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Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Sebastine1994(m): 2:21pm On May 15, 2021
I have turned to houseboy since I married this woman oh. it's not even up to a year oh. God help men.

She would nag and complain all day, as if she was allergic to sex too. just because she borrowed me small money for the wedding oh.

Abeg I am tired, I am contemplating divorce but none of my family member has ever divorced before. I don't want to be the first to set the example for my younger ones.

it seems my woman is perpetually angry, I try to please her, it is wahala, I used to be a bad boy oh, I don't know if I should go back to that lifestyle. this woman is really pushing me to the wall.

Why is she doing this to me. what can I do.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique

I need advice from fellow nairalanders

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Nobody: 2:21pm On May 15, 2021
FTC!

I want to dedicate this FTC to all the unknown gun men out there, may you never run out of bullets

Also I dedicate this FTC to every member of this cruise nation


And to Mr op, I have no advise for you


Periodt

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by tripplephi: 2:26pm On May 15, 2021
the date on the card has EXPOSED you as a LIAR.

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Sebastine1994(m): 2:28pm On May 15, 2021
tripplephi:
the date on the card has EXPOSED you as a LIAR.

that was when it started.

must I tell you everything, use your imagination sometimes now

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Romanoff(f): 2:29pm On May 15, 2021
What do both of you do for a living?

How did you meet and how long did you date?

Plus explain how she has turned you to houseboy. So we can get a clearer picture.

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Plebian(f): 2:31pm On May 15, 2021
It's well
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by OKOATA(m): 2:32pm On May 15, 2021
See how you were smiling sheepishly in your wedding photos not knowing say na trouble you go meet, didn't you see all the red flags before marrying her? Oga na money be marriage, if you no get money na shame as a man so carry your cross.

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Sebastine1994(m): 2:33pm On May 15, 2021
OKOATA:
See how you were smiling sheepishly in your wedding photos not knowing say na trouble you go meet, didn't you see all the red flags before marrying her? Oga na money be marriage, if you no get money na shame as a man so carry your cross.

had I known. I for just give am belle then run
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by EverythingFit: 2:34pm On May 15, 2021

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ayqPblE7y8

Love can be crazy, but we learn everyday!
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by AmgMakanaki(m): 2:35pm On May 15, 2021
tripplephi:
the date on the card has EXPOSED you as a LIAR.


You no even understand when we talk A year ago. #ayamatangaa grin
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Tajbol4splend(m): 2:38pm On May 15, 2021
Liar oshi
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Hanibbal(m): 2:41pm On May 15, 2021
Marriage should be canceled from the program of mankind. angry

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Cholls(m): 2:42pm On May 15, 2021
My brother eiyah you're truly a house boy

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by cfree14(m): 2:47pm On May 15, 2021
Coming out so bold with pictures to prove that you're truly married, means the OP has reached his 'endurance' limit grin

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Odoogu(m): 2:53pm On May 15, 2021
this one deep ooo.
Though divorce isn't an option to you, but jail fit be.
She shouldn't be beyond reasoning I.e nothing dialogue cannot fix. But if she done pass that level, bro abeg leave house for sometime and go make money.
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by yanabasee1(m): 2:54pm On May 15, 2021
Sebastine1994:

that was when it started.
must I tell you everything, use your imagination sometimes now

All your stories always make it to the front page.....

And it's always about having troubles with women or her family or something....
Na only you Waka come?
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Sabowest(m): 2:58pm On May 15, 2021
Turn am to a house girl, energy equals energy

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by bigpicture001: 3:05pm On May 15, 2021
Women are not capable of being wealthier than a man in a relationship or marriage and still maintain peace..... Period!

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by blesskewe(f): 3:07pm On May 15, 2021
Are u afraid ni


Better man up
Like press the ignore button
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Odoogu(m): 3:15pm On May 15, 2021
bigpicture001:
Women are not capable of being wealthier than a man in a relationship or marriage and still maintain peace..... Period!

Bro, Na LIE
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by bigpicture001: 3:17pm On May 15, 2021
Odoogu:


Bro, Na LIE

Tell me any contrasting examples
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Odoogu(m): 3:17pm On May 15, 2021
blesskewe:
Are u afraid ni


Better man up
Like press the ignore button

Where the button dey Maami? cheesy
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Odoogu(m): 3:19pm On May 15, 2021
bigpicture001:


Tell me any contrasting examples


Bro, I no need tell you cos if I do, you no go sabi them.

But no be so every woman wey get money dey do.
Unless say you dey talk say every relationship wey dey peaceful right now, Na the men get all the money.

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Qatar2022: 4:09pm On May 15, 2021
Sebastine1994:
I have turned to houseboy since I married this woman oh. it's not even up to a year oh. God help men.

She would nag and complain all day, as if she was allergic to sex too. just because she borrowed me small money for the wedding oh.

Abeg I am tired, I am contemplating divorce but none of my family member has ever divorced before. I don't want to be the first to set the example for my younger ones.

it seems my woman is perpetually angry, I try to please her, it is wahala, I used to be a bad boy oh, I don't know if I should go back to that lifestyle. this woman is really pushing me to the wall.

Why is she doing this to me. what can I do.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique

I need advice from fellow nairalanders
Die in the marriage na since nobody have divorced
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Nobody: 6:51pm On May 15, 2021
kelvinrhs:
FTC!

I want to dedicate this FTC to all the unknown gun men out there, may you never run out of bullets

Also I dedicate this FTC to every member of this cruise nation


And to Mr op, I have no advise for you


Periodt

As i saw unknown gun men i was compelled to quote you. May all the wishes of the unknown gunmen towards 'security agencies' come to pass.

May they plunder, loot n destroy all police stations nationwide. Unknown gunmen once again ayam inviting you to Yenagoa, attack all road safety offices and particulaly Igbogene police station and A' division at onopa.

If u need help contact me please. I go drive una for free. God bless u.

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Sacrosanct12(m): 7:36pm On May 15, 2021
Perfectdanny:


As i saw unknown gun men i was compelled to quote you. May all the wishes of the unknown gunmen towards 'security agencies' come to pass.

May they plunder, loot n destroy all police stations nationwide. Unknown gunmen once again ayam inviting you to Yenagoa, attack all road safety offices and particulaly Igbogene police station and A' division at onopa.

If u need help contact me please. I go drive una for free. God bless u.
as much as this ur post dey wrong, me I support it wholeheartedly. Imagine say police stop public
bus wey people full inside in a very deserted place ooh. Driver peacefully come down to reason with dem yet still those heartless people Still seize the motor key drive off in their hilux upon all the begging. Everybody just got come down find way before robbers collect the one wey remain.
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by TheFacelessMan: 8:04pm On May 15, 2021
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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Dajugba: 8:19pm On May 15, 2021
Sebastine1994:
I have turned to houseboy since I married this woman oh. it's not even up to a year oh. God help men.

She would nag and complain all day, as if she was allergic to sex too. just because she borrowed me small money for the wedding oh.

Abeg I am tired, I am contemplating divorce but none of my family member has ever divorced before. I don't want to be the first to set the example for my younger ones.

it seems my woman is perpetually angry, I try to please her, it is wahala, I used to be a bad boy oh, I don't know if I should go back to that lifestyle. this woman is really pushing me to the wall.

Why is she doing this to me. what can I do.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique

I need advice from fellow nairalanders


First I sympathize with you. Most reason why young men has to think longer terms when entering into marriage than seeing things from a point of emotion and feelings which usually clear off when reality of life begin to teach you where you err.

Point number 1:

Don't let any lady force you into marriage to solve her deaspiration to have a home she is not morally or mentally prepared for.

That's the reason for the constant nagging which is frustrating you.

Point number 2:

Settle your financial life before you consider marriage if your partner (wife) to be is not ready to shoulder some responsibilities when you are not able for a period of time.

Help mate is not for sexual satisfaction only, neither it is for encouragement alone or having the title of being married. Help mate is all ramifications to both life.

Only few ladies in this 21 first century would tolerate a man trying to build up his life, much more in marriage.

Most blissful homes are destroyed because of the lack of understanding from the wife, not because of money. Failure to understand that to build a family that would overcome every storm of life need each others assistant, both financially, mentally, logically and emotionally.

So, promising a lady you want to marry to borrow you money in return after the marriage is a sign both are heading towards a failed union.

This is due to entitlement mentality from such ladies. The man must pay for it, or we suffer the consequence of him not being able to provide it.

I would stop here. Just pray about it, and seat your wife and talk things over. Disagreements must always happen, but in marriage it is we disagree to agree to work as a team, not contrary to what the Union stand for.

Have a bless weekend.
Best regards,

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Nobody: 8:48pm On May 15, 2021
Sacrosanct12:
as much as this ur post dey wrong, me I support it wholeheartedly. Imagine say police stop public
bus wey people full inside in a very deserted place ooh. Driver peacefully come down to reason with dem yet still those heartless people Still seize the motor key drive off in their hilux upon all the begging. Everybody just got come down find way before robbers collect the one wey remain.

Unknown gunmen shall fall on their greasy testes
Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by Salintomy777: 8:56pm On May 15, 2021
dump her

Husband material scarce so I see no reason why men should be stressing themselves over just one woman undecided

Women are highly replaceable while men aren't.
Copy Elon musk style.
If she ain't playing ball, next her!!!!

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Re: Just A Year After Marriage, I Am Now Her Houseboy by stupidmod3: 8:57pm On May 15, 2021
Sebastine1994:
I have turned to houseboy since I married this woman oh. it's not even up to a year oh. God help men.

She would nag and complain all day, as if she was allergic to sex too. just because she borrowed me small money for the wedding oh.

Abeg I am tired, I am contemplating divorce but none of my family member has ever divorced before. I don't want to be the first to set the example for my younger ones.

it seems my woman is perpetually angry, I try to please her, it is wahala, I used to be a bad boy oh, I don't know if I should go back to that lifestyle. this woman is really pushing me to the wall.

Why is she doing this to me. what can I do.

lalasticlala mynd44 seun Dominique

I need advice from fellow nairalanders

dude stop lying

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