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Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 1:52pm On May 04
Why would you assume I won't tell them about home? I am not Osu and I don't even mingle with silly family members from either side.

I will love to tell them all about their people grin

heniford2:
nobody can really via for her unborn kids no matter how smart or intelligent you think you are kids will always make silly mistake no matter up bring the will one day ask you about home...
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 1:55pm On May 04
Sterope:
Why would I buy a land amongst stupid people though?

The seller died because he was murdered by his village people. You should be looking for murderers amongst your village people.

The stupid diety that didn't protect it beloved community from the Whiteman now has the strength to fight.

nobody had a hand in his death the family did there own investigation his son and his wives, the village also did his own tradition was not erased my dear is still dia and the are people who worship it. like in Nusska in enugu a village like that, if a married lady from that village sleeps with another man she goes mad no prayer can save her not joking oh ask question
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by BRATISLAVA: 1:56pm On May 04
Interesting
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 1:58pm On May 04
The village murdered the seller or he died a natural death.

You want to believe the same village and diety that once spread stories about Ogbanjes over common sense. I can't help you.




heniford2:
nobody had a hand in his death the family did there own investigation his son and his wives, the village also did his own tradition was not erased my dear is still dia and the are people who worship it. like in Nusska in enugu a village like that, if a married lady from that village sleeps with another man she goes mad no prayer can save her not joking oh ask question
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 1:58pm On May 04
Sterope:
I meant the things he built grin
lolgrin he never destroyed it he left our village till date nobody has seen him or asked about him but the are still using those stuff i just hate the OSu thing my dear but is very Real very fucking Real

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Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Newton85: 2:00pm On May 04
tellwisdom:


Be very careful with these kids telling you 21st century and modern day. Tradition is tradition.

If you do otherwise, just make sure you don’t step your foot anywhere close to your village.

You see these ones talking like they know anything about life; they will be no where to be found when spiritual problem starts, and you will have no option than to carry your cross alone out of sheer negligence.
Shut the Bleep up! "spiritual problem" for marrying a human being that a very backwards, utterly barbaric culture consider "outcaste"? Tradition kill you there! What a dimwitted, low IQ, ridiculously superstitious African.
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 2:00pm On May 04
He should have left an impression. I know I would, leave and never come back.

heniford2:
lolgrin he never destroyed it he left our village till date nobody has seen him or asked about him but the are still using those stuff i just hate the OSu thing my dear but is very Real very fucking Real
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by BLOODYSPERM: 2:00pm On May 04
BRATISLAVA:
Interesting



Sure we will love our wife or wives
But they must submit to our authority and leadership and know their place in the home

Men are logical beings
Women are emotional beings

Men are success objects
Women are sexual objects

Men are for production
Women are for reproduction

Men systemize with things
Women empatize with people

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Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 2:01pm On May 04
Sterope:
The village murdered the seller or he died a natural death.

You want to believe the same village and diety that once spread stories about Ogbanjes over common sense. I can't help you.




while you don't understand,ogbanjes are Real too but i feel most of them are repackaging it i once dated an ogbanje lady grin
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Joel3(m): 2:02pm On May 04
HEAVEN4444:
thats easy situation to fix. just lie that i am from the village that is not osu village
lol, when it comes to marriage. the igbo do investigation very well.
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Lovecars501(m): 2:02pm On May 04
Can anyone be kind to tell me what osu means
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by afamaustin(m): 2:02pm On May 04
I don't believe in Osu, sister go run and marry him before another gal marry him, OSU is outdated.
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 2:04pm On May 04
Sickle cell anemia is a myth grin


heniford2:
while you don't understand,ogbanjes are Real too but i feel most of them are repackaging it i once dated an ogbanje lady grin
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 2:05pm On May 04
Lovecars501:
Can anyone be kind to tell me what osu means
A cursed one set outside, Rejected, a slave, etc is beyond my understanding but is Real like Air
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by 2good2hear(m): 2:06pm On May 04
Let me share my short story concerning this Osu thing; perhaps that might answer your question..
I met this beautiful lady in 2018 and dated her for a year before thinking of settling down with her; Should I say she was the best woman I ever came across.
Cooking A1
S3x A1
Caring for me A1
Hustling A1
Supportive A1
She was just too good to be true with just little faults.. Our both parents were happy about our Union, until I told my dad about my plans to engage her... He was happy about my readiness to settle... He asked questions that every parent would ask about his daughter in law to be and also ask if she was Osu... I told him that she is not an Osu lady, because I already asked her about Osu, which she told me she wasn't.. Unknowing to me, my dad did his own research going to her village to discover that her family are Osu.. No be small fight start oo... My parents said I can't marry her but I stood my ground insist that my marrying her is already concluded.. At some point I wasn't picking my parents call for almost 2 month cause I already engaged her before he went for his research.. Pastors, family members, friends, all called talking to me settle with my parents.. telling me that my mum even fainted and was rushed to the hospital... My dad saw how stubborn I was about it and told me to go on it the marriage that he is right behind since that's was I wanted... Let's fast forward .. She broke up with me the very moment I told her About what has been going on.. She quarreled that who her my parents to level her Osu... I tried to let her know it's been settled, that we can both marry, only for her to drop her engagement ring saying that if I must engage her again, it must be in the presence of my both parents before she accepts.... Baba... Na so I blank the babe oo... See who I dey beef my family for.. Its been 3yrs now we broke up.. you won't believe that I have date about 5 ladies after her.. and all 5 of them complained of the same attacks whenever they sleep at my place about a fair beautiful lady trying to kill them in their dreams and warning them to stay away from me... And believe me I never shared my previous story with any of them oo.. they all left me cause the dream is not normal... Almost Everytime the sleep over.

I don go do Deliverance oo... Now happy with my new found love ... Make I stop here

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Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by chaloskyx: 2:07pm On May 04
WHAT THE HELL IS THAT YOUR FAMILY NEEDS TO BE SENSITISED ABEG IN 2021 YOU ARE STILL CARRYIND SUCH PRACTISE ON YOUR HEAD NAWA. AND YOU ARE HERE CAUSE YOUR FAMILY DOES NOT RESPECT YOU CAUSE IF THEY DO AND YOU HAVE MOUTH THEY WOULD NOT QUESTION YOUR DECISION NEVER
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 2:08pm On May 04
Sterope:

Sickle cell anemia is a myth grin


i can't say for that, but let me ask you do you think that supernatural powers only exist in christ jesus dear??
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 2:11pm On May 04
2good2hear:
Let me share my short story concerning this Osu thing; perhaps that might answer your question..
I met this beautiful lady in 2018 and dated her for a year before thinking of settling down with her; Should I say she was the best woman I ever came across.
Cooking A1
S3x A1
Caring for me A1
Hustling A1
Supportive A1
She was just too good to be true with just little faults.. Our both parents were happy about our Union, until I told my dad about my plans to engage her... He was happy about my readiness to settle... He asked questions that every parent would ask about his daughter in law to be and also ask if she was Osu... I told him that she is not an Osu lady, because I already asked her about Osu, which she told me she wasn't.. Unknowing to me, my dad did his own research going to her village to discover that her family are Osu.. No be small fight start oo... My parents said I can't marry her but I stood my ground insist that my marrying her is already concluded.. At some point I wasn't picking my parents call for almost 2 month cause I already engaged her before he went for his research.. Pastors, family members, friends, all called talking to me settle with my parents.. telling me that my mum even fainted and was rushed to the hospital... My dad saw how stubborn I was about it and told me to go on it the marriage that he is right behind since that's was I wanted... Let's fast forward .. She broke up with me the very moment I told her About what has been going on.. She quarreled that who her my parents to level her Osu... I tried to let her know it's been settled, that we can both marry, only for her to drop her engagement ring saying that if I must engage her again, it must be in the presence of my both parents before she accepts.... Baba... Na so I blank the babe oo... See who I dey beef my family for.. Its been 3yrs now we broke up.. you won't believe that I have date about 5 ladies after her.. and all 5 of them complained of the same attacks whenever they sleep at my place about a fair beautiful lady trying to kill them in their dreams and warning them to stay away from me... And believe me I never shared my previous story with any of them oo.. they all left me cause the dream is not normal... Almost Everytime the sleep over.

I don go do Deliverance oo... Now happy with my new found love ... Make I stop here
so deep bro
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Sterope(f): 2:17pm On May 04
How many Ogbanjes do we have in the UK?
heniford2:
i can't say for that, but let me ask you do you think that supernatural powers only exist in christ jesus dear??
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Johnkay225: 2:21pm On May 04
What is the meaning of OSU in the first place? There is nothing like that ....
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 2:25pm On May 04
Sterope:
How many Ogbanjes do we have in the UK?
ogbanje can be called "witch" which are in every world look maybe you have not seen stuff but believe me when i tell you Real shit do happen in Real life like crazy stuff so chill
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by naijaman2225(m): 2:28pm On May 04
IF YOU HAVE THE MEANS, MARRY HER, EMIGRATE AND CUT OFF LINKS TO YOUR FAMILY. YOUR MENTAL/EMOTIONAL STATE OF MIND SHOULD BE YOUR #1 PRIORITY.
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by PhillyA: 2:32pm On May 04
I was raised Catholic, so I'm familiar with some of the Igbo cultures and I couldn't be more disappointed with this discriminatory social classification of another human as an outcast. Given a predominantly Christian population in that region, why does anyone care about a river goddess? Oh, it just occurred to me that you gotta be a subject of a goddess to really care about their opinion. The faux religiousity is such a grand deception and it's very annoying to say the least.

Or perhaps it is just discrimination for discrimination sake, with no mythical creature involved. Ahiara bishop crisis might just be an evidence that this is the case.

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Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Emyogalanya: 2:35pm On May 04
waterbrown24:


i no just no wan talk..he intentionally just raised this fake story to suit his aim this morning and the slowpoke mods even moved it to fp.
from mere reading the story you will smell it's very fake

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Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by AnI77: 2:46pm On May 04
How do you know the person is "osu"? If you love her then you do not need anybody's advise to do the right thing!
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by SweetDipBenny(m): 3:02pm On May 04
Hammergirl:
Hi, I'm in love with an osu but my family forbids it. How do I convince them to allow me to marry him?
my sister no one can help u on dis matter.Is either him or ur family. D choice is urs
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by luckydion(m): 3:10pm On May 04
heniford2:
give her belly case close but bear it in mind you will be an outcaste by culture your village will separate from you even ur immediate family i have seen it happen believe me you will regret it because after love comes bitterness

Is there still Osu in Igbo Land? se bi them don cancel an..... ...
Who's free -born? who's osu? u na de swim in stone age....
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by vioment: 3:14pm On May 04
Nna put date, if them come or no come, na dem know.
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by Lovecars501(m): 3:45pm On May 04
heniford2:
A cursed one set outside, Rejected, a slave, etc is beyond my understanding but is Real like Air
oh,thanks i really appreciate,does that mean that an osu cannot be married
Re: How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu by heniford2: 3:53pm On May 04
Lovecars501:
oh,thanks i really appreciate,does that mean that an osu cannot be married
says who you can marry them the problem is the curse and the stigma attached to it if you can leave with it then your good to go

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