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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by falcon01: 2:09am On May 03, 2021
luminouz:
Oya waya my aza, big daddy!!! wink
uwaka cheesy

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by averageguy(m): 2:48am On May 03, 2021
Tajbol4splend:
For a man, that shit is not easy, it takes summoning courage

I disagree with this slightly since I think it's more important just for the man to be secure in who he is so that he doesn't frustrate another man's daughter.

For a man who is secure, he is truly happy when his wife continues to do great things and make even more money because he realizes that he is hardworking and comfortable by himself, and his worth in the relationship goes far beyond just the money he brings in. They both support each other and motivate each other to be better people in multiple areas of life.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Tajbol4splend(m): 6:39am On May 03, 2021
averageguy:


I disagree with this slightly since I think it's more important just for the man to be secure in who he is so that he doesn't frustrate another man's daughter.

For a man who is secure, he is truly happy when his wife continues to do great things and make even more money because he realizes that he is hardworking and comfortable by himself, and his worth in the relationship goes far beyond just the money he brings in. They both support each other and motivate each other to be better people in multiple areas of life.


Talk is cheap

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by IlufoyeOlamife(m): 9:06am On May 03, 2021
NnamdiN:
Medical doctor
Me : Corper shun grin
Truly loved me, was 2 years older
But I knew it wasn't gonna last, coz buhari was dealing with us then and life after service was highly uncertain.
She's happily married now with 2 healthy kids and living very very very very well.

Meanwhile buhari still has 2 years to finish me kpatakpa .


hahahahah......u no serious

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by McStoic(m): 11:38am On May 03, 2021
falcon01:
I dated a girl whose father was a very wealthy man, we broke after 3 month. It's not that she is materialistic ooh but it's that the way I view 10k is different from how she sees it, she'll call me and be like if you are coming please come with soso chocolate cause she thinks I can afford it and that chocolate is like 8k to her it's just a small something but to me that's a lot or maybe she'll be like she has run out of airtime and the lowest I can send is 3k so I decided to call it off before I embarrass myself.

Did she really love you? I think not. Seems you didn't have game (aura, humour, intelligence, street smart etc). Cos this is supposed to be the other way round if you knew how to be in control. A woman may come from a wealthy family but you should have other advantages over her.

That way, you will call the shots especially if you are good with your mouth (bad mouth, teasing and doings.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by falcon01: 12:10pm On May 03, 2021
McStoic:


Did she really love you? I think not. Seems you didn't have game (aura, humour, intelligence, street smart etc). Cos this is supposed to be the other way round if you knew how to be in control. A woman may come from a wealthy family but you should have other advantages over her.

That way, you will call the shots especially if you are good with your mouth (bad mouth, teasing and doings.
lols... sire those features are what Attracted her to me I ain't got that much then and I literally have gotten more money from her than than I've ever spend, but my point is the emergency help she ask from me which she sees as nothing is too big for me. you can tell your guy "if you dey come buy sugar cane for me" but her own no be sugar cane. plus I can't Pay back the favour she does to me and that's embarrassing.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by dave4rella(m): 12:32pm On May 03, 2021
BKsoul:
How many of her son did she name after you? And i hope you know that anyday your wife finds out that you named her daughter after an ex, is the day peace and love will leave your marriage? Think twice bro.

You're right bro, but she's quite understanding and knows everything

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by dave4rella(m): 12:40pm On May 03, 2021
McStoic:


Did she really love you? I think not. Seems you didn't have game (aura, humour, intelligence, street smart etc). Cos this is supposed to be the other way round if you knew how to be in control. A woman may come from a wealthy family but you should have other advantages over her.

That way, you will call the shots especially if you are good with your mouth (bad mouth, teasing and doings.
For me to get her to be in a relationship with me in the first place should tell you that my game is tight..
I had the choice to hold her down, but as a man, I wouldn't want to be looked down on by her family members, so I had to respect myself and hustle harder

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by pelenaija(m): 12:51pm On May 03, 2021
yes but she little crazy sometime thou embarassedyes but she little crazy sometime thou
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by GeneralPula: 1:11pm On May 03, 2021
falcon01:
I dated a girl whose father was a very wealthy man, we broke after 3 month. It's not that she is materialistic ooh but it's that the way I view 10k is different from how she sees it, she'll call me and be like if you are coming please come with soso chocolate cause she thinks I can afford it and that chocolate is like 8k to her it's just a small something but to me that's a lot or maybe she'll be like she has run out of airtime and the lowest I can send is 3k so I decided to call it off before I embarrass myself.

Lol..

You could have simply let her understand your pocket size nah..
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by kriss27(m): 1:12pm On May 03, 2021
MikaelDare:
Have You ever been in a relationship with someone whose status is above yours financially, socially or in terms of age(age especially for the males).
How did it go?
Did you later get married?
Kindly share experiences.
Please what does socially mean in this context?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by KingKingKing: 1:13pm On May 03, 2021
No girl has commented so far, cuz they have always been of lower status in their relationships.

Some of them looking for who to rip off.

Guys stay woke!

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by aghoghochuks: 1:14pm On May 03, 2021
This question should be for the guys only... because women will never date someone that's below their status

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by erai30(m): 1:14pm On May 03, 2021
If I have the opportunity na to just give her Belle and prepare for the consequences grin

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by GeneralPula: 1:14pm On May 03, 2021
Yeah..

When I still dey school, I met this rich lady on mobofree. The lady spoilt me with both sex and money. if she touch down for ma school then, every gooddamnn bills are on her. She was always moving with cash in her bag 300k, 400k

She took a very good care of me then damn!! I never commot school but she don already plan my life after school for me - (a good job). I was really getting along with her until she wanted me to give her belle!

Ahh, belle bawo! Na wetin cause kasala between us be that..

She now lives in Uk ... for say I give her belle then, my first born go don be 8-9years now!

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by owobokiri(m): 1:15pm On May 03, 2021
NnamdiN:
Medical doctor
Me : Corper shun grin
Truly loved me, was 2 years older
But I knew it wasn't gonna last, coz buhari was dealing with us then and life after service was highly uncertain.
She's happily married now with 2 healthy kids and living very very very very well.

Meanwhile buhari still has 2 years to finish me kpatakpa .

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by kingemaker(m): 1:15pm On May 03, 2021
No nairaland lady has responded/ commented grin

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Gkay1(m): 1:15pm On May 03, 2021
yes, but we didn't marry because of her eagerness to settle down maritally then. so I walked away and she settled with another guy. now I named my first daughter after her. she is very nice, intelligent, beautiful and very sharp lady.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Bedrooomsecret: 1:16pm On May 03, 2021
I was still a jambite then.
Bros was always ashamed to introduce me to his people and friends grin.
I was too shy to even call him by his name then.
I referred to him then as Brother ......
The age difference was like 15 years..
Last last, bros married a working class girl and left jambite

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Sirmuel1(m): 1:17pm On May 03, 2021
I don't date People below me. They will slow down my progress

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Nobody: 1:17pm On May 03, 2021
I am dating Nnamdi Kanu's daughter... how big is datgrin

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by tizzdi(m): 1:17pm On May 03, 2021
have always been the wealthy one, from my dad and also influential from my mum’s.
when ladies get close to me, first thing they do is to try and prove to me that they aren’t here cos of my “money” grin money way i no get na my papa get am lol, its quite comical though.
but in all i really did feel they loved me just for who i am though.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Cutehector(m): 1:17pm On May 03, 2021
No. My sanity will not allow me to.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by whytediamond(m): 1:19pm On May 03, 2021
falcon01:
I dated a girl whose father was a very wealthy man, we broke after 3 month. It's not that she is materialistic ooh but it's that the way I view 10k is different from how she sees it, she'll call me and be like if you are coming please come with soso chocolate cause she thinks I can afford it and that chocolate is like 8k to her it's just a small something but to me that's a lot or maybe she'll be like she has run out of airtime and the lowest I can send is 3k so I decided to call it off before I embarrass myself.

No be juju be this?

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Kiddogarcia(m): 1:19pm On May 03, 2021
averageguy:


I disagree with this slightly since I think it's more important just for the man to be secure in who he is so that he doesn't frustrate another man's daughter.

For a man who is secure, he is truly happy when his wife continues to do great things and make even more money because he realizes that he is hardworking and comfortable by himself, and his worth in the relationship goes far beyond just the money he brings in. They both support each other and motivate each other to be better people in multiple areas of life.
Talk is very very cheap

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Sirmuel1(m): 1:19pm On May 03, 2021
NnamdiN:
Medical doctor
Me : Corper shun grin
Truly loved me, was 2 years older
But I knew it wasn't gonna last, coz buhari was dealing with us then and life after service was highly uncertain.
She's happily married now with 2 healthy kids and living very very very very well.

Meanwhile buhari still has 2 years to finish me kpatakpa .


grin grin grin grin grin
By the time he's done, we will know the difference between six and half a dozen

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 1:19pm On May 03, 2021
falcon01:
I dated a girl whose father was a very wealthy man, we broke after 3 month. It's not that she is materialistic ooh but it's that the way I view 10k is different from how she sees it, she'll call me and be like if you are coming please come with soso chocolate cause she thinks I can afford it and that chocolate is like 8k to her it's just a small something but to me that's a lot or maybe she'll be like she has run out of airtime and the lowest I can send is 3k so I decided to call it off before I embarrass myself.

Why you no bill her if she go deliver ?
Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Dbarrzx: 1:19pm On May 03, 2021
Life apart... Dated a lady then, when I gained admission into Uni, she felt a huge gap and couldn't measure up. I sensed a lot of insecurity around her and we just have to go our separate ways.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by falcon01: 1:20pm On May 03, 2021
whytediamond:

No be juju be this?
cheesy

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