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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by JimmyBishop: 11:01am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.
It is a RED FLAG
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Nobody: 11:01am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.
Leave her alone or else in the near future she will kill you...
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Loisemm2(f): 11:01am On Apr 28, 2021
Only a strong alpha man can successfully tame a hot/short tempered woman. If you're not one, you better advise yourself. They don't change easily. Not especially when married to a 'soft' man. it only gets worse.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by womenareapess: 11:03am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.
majority of naija woman if not 99.9% has bipolar disorder undecided

I advised you leave this fvcking piece of shiit!
naija women are useless entitlement piece of shiit.

just fvck that ape and leave her before she drive a knife into your stomach

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by sharpwriter(m): 11:04am On Apr 28, 2021
gbemishile:
heard a story on a radio program one day and it really sent chills down my spine as a man.
the woman met this older man and they got along real well up to considering marriage.her parents were really against the marriage,but she said she so much loved the guy,so she went against her parents wish.she said she got to know the man had anger issues with the way he beats up other guys at any slightest issue,but she thought she could change him.she said when he is angry and uncontrollable,she would call him by his pet name and he would stop immediately,so she felt she could change him and he wouldn't hurt her.
after marriage,the beatings started on a serious high.

lol
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Offpoint1: 11:04am On Apr 28, 2021
A calm woman will likely kill you before the short tempered ones....


You need wisdom to handle women, either short or long temper... all women are dangerous.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by sharpwriter(m): 11:04am On Apr 28, 2021
ibechris:
That means u just use ur hand carry bomb come keep for ur house waiting for the time it will explode.

Listen,every woman who had stabbed their husband as a result of anger,actually mentioned the devil as the cause and they beg and cried profusely for forgiveness but the law never spared them.

So,dont start what u cant finish.

My girl friend in the university stabbed me in my stomach because she called me and I didn't know my phone ranged and then,she came around and took the pen knife on my table to stab me...men, I almost died before I sought for medical attention.

Be careful,dont just love,love with sense.

shocked Na demon be dat o
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by kushme: 11:07am On Apr 28, 2021
Sanctecosma:
one of the most cherished advice from my big bro:" Marry a woman who will give you peace of mind. A woman who rarely gives in to fits of anger"













Bro, the red flag has never been so glaring

You big bro is indeed a wise man.

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Olaideolayemi(m): 11:12am On Apr 28, 2021
Sweetshuga:


Well said, I don't know why most people advise lovers to leave their partners because of a fault which isn't their making and by the way, love is all about helping each other overcome their weaknesses and not abandon them to deal with it, if we don't help our partners overcome their flaws then why are we friends and lovers?
There some ladies, so matter what you do to change them,they won't agree,If you can't managed it,it's better you,you let her go, unless you're playing with death..

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by LeonOgu(m): 11:13am On Apr 28, 2021
So you're not married with her and she's hot tempered, what would then happen after marriage?
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 28, 2021
Marriage comes with lot of tolerance and patient, which is opposite of anger/Hot temper, going into thz marriage you will only get frustrated and and probably die before your time
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by eastgates1: 11:15am On Apr 28, 2021
I had a female friend like that, it wasnt her that made me leave the friendship, it was her brother.
He beat the daylight out of the girl because of misunderstanding. I later found out that anger was their family trademark.
I quietly left no break up till today.

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Sirvon: 11:18am On Apr 28, 2021
Xenry:
"My brother, marry her, she will change after marriage," I think that is what you want to hear from us.Your case will surely reach Front-Page after una marriage, like, "Woman arrested for breaking husband's spinal cord (photos)."


He said it all.
Brother leave that girl and never looked back...she will show you worst of herself the moment you pay bride price.

Avoid early death and future BP....leaver her now.speaking from bitter experience
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Pharaoh4rin(m): 11:22am On Apr 28, 2021
One peculiar thing with hot-tempered people is that, they're very kind. And that I don't know why
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by dollytino4real(f): 11:24am On Apr 28, 2021
run I say run,, once again run !! too much pride dat brings anger, they both destroy
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by SavageResponse(m): 11:24am On Apr 28, 2021
Guyman02:
My wife is hot tempered, I must confess that it has really drained me, it took years for her to know the damage she was doing to us by her temper.
Simple family discussion can lead to serious quarrel. It got so bad I started reacting to her madness when it starts and this led to me smashing her phone and she retaliated, when the dust settles she will apologize but for days me that is a very gentle person will feel awkward that neighbours heard us exchanging words, imagine the emotional torture and feeling of embarrassment.

I tried to end the marriage but kids were already involved, I ignored her hot temper during our courtship thinking it was something I can always handle.

A hot tempered woman would get you emotionally drained at a period you may need a shoulder to lean on when you get home.
Very soon she will clash with your female relatives if they visit your house or try to call her to order if they find her talking back at you.
It's in your hands to decide what you want, no be we go advice you, I am just sharing my personal experience.

Oga marriage is not a do-or-die affair!
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Sanctecosma(m): 11:25am On Apr 28, 2021
kushme:


You big bro is indeed a wise man.

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Wealthoptulent(m): 11:25am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.
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Bros remove one letter E n replace with letter N that is FIANCEE to FINANCE. She is only financing ur sex! Bro japa oo. Divorce is as expensive as Wedding ceremony, both cash and emotionally. Thank me Later, use my words well. And we undergoing such, may God deliver us completely and make Nigeria's judiciary capable n speedy!
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by lequama10: 11:27am On Apr 28, 2021
Sweetshuga:


Well said, I don't know why most people advise lovers to leave their partners because of a fault which isn't their making and by the way, love is all about helping each other overcome their weaknesses and not abandon them to deal with it, if we don't help our partners overcome their flaws then why are we friends and lovers?
everyone has one flaws they are managing, infact been a Nigerian is frustrating enough , anger is not something you can manage for someone. It won't only destroy her alone but everyone involved with her... Anger goes with impatience. If she likes herself and want to live, she should manage her anger before marriage...
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Biggers82(m): 11:29am On Apr 28, 2021
Run ooooo because one day she will break your head in anger and apologize
Another day he will just kill you and apologize to you too
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Labadi69: 11:30am On Apr 28, 2021
Wakins:
Sit her down and talk sense into her. And you're gonna have a lot of patience.

Modified
What's so special about this first comment of a thing self?

You be FTC but na only 8 likes you get while the people after you dey gather enough likes. It says a lot sha cheesy cheesy

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Labadi69: 11:34am On Apr 28, 2021
womenareapess:
majority of naija woman if not 99.9% has bipolar disorder undecided

I advised you leave this fvcking piece of shiit!
naija women are useless entitlement piece of shiit.

just fvck that ape and leave her before she drive a knife into your stomach

You sound very angry and frustrated. E be like say women don show you pepper for this life. Take it easy bro.

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by SavageResponse(m): 11:35am On Apr 28, 2021
Graciousnaija:
If she's willing to accept that she's hot tempered and also ready to learn to work on it, give her a chance. Where that is not the case, let her go for your own good and future peaceful living.

There is nothing to work on, the guy should just dump her ASAP!
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by SavageResponse(m): 11:37am On Apr 28, 2021
Wakins:
Sit her down and talk sense into her. And you're gonna have a lot of patience.

Modified
What's so special about this first comment of a thing self?

You people will just be giving nonsense advise.

Will you give this same advise to your own blood brother knowing fully well that this woman has a problem that is irreparable?! angry
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 11:39am On Apr 28, 2021
Sweetshuga:


Well said, I don't know why most people advise lovers to leave their partners because of a fault which isn't their making and by the way, love is all about helping each other overcome their weaknesses and not abandon them to deal with it, if we don't help our partners overcome their flaws then why are we friends and lovers?
It is not every weakness that you ignore. Many men that are labelled wife beaters married women that are temperamental. That is how a man that was known to be gentle will turn out to be a wife beater. OP, avoid her. Go your way, it is not every character flaw that should be ignored.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Ayyubian: 11:40am On Apr 28, 2021
Mad oooooo.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Miles33: 11:49am On Apr 28, 2021
Hot temper or short temper bro you need patience to manage her short comings else sit her down, have a word with her on how to manage her temperament especially make it clear to her that continuing with such attitude will affect the relationship which might call for break up.

However, You could talk to someone she listens to but if that doesn't work brother walk away with your peace of mind intact sefini
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by FORWARDEVERLY: 11:51am On Apr 28, 2021
Marry her like that. I would gladly read your thread when she has poured hot oil on you or stab you..
Ode
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Ugo4hotish(m): 12:04pm On Apr 28, 2021
Wakins:
Sit her down and talk sense into her. And you're gonna have a lot of patience.

Modified
What's so special about this first comment of a thing self?

Don't listen to this modafoker.... If you can't tolerate you ball out
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by gbengaadeleye12: 12:09pm On Apr 28, 2021
My brother be very careful in making your decision
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by IMASTEX: 12:19pm On Apr 28, 2021
Xenry:
"My brother, marry her, she will change after marriage," I think that is what you want to hear from us.Your case will surely reach Front-Page after una marriage, like, "Woman arrested for breaking husband's spinal cord (photos)."
grin grin grin grin Let him be asking useless question there. He himself needs mental evaluation.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Paretomaster1(m): 12:24pm On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

At your own peril bro...... The girl am suppose to marry have the same issue, I just have to let her go, dont do what you will later regret..

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