missimelda01:
Most of them are children hiding under the anonymity of this platform

The real men here hardly make comments under silly threads..but you see those children, they have a lot of time.

Say you don wash ur pant? Ewu!

DrShomo:




U talking about the redpillers

You are obsessed with Red pillers shows that you are a weak effeminate boy without spine..
Funny enough, na the SIMPs like una dey cry for women coz una never understand game...

jerrymej:


Useless you mean?

CHECK the meaning first.

I don't the meaning would you be kind enough to educate me

Aloof:

The evolutionary purpose of a woman is to give Birth to babies and nurse them.
They don't provide security, neither do they provide food.
The men are wired to provide both food and security for the Women and kids. I don't know what most Men actually need again from a woman.
Personally, I don't give much relevance to women, because I noticed they reason like Babies(No pun intended).

So expecting much from them is just against the plan of nature.

If you are married, care for her and the kids as much as you can, and find happiness wherever you derive it.

If you are dating, there must be something that makes you want to date, maybe sex, attention or whatever.. if you are not getting it then quit.

Enough of the complaints.

I'm really ashamed of my fellow men, later most of them would be claiming Alpha males and red pillers. Alpha of complaints?

The average man is supposed to be emotionally stronger than the average woman.

Mehnn...correct guy u are, you nailed it. Men should complain less and understand their place in life.
Work hard to provide and earn you respect and expect less from the lady. Shikenna.

in as much as I support gender equality. I am sorry but this post is aloof of logic.

Jman06:
All I see in your post above are so much generalization with no sound logic to back up your claims. Who told you that the evolutionary responsibility of women is just to birth and nurture If that is the case, then we can as well say that the evolutionary responsibility of men is to impregnate women.

There's no assigned responsibility for any gender outside the natural reproductive roles. It is humans of old that assigned roles based on their limited knowledge at the early times. Now, we advanced humans have seen that some roles that were hitherto considered gender specific can actually be done equally by both genders. So, in order to ensure a better and more egalitarian world, we now encourage gender equality and unlimited exploration of the potentials embedded within the female gender for greater good of society.

DONFRANSKID:

I can only speak for the country I know

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:- I rest my case !

Saltybear:
Those are men who have nothing better to do with their time

Who Nigerian women epp? Bunch of materialistic golddigging one track minded gimme goats

Except our mothers these ladies these days are not worth stressing yourself over

Marry a 22 year old have kids and kick her arse out

Shikena

Yeah right.

Raise the kids alone with no mama to give them proper home training, which evidently, you seem to be lacking. Did you grow up with your mom? Were you morally brought up by your parents? Did your father teach you to respect your mom by his behaviour?

Raise the kids alone,
raising emotionally imbalanced kids who cannot function properly in the society. The males end up becoming rapists, womanizers, greedy perverts that don't understand what it means to be loving and sacrificial. Who can teach these to a child? Is it the society or a father with a demented mind?

Then your girls, wow. With low self esteem, sleeping with your friends and that of their brothers for material gain as they were taught by their father, to only use people to get what they want. How you used their mom to get kids then kicked her out. Every1 with entitlement mentality.

I believe 90% of men won't want to pass through the rigours of childbirth with this childlike mentality creeping into the society. Most would remove their womb because the burden is unbearable. Let her just take in, give you children, then leave the fruits of her labour for you? To use them and do what? If the lady is independent type, then i pity you, cause she'll leave with them. If you like go give another woman belle and start afresh.

Then the cycle continues. Creating more demented members of the society.

Weldone sir. What a fantastic idea you've got there.

Queenlovely:
according to my pastor, God gave man work before woman.

but if you want to be unhappy, chase woman before work.

Your work is why you exist, your purpose,

The job of a woman is to assist you in your work.
but if you bring a woman and you have no work, what will she do.

Eve was to help Adam in his job of taking care of Eden.

Don't bring someone's daughter to come and suffer, make money first, discover yourself first, make life comfortable for her and she will help you multiply your success.

if you have no job for a woman she will give you hell.

she's not needed for this.

Nusaibart:
Men are trash scum

.... But we still dey fall for una

Frontail:
. :- I rest my case !

lol

He is right,he said "evolutionary responsibility". The woman sit @the top of animal evolution look @her reproductive organ. The society may have define Dez roles but God himsef did define the roles in d bible unles if u don't blive in the bible which is understandable. Social animal by default av defined roles for the good of the colony - go read about ants,bee,termites etc.
Advance human, yeah, dat means no define role den.strangely in office there are define roles that one or u can't challenge. There are things woman does beta dan men n likewise men dan woman.
Also I think his rit about expecting a lot from a woman. Gues dats y u av a lot of so called men complain they r actually immature.

Jman06:
All I see in your post above are so much generalization with no sound logic to back up your claims. Who told you that the evolutionary responsibility of women is just to birth and nurture If that is the case, then we can as well say that the evolutionary responsibility of men is to impregnate women.

There's no assigned responsibility for any gender outside the natural reproductive roles. It is humans of old that assigned roles based on their limited knowledge at the early times. Now, we advanced humans have seen that some roles that were hitherto considered gender specific can actually be done equally by both genders. So, in order to ensure a better and more egalitarian world, we now encourage gender equality and unlimited exploration of the potentials embedded within the female gender for greater good of society.

missimelda01:
Most of them are children hiding under the anonymity of this platform

The real men here hardly make comments under silly threads..but you see those children, they have a lot of time.

Spot on!

Na joblessness cause am

Omo mad people don full nairaland

womenareapes2:
we don't complain about women, we complain about Naija girls

Very useless set of entity

Naija girls are way more useless than you think!
They got nothing to offer to humanity.
Ask a black woman (especially Naija women) "what are you bringing to the table" you will see those baboons stammering

Apart from sex what can a woman offer?

NOTHING!

don't waste your time on low standard black women (Naija women to be precise) rather date a foreigner!

Let those baboons date themselves

Aloof:


That's where the problem is, "Overtrust".

When we talk about betrayal, we talk about a breach of trust we have for someone.

Men should realize that life itself is a game, not to talk of Romance. And in every game, their would be time to win and time to lose.

Once a guy enters a relationship, he should always expect the cons of it just like he's enjoying the pros of it.

When you trust a lady so much that you forget the cons, believing it would never go south, then you are living in denial.

When you don't trust a lady overly, even when problem comes up, you will handle it without lamenting because you already know it's a possibility.

What I'm saying is that Men need to be woke, women have beaten them on this game.

If being a nice guy makes you to lament, then become a bad boy.

Wouldn't it be better to be a bad boy that to be in Lamentations.

Get ready to bail this generations women out in later future when they begin to reap the rewards of their evils towards men ....I guess you are the saviour of Nigeria ladies .
Just start your ministry for their sake

AfroKnight:


They way she relates with you is not solely dependent on how you treat her. If so, then men would not complain cos it would be about cause and effect. The complaints arise from undeserved betrayal.

Why do you think women perpetuate the excuse that they are generally attracted to “bad boys” as an excuse for betraying the trust of guys who treat them well? Have you seen bad boys come online to complain?

Those men have every right to decry the disloyalty. They should not be stifled or mocked because they are broke. They expected honour and dignity from the women who disappointed them. Simple.

Besides, why would you expect women to come out and complain when they have multiple partners, and receive gifts, trips, money and affection from all of them?

You don’t talk when your mouth is full.

Very wrong thing to say.

Tells more about you then the women you're so gleefully bashing.

Simp poster for Simp readers... Naija ladies are utterly useless thei self entitlement ,golddigging cum olosho mentally is their bane..they lost value any useful value many years ago.Eve iwas supposed to help and complemented Adam,but daughter of Lucifer put poor ,unsuspecting Adam in trouble.. The world is still suffering from that treachery till this day!why ?all cos Greed and incontentment

Simple question, na story una just dey yarn

You mean the fake stories

DONFRANSKID:
Nigerian girls are useless

Naija Girls = Liability dot com

Aloof:
Yes, they complain all the time.
From one form of heartbreak to another.

If the guy don't complain that a lady cheated on him, he would complain that she has stopped replying his texts.

Always asking what to do here and there and crying like babies.

My question is, don't women get heartbroken too? Why are they not always complaining like guys.

Does it mean they are now more mentally matured and stronger than men?
If so, then I'm afraid to say that The Future will definitely be female.

Stfu there. WOMEN ARE INTO EVERY RELATIONSHIP TO STEAL, AND WHEN U ARE DONE WITH THEM , THEY WILL GO WITH THE GOODY BAG THE HAVE STOLEN. MEN TEND TO LOSE ALWAYS, AND THATS WHY THEY COMPLAIN. WOMEN ONLY COMPLAIN WHEN THE MAN DIDN'T SPEND MUCH ON HER, AND STILL KICK HER ASS OUT.

Aloof:
Yes, they complain all the time.
From one form of heartbreak to another.

If the guy don't complain that a lady cheated on him, he would complain that she has stopped replying his texts.

Always asking what to do here and there and crying like babies.

My question is, don't women get heartbroken too? Why are they not always complaining like guys.

Does it mean they are now more mentally matured and stronger than men?
If so, then I'm afraid to say that The Future will definitely be female.

They are always complaining because they want it all in one package

Women are resilient by nature and can endure circumstances more than men

What a man is finding difficult to unravel or sort out of

A woman will go deeper, use her manipulative nature to solve it, even to her own advantage

That's why men who understands the nature of women don't flex muscles with them.

That doesn't men he is weak but he wants the best for both of them

Hmmm...

Aloof:

The evolutionary purpose of a woman is to give Birth to babies and nurse them.
They don't provide security, neither do they provide food.
The men are wired to provide both food and security for the Women and kids. I don't know what most Men actually need again from a woman.
Personally, I don't give much relevance to women, because I noticed they reason like Babies(No pun intended).

So expecting much from them is just against the plan of nature.

If you are married, care for her and the kids as much as you can, and find happiness wherever you derive it.

If you are dating, there must be something that makes you want to date, maybe sex, attention or whatever.. if you are not getting it then quit.

Enough of the complaints.

I'm really ashamed of my fellow men, later most of them would be claiming Alpha males and red pillers. Alpha of complaints?

The average man is supposed to be emotionally stronger than the average woman.

U ARE A WOMAN JOOR

AfroKnight:

Why would anyone complain if they stay on the receiving end of gifts and money? The Nigerian society has equated being female with having the cultural right to be paid for companionship.

It is not about maturity. It is about fairness and dignity.

If you can equate your beauty or your femininity to money and gifts then you wouldn’t complain.

TRUE TALK

missimelda01:
Most of them are children hiding under the anonymity of this platform

The real men here hardly make comments under silly threads..but you see those children, they have a lot of time.

Children like u ; abi ?

Jman06:
All I see in your post above are so much generalization with no sound logic to back up your claims. Who told you that the evolutionary responsibility of women is just to birth and nurture If that is the case, then we can as well say that the evolutionary responsibility of men is to impregnate women.

There's no assigned responsibility for any gender outside the natural reproductive roles. It is humans of old that assigned roles based on their limited knowledge at the early times. Now, we advanced humans have seen that some roles that were hitherto considered gender specific can actually be done equally by both genders. So, in order to ensure a better and more egalitarian world, we now encourage gender equality and unlimited exploration of the potentials embedded within the female gender for greater good of society.

CAN U LIST THE THINGS THAT ARE EQUAL BTW MEN AND WOMEN ? THE ONLY TIME I HEAR GENDER EQUALITY IS FOR SELFISH BEINGS. GENDER EQUAITY I STAND FOR

Aloof:


Yes, they complain all the time.
From one form of heartbreak to another.

If the guy don't complain that a lady cheated on him, he would complain that she has stopped replying his texts.

Always asking what to do here and there and crying like babies.

My question is, don't women get heartbroken too? Why are they not always complaining like guys.

Does it mean they are now more mentally matured and stronger than men?
If so, then I'm afraid to say that The Future will definitely be female.

I do not agree guys here complain too much. They be straight up bitching. Women are wired different from men.... gasoline engine... diesel engine... both engines... different fuel... different output. Men.... fueled by testosterone.... women by estrogen and a little testosterone. Same way a diesel engine is wired to make wayy more noise than a gasoline engine.... same way a woman is wired to complain wayyy more than a man. A certain level of complaint by women should expected and tolerated by men.....but when it gets too much... it's no longer complaining.... it's bitching. Maybe the result of too much estrogen. Now when a man is complaining for simple stuff... we need to wonder how he is wired.... and when he be bitching.... we can conclude he is fueled by estrogen .... the kind of men we suspect.... men ... but not really men. Is a whole lot of this kind men .....sissy men. They try dating babes... babes discover they be sissy .... dump them .... they start bitching to the world... not knowing they just be exposing themselves. Nairaland need a section for these male bitchers......they too many now.

Aloof:


I'm not Advocating for women.

But bro, even guys that doesn't have enough to give a lady still complains.

SAME WAY WOMEN WHO STAND TO GAIN NOTHING, AND MAYBE GIVE THEIR LOVE COMPLAIN MORE.

Dalil8:
@Aloof

The question should be; Why are men always complaining about women on "Social media"

Cuz in real life, a man who does that is termed "weak" and not man enough.

Btw the reverse is usually the case in reality.

Women do most of the complaining in real life.

I believe you have a point here.

Men don’t open up in real life, so this is an avenue for them to open up, which i feel it’s okay if they aren’t being bitter about it or generalizing all women as same.

It’s okay to let it out, don’t bottle those pains up.

Men should be allowed to lament once in a while, it’s okay but don’t become bitter towards all women (Very childish) as we are all not same including men.

It's not only nigerian men.

Go to YouTube and see the high number of men complaining about women.

Everything women do, these men will complain.

Tufiakwa.

PrimadonnaO:


Very wrong thing to say.

Tells more about you then the women you're so gleefully bashing.

No vex