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Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Obakoolex(m): 11:33am On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021:You should have done that before marrying her or getting her pregnant. And to the unmarried... please if either of your parents is against your marriage, there's big fire in the future if not now. Always try and settle with both parents first to receive there blessing before tying the knot 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by exboyolu: 11:33am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Dear owner of this topic. Considering how you met your wife, she looks a very responsible and caring one. However you have not allowed the way of God to be your guide. You need to get close to God Almighty. Having her sleep in your house the very first day is a sinful habit. I wish you both God's forgiveness. However as things are the pregnancy could be her main problem causing all the erratic behaviors. You have to be patient with her. Lastly, you need some financial help to support her and buy her good food since pregnancy sometimes makes women crave for special foods. I zm willing to help you a little on this in shaa Allaah. Please get accross to me privately or let me know how to contact you. , I have advises for you and your wife plus little financial gift in shaa Allaah. All the best 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:33am On Apr 30, 2021 |
cocolacec:I can't bring her sister cos the parents will not allow that |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by BERNIMOORE: 11:33am On Apr 30, 2021 |
My advice is that you should take advice only from Married persons who are still in relationship... Don't take advice from single men and women who are intolerant First have you ever heard that marriage is home of offence? Hmm Many couple you see out there smilling are enduring theirselves, what often appears to the eyes is not what is playing when they are alone But honestly... what reduces friction most is that YOU MUST have a stable minimum income, have friends that you can run to friends that can also enhance your status before your woman that alone gives her security to some extent and allow you some bragging rights What happened to you My own was worse, I nearly run away from marriage when my wife got pregnant, I can't sleep...she even seize car keys... and I can go out 1:am looking for drugs... But I tell you that when she finally deliver s Every storm came down....Show her love ....but it's not easy for me that time,.I use to get angry at times and our neighbors noticed but they keep begging me Our doctor told me that a particular hormones can cause crisis in some women when they are pregnant.. How you behave that time will earn you more respect If you run away to another woman, how do you also manage her crisis with poverty Your joy will knew no bounds when she delivers and you see your picture replicated So, watch out but then if she doesn't change six months after delivery Please seek assistance Silent prayers when you're alone goes a long way Thanks Wish you a good home back 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:34am On Apr 30, 2021 |
It's obvious you weren't mentally and financially ready for this marital journey. Why did you rush yourself? Please be patient with your wife. It is okay for a girl to behave like that during pregnancy. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by sammyranking(m): 11:34am On Apr 30, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: Please note that not all man will be financially stable before getting married. This life is 69. My views are, the woman saw the man’s financial state before getting married to him. The woman is chameleon the man isn’t to be blame please! |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by sylve11: 11:34am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by honor4me: 11:35am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Prayer and hard work is important here. Thank your God that at least she’s not too physically sick. What she’s having is hormonal changes. You have to understand her. Be extra patient with her and in your little way show her more affections. Maybe she will change after delivery. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by maasoap(m): 11:35am On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021: Yes, partly it is. I don't understand why you still haven't understood that. You need money. femi4: And things are now more expensive than ever! Pinuc: You are right, waiting for a year to harvest yams! It doesn't cut it. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by oyejideogunjumo: 11:35am On Apr 30, 2021 |
It is normal for either or both husband and wife to change after wedding/marriage. Most people pretend during courtship no matter the years. A month only in the marriage is more than ten years of courtship. Also, it is normal for a woman to church during pregnancy. Pregnancy is a foreign body and it affects women differently. Some will behave like baby etc. However human being is bound to change from time to time due to many faces like environment, experience etc. The ability to manage one another is most important to keep the home. If you marry ten ladies they are bound to behave differently. Nobody is perfect. We manage ourselves even at work or public transport or Church or any where. Manage your wife |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:36am On Apr 30, 2021 |
It's pregnancy hormones working here, body go dey bite her up anyhow, sometimes she will break down and cry her heart out for nothing. Remember, it's also her first time, pamper her and see her adjust and please don't expect a pregnant woman to have the same level of strength she had when she wasn't pregnant. My advice: be patient, pay more attention to her, work hard more and pray |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Chicastle: 11:36am On Apr 30, 2021 |
EEe be like movie |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by omoyami: 11:37am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Zabiboy: [b][/b] Mumu. They said toddlers full Nairaland I didn't believe, but now I do. Abeg go home go wash plate. The op need matured minds to advise him. The op is financially down, that is a given. Major thing he need to do is to work on his finance. There has never, according to op's account, been a record of the said wife's misdemeanor before pregnancy. He even confessed she was supportive both in the farm and the home front. When my wife was pregnant, she will eat okra soup this morning. If you want to wash the leftover away, she will said no but keep it for her she will eat it later. Believe me you, the okra will be there till second day when it started growing bacteria, that's when she would request for it. She would eat it with satisfaction. Same thing with akamu. And she is somebody who can't eat leftovers in her normal self o. Things pregnancy does to women, no be here. OP, that's the right way to be a man, real man. You have to be strong for her. Cook. You were eating before you married her. It's just 9months and you have endured 5 already. Don't die on the way like smoke. Except you want to remain single for ever, such things as your wife does will surface from another woman you will marry. As a bonus, expect sleepless night when she put to bed as she may be tired out some nights. So you have to be watchman singing lullabies for your cute bundle of joy all-night long, as newborn babies cry a lot in the night and sleep a lot in the day. At times it take the whole night and it doesn't mean the baby is not healthy. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:37am On Apr 30, 2021 |
exboyolu: Thank you so much for this. I really appreciate. How can I contact you, I will mention you on another thread cos I don't want to drop my number here . thanks again |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Gabe427: 11:38am On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021:ok this got me a wife once couldn't sleep when she was pregnant because her husband breadth wanted to make her vomit... like he slept in the sitting room for weeks until she got better another man had to start cooking by 10am cause his wife would wake up by 2am to eat it sounds absurd but trust me that pregnancy if you could get a relative to help with the cooking oand house chores while you Hussle it would go along way |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by SocialJustice: 11:39am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Poverty na bastard. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Shamolah: 11:39am On Apr 30, 2021 |
������� You are very funny. Where do you want to go? She is still that caring and loving woman that you cherished. It is part of the pregnancy milestone. There are many more to come. Crying over trivial issues, nagging, emotional eating, and many more. Every pregnancy with its style. Bear with her, it will soon end in praise. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by cocolacec(m): 11:40am On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021: Bring your junior sister or a relative to help out till she give birth. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by BlueAir: 11:41am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Mr Man when she bitcches around physically,just give her a thunderous slapband tell her no one is a monopoly of violence. Anyway before I finished reading the story,I already knew it was the pregnancy pushing her.. everything u saw in her before wasn't an imagination,just let her give birth and "heal" physically like they'll always say. Then you'll be able to make decisions without regret udoji2021: |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by friendl: 11:41am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Chairman ,a pregnant woman is always anger and hungry ,cope with it ,learn to ignore her ,she is not a bad woman ,trust me ,they are worst out there ,.....get yourself together ,no woman likes a broke man ,..GOD will bless your union |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by sojfarm: 11:42am On Apr 30, 2021 |
That is one of the ways women short change themselves. Please do not expect her to change oooo. If there is no child yet and you feel you can not cope with her new style. Quit. This is necessary so as not to put your unborn children with a devil called woman. I have experienced a woman that mal-treat her own children just because she is not happy with her husband, the father of her children. For man: 1. his family is important to him except for the irresponsible men 2. he is not wired to stay at home to take care of the children, hence he needs a trusted and reliable wife to do that 3. he need to concentrate and work to provide for the family. But when there is concerns and distraction from the wife, such a man may not make it talkless of being able to take care of the children. Please do not allow anything that will make your children suffer, I beg you please. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by otklass(m): 11:42am On Apr 30, 2021 |
What can I say,
elders in this department, is this what you guys also experience. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by olamilarks(m): 11:43am On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021:in my own opinion you caused the hardships on yourself, broke people shouldn't Marry, and didn't anyone tell you that pregnant woman shouldn't do strenuous work? You can't even afford 10k for treatment how would you raise a child, a very expensive venture! |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by ofiko123(m): 11:43am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Take her to church for deliverance... |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by SEGLIZ: 11:45am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Romanoff: if you return to thread a couple of ladies mucked the man, though I want to call out monikers, it is rather wrong I feel for the pregnant lady not even the husband. I know this some trimester, pregnancy trauma or syndrome thing that should have been simply schooling the guy. even the male on the thread did better. just my observation and opinion though. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Romanoff(f): 11:47am On Apr 30, 2021 |
SEGLIZ: Those women have prolly never been pregnant before. No be everybody wey dey here get sense. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by steno1: 11:47am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Women can be restless and disturbing during pregnancy.And, you made a mistake by getting married unprepared. Just try and endure, things will get better |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by okenwa(m): 11:48am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Poverty and high bills have affected your marriage. The love is there. Your marriage is lacking finance. And she is disappointed in that. The only proof she hates you is when she leave your house 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Jamesz12: 11:48am On Apr 30, 2021 |
OP I think it could be that she is having mood swings which can be caused by pregnancy. And if that be the case then she will return to normal after giving birth Then as for your financial status, just keep on working hard and also pray to God for open doors. I won't advice you to abandon her. No |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Shengfu: 11:48am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Honestly brother. I don’t know what you expected going into a marriage without money and getting her pregnant almost immediately. If you couldn’t pay 10k now. Imagine feeding her and the baby. I think her reaction is probably related to her pregnancy and the realization that you may not have the capacity to provide for her and her kid. Keep praying and double your hustle. The honest way out is to look for something to do that will bring in secure income. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 30, 2021 |
udoji2021:1. U Aren't Dat Financially Bouyant. 2. U Married A Deficeit. 3. She Is Jobless. Bro, What Do U Expect? U Got Married To A.P.C Dat's Why U Are Experiencing Change. |
Re: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by emonis88: 11:49am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Women tend to do rash things when they r pregnant, hormones or something, just bear with her when she delivers she il calm down just be prepared for d baby n its up keep. |
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