Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos ,

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

.How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.


I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes



P.s I need you honest opinion .....

StPete:
Guy you did nothing wrong abeg. In fact, I will be more than happy to meet someone who would help me dodge a bullet. All those frustrated ladies above saying shit to you are just as plain guilty as the said bitch.

And as for curses, they don't fucking work. Anything that works only works because u have believed so. I don't want to give you personal experiences

I am very happy for what you did. When the bitch was busy spreading the cookie, she never considered the future danger she was putting herself. Let her cry me a River. She was busy moaning hard under the heavy thrusts of those niggas now she's crying crocodile tears. She can't eat her cake and have it. Good riddance to rubbish

candygist:


If only you knew how many niggas that have slept with the females in your family. [color=#990000][/color]

StPete:


Just the same way niggas have made a mess of yourself and all the useless females in your lineage. Anuofia

candygist:


No be fight, go check if your sister holes still tight

Cashio:
like I said before, I do not give a Bleep about my girl's past life.
If the lady had an association with cultists, I clearly will steer clear. Not because of who she was, but for my own safety.
Funny enough, I once had an encounter with a road side girl who lived in the same lodge with me. We got quite close and she divulged her little secrets to me. Yes I made her change, relocate to her hometown and is currently learning a trade in a drug store. Don't know if she has completely changed though, that I can not vouch for. Sometimes when you get to know the true story of those purported oloshos, you will feel nothing but pity for them.

candygist:


If only you knew how many niggas that have slept with the females in your family. [color=#990000][/color]

BeautyO:
Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad

Kondomatic:
Is this really you speaking or similar sins in you are speaking through you?

Supposing the OP kept quiet and they ended marrying each other and she starts cheating with one of the guys in the long run, you and your likes will still attack the OP for not being a good friend to his friend.

The reason we are all advised to mind the kinda life we live is because our pasts have a way of showing up in our future.

When they tell some people to live "clean", you girls will accuse the person of being over "sanctimonious" or having holier than thou attitude but it's things like this that they want you to avoid.

Yea, we all have pasts, don't remind of me of that but hey!, not everybody's past is dirty.

BeautyO:
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True Love sees no past or flaws.... i

people marry known prostitute nd still live a better Life.,... Donald trump , offset just to mention a few

Sarcastic101:
All the guys blaming the op are hypocrites
Can any of you marry a commercial product
Then why are you insulting the op for saving his friend

When you tell these girls to keep themselves
They won't listen
When they now get matured they'd be saying “dont judge me by my past”
Me I will judge you Ooooh
Op you did well by saving your friends life


Only good women deserve good men/marriages
Those ones who lived stupid lives should manage what they get at the end

AishaYesufu:

Doesn't matter whether all the females in his house are sleeping with men or not, what matters is that he stands for truth. Every human, including family members, are responsible for their actions and shall face the consequences thereof except for the grace of God.

Truvel:
U Do Bad. For Godsake, It's Not Ur Business. U Shouldn't Interfered In Their Relationship. U Didn't Only Broke Her Heart, U Broke Ur Friend's Heart Too. How Would U Feel If Someone Do Dsame To U? If U Know Any Possible Way U Can Bring Them Together, U Better Do So Otherwise D Curses Will Work On U.

BeautyO:
Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad

Airtimex:



Bro. I don't want to blame OP. Some friends are more like brothers (guys especially)

I blame the guy and the girlfriend. OP did not force the friend to break up. It was his decision to end things with the girl. Some guys won't mind, rather they will change environment after marriage...

And what on earth is the said girlfriend still doing in that area...if your past was bad (women especially) please always change your base. Human beings can talk ooh. Repented or not...

Truvel:
No Matter What Since He Loved D Girl, He Shouldn't Av Interfered. She Should Av Allowed Them Be. By D Way, D Friend Didn't Confide In Him B4 Dating Her. Did He? Note: Many Of These Girls U See Here & There Are Not Virgin. 99% Of Girls U See In Naija Getting Married Today & Even D Churchy Girls U See Getting Married Today Aren't Virgins. They Had Had Several Sex With Different Guys B4 Marriage.

Airtimex:



I understand your position bro. That is why i said, some friends are more like brothers. I guess you can't see your brother in such situation and keep quiet because your brother did not confide in you...

The consequences of marrying a street meat is always severe bro.

My issue is with the guy and not the OP. If the love was genuine, he could have married the girl and relocate...but

Base on being a virgin, I don't think that is the point here...the main issue is loosing respect and some embarrassment he might face along the line. Marriage is a long journey bro.

If that girl is damn promiscuous as the OP has said, the guy will still hear from other ppl and that will be after wedding, which might be late and you know the consequences of regretting once marriage.

Truvel:
I Get Ur Point Too. But Why Would D Guy Tell D Girl Dat It Was His Friend Dat Told Him?

BigDick70inch:

Wait..... R u the said girl??
Why crying more than the bereaved??