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Jeremani:
There's this girl we've been dating each other for two years now. I have never touched her for once but have kissed her and smooched her.

Last year March i travel to acquire hand work skill, and since then i didn't come back uptill date.

Am working and schooling at thesame time, bc the state i work is thesame state i school. I do send her money once in a while ofcos is money that i won't regret, is just a fraction of what i can spend for my last female siblings.
She is not complaining, ofcos why should she complain? when i have never asked for anything.

She keeps asking me when am going to come back as if she will pay my next session fee.
The truth is that she is tired of this relationship.
There was a time she broke up with me for simply referring to her as ma'am.
She blocked me on all social media handle.
Then send me text stating is over. I didn't even replied the sms.
After like two weeks she unblocked me and started apologizing. I considered and took her back. Then i told her she should never expect that this relationship to be thesame as b4.

Fast forward to yersterday, i was online reading an article. Her message just popped up.
She greeted me and i replied, ask her how she was. She said fine and all that. She said why didn't i chat her up, is it a bad thing if i greet her first. I told her that am not her mate and courtesy demand she being the lady to greet first.

She then said she hate me that am wicked. I told her am not just wicked but am evil.
I ask her, since she said she hate me, why then is she dating me? She said bc she wants to kill me slowly.
I told her b4 she have the chance to kill me, our relationship may probably be over.
She said i should just say the word is over and she will be gone for good. Mind you, this is not the first time she is saying this.
I had to tell her is over btw us, since that's what she want. She said ok. After like 30minute of none of us chatting with each other. She then send message asking if i was serious i told her yes.

Am not regretting anything.
Am i at fault?

Jeremani:
There's this girl we've been dating each other for two years now. I have never touched her for once but have kissed her and smooched her.

Last year March i travel to acquire hand work skill, and since then i didn't come back uptill date.

Am working and schooling at thesame time, bc the state i work is thesame state i school. I do send her money once in a while ofcos is money that i won't regret, is just a fraction of what i can spend for my last female siblings.
She is not complaining, ofcos why should she complain? when i have never asked for anything.

She keeps asking me when am going to come back as if she will pay my next session fee.
The truth is that she is tired of this relationship.
There was a time she broke up with me for simply referring to her as ma'am.
She blocked me on all social media handle.
Then send me text stating is over. I didn't even replied the sms.
After like two weeks she unblocked me and started apologizing. I considered and took her back. Then i told her she should never expect that this relationship to be thesame as b4.

Fast forward to yersterday, i was online reading an article. Her message just popped up.
She greeted me and i replied, ask her how she was. She said fine and all that. She said why didn't i chat her up, is it a bad thing if i greet her first. I told her that am not her mate and courtesy demand she being the lady to greet first.

She then said she hate me that am wicked. I told her am not just wicked but am evil.
I ask her, since she said she hate me, why then is she dating me? She said bc she wants to kill me slowly.
I told her b4 she have the chance to kill me, our relationship may probably be over.
She said i should just say the word is over and she will be gone for good. Mind you, this is not the first time she is saying this.
I had to tell her is over btw us, since that's what she want. She said ok. After like 30minute of none of us chatting with each other. She then send message asking if i was serious i told her yes.

Am not regretting anything.
Am i at fault?

Jeremani:
There's this girl we've been dating each other for two years now. I have never touched her for once but have kissed her and smooched her.

Last year March i travel to acquire hand work skill, and since then i didn't come back uptill date.

Am working and schooling at thesame time, bc the state i work is thesame state i school. I do send her money once in a while ofcos is money that i won't regret, is just a fraction of what i can spend for my last female siblings.
She is not complaining, ofcos why should she complain? when i have never asked for anything.

She keeps asking me when am going to come back as if she will pay my next session fee.
The truth is that she is tired of this relationship.
There was a time she broke up with me for simply referring to her as ma'am.
She blocked me on all social media handle.
Then send me text stating is over. I didn't even replied the sms.
After like two weeks she unblocked me and started apologizing. I considered and took her back. Then i told her she should never expect that this relationship to be thesame as b4.

Fast forward to yersterday, i was online reading an article. Her message just popped up.
She greeted me and i replied, ask her how she was. She said fine and all that. She said why didn't i chat her up, is it a bad thing if i greet her first. I told her that am not her mate and courtesy demand she being the lady to greet first.

She then said she hate me that am wicked. I told her am not just wicked but am evil.
I ask her, since she said she hate me, why then is she dating me? She said bc she wants to kill me slowly.
I told her b4 she have the chance to kill me, our relationship may probably be over.
She said i should just say the word is over and she will be gone for good. Mind you, this is not the first time she is saying this.
I had to tell her is over btw us, since that's what she want. She said ok. After like 30minute of none of us chatting with each other. She then send message asking if i was serious i told her yes.

Am not regretting anything.
Am i at fault?

Jeremani:
There's this girl we've been dating each other for two years now. I have never touched her for once but have kissed her and smooched her.

Last year March i travel to acquire hand work skill, and since then i didn't come back uptill date.

Am working and schooling at thesame time, bc the state i work is thesame state i school. I do send her money once in a while ofcos is money that i won't regret, is just a fraction of what i can spend for my last female siblings.
She is not complaining, ofcos why should she complain? when i have never asked for anything.

She keeps asking me when am going to come back as if she will pay my next session fee.
The truth is that she is tired of this relationship.
There was a time she broke up with me for simply referring to her as ma'am.
She blocked me on all social media handle.
Then send me text stating is over. I didn't even replied the sms.
After like two weeks she unblocked me and started apologizing. I considered and took her back. Then i told her she should never expect that this relationship to be thesame as b4.

Fast forward to yersterday, i was online reading an article. Her message just popped up.
She greeted me and i replied, ask her how she was. She said fine and all that. She said why didn't i chat her up, is it a bad thing if i greet her first. I told her that am not her mate and courtesy demand she being the lady to greet first.

She then said she hate me that am wicked. I told her am not just wicked but am evil.
I ask her, since she said she hate me, why then is she dating me? She said bc she wants to kill me slowly.
I told her b4 she have the chance to kill me, our relationship may probably be over.
She said i should just say the word is over and she will be gone for good. Mind you, this is not the first time she is saying this.
I had to tell her is over btw us, since that's what she want. She said ok. After like 30minute of none of us chatting with each other. She then send message asking if i was serious i told her yes.

Am not regretting anything.
Am i at fault?

temi1290:
Cheating gone wrong

A surprise love call to a lady on a popular radio station turns sour as the lady was heard moaning live in the midst of pleasure with a man..

🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

The Mudder Squad Nigerian Police All Nigerians Rohr Bella Shmurda #Publicfigure journalists#JusticeforHinyHumoren pic.twitter.com/2QbYd7P1eI

— Oluwaseyi Samuel (@Oluwaseyi0208) May 14, 2021

is fvcking moaning under live Air


[quote author=emmaodet post=101704992]At the bolded - Apologies but once in a while the thread will always be derailed. We can't rule that out but we all should just do it moderately.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 135, REDPILL 2021

Be loyal to yourself.

Don't make worthless compromise.

Stick to your principles.

Be disciplined.

Find enjoyment in your work.

Be happy in the absence of women. Yeah, you want them, but with or without them your happiness should be intrenched.

Women serves as a form and not as a source. So, stay true to your Purpose.

Authority: Be focus.

luminouz:
@kellzzyy...the good thing about the experience you had was that you came to your senses,realized your errors and fixed them. In this journey, sometimes you fall but once you realise you are slipping, get back up and maintain frame. I understand that konji is a mudafucker and even messes with the best of us at times but like previous pillers advised, practise and practise and soon you will have some measure of control. I admit to you that I have slipped like you just did, in the past. But I got back up and made amends. I subjected myself to the same conditions again and learned to say NO. The truth comes after a man cums. No one knows that better than I do. What makes it sadder is that these girls treasure sex as much as we do, act like they do us a favour, they expect to be satisfied sexually without even doing their part( just lying down and groaning like a beached whale under you as you pound), are quick to criticize your sexual game but not her own, expect favours(material or otherwise) as payment for sex you both enjoyed and lots more.

@gokesoye... I know she is your gf but putting yourself at such financial risk was unwise. Didnt she have parental backing or something? Then, inconveniencing yourself to entertain her on a normal visit is too much pedestalizing. Surely, she could come to visit you without expecting something fanfare, especially if you told her how much her NYSC stuff drained you. I will make further comments after your update tonight/tomorrow.

Martinez39s:
All I can say is konji is a bastàrd. One thing most people don't know is that being ignorant of the red pill is not the only thing that can make a man simp. You can be very vast in red pill knowledge and alpha mindset, but if your sexual urges are always getting the better of you, you will find yourself simping big time, and you will become an easy prey to women who can manipulate your sexual incontinence. Control your sex urges, you won't die if you do so; the ability to be above your sexual urges is a super power that many people underestimate. If you can achieve this, you will be able to "see" more clearly and it will automatically occur to you when someone is trying to exploit your sexual desires for their benefit. It won't work on you, and you will never act needy or desperate for sex because you are above your sexual urges and you will not die if you abstain.

That's why I always encourage everyone to go monk mode for at least one or two years; practice saying "no" to sex even from very enticing and hot ladies and let it master you, and at the same time channel ALL your time, energy, and money on improving yourself or learning something. After that, if you want relationships, no problem; if you still work to remain a monk, no problem.

Edit: growing up, men are never taught or encouraged to learn the useful skill of mastering and taming their sexual urges. Instead, men are praised for having many body counts, and they see such as a glorious pursuit. It is not necessarily bad, but neglecting the useful skill of sexual self-control is very important for men to learn. Not only will it prevent simping big time, it will also avoid terrible and embarrassing situations for men.

mrfizy:
Realizing the "great" extent you went to get a taste of the coochie means great growth ,that is consciousness my brother.
It's not easy reprogramming your mind from decades of blue pill conditioning.
Take a chill pill then continue taking your redpill after.

waywardpikin:
Speak child, the Lord listeneth, speak so that thine heart might be cleansed.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 135, REDPILL 2021

Be loyal to yourself.

Don't make worthless compromise.

Stick to your principles.

Be disciplined.

Find enjoyment in your work.

Be happy in the absence of women. Yeah, you want them, but with or without them your happiness should be intrenched.

Women serves as a form and not as a source. So, stay true to your Purpose.

Authority: Be focus.

waywardpikin:
I don't take threats lightly, but that's just me. From the story you narrated up there, I do believe she means what she says about killing you slowly. From her worldview, you're the villain and she's the victim you're treating badly. Funny enough, she'd like to hopefully marry the villain, with the full intent of making your life miserable with the ultimate aim of owning and then ending your life. Dramatic right? Better believe it.

Do you know what it means for someone to say "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned?"

A whole hell fire, reduced to the wrath of one woman? That shìt is heavy. Nothing they say is a joke, even when they’re saying something while giggling I'm steady taking notes.

You hardly even see her anymore so no regrets. Stay stoic.

ikillbrokegirls:
you need to forget about women out there if you're still in your early 20s
You don't need a woman bro you need to improve yourself first. Don't waste your 20s chasing women invest those time to improve yourself

Kellzzyy:
I've been friends with a certain girl for for quite some time. I invited her over yesterday evening. I initiated sex, she refused. I then had to recourse to 'lamba', telling her all sorts of romantic rubbish and how I loved her more than any other thing in the world. I tried convincing here that I loved her and wasn't just looking for sex.

We were at it for over three hours before I regained my senses. By then she was already conforming to my lies and looked really receptive. She was looking for more assurances of love and commitment from my side and how I will always be there in her financial distress.

Anyways, like I said, I came back to my senses, I told her that I wasn't interested any longer and that she could go. I also told her that this marked the end of our friendship.
Even though she hesitated and said use would think about it and give me a reply tomorrow, I told her not to bother anymore.

The truth is, I am at the moment not interested in being in a relationship of any kind with anybody. I was only telling her all that to make her compliant to my sexual advances.

In retrospect, I feel very foolish for spending such amount of time (three hours) on an unproductive venture and for basically begging her to be with me (even though I didn't mean it). The time would have also been better utilized my me in preparing for the pharmacognosy test I just finished writing this morning.

I have read time and time again from caveadullam and others here how it was foolish to prioritize women over your goals or place them on a pedestal. Also on how self respect, self control etc were very important for a man.
I spent time yesterday telling her a lot of rubbish that I shouldn't have said. Even when I had a test to prepare for, my urge for sex trumped my seemingly RedPill nature.

I feel so sad, does it mean that all the stuff I've been reading here are not impacting on me? Why did they all fly through the window yesterday? I pray I do well in the test. That'll be my only recompense.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 136, REDPILL 2021

Who leads when all are scared of what's beyond? Father!

Who is the nexus between light and darkness? Father!

Who puts his life for the benefits of the whole and those yet unborn? Father!

Who brings out the light in the juveniles by leveraging their darkness for good? Father!

Who makes daughters and sons to illuminate their internal beauty? Father!

Who safeguard from the foes? Father!

Who stands in the midst of the storm to bring warmth to those below? Father!

Who brings out smile in others when he cries? Father!

Who is the stronghold, pillar and strength of civilization? Father!

Authority: Appreciate men. Positive masculinity: the key to sound progression.

SOZINN:
Pure Gold
#SINGLEFATHERHOOD

Jeremani:
There's this girl we've been dating each other for two years now. I have never touched her for once but have kissed her and smooched her.

Last year March i travel to acquire hand work skill, and since then i didn't come back uptill date.

Am working and schooling at thesame time, bc the state i work is thesame state i school. I do send her money once in a while ofcos is money that i won't regret, is just a fraction of what i can spend for my last female siblings.
She is not complaining, ofcos why should she complain? when i have never asked for anything.

She keeps asking me when am going to come back as if she will pay my next session fee.
The truth is that she is tired of this relationship.
There was a time she broke up with me for simply referring to her as ma'am.
She blocked me on all social media handle.
Then send me text stating is over. I didn't even replied the sms.
After like two weeks she unblocked me and started apologizing. I considered and took her back. Then i told her she should never expect that this relationship to be thesame as b4.

Fast forward to yersterday, i was online reading an article. Her message just popped up.
She greeted me and i replied, ask her how she was. She said fine and all that. She said why didn't i chat her up, is it a bad thing if i greet her first. I told her that am not her mate and courtesy demand she being the lady to greet first.

She then said she hate me that am wicked. I told her am not just wicked but am evil.
I ask her, since she said she hate me, why then is she dating me? She said bc she wants to kill me slowly.
I told her b4 she have the chance to kill me, our relationship may probably be over.
She said i should just say the word is over and she will be gone for good. Mind you, this is not the first time she is saying this.
I had to tell her is over btw us, since that's what she want. She said ok. After like 30minute of none of us chatting with each other. She then send message asking if i was serious i told her yes.

Am not regretting anything.
Am i at fault?

gokesoye:
I bleeped up last weekend. I just got a new job. We are still on the training level for the job. My girlfriend is about to go for Nysc Soo she complained of not having enough to buy things for Nysc camp which is genuine. I was paid my training allowance last week Friday. I gave her some money and she went to buy things for nysc the next day. After I sent her the money, She couldnt even give me a call, She only texted me on Whatsapp which got me angry. When she visited me on Sunday, I had to collect some money from my friends to host her. I initiated sex, She said no. Later in the night,We chatted on WhatsApp and I told her about how she is misbehaving, She turned everything over my head and start blaming me. Now I have to struggle over the week to go to work borrowing money from friends yet the person who made me broke is still blaming me. This redpill thread over the week have brought me back to my senses. A mutual friend is having a party today, She will be there and I am about to give her the biggest shocker of her life.

WittyLad:
@1st bolded: from all I've learnt so far, In my own Opinion. As giving attention is precious(expensive) to a man, so is Giving sex precious(expensive) to a lady. The two gives this as a natural sacrifice, every lady is aware of this, that's why they don't give sex freely until the guy in question has reciprocated with enough attention to her(only a 403 would give sex freely without commitment from the guy)
So in summary, the only way you could have made her value your attention is by making her pay with her own precious value too (giving you sex).. if she can't pay back(give sex)especially when you agree that she doesn't pay back,then She sees you as a weak man in her subconscious

nwaezeemmanuel:
Don't Make Everything Be About A Woman

Brothers, you'd agree with me that this message is very needed.

I see too many guys complain, and make women the centre of their focus 24/7. I'd encourage everyone to constantly see the redpill as beyond women - my first contact with TRP was for the sake of dumping naivety, facing what is real and self improvement.

You should be renting healthy mental space in her head, not the reverse.

If you're well under 35 or know you need to be somewhere but haven't gotten there, get your mind tight, body right, image intact and purpose on point.

This doesn't mean you can't talk about women, just make sure some woman isn't eating you up mentally. Stay blessed.

gokesoye:
. Update: She didn't attend the party. I dumped her pretty ass on whatsapp

one ended up in a wheel chair

Martinez39s:
Two simps in the romance section are fùcking themselves up because of a woman.

https://www.nairaland.com/6554268/it-brutal-fight-me-best#101710730

MJBOLT:

one ended up in a wheel chair

luminouz:
Why are you this wicked naaaa?

Why u go do laugh am naaaa? He is in a bad place o.

Funny thing is, he messed up too. Both of them are guilty

Martinez39s:
BOTH OF THEM ARE A SHAME TO THE WORLD.