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Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by chatinent: 3:51pm On Apr 30, 2021
Emu4u2c:


When you go to hangout spot or you meet at a public place.
Oh
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by LikeAking: 7:27pm On Apr 30, 2021
folabayo:
Yours is good nah.
My own friends then will keep discouraging me not to date those guys asking me out then were as,this same babes will carry their body to d same dudes they were badmouthing.
They will b like babe this guy too huge for you, the guy is arrogant and proud,he carries fair ladies, he can b in his car 4 hours without putting of his A.c, bla bla bla bla...later i go hear say my friend don de date d same guy.
They were quite older than i then, and i was naive so i do follow their adv then.

Even girls do this shit?

Wow na normal jealous friends things.
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by LikeAking: 7:31pm On Apr 30, 2021
Emu4u2c:
Hello Everyone.

This is my first ever topic on this session.


I'm a bit confused on something I need clarification on.

I used to belong to these group of friends but I noticed a full blown betrayal spirit among them.


Anytime I bring a lady around them with the intention of dating ,they always try to woo the lady so they can sleep with the lady.


They have tried it with different of the girls I bring around.
Most of the girls fall for them and I have to end the relationship with the girl while I continue friendship with my friends

Two of the girls reject them outrightly while warning me against the type of friends they are.

On 2 occasions I have had to blow up with my so called friends on why they keep betraying me but they claim the girls are trying to manipulate me .


This is the tactics they use:They spoil my image before the girls ,some of the girls end up leaving me for them but they don't keep the girls after having their way.

Now I don't bring girls around them, they have changed the narrative about me not having a girlfriend but I know better than to bring my girls around betrayals.


But why are some guys like that

Forget questions.

What you will do is to bang their own GF's and sis, even mums.

All this their nonsense go stop.
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by efficiencie(m): 7:43pm On Apr 30, 2021
@Emu4u2c I want to humble submit to you in all honesty and respect that you are a fool...you are literally hanging around those who can kill you for a cup of water and you are still returning to them...
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 7:52pm On Apr 30, 2021
Yes ooo, but na one of those stuff pain me pass,
Cus d dude was so...caring,too good.
Like twice they ask me to call him to come and take us out. Meself go call, within few minutes he don drive come, he will take d 3 of us out(mind you what i can't even request for, they will and also order for takeway).
Most of d stuff we do discuss(I mean d dude and i)I go carry am go tell my friends.

I guess they were surprised that the he was this good to me cus there was nothing between us( nothing like sex or romance).
That was How, one of them started texting him on watsapp, cus at times i make use of her phone to call him

And they hv really made him hate him,dat was me too block him, then he will call my friend to giv me d phone, she won't and she never told.
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 8:12pm On Apr 30, 2021
folabayo:
Yes ooo, but na one of those stuff pain me pass,
Cus d dude was so...caring,too good.
Like twice they ask me to call him to come and take us out. Meself go call, within few minutes he don drive come, he will take d 3 of us out(mind you what i can't even request for, they will and also order for takeway).
Most of d stuff we do discuss(I mean d dude and i)I go carry am go tell my friends.

I guess they were surprised that the he was this good to me cus there was nothing between us( nothing like sex or romance).
That was How, one of them started texting him on watsapp, cus at times i make use of her phone to call him

And they hv really made him hate him,dat was me too block him, then he will call my friend to giv me d phone, she won't and she never told.

Well........that has always being the fate of a good guy mostly...........but those girls do also get to regret at the end too...........

I have two girls on my neck now...........when I was everything to dem back then..........they thought they were smart and I was dull.........

But now.........that had do anything to have my attention but '' my mind no dey again joor''.........
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 8:16pm On Apr 30, 2021
Lol..., na as ooo
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by qtguru(m): 8:41pm On Apr 30, 2021
Emu4u2c:
Hello Everyone.

This is my first ever topic on this session.


I'm a bit confused on something I need clarification on.

I used to belong to these group of friends but I noticed a full blown betrayal spirit among them.


Anytime I bring a lady around them with the intention of dating ,they always try to woo the lady so they can sleep with the lady.


They have tried it with different of the girls I bring around.
Most of the girls fall for them and I have to end the relationship with the girl while I continue friendship with my friends

Two of the girls reject them outrightly while warning me against the type of friends they are.

On 2 occasions I have had to blow up with my so called friends on why they keep betraying me but they claim the girls are trying to manipulate me .


This is the tactics they use:They spoil my image before the girls ,some of the girls end up leaving me for them but they don't keep the girls after having their way.

Now I don't bring girls around them, they have changed the narrative about me not having a girlfriend but I know better than to bring my girls around betrayals.


But why are some guys like that

You are the sucker, I don't put snakes in my circle. It's women that do that, As a man and being a friend, if you cannot uphold integrity and have some ethics, then we can never hang.

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Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by MrMcJay(m): 8:49pm On Apr 30, 2021
folabayo:
Yes ooo, but na one of those stuff pain me pass,
Cus d dude was so...caring,too good.
Like twice they ask me to call him to come and take us out. Meself go call, within few minutes he don drive come, he will take d 3 of us out(mind you what i can't even request for, they will and also order for takeway).
Most of d stuff we do discuss(I mean d dude and i)I go carry am go tell my friends.

I guess they were surprised that the he was this good to me cus there was nothing between us( nothing like sex or romance).
That was How, one of them started texting him on watsapp, cus at times i make use of her phone to call him

And they hv really made him hate him,dat was me too block him, then he will call my friend to giv me d phone, she won't and she never told.

You were quite younger then, I guess. The good thing to learn is that when you have things going on smoothly for you, learn to keep it to yourself. You don't owe anyone stories of your enjoyment and you don't know who is happy with you.
It is even good they didn't hurt you physically before you found out.

Back then in Uni, I had supposed friends of my then girlfriend, go ahead to mislead her to put up nasty attitudes, only for them to turn around and be trying get me to date them. Like 3 that I know.
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by qtguru(m): 8:53pm On Apr 30, 2021
I had a friend bad mouth me to a babe, the moment i found out, I cut him off, I do not know how to pretend I grew up with old men and street boys, for you to be my friend it is impossible for you to go against me like that and once you do, you don pick side be that.

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Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 9:01pm On Apr 30, 2021
Yep, i was 19 then( 300l) one of them 24 d other one 23.
They were quite expose than i, and i was this naive and shy type. They were actually the once dat expose me to life cheesy
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Modupeoluwa123(f): 9:15pm On Apr 30, 2021
You definitely know your so called friends are not good for you. If they can tarnish your image because of some random girls, do you think they won’t do worse things than that if opportunities are involved?.
Be careful with people like that, they can never be genuinely happy for you.
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Ishilove: 10:19pm On Apr 30, 2021
Shabaleen:
baba 4 the girls!!! you o, ur friends o, ur girlfriends o, all of una dey craze!
I swear. Na small pikin dey worry all of them
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 10:41pm On Apr 30, 2021
folabayo:
Lol..., na as ooo

Oh!!sorry bout his demise.....
He must have been everything to u............such that u had to eulogised him in yo sig.......

Well.........who knows he might also be in a better place watching proudly over his baby girl u know?? cheesy
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 10:42pm On Apr 30, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:


Oh!!!
Yo dad must have been everything to u............such that u had to eulogised him that.......

Well.........who knows he might also be in a better place watching proudly over his baby girl u know cheesy

Yes ooo, i love that man die..., i seriously wish i can bring him bck
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by MrMcJay(m): 10:50pm On Apr 30, 2021
folabayo:
Yep, i was 19 then( 300l) one of them 24 d other one 23.
They were quite expose than i, and i was this naive and shy type. They were actually the once dat expose me to life cheesy

Hahahaha. They really exposed you to life. Life inside life, eg, betrayal.
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 10:52pm On Apr 30, 2021
folabayo:


Yes ooo, i love that man die..., i seriously wish i can bring him bck

Sucks.....
Chai!!!
See life Ooo.......I'd rather/gladly pick my number enemy over my dad anytime anyday.........
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 10:52pm On Apr 30, 2021
MrMcJay:


Hahahaha. They really exposed you to life. Life inside life, eg, betrayal.
You can say that again
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 10:54pm On Apr 30, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:


Sucks.....
Chai!!!
See life Ooo.......I'd rather pick my number enemy over my dad anytime anyday.........

Smiles..., i guess d life is not balance after all.
Am lucky then
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 11:05pm On Apr 30, 2021
folabayo:


Smiles..., i guess d life is not balance after all.
Am lucky then

U really luck Ooo........

Never benefited anything from my own father Ooo........not even fatherly advises.........

Probably jux the sperm that formed me only........


Such an insequential dad!!!!but then I keep an inner oath to be the best dad for/to my kids sha
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by cybriz82(m): 7:52am On May 01, 2021
U shud be thanksful to them.they are ur guardian angels, who knw by now u for dn sleep with one with a wicked disease but ur frnds help u collect am.and beside u are d bad company spoiling those good kids by bringing women.
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 10:07am On May 01, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:


U really luck Ooo........

Never benefited anything from my own father Ooo........not even fatherly advises.........

Probably jux the sperm that formed me only........


Such an insequential dad!!!!but then I keep an inner oath to be the best dad for/to my kids sha

Better..., just always find time for ur kids.
My dad was always around for us. Except in some instances where they will transfer him to north or outside mission ( he was a soldier).
Even when my mum went 4 her degree in another state. We never lacked anything, he takes me and my elder bro to office, cus we were small.
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Mrscarter(f): 1:23pm On May 01, 2021
Emu4u2c:
Hello Everyone.

This is my first ever topic on this session.


I'm a bit confused on something I need clarification on.

I used to belong to these group of friends but I noticed a full blown betrayal spirit among them.


Anytime I bring a lady around them with the intention of dating ,they always try to woo the lady so they can sleep with the lady.


They have tried it with different of the girls I bring around.
Most of the girls fall for them and I have to end the relationship with the girl while I continue friendship with my friends

Two of the girls reject them outrightly while warning me against the type of friends they are.

On 2 occasions I have had to blow up with my so called friends on why they keep betraying me but they claim the girls are trying to manipulate me .


This is the tactics they use:They spoil my image before the girls ,some of the girls end up leaving me for them but they don't keep the girls after having their way.

Now I don't bring girls around them, they have changed the narrative about me not having a girlfriend but I know better than to bring my girls around betrayals.


But why are some guys like that

I think u should consider finding better friends amd dating better women
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 8:54pm On May 01, 2021
folabayo:


Better..., just always find time for ur kids.
My dad was always around for us. Except in some instances where they will transfer him to north or outside mission ( he was a soldier).
Even when my mum went 4 her degree in another state. We never lacked anything, he takes me and my elder bro to office, cus we were small.

Now........I know why u will forever miss him.......
Met a lot of soldier who weren't really dat friendly to their family esp the kids............always barking with harsh tone command everytime for every lil thing done wrong.............
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 9:01pm On May 01, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:


Now........I know why u will forever miss him.......
Met a lot of soldier who weren't really dat friendly to their family esp the kids............always barking with harsh tone command everytime for every lil thing done wrong.............
The only time I saw him mad was when he saw a guy talking to my elder sis.
Funny incident cheesy
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 9:37pm On May 01, 2021
folabayo:

The only time I saw him mad was when he saw a guy talking to my elder sis.
Funny incident cheesy


Hahahaha.........
Hope he didn't end up slapping the toastee(yo sis) and the toaster(the guy)?? cheesy

Once got.........locked up in the guardroom for hours by a military man for dating her daughter......
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 9:40pm On May 01, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:



Hahahaha.........
Hope he didn't end up slapping the toastee(yo sis) and the toaster(the guy)?? cheesy

Once got.........locked up in the guardroom for hours by a military for dating her daughter......
Hahahaha, the bross do frog jump small, thank God my mum was around, she had to plead for the bross
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 9:55pm On May 01, 2021
folabayo:

Hahahaha, the bross do frog jump small, thank God my mum was around, she had to plead for the bross

Hahahaha.........

Why r do soldiers overprotect their female kids sef

Lol........not asif the female kids won't still sneak out to be/canoodle with their boyfriends Ooo........
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 9:59pm On May 01, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:


Hahahaha.........

Why r do soldiers overprotect their female kids sef

Lol........not asif the female kids won't still sneak out to be/canoodle with their boyfriends Ooo........
Lol..., but if my elder bros bring ladies home, you will see how happy he is grin
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 10:04pm On May 01, 2021
folabayo:

Lol..., but if my elder bros bring ladies home, you will see how happy he is grin

Chai!!!!
He must have been Casanova himself........ cheesy cheesy
Guess he never trained yo brother to be a heartbreaker lol.......
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by folabayo(f): 10:11pm On May 01, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:


Chai!!!!
He must have been Casanova himself........ cheesy cheesy
Guess he never trained yo brother to be a heartbreaker lol.......
You can say dat again cheesy
Re: My So Called Friends Always Betraying Me by Bigdik70inch2(m): 10:07am On May 02, 2021
folabayo:

You can say dat again cheesy

Fola babe........aka OMO BABA SOJA.......
How is u?? cheesy

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