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Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Nobody: 12:55pm On May 04, 2021 |
Igbos are the most backward people in Nigeria vmbut they keep deceiving themselves. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by ICEMAN(m): 12:58pm On May 04, 2021 |
I'm Igbo. Do they still do Osu? Look just go to church have your wedding and send them pictures with cake. They will accept the wedding. Finish. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by ogbonti: 12:59pm On May 04, 2021 |
GeeX: If an Igbo osu man was Barack Obama’s dad when Obama was potus, will the Igwe in your village not kiss the Osu man’s feet just to have a photo op with Obama ? Na when person never make am mad him Osu be problem. When you make mad money like Jeff Bezos it even small Dangote, the royals of your village will queue to kiss your feet Abegi - Osu ko Oku ni |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by brownemmanuel43(m): 1:00pm On May 04, 2021 |
PAPAFEELERS:This is simple thing to understand na, I said it can only work if he is the only one alive in his family but a situation where the parents are alive and he is not man of his own it can't work. Some things are easier said and done online than offline. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Blackman101: 1:02pm On May 04, 2021 |
what we call black American or black in Europe today comprise of some free and Osu igbo men and women sold during the slave trade. some are married with kids and grand children doing very well in their respective field of live without knowing the crazy history of OSU. 1. What has the Local God's in igbo land done about it.? 2.Abi the gods na only Nigeria(east) him get power. ? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by spiceadole: 1:04pm On May 04, 2021 |
Hammergirl:Hammergirl, I'm not Igbo. But you better listen to your family.. That man is not the only man in the world. Another suitor will come. Don't let desperation to answer "Mrs" blind you. If anybody should "fight " and disobey family because of marriage , it should be the man and NEVER a lady. When the chips are down, your socalled "love of your life" can shock you. Put common sense above emotions. Cut off from any man your family does not approve of.. irrespective of the reason. Think Am Well! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by hustla(m): 1:07pm On May 04, 2021 |
tellwisdom: Plenty English with bare minimum sense Osu kee you there Ret.arded dolt who does not want to move with the times You better go and live in the bush like your reta.rded forefathers |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by ekibs11(m): 1:10pm On May 04, 2021 |
please what is osu? |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Nobody: 1:10pm On May 04, 2021 |
LilMissFavvy: It's the height of stupidity to talk about issues u have zero knowledge about. Shatapp 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Munzy14(m): 1:10pm On May 04, 2021 |
Hammergirl:you can't do anything!...very painful truth... Going ahead they will disown you for life...And even perform some traditional stuffs to back up the seperation....Even if they are core Christians, in issues like this parents usually remove their Christian garment to wear the real African traditional regalia. Av seen two different cases, one was the guy's parents told him no, he went ahead to marry her...Sometime later his dad passed on.....3-5yrs later he lost his wife and two kids in a fatal accident. The other case, he married a girl his parents said she is an UME..His parents banned him for life...He can't enter there house..or return to village..dude has moved to south south...I think he has changed Identity... OSU and UME in Igbo land is a serious case o...Forget what these our digital high chiefs called EZE in Igbo land saying they have banned that practice, story they will still not allow their kids marry one. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 1:12pm On May 04, 2021 |
Sterope:is something big that even your family may accept you but the public will not infant in meetings you will never be invited your community will zero level you if per say your kids are schooling in that area sorry is a nightmare you can fight but the sent of it never leaves you till you die 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by tellwisdom: 1:15pm On May 04, 2021 |
hustla: I don’t blame you. I blame those who wasted their money on you with the hope of positivity. You need to be trained till you are 40. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by hustla(m): 1:17pm On May 04, 2021 |
tellwisdom: K |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Minemrys: 1:20pm On May 04, 2021 |
Sterope:God bless you, Miss. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Ficeo(m): 1:20pm On May 04, 2021 |
Nothing like Osu abi? Oga! Go ahead and marry. You will know that harmattan dey make person catch cold. My dear Marry your agwuru and be happy with yourself. I don't want to say much about this. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Nobody: 1:22pm On May 04, 2021 |
ogbonti: In my village ke? Alaye woju o! Abi comment mi o ye e ni? All that Osu na nonsense tradition na |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 1:23pm On May 04, 2021 |
ogbonti:dude even if your jeff Bezos the will still one day tell you,your an OSu maybe when the are sharing something or doing something important no money can change that, i had this man in our village an OSu dude has money built free water, school, etc the celebrated the man oh for his actions he felt he belong one day they were doing umunna meeting dude was setting downing it happen that they where sharing land the give every family member his own none was giving to him, he asked why was he not giving even half plot the opened there wild mouth in his present with his kids and wife around and told him his an OSu nothing for him, i saw this man shade tears bitterly...this am saying happen in my villa |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Hammergirl: 1:24pm On May 04, 2021 |
Your contributions have being helpful. May God bless you all. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Ficeo(m): 1:25pm On May 04, 2021 |
A Rev. Fr. Personally came to my village to enquire about us before her sister was married to my cousin. Please! Don't make a mistake you will ever regret all through your life. Marry your agwuru! I repeat marry from your agwuru! Listen to your parents! They will never mislead you. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Joel3(m): 1:27pm On May 04, 2021 |
HEAVEN4444:no. only by mentioning the name of their village. |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 1:27pm On May 04, 2021 |
You really don't know me. heniford2: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 1:28pm On May 04, 2021 |
I hope the first thing he did was to destroy his properties heniford2: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 1:29pm On May 04, 2021 |
Blackman101: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 1:37pm On May 04, 2021 |
Sterope:dear chill unless you leave your family your village and bear it in mind nothing like home your on ur own one day your kids will ask you about village about your people then how do you explain to him or her your an "outcaste" an OSU damn mehn "Christianity did not stop some tradition" infant people are embracing culture more now based on ?? so becareful in your decisions think of future not know culture is real can never go we still have people in the village practicing it |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by HEAVEN4444: 1:38pm On May 04, 2021 |
Joel3:thats easy situation to fix. just lie that i am from the village that is not osu village |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 1:40pm On May 04, 2021 |
Sterope:in our village the don't sell land to an OSU if you do so you die within months nothing can save the seller not even praying and fasting and the funny thing about it is that land becomes community land your family can not calm it again so you either buy outside, its just terrible is culture my forefathers was born into it so |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 1:43pm On May 04, 2021 |
1. Do I sound like the type that will bring forth stupid children? 2. The world they are going to live in is going to be a world that will stand together against the foolish ones 3. The same infants that are asking for urgent 2k or engaging in 'taboo' sex . Motigbo. heniford2: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by alizma: 1:44pm On May 04, 2021 |
CanadaOrBust:Be deceiving yourself. If you are single, you can prove me wrong by choosing one OSU as your life partner then you will no that your family members still recognize something called osu |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 1:47pm On May 04, 2021 |
Why would I buy a land amongst stupid people though? The seller died because he was murdered by his village people. You should be looking for murderers amongst your village people. The stupid diety that didn't protect it beloved community from the Whiteman now has the strength to fight. heniford2: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 1:48pm On May 04, 2021 |
I meant the things he built heniford2: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 1:48pm On May 04, 2021 |
Pagans quoting Bible passages . Minemrys: |
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 1:49pm On May 04, 2021 |
Sterope:nobody can really via for her unborn kids no matter how smart or intelligent you think you are kids will always make silly mistake no matter up bring the will one day ask you about home... |
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