fatymore:



Oni problem

come make I show you something inside my bedroom

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

u better use thick penis to clear the double decades of Cobwebs around your Pussy

Do that, and thank me later

Freelancer2020:


Amen sir, that is the bitter truth, you see that nobody has been able to give an answer

they want true love but at the same time, they believe they have to earn simply because they're dating you, just as if they are selling love

they never ready

Even some ladies when you tell them that you are no longer interested in the relationship they will start shouting after what i did for him he dumped me, can you imagine.

Rocktation:


Thanks, but I'll pass. Probably because I've been interviewed a couple of times in the past already and don't want to constantly update my story here or have people memorize it.

Answering the same questions isn't bad.

I'm curious that you're quite disturbed by your dilemma to the point of being depressed. Ordinarily, I wouldn't expect such a situation as yours to make you depressed except it involves some serious measure of helplessness over a certain aspect of the whole case. This warrants some questions: Are you truly a virgin in the most complete undiluted sense of the word? If yes, is your being one a result of your own deliberate, fully considered choice? What's your taste in men? All these questions have wide ramifications. For instance, consider the last question: it's a recipe for sure psychic agony if you're indeed an absolute virgin but you find yourself desiring men with such physical and Personality profile that cannot endure the least abstinence from sex. I could go on and on, but this is definitely not the place for such analysis.

Here's my email: sammyati25@gmail.com.

Bye bye

Why can't girls date without requesting for money?

When ladies learn not to ask for money, then will guys stop asking for sex

You shouldn’t be in a relationship if you don’t want to have sex . A guy will keep spending on you and you want to give nothing in return . Nonsense

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

I'm available. . It's my priority

Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

break up.......you both value different things.....

Rocktation:
There are such men out there. I've known some. The big BUT is that they could secretly be cheating with someone else behind your back (not necessarily all would be like this, mind you...I always give benefits of doubt), especially the ones that see sex as snacks and if the relationship is long-term. But outside that, they'd do right by you and may really give up their wild ways, when it's time to wife you. So on your part, best be prepared mentally, 'cos you could be bound to notice certain shadiness and may need to start mastering the art of turning a blind eye.

Again, don't expect such a man to just let you be. He will keep asking and trying to get you to change your mind, touch you even, but that shouldn't warrant a breakup, unless you suspect he might use force somewhere down the line.

Incidentally, that kind of man may as well be the man you are with, right NOW.

I have always wondered if that is cheating. Being in a relationship that one is being denied sex, bit gets it elsewhere.

In the real sense, sex isn't part of the deal in the first place.

If she doesn't want to have sex with him and doesn't want him to have sex with someone else, then that is selfishness. She should break up

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

With God on ur side, d right man ll respect ur decision n stick with u. Don't relent, just v faith in God, He ll do it.

JONSYN7154:
Why can't ladies date without asking for money??

she said she is financially independent. As odd as it may sound, a lot of women are

Why be say Nigerian women dey always get Mumu problem.

benpuzzy:
Even some ladies when you tell them that you are no longer interested in the relationship they will start shouting after what i did for him he dumped me, can you imagine.

����LOL, if you see how I'm laughing presently, you talk as if you know what is happening to one of my friends now

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

The same reason why you can't date without asking for money.

Most ladies are not trustworthy. Most of them are technical virgins. The story that touched during wedding night is another thing entirely despite telling you no sex till wedding night. And she will keep the secret until wedding night. May God help all the guys.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

You are a virgin

And you have been breaking up with guys because they want sex.

What kind of guys are you dating anyway?

Are you collecting from them

Mbataku96:
This one easy, dating was designed to serve as an excuse to have sex

So was marriage

You don't understand, the highest I can do is try to look for other means to make my relationship work because
I would rather be unmarried for rest of life than commit fornication, I even prefer that God takes my life than for me to commit fornication. Compatible is very important in a relationship, I can't date a guy just because he has agreed to wait till my wedding night

Tiasma:
I'm curious that you're quite disturbed by your dilemma to the point of being depressed. Ordinarily, I wouldn't expect such a situation as yours to make you depressed except it involves some serious measure of helplessness over a certain aspect of the whole case. This warrants some questions: Are you truly a virgin in the most complete undiluted sense of the word? If yes, is your being one a result of your own deliberate, fully considered choice? What's your taste in men? All these questions have wide ramifications. For instance, consider the last question: it's a recipe for sure psychic agony if you're indeed an absolute virgin but you find yourself desiring men with such physical and Personality profile that cannot endure the least abstinence from sex. I could go on and on, but this is definitely not the place for such analysis.

Here's my email: sammyati25@gmail.com.

bigpicture001:


A lady can only be committed to a man if she is Fvcked... That's the only thing that opens her heart...

Without it, the guy MUST be dumped by the lady nomata how nice or good the guy is...

Sh will always evaluate, and see sh got nothing lost at any slight quarrel and leave.... A lot of guys are ready to go down that lane with ladies... But the psychological effect on ladies will never make them stay... U must surely be dumped by such ladies

I think you're right in a way even though I personally can't leave/dump a girl because I've had her as my conscience won't let me. My first ever real date whom I deflowered and still loved & wanted to marry,cheated on me eventually and that ruined everything and no one felt dumped

Unitedabby:
I think you're right in a way even though I personally can't leave/dump a girl because I've had her as my conscience won't let me. My first ever real date whom I deflowered and still loved & wanted to marry,cheated on me eventually and that ruined everything and no one felt dumped

U don't understand...i mean a lady who is a virgin... Must dump the guy ah is dating even if he sacrifices everything in this world for her.. So leg as he didn't sleep with her in the process...

It's not that she wants to dump the guy.... But a woman's full commitment come full blown ONLY when she is laid..... Hence sh would feel not ah lost nothing if she leaves at the slightest provocation

unmask:
I have always wondered if that is cheating. Being in a relationship that one is being denied sex, bit gets it elsewhere.

In the real sense, sex isn't part of the deal in the first place.

If she doesn't want to have sex with him and doesn't want him to have sex with someone else, then that is selfishness. She should break up

Lol. Well, it's cheating because one partner would be having physical and emotional intimacies beyond their relationship, unless of cos, such a thing was negotiated and agreed upon mutually, with respect to the needs of both partners. One person is going out, while the other is doing what they are within the relationship. So you can't accuse them of cheating with themself.

Sex anyways, is no surefire way to keep a romantic relationship healthy. It is only often equated with intimacy, but is certainly not the only way to be intimate with someone. Cuddling, kissing, massages and other kinds of affectionate touch, are great nonsexual ways to be intimate. Beyond sex, emotional intimacy like honest, vulnerable conversations — can also be important to many people, when it comes to relationships.

What’s really important is that you find a partner who understands your needs and desires, no matter what they are.

rosy1992:

Your kind is rare

sadly true, but ought not to be so. The world has got things messed up. However, there are a lot of guys out there that are clean; just that immorality is loud and gets a lot of media hype so the temptation to think it is everywhere and all are doing it is there.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Why dating and not courting?

Sex and Co-habiting are an essential part of dating. Dating is actually having more than one opposite sex to determine the best in terms of... everything.

Courtship is having one and only one opposite sex with the view of getting to know each and compatibility to marriage. Both work hard and with strong mindset of getting married. Most, like over 90% of courtship end in marriage but reverse is the case for dating as you will either pick one out of many or pick none.

bigpicture001:


U don't understand...i mean a lady who is a virgin... Must dump the guy ah is dating even if he sacrifices everything in this world for her.. So leg as he didn't sleep with her in the process...

It's not that she wants to dump the guy.... But a woman's full commitment come full blown ONLY when she is laid..... Hence sh would feel not ah lost nothing if she leaves at the slightest provocation

True that! haha

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Maybe if u dont want to lose your virginity theres other sexy things u can do with each other if u get?

Mrscarter:


Maybe if u dont want to lose your virginity theres other sexy things u can do with each other if u get?

Sexy things indeed!!

You want to cook food without tasting it. That's the height of self deception.

Smh

excel001:

So if she is interested you will link her up? Meaning the guys in question are singles. Are you sure they have the money to fund their temptation

Let him give it a try...

IYANGBALI:
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Salaro Werey

Alafishe

donbachi:
And why,will u date a guy and expect him not to ask for sex...na ur blood brother?pls,grow up.

God have mercy on you and those who liked your post. You will still be among the same set of people that will say in future her past disgusts you, she is a loosed lady. She has slept with so and so number of men.

That aside. the right person will find you. keep holding on to what you believe in. He's not the right person for you if he won't comply.