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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Nobody: 10:56am On Apr 26, 2021
Frales6:


ok na

I've sent you a PM. Check it
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 10:59am On Apr 26, 2021
Never done it... never will... what is the point of marriage of trust is absent? No matter what, never go through a partners phone... what are you expecting to find? You will always find trouble when you look for it... even if you check and find nothing you wont be satisfied. You will always be suspicious so just learn to trust the process and work on your love lives.... if you are doing everything right you wont have to worry even if the other person is cheating cos you will always be it for them.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Mustiboy(m): 11:00am On Apr 26, 2021
Ugandatales:


I felt like crying reading your story. Your girl is a good girl, but some men can be persistent ehn! And as she said, she needed the money. This is better than my guy that found out his girl was sleeping with three different men at the same time...and this girl was always all over the guy. I wonder how she found the time to be doing what she was doing.
shocked

3 different men.

I fear some women

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 11:00am On Apr 26, 2021
Number1benue:
Just passed a very horrific accident right now at the third mainland bridge. Two dead, horrible............very gory scene......may Almighty help us in this coubtry
bikers abi? They hit a slow moving truck..
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Frales6(f): 11:02am On Apr 26, 2021
michaelpop50:

I've sent you a PM. Check it
yeah... will check it later. I'm out of data now. no vex
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Edusouls(m): 11:07am On Apr 26, 2021
Women are snakes, check their phone on ur own detriment..
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Drizzy5001(m): 11:12am On Apr 26, 2021
It ended in premium tears, I saw the nude pictures she snapped where she posed in doggy position and sent to another guy... I sharperly ended the relationship sad

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Odunharry(m): 11:13am On Apr 26, 2021
Omo make una dey check oo.

Funny how some people call their phone private yet play with their private parts anyhow..

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by shegsrules(m): 11:15am On Apr 26, 2021
As seen yesterday on Twitter

Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by BoverLY: 11:16am On Apr 26, 2021
Them for know now.
Every guy phone na monster any woman no wan s33.
E normal.
I gat monster on my phone I still love u like that. E no concern u.
Leme rear my monster alone.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by tunize(m): 11:17am On Apr 26, 2021
Last time I did that was with an ex hehe the thing was bad " through there i discovered she was f*cking another d*ck" nor be that wan even pain me, waitn pain me be say na person wen I know.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by general111(m): 11:17am On Apr 26, 2021
She chats with my phone..
I trust her, but i dont chat with her phone
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Teaser4(m): 11:18am On Apr 26, 2021
Mustiboy:
She was broke one time and agreed to send her nudes to one Nigerian in Canada. It was even video.

From the chat, the man had been begging her to send him nudes for over 3 months. But, all of a sudden one night, she messaged the man herself and said she was ready. The man paid her 20k.

I'm the one who deflowered this girl, and she's a really good girl. But what I saw shocked me. I never believed my girl could do such . We've been together for 3 years.

I only checked her phone out of curiousity. My girl is not the type that waka upandany, so i trusted her very much. She's a really good girl. But what I saw that she send her nudes, i want die.

I confronted her, and she was crying, saying she couldn't have asked me for the money she needed and that she was desperate. That's why she did it.


I forgave her sha, and she kept bringing up the issue for months, asking me to still forgive her and know that she's not that kind of girl.
forgive but don't forget... E get why!

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Odunharry(m): 11:19am On Apr 26, 2021
Ishilove:
No experience. His phone is heavily passworded and I can't be bothered about checking because the trust is there.
Hmmm.. Heavily passworded.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by 27Pushing30: 11:19am On Apr 26, 2021
Draslo:
What's the point? Woman wey dey delete chat, call history, etc. before she sleeps? Woman wey go get fbuddy for office but their WhatsApp chats are purely official? How you wan take know? Woman wey need steady validation by means of enjoying and exploiting the men toasting her inside app? Even when she wants nothing to do with them physically, she becomes indebted to spread her legs after accepting gifts. Woman wey you go see her nude for gallery wey she no send you? Woman wey you go see her account balance, you go shock!

Nobody really trusts completely anymore. It's just a case of what I don't know won't hurt me, and this goes for both genders.

QED.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Odunharry(m): 11:21am On Apr 26, 2021
chinchonglee:
I have never seen anything as dumb as not checking your partner's phone!

Like if u are in a serious relationship with that person, it's better you check their phone. It's better to know the devil yoi are dealing with.
The craziest thing is the privacy talk. Their phone is private but they are free to browse through each other private parts at anytime..

I always advice people to check.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by jaxxy(m): 11:24am On Apr 26, 2021
I have always known most people are pretentious so it’s not surprising unless I have certain trust for u which doesn’t come easy because I shud have known u to a good extent.

I also don’t check people’s fones until I considering Smtn really serious not all this puppy love or hookup relationships I see all over the place like u didn’t know what u were getting into.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by chinchonglee(m): 11:25am On Apr 26, 2021
Odunharry:

The craziest thing is the privacy talk. Their phone is private but they are free to browse through each other private parts at anytime..

I always advice people to check.
Yeah bro...
If we are in a relationship, i think there is nothing private anymore...
Why won't i give my phone freely to my girlfriend if i have nothing to hide.

They shuld keep deceiving themselves.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Odunharry(m): 11:27am On Apr 26, 2021
chinchonglee:

Yeah bro...
If we are in a relationship, i think there is nothing private anymore...
Why won't i give my phone freely to my girlfriend if i have nothing to hide.

They shuld keep deceiving themselves.
Lol. I don't take them serious. Once I notice your phone is heavily passworded from whatsapp to gallery to Facebook etc, i will ask questions first then move on.

No time for rubbish.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by charlesucheh(m): 11:27am On Apr 26, 2021
Don't just try it.

Y'all keep respecting each other's privacy till you get married to avoid unnecessary gbas gbos!!!

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by gameboy727(m): 11:34am On Apr 26, 2021
It's an ugly experience.


On a cool Saturday evening sometime in December last year, while I was having my dinner, babe (now ex) gave me her phone to hold for her. Having seen and crammed her password whenever she opens her whatsapp, I already knew her password. So she left me for an errand and I had ample time to go through her whatsapp.


I avoided chats whose messages she hadn't read started going through the ones she sent the last message or she read and didn't reply, until I stumbled upon one in which she was apologizing to the guy for some reason.


Thats how I started scrolling up oo till I saw where she mentioned the guy's name and I got to know he was her so called ex(she saved his number with another name). I didn't see why the guy was angry sha, but then I was just seeing so many "I miss you" and "I love you" messages they both sent to each other and even how the guy fantasized putting ice-cream on her tits and licking it off from there, and so many other intimate stuffs.


The food i was eating immediately lost taste in my mouth. My eyes became teary and I was not even seeing well again. Babe sha came back and I didn't notice early so I just pressed the power button without exiting the app. The thoughts going through my mind were incoherent cos I couldn't think properly.


Anyway, she knew that I went through her chat and wanted to enquire what I was thinking of, but I told her I couldn't say anything at the moment till some other time. That's how I went to the bedroom thinking I was going to sleep off immediately.


I kid you guys not, I couldn't sleep till about 4am. The next day being a Sunday, I went to church and slept all through the mass like a fool. Lol. After church sha we spoke about the issue and she told me that it didn't mean anything (Yimmu). I never trusted her but I didn’t want to drag the issue any further so I just settled with her. Now we've broken up sef. I miss her a little though.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Robisky001(m): 11:36am On Apr 26, 2021
We both have our passwords.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Saig: 11:52am On Apr 26, 2021
sinola:


Opening your partners phone is like peeling an onion.... The further you peel, the more you cry.
So why doing something that will leave you depressed.
For me, I jump and pass

grin grin
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by pusskhole(m): 11:53am On Apr 26, 2021
I once had a bitter experience checking my ex girlfriend's facebook account not intentionally though. You know that feeling when the relationship is new and you both think you got nothing to hide. Whenever she comes around, she often sign in her FB account on my pc and there's this software installed on my pc that automatically save login details. On Feb 14 that year when she broke up with me, I was feeling sober and decided to login into her account to at least see if I could find the new guy. Unknowingly that was the biggest mistake of my life not letting it slide. Lo and behold, I saw her chat with a very good friend who went to UK for masters at that time. I once squatted with this my friend before he left for UK and it was in his house I deflowered the bitch. Going through the convo on fb, was shocked to see the girl talk dirty not just about me but my dear mom. During the course of dating the girl, she knows almost everything about my family including my mom who was mentally ill then. From the chats, my friend was like, "how's your hubby?" Babe was like "whose hubby? Are you talking about someone who can't take care of his mom?" I nearly collapsed that moment. You need to see all the nonsense the bitch spewed just to gain cheap attention. Anyways I learnt the women world the hard way but you know what, WE MOVE

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 11:55am On Apr 26, 2021
chinchonglee:
I have never seen anything as dumb as not checking your partner's phone!

Like, if u are in a serious relationship with that person, it's better you check their phone. It's better to know the devil you are dealing with.
Make it loud grin let them be forming maturity there lol before I got married to my hubby, I checked all the phones of everyone I ever dated. I can’t be living in doubts. It will shock you but you’d be glad you did and if they are clean, you’d know too but most importantly you need God to choose a spouse, people change too.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by remigiusizunna(m): 12:04pm On Apr 26, 2021
Hmmm
My brother,if I tell you what I saw eh.
My babe just dey give Bleep anyhow o.
She was even planning on seeing a guy in Lagos all the way from Enugu. She wanted to also use the same opportunity to see her ex whom she had been begging for sex even after telling me she was done with the guy.
Infact,she is a call girl.
Sharp sharp I screenshot everything send for am for WhatsApp.
I tried talking to her and she flared up ....I just send am screenshot,she mellow.
Since May last year,I just decided to dey my dey.
Don't even ask me how I got to her chats,she logged in with my phone and forgot to log out

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by chinchonglee(m): 12:05pm On Apr 26, 2021
Xilsbridalhouse:

Make it loud grin let them be forming maturity there lol before I got married to my hubby, I checked all the phones of everyone I ever dated. I can’t be living in doubts. It will shock you but you’d be glad you did and if they are clean, you’d know too but most importantly you need God to choose a spouse, people change too.
Yeah sis!
How can u not have the password to your partner's phone

I broke up with a girl cos she refused giving me her password but she has mine and checks my phone frequently.
If we both can't have access to our phones, i think we are jst deceiving ourselves. Its best we move on.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by KayCee92(m): 12:11pm On Apr 26, 2021
Kingcalls:
Its very wrong to snoop on ur partners phone...what will u gain apart from heartbreak....alot lost their loving partners cos they foolishly snooped...what u dint know wudnt kill u...its nest it ends naturally than for u to end it with ur own hands due to snooping ... u might read it a different meaning into what u hv seen on the phone


There is no different meaning u can read into "I am at the park now, please keep Ur phone on" grin grin

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Tbvxl: 12:12pm On Apr 26, 2021
It helped me a lot. I detected the bitch was cheating on me. May God punish her wherever she is

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Laideabdulahi: 12:13pm On Apr 26, 2021
Draslo:
What's the point? Woman wey dey delete chat, call history, etc. before she sleeps? Woman wey go get fbuddy for office but their WhatsApp chats are purely official? How you wan take know? Woman wey need steady validation by means of enjoying and exploiting the men toasting her inside app? Even when she wants nothing to do with them physically, she becomes indebted to spread her legs after accepting gifts. Woman wey you go see her nude for gallery wey she no send you? Woman wey you go see her account balance, you go shock!

Nobody really trusts completely anymore. It's just a case of what I don't know won't hurt me, and this goes for both genders.

Oil dey your head.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Laideabdulahi: 12:21pm On Apr 26, 2021
positivevibez:
No need. I have slept with girls who cheat on their boyfriends for just N150 grin grin grin grin grin grin

Gala. And
Lacasera

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