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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by rahman3853(m): 11:35pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
Change your mindset. Not all Nigerian ladies dating white guys use them to get a visa. Travelling overseas is not a problem for me, I don't need a white guy to travel out of the country. I can travel at ease, I have been travelling since I was little.
if u like let overseas be ur backyard, I said two things, are u then greedy? Or that word so touched ur sore. See woman, if u so cherish ur virginity which I assume u do, then follow ur instincts. When that cherry is popped what makes u think ur romeo won't look for the next innocent African girl to exploit, if he loves u then he must respect u. Better a broken relationship than broken marriage

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobleou(m): 11:36pm On Apr 30, 2021
Sister try out doggy & u wil kw wot u ve been missin. U can tnk me later

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Jefferic(m): 11:38pm On Apr 30, 2021
Afolashade00:



Hope I'm not too late to answer this question.
What I did was to stay away from relationship. I got tired of breaking up for the same reason, I was tired of hurting so I stayed away from relationship.
I understand you perfectly well, like if you dont date,how will you get to know him and all. You have to choose.
I don't joke with my job, I'm a hardworker because I have got me and me alone.
I take myself out, breath and smile more. I chose this path to keep myself, I have been called a fool several times because of several opportunities and all but I choose not to regret it no matter what .
I haven't met a man who understands why I want to keep myself but till then I do what makes me happy.
Shalom!

My dear, search no more. You have finally meet you searching bus top. How old are you? I can date you even for 10 years without sex till marriage and I will not cheat on you.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by smallsmall: 11:39pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
Corrupt you? Hahaha. Now, I'm less holy. We used to tell those white girls, once you go black, you can never go white. They all nod in affirmation.

I used to be bad when I was a little boy. But right now, I am not. Taking responsibilities have really changed us.

Thank God for you! Please maintain that lane.
I was not bad until my old age but now that l am much, much younger, na me holy pass sef.
I wonder if l will ever bring myself around to give a white girl, Mouth Action?
Maybe in another life, Ijebu ladies and their giant, flailing libia lips,got me hooked.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Lagoon0: 11:41pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rocktation:


There are girls that actually date without asking for money. Change the circle you roll with.
Story! Stop asking guys to look do pin in desert undecided


When my crush left me. I just gada myself because I tolerate nonsense.

Ladies don't want sex initially including guys
But rich guys flash them with money and they open leg.

My issue is when I wish to 4give and want us to come back 2geda but sex dis time she want to form nonsense.

One thing I know in this life no woman will push me because of money.
I'm contented in my small way.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by 2mNaira: 11:41pm On Apr 30, 2021
donbachi:
And why,will u date a guy and expect him not to ask for sex...na ur blood brother?pls,grow up.

How on Earth did you who believe sex is a sin end up with someone who wants mouth action. I'm sorry, I don't think you are good in making good choices when it comes to men. The fact that you keep choosing men who wants to sleep with you is a pointer to that fact. Stop your wrong choices. To get the kind of man you want get born again and join a living church. Is short change your circle.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by obinna4Jesus(m): 11:41pm On Apr 30, 2021
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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Mummyfour(f): 11:41pm On Apr 30, 2021
DICKstractor:
undecided



In this current generation, the only person you can date, ask for money without wanting anything in return is your father, brothers and me!!

Rare gems like me are few.
with this your moniker cool, I doubt this your rare gem story.
Make she trust you at her own peril grin
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Neviim: 11:43pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
There was a reason why you chose to be celibate. Who cares what your boyfriend or the society thinks. Stick to your conviction and see what God will birth through you.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by WowSweetGuy(m): 11:43pm On Apr 30, 2021
Coz na ur body in my slaughter room i dey reason as u det toast u

And thats what Ladies have to offer
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by segun18(m): 11:43pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

My young lady pls just walk.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by emmyN(m): 11:43pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

Oh, what a pity. Please consult with TheOnlyUyai ASAP, she is a serial virgin cheesy
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 11:44pm On Apr 30, 2021
Jefferic:


My dear, search no more. You have finally meet you searching bus top. How old are you? I can date you even for 10 years without sex till marriage and I will not cheat on you.
You're a wussy grin
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by drlateef: 11:44pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm financially independent



Then you should not be dating men when you are not ready for marriage and sex. Otherwise date a homosexual man.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by CALCULUS16: 11:44pm On Apr 30, 2021
Its because there is no true love anymore, men use their 'mushroom' to control their heart, if anyone ask u for sex before marriage, such a person does not love you, if u marry such a person dont expect fidelity, na someone like that dey cheat pass. You too, u no see nigerian man, na one oyinbo u dey date, u no know say oyinbo like s+x like goats, while some nigeria men like s+x like dog, you can see only 2 percent guys (i am among this percent) in the world that see sex within marriage as the best. To me, sex is not a show of love, its an index to lust. Anybody that cannt make ur priority their priority does not love you.. Such a person loves what is inbetween ur leg not you

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Afolashade00(f): 11:45pm On Apr 30, 2021
Jefferic:


My dear, search no more. You have finally meet you searching bus top. How old are you? I can date you even for 10 years without sex till marriage and I will not cheat on you.



Smile! This seems like a sarcasm to me.
I can't date for 10 years, lol

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 11:45pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
Do not have sex with him. Only God makes promises and Fulfils it. The devil will use this promise he made to you against you and chances are, he’ll dump you and shatter your heart.


Don’t be foolish, God standards remain the same.


I’m glad I waited till my wedding night, God answered my prayers and I’m sure He will answer yours too just OBEY Him.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:46pm On Apr 30, 2021
smallsmall:


You mean John has been Heading the Ball, all this while she was claiming Virgin? shocked shocked
Well, technically, that is a FOUL. angry angry
I hereby award Penalty against the home team grin grin
grin grin
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 11:46pm On Apr 30, 2021
Afolashade00:




Smile! This seems like a sarcasm to me.
I can't date for 10 years, lol
That guy is a wussy. grin

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by tradepunter: 11:46pm On Apr 30, 2021
Foolish thread, what's your own will always be your own with or without sex..

Live the life with sense if it's too much as him asking, go your way while he goes his way.

Sex have many effect depending on how you mind is tuned...

I have seen many couple in sexual relationship that translates to marriage

I have also seen sexual relationship that didn't translate to marriage

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Jefferic(m): 11:47pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
You can date without sex? Shut up! Don't be a wussy. What if you discover at last that the woman you're dating aren't a virgin, what are you gonna do?

Honestly it will break my heart. Any girl that does that will know that her marriage has just started on a wrong foot.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Tomisin666(m): 11:47pm On Apr 30, 2021
KidDarkness:
Do as I do, do as I do, do as I do eh.
Do as I do, do as I do, do as I do eh.
As I dey do, you dey do.
As I dey move, you dey move.
Do as I do, do as I do, do as I do eh.

Na the thing you dey do dey make am wan pop rosey
Ahh won no ur weed dealer today cool
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by tempem: 11:51pm On Apr 30, 2021
INCREDIBLE007:
stick to your status quo

don't yield to to pressure

virginity might have been rubbished under various guise in today's world but GOD honours it
sex is meant for marriage

Blessings..��❤️

It's just sickening reading some comments here.. Chai!

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by WriterX(m): 11:51pm On Apr 30, 2021
hmm

Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Jefferic(m): 11:52pm On Apr 30, 2021
Afolashade00:




Smile! This seems like a sarcasm to me.
I can't date for 10 years, lol

Honestly I'm serious. The 10 years I'm saying is worst case cinerio. I strongly belong to the sch of thought that sex b4 marriage is a sin. That's just it.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by kense88: 11:53pm On Apr 30, 2021
pocohantas:


And how does that affect you? Did you come to this earth with any vagina in your palm? Why do you lots feel so entitled to one and what enters it?

No wonder Nigeria isn’t going forward, the kinda thing our men be obsessed with in 2021 is a pointer. Pffftt
Well, if she doesn't want anyones input, she shouldn't have brought this matter to a public forum. What i stated is what i have witnessed first hand and please am not obsessed with sex related topics. Am very productive and this is where i unwind. You might have mistaken me for one of your online friends ok.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by PHijo(m): 11:53pm On Apr 30, 2021
.....because most Nigerian women can't date without financial demands.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by GboyegaD(m): 11:54pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Just be patient, the right man will come. Many older than you married as virgins. Don't follow all those trying to pull you down as they are the ones quick to condemn ladies who choose to follow their advice.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by calcal: 11:57pm On Apr 30, 2021
From my past record any girl I date, I bleep the first day. it is normal, later you will have a good memory of it.

Sex is good, try it.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

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