I have been having financial difficulties in the last two months due to some failed Investments and scams.
My girlfriend whom I asked for assistance, literally said she had nothing but she went to sow a seed of 7k at her useless church, they initially asked members to bring 100k and she wanted to volunteer but owning to the fact she doesn't even have half that amount, she left that part and went ahead to give her pastor a whole 7k.
Recently she said her pastor told the women in the church not to have anything intimate with their spouses till the end of their two weeks fastings and prayers, for a week now, no kisses and intimate touches for me.
Aside the fact that I hate the church business venture, I cannot tell her not to go to church, I am so confused right now, I don't want to act irrational else she might do more and won't let me know.
My fear is what if I marry her someday, I can't cope with this foolish attitude, I need your guidance please.

rekt

You no dey shame, after asking a girl you haven't married to help you, you still come and expose yourself online. Girl that you will leave immediately you get another higher paying girlfriend. If you can't afford 7k for your own needs, you have no business getting married. Stop using marriage to deceive young girls.

Since you both are not yet married, make up your mind if you can live with it or not...

Lol

Why would you date someone so focused on her church when you can't tolerate the concept? Both of you are deceiving yourselves thinking you can be together in harmony.

Religion/spirituality is a very potent and fundamental part of a religious person's life. If you cannot accept their beliefs, you will just punish yourself by hanging on. Conviction is an important part of religion. How do you sway someone who is convinced in their heart that they are doing the right things spiritually? You want to frustrate yourself. You either accept her or leave.

abeg leave the girl alone na she get her money, she can use it to do anything she want whether giving it to her pastor, or beggars,its none of your business...if you continue like this,she will soon tell you that you aren't my type...

Raysleek:
You no dey shame, after asking a girl you haven't married to help you, you still come and expose yourself online. Girl that you will leave immediately you get another higher paying girlfriend. If you can't afford 7k for your own needs, you have no business getting married. Stop using marriage to deceive young girls.

Just keep quiet please, I am as young as she is, and the money I asked of her is the 10k I gave her to keep for me because I was having financial losses, so i requested she kept it for me, each time I asked her, she will tell me she has used it.
I kept mute most times,.now she received her monthly salary and when I asked her for money, she then told me that she has nothing before finally telling me what happened.

Righteousness2:


So without the Fasting program, you and "Your Lady" Engage in Immorality and Fornication!

Going to Church 24hrs and 7 days a week does not Make u Heaven Bound.
Sowing or Giving your cash to the Church does not make you a child of GOD.
A Sinner is not a Christian and a Christian is not a Sinner!

The both of you are not Serious!
You Both Need a Genuie relationship with JESUS

Is kissing now regarded as fornication or immorality

Connected1:

Is kissing now regarded as fornication or immorality

No! It is Fellowship
Mtchewwwwww !

AfroKnight:
Why would you date someone so focused on her church when you can't tolerate the concept? Both of you are deceiving yourselves thinking you can be together in harmony.

Religion/spirituality is a very potent and fundamental part of a religious person's life. If you cannot accept their beliefs, you will just punish yourself by hanging on. Conviction is an important part of religion. How do you sway someone who is convinced in their heart that they are doing the right things spiritually? You want to frustrate yourself. You either accept her or leave.

Bro how will I accept unnecessary spending, it can wreck any man, it's uncalled for, these churches are scams.

tosik:
abeg leave the girl alone na she get her money, she can use it to do anything she want whether giving it to her pastor, or beggars,its none of your business...if you continue like this,she will soon tell you that you aren't my type...

But I do give her and the worst part is that she thinks she's right for that. I have been there and back, I wasted more on these churches before realizing my mistakes.

Connected1:
Bro how will I accept unnecessary spending, it can wreck any man, it's uncalled for, these churches are scams.

You can actually accept it by looking the other way. You would have noticed something common among middled-aged married men. When madam does something they should naturally react to, they won't talk immediately. They will just take shift their focus elsewhere or change the topic and move on.

My late "uncle" was a protestant and his wife is a member of a pentecostal church. I call him uncle but we are not related by blood. She will start with some strange prayer points and songs in the mid-morning after breakfast when he has guests. What he will do is take his guests to the private sitting room or the garden to discuss. He never attended her church till he died but he didn't stop her either. They found balance somehow.

If you cannot comot your mind, then you guys should break up. It is far easier than trying to change her spiritual beliefs.

Connected1:
I have been having financial difficulties in the last two months due to some failed Investments and scams.
My girlfriend whom I asked for assistance, literally said she had nothing but she went to sow a seed of 7k at her useless church, they initially asked members to bring 100k and she wanted to volunteer but owning to the fact she doesn't even have half that amount, she left that part and went ahead to give her pastor a whole 7k.
Recently she said her pastor told the women in the church not to have anything intimate with their spouses till the end of their two weeks fastings and prayers, for a week now, no kisses and intimate touches for me.
Aside the fact that I hate the church business venture, I cannot tell her not to go to church, I am so confused right now, I don't want to act irrational else she might do more and won't let me know.
My fear is what if I marry her someday, I can't cope with this foolish attitude, I need your guidance please.

let her be she is already in love with jesus christ.

Connected1:
Just keep quiet please, I am as young as she is, and the money I asked of her is the 10k I gave her to keep for me because I was having financial losses, so i requested she kept it for me, each time I asked her, she will tell me she has used it.
I kept mute most times,.now she received her monthly salary and when I asked her for money, she then told me that she has nothing before finally telling me what happened.

Take my advise and work hard no one will tell you the bitter truth. You can twist it anyhow you like.

Next time when she won go church ehn, tell her say make she tell her pastor make him cut soap give her come give you.

AfroKnight:


You can actually accept it by looking the other way. You would have noticed something common among middled-aged married men. When madam does something they should naturally react to, they won't talk immediately. They will just take shift their focus elsewhere or change the topic and move on.

My late "uncle" was a protestant and his wife is a member of a pentecostal church. I call him uncle but we are not related by blood. She will start with some strange prayer points and songs in the mid-morning after breakfast when he has guests. What he will do is take his guests to the private sitting room or the garden to discuss. He never attended her church till he died but he didn't stop her either. They found balance somehow.

If you cannot comot your mind, then you guys should break up. It is far easier than trying to change her spiritual beliefs.

Ok Bro
You are experienced, I will need to this your advice on the positive side, we aren't even thinking of break-up. I noticed she even gets annoyed when I talk about what she did.

Connected1:
But I do give her and the worst part is that she thinks she's right for that. I have been there and back, I wasted more on these churches before realizing my mistakes.

u wasted more on "house of God"or i didn't get you??

Na this kind girl de sow sperm seed 4 their pastor because of obsession

Raysleek:

Take my advise and work hard no one will tell you the bitter truth. You can twist it anyhow you like.

I don't need your bitter truth.

tosik:

u wasted more on "house of God"or i didn't get you??

Yes, there was a time I was spending on the church, but after all that transpired during the covid-19 pandemic last year, when the church didn't help or refused to give to the poor, I realized they were actually scam.

Raysleek:
You no dey shame, after asking a girl you haven't married to help you, you still come and expose yourself online. Girl that you will leave immediately you get another higher paying girlfriend. If you can't afford 7k for your own needs, you have no business getting married. Stop using marriage to deceive young girls.

God bless you! You said my mind Most of his type are plenty here, I call them kids

NobleSeed:
Next time when she won go church ehn, tell her say make she tell her pastor make him cut soap give her come give you.

I wish I could get one Bro, LoL

godlessmind:
let her be she is already in love with jesus christ.

Hmm, I pray it favours us.

Raysleek:
You no dey shame, after asking a girl you haven't married to help you, you still come and expose yourself online. Girl that you will leave immediately you get another higher paying girlfriend. If you can't afford 7k for your own needs, you have no business getting married. Stop using marriage to deceive young girls.

Are you done talking trash ? Sometimes I wonder if someone like you reason from anus, so a man can't be financially down sometime in his life and ask his partner for a support? Which will pay back later

Everyone has a choice to make, if she is the church going type without pretence then let her be, & don't distract her relationship with God.
Sowing that seed to God shouldn't be ur business, it's her money, & moreover she didn't give it to her pastor.
A girl you have not married to, you still want to have control over her body.

Connected1:
Yes, there was a time I was spending on the church, but after all that transpired during the covid-19 pandemic last year, when the church didn't help or refused to give to the poor, I realized they were actually scam.

lemme ask you this are you giving to church(pastors)or to God??

samwash:
Everyone has a choice to make, if she is the church going type without pretence then let her be, & don't distract her relationship with God.
Sowing that seed to God shouldn't be ur business, it's her money, & moreover she didn't give it to her pastor.
A girl you have not married to, you still want to have control over her body.

Bro, it's actually my money, I gave her 10k to keep for me, so I could use as a last resort, because I was having financial losses. I asked her for it earlier this month and she said she has used it.
Now she has received her salary and I asked for assistance and then she told me how she spent 7k at the church and also used the remaining money for her family.
I am not trying to control her, but considering the fact that I was complaining of finance to her, she should have considered me first.

tosik:

lemme ask you this are you giving to church(pastors)or to God??

God doesn't come down from Heaven to collect the money we sow, The church heads do that, I now give to those in need and I am no longer a fan of the church.

Connected1:

God doesn't come down from Heaven to collect the money we sow, The church heads do that, I now give to those in need and I am no longer a fan of the church.

alright...all is well.

Righteousness2:


No! It is Fellowship
Mtchewwwwww !