife..

O.P is trying to HIDE his SHAME

But whatever, even if he's d one it's still a human being going through such problem, and instead of keeping it in his mind and getting depressed and committing suicide, he let it out IN HIS OWN WAY!

The major need is for you to give him ideas or advice NOT CRITICISE HIM
Haba!!!!
Why aren't we sensitive to other people's needs.

So, if he divorce her now, who will pay his own bills or will he move back to his parent’s house?

Divorcing her now, is putting the cart before the horse...let him put all his efforts in getting a job that will pay the bills, then divorce her.....but not before!

CHoccolaTE:
Very good for your stupid friend.

Men these days are so lazy and useless. You just want to sit at home being a liability then your wife will be feeding you, paying bills, submitting to you and be loyal 100%

Selfish idiots. Tell your friend to stop being a lazy fool and go and hustle. Bible mandated husbands to be providers. Thanks

Then why not leave the house and continue your fuckkery outside? Aince she has money let her leave the home then. You want to eat your cake and have it, fucking outside and maintaing the prestige that comes with being married. Vipers

IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you

God bless you. Virgins give peace if mind to an extent.

What is more appalling is seeing 'men' here saying he should endure because the wife is the one providing. A man already subjecting himself because his wife provides. I wonder what type of fathers raised these people

Ndukings92:
Nwoke nwanyi na enye nri no na oku mmuo, owu ite a joke... For my culture, the day u discover ur wife as an infidel is d day u stop eating her food. The next action is to take her back home

......
are u from kogi state (ogugu).... olamaboro?

afroxyz:


So because the woman is providing he should lose his sense as a man? He should swallow shit because a woman he kept in his house is providing for him. Lord have mercy

The Bible even said, a man that can’t provide for his household is worse than an infidel.

He should swallow his pride and look for a job, then divorce her....even at this juncture, the heavens are against him not being able to provide for his household.

If care is not taking, the food he is eating is directly from money given to his wife from her multiple man-friends, how possibly can he have ego on his shoulders against the source of the food in his stomach giving his life, health & strength?

IgweOfNnewi:
Ask GOD to choose for you or marry or marry a virgin without experience people will not listen, if you marry a virgin without bad experience or someone GOD choose for you, you wouldn't have any problem, A virgin that didn't fornicate when she was single and free, is it in marriage she will start cheating, it will be hard, a fornicator or cheat will be hard to change her ways.


I have a friend that earn no single Kobo between March and September last year and even his wife is earn over 300% of his salary but there is peace in their house, they have been married for over two years now, the wife normally send her salary to her husband's account and they spend it together. Stop marrying non virgin or ungodly people, marry someone GOD choose for you

What's the criteria for knowing a Virgin to marry?