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Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by waterbrown24: 12:09pm On May 04, 2021 |
Emyogalanya: i no just no wan talk..he intentionally just raised this fake story to suit his aim this morning and the slowpoke mods even moved it to fp. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Nobody: 12:09pm On May 04, 2021 |
Ibo and Osu. You can imagine, calling a close group of people outcast. I guess those Osu people are also ibo oooo. Yet, this region is bullying everyone to occupy the number 1 seat in Abuja. Lol. Make dem go fit dem house first, dem no wan hear. Osu matter in 2021? Mehn! South East is a funny region. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by NickNyce: 12:09pm On May 04, 2021 |
tellwisdom: Rubbish talk. If you are married you won't say this trash? Spiritual stuff has nothing to do with osu or the woman you married. Do you know how many women stand to their marriage even after all the rubbish their husbands did which even brought spiritual consequences? Is the ops family so clean that he calls someone an osu when that innocent girl might even be cleaner than his family juju history. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Miles33: 12:10pm On May 04, 2021 |
yes the will throw u out totally your immediate family will reject you sure i know but if you believe in what ever that is in you go ahead its your life enjoy it while it last but to me i no longer believe in osu, however our myopic mindset wont allow us igbos move past such ideology and believes. once heard to has be abolished in imo at Irete community in the Owerri West Local Government Area of Imo State, on July 14, 2018 be precise yet people cant abide to it. we said we re one yet will allow such evil ideology draw us and set us back sincerely i have been in your shoe bro i know what you re going through my candid advice kindly raise money and relocate abroad i believe you will definitely find peace as long as you guys re meant to be. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Comedian2019: 12:10pm On May 04, 2021 |
Hammergirl:Proceed to marriage registry and marry him. Forget about your patients' archaic mentality. You're living in 2021, don't allow anyone to take centuries backward. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by eallstar: 12:11pm On May 04, 2021 |
heniford2:If dangote is OSU will be typing this garbage? |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by saintobing: 12:11pm On May 04, 2021 |
at first you made a mistake by admiting that she is osu...nothing like osu anywhere in the world...god create everyone equal |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Alex80s(m): 12:12pm On May 04, 2021 |
Marry her if you truly love her. Take that big and bold decision, that's what makes you a man. Those calling people that encouraged you to go ahead with the marriage are extremists and wicked souls by blood and lineage. They are everywhere, including my area. The worst part of it all is that, most of them claim to be Christians. An Osu didn't become Osu because of his making, but because of the wickedness,greed and ignorance of people like the ones calling tradition. Osu, was recently abolished in Nsukka town in Enugu State. One of the processes taken was: asking the OSUs for forgiveness for ill-treatment over the years... Please, marry that innocent girl. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by codedsoft(m): 12:12pm On May 04, 2021 |
meobizy:. The Osu Caste System points to how Igbos love to oppress their fellow humans. God is never mocked. So, God is punishing the Igbo Race for this atrocity in Nigeria. Can you imagine that innocent generations are suffering as a result of this barbarity? |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by tannystacey: 12:12pm On May 04, 2021 |
Hammergirl: The fact that you call her an osu is a problem already. You dont love her if you cant see her differently. And what d heck is family conviction that you need to do? Who is marrying her? Why does your family need to validate d person you wanna live with? |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by omoharry(f): 12:18pm On May 04, 2021 |
Richy4:I thought you guys said that the Osu cast system is no more, that it has been stopped? So If someone that has the kind of wealth that Dangote has, more like a Billionaire , who is also an Osu, proposes to a non Osu, will the girls parent will still reject such marriage?I doubt. I think this Osu thing, only raises it ugly head, when the person in question is either poor or from the middle class. You guys should try and do away with this archaic laws in your society. How can you run your BIAFRA nation when such wicked laws are still allowed in the 21st century? How do you guys feel when the Hausa-Fulanis treat the Igbos' as second class citizens? Sey you guys know how it feels like to be regarded as a second class citizens by the Fulanis? So, why then do you do the same to another person who is being victimized as a result something he/she has no control over..such as the kind of family one is born into. My aunt died three ago in Lagos.Meanwhile she already told her children, before she passed, that she wished to be buried here in Lagos.This is becos, she does not want her wicked family to start taunting her children like the way she was treated when she buried her own parents. She was buried here in Lagos and heaven did not fall. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Epistasis(m): 12:18pm On May 04, 2021 |
What's Osu again for Christ sake. I haven't seen a tribe like the Igbos, the discrimination within this tribal group is terrible. Who is marginalising who?, the Igbos making lives terrible for themselves. Yeyenatu!!! |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by PAPAFEELERS: 12:18pm On May 04, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43:so you still support this parts of the culture that is evil to humanity to continue to exist all in the name of culture. just look at slavery and man injustice to man, classifying people as slaves ! it should even be the slave masters tat should be witchhunted because of thier past actions if we must go that way |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by omoharry(f): 12:23pm On May 04, 2021 |
MPESA:Can you please Highlight the negative effect for marrying an Osu?Aside from being stigmatized by some bunch of church going Hypocrite in the society..what other effect ? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by temitope27(m): 12:23pm On May 04, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43:please go back and sleep and wake up by 12nooon I think that time ur brain would have been working well |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by tellwisdom: 12:23pm On May 04, 2021 |
hustla: Inefficiency and lack of knowledge your bearers Suffers, reflects in you. You are a risk to humanity. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Kolaboluv7(m): 12:24pm On May 04, 2021 |
Hammergirl: In other words how do I convince my family to allow me die before my time. The kind problem wey this virginal people they cause na only God fit find solution. How a mature grown up man go dey reason with him anus they baffles me at times Drop your home address abeg so when you kick bucket abi gallon I go come chop rice.. Make no body blame buhari for this one abeg because this one sef shock am
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Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 12:24pm On May 04, 2021 |
You can choose to prove a point and contribute to banishing the osu caste system for good but there would be consequences from your family and the other regret is what if the union falls apart and how your actions would affect your children. Thereis nothing you can do about your family. Let them know how they have angered Jesus because a true Christian family will not care about a despicable caste system that is also based on paganism. Hellfire awaits them! Younger generations are increasingly less conservative about such silly practices. There are many cultures in the world including Nigeria where it won't matter. So be rest assured you and your children will blossom among the sensible people of the world. Take faith that you are not the only couples in this. There are many married couples who have gone ahead to forge their own path. It won't last long, all of these silly older people will soon die anyways . Hammergirl: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Shokoloko(f): 12:24pm On May 04, 2021 |
Hammergirl: Sweet, Before you marry that guy you need to consider the type of person you are first and your goals. Are you the type of person who wants to go into grassroot politics someday, do you like the idea of August meetings and village matters? Do you love spending holidays in the village? Do you plan to go back to the village after retirement? You may not want to marry him Are you a city girl? Do you plan to build a life in the city or relocate abroad? Do you not care if you do not receive so many calls (except to request money) from your extended family? - do not worry, your parents will call you. You should marry him if you love him You have a small stature but you are above 30 years - do not let your parents make a decision for you. On the other hand make sure this man loves you if not he might resent you for being a Diala or Ume. I wish you the best For any non-Igbo reading this, Osus are not treated badly. They were even more educated than the Dialas or Ume, Because they were sent to school while the other castes went to the farm. They are not despised, rather revered as property of the gods. (Glad its abolished) 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by jantman(m): 12:24pm On May 04, 2021 |
Hammergirl: You need legit advice? If yes, what is the meaning of Osu? I guess English is not your first lang |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 12:24pm On May 04, 2021 |
What will Jesus say? Kobicove: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by temitope27(m): 12:25pm On May 04, 2021 |
tellwisdom:abeg wetin be tradition sef, tradition is what u believe and practice, abeg stop believing all those fucking things again |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by temitope27(m): 12:27pm On May 04, 2021 |
Joel3:I think you are t |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by temitope27(m): 12:27pm On May 04, 2021 |
Joel3:I think you are right |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by criuze(m): 12:28pm On May 04, 2021 |
thought you're Christian is there difference between the daughters of Hebrews and of gentiles hopes you're a Christian, the yokes of Satan is curling around you with this sort of thinking |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 12:30pm On May 04, 2021 |
The Christian Western world of the 1700 would be shocked at the world today. It can and it will. Younger generations will outlive silly old people. Their useless beliefs will die with them. The ones that choose to hold on to those practices will be treated as outcasts. MPESA: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 12:32pm On May 04, 2021 |
Same difference. You will want to be associated with something of reverence not the other way round. As Christians in the 21st century, it is sad they still hold on to such beliefs. Shokoloko: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by GualaGuala(m): 12:32pm On May 04, 2021 |
Xscape1993: just like you people changed from using Palm wine to malt n juice for traditional marriage.. for d advisers here,make una leave this guy to sort himself out because this is family and tradition |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by kponkedenge(m): 12:44pm On May 04, 2021 |
LilMissFavvy: I doubt the authenticity of this thread.... The OP might not even be an Igbo person... Just opened the thread for Igbo bashing....Osu doesn't exist anymore in the whole of the East... So I don't know what the OP is talking about |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Victoria938(f): 12:46pm On May 04, 2021 |
Rubbish their is nothing like OSU. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by rita25(f): 12:52pm On May 04, 2021 |
WHEN U DEY GBENSH HER DID HER PUNA SMELL OSU? NOW U COME HERE DISTURBING US ABOUT OSU MATTER............ODIEGWU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by MPESA(m): 12:52pm On May 04, 2021 |
omoharry: Too many I have heard but To be candid with you some strange occurrence will be happening to them,I have seen a man run over his two children at a go , killing them instantly and some unimaginable and terrifying things that I can't write here. .... |
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