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Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by apokan200(m): 2:22pm On May 18, 2021 |
A lady who isn’t contributing financially to her wedding shouldn’t be dragging opinions which money is so much involved with you.I think you caused this whole thing because you shouldn’t planned to even marry a who can’t contribute Atleast 500k to her wedding in the first place bros this is so simple tell her to pay 30 percent of the budget fees if she insisted on doing both home and away kind of wedding 1 Like |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by baralatie(m): 2:22pm On May 18, 2021 |
janvier27:That is why it went ballistic between them on the phone call 2 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Sanjemiga: 2:22pm On May 18, 2021 |
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Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by jaxxy(m): 2:22pm On May 18, 2021 |
It is of utmost importance that a man should marry a reasonable wife. Even if u have money doesn’t mean u should be reckless with it just to please people or get unnecessary hype. 2 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by iamDrRhymes(m): 2:23pm On May 18, 2021 |
Maybe you aren’t carrying her along the way you should. Your wife too be should have more say than your mother because it’s her wedding. You guys need to agree 7 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by ogwuche4u(m): 2:23pm On May 18, 2021 |
Sickmod: That can be bleeped during camping. A lady with high taste but has no shishi to contribute is a big liability. The earlier he cuts her off the better. 5 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Vicas2000: 2:24pm On May 18, 2021 |
Dude. Stop telling her what your mum said. Next time....never mention your mum. Also...whatever you do...do not agree to a two day wedding in two different places. If she wants it...then she can pay for it herself. If she can't pay. Then she must do whatever she wants to do within the 2m budget you have. If you allow it to happen Ehn....you go hear am. She will see you as a easy ride and will want her way all the time. Stick to your guns if she bring this issue up again and simply say you are suspending all wedding plans. Let her know there are many people who did wedding with less than 1 million and they didn't die.if she wants it.. She must contribute to it. Take this from someone who has been married for a decade! 8 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by baralatie(m): 2:24pm On May 18, 2021 |
DAramis:She wants the wedding in the city according to op |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Kingk47: 2:24pm On May 18, 2021 |
I am not a relationship expert neither am I good in keeping one. But standing as a neutral I can only tell you that If you don't grow up as a man you would end up having issues in your marriage. You have already planted the seed that you can't make your own decisions and you will always need your wife to make good decisions or else na yawa. You have made your wife to think or to know that you are mummy's boy, it is better to be a daddy's boy than a mummy's boy. No woman want to share the love of her man, no matter who, some women even jealous the love of there husbands to there children. Even if your mum gave that super advice , you should have told your fiancee in such a way that she will feel it's your idea. She may even think when you have issues later in your marriage that you will bring third party. 5 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by ogwuche4u(m): 2:25pm On May 18, 2021 |
apokan200: Supported. 1 Like |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by GreatManBee: 2:25pm On May 18, 2021 |
Annoms: ogbeni, give yourself brain and cut your clothes according to your materials oo. Dont live to please anyone. You may regret it. 3 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by 9jaRealist: 2:25pm On May 18, 2021 |
Kokaine: There are some spectacularly-DUMB folks on Nairaland... > 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by BamBamK: 2:25pm On May 18, 2021 |
Annoms: In this day and age, any woman who still values the wedding more than the marriage should not be taken seriously. Put your feet down! If she won't accept, let get GO! 3 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Biglittlelois(f): 2:25pm On May 18, 2021 |
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Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by timocruzcmbb(m): 2:25pm On May 18, 2021 |
Na watin de scatter wedding be this,after the wedding there is a lot of continuous bills coming,pleas don’t spend more than 1m for the wedding,bills no de finish for marriage oooo |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by WorldRichest: 2:25pm On May 18, 2021 |
This lady that has never earned one kobo in her life wants to bankrupt you. 1 Like |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by ebenope(m): 2:25pm On May 18, 2021 |
Oga, if she can't bring 40% of the budget. You are free to have your way. Wedding is a day, marriage is for years. Think twice and hoose who will manage your resources. 1 Like |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Nobody: 2:26pm On May 18, 2021 |
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Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by baralatie(m): 2:26pm On May 18, 2021 |
I read four million naira for wedding |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by sinola(m): 2:26pm On May 18, 2021 |
...i'm anxiously waiting for ladies in the house to comment but it seems they are all on observation mood. Ladies, receive sense...There is no best wedding or worst wedding. What matters is life after. The money i saved when i did my 'kpankolo' wedding was what i used to buy my land at Ajar,Lagos and to God may have it,i'm living in my own house with my wife who nearly fought me during my wedding because of my choice of wedding. 6 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by uthlaw: 2:26pm On May 18, 2021 |
Kokaine:best advice on nairaland this year! 1 Like |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Sheisenough01: 2:26pm On May 18, 2021 |
Annoms: Broda rub for your life. Leave marriage aside:- [b]Better marry someone that has good financial sense.[b] If she can't see things from your end when you're unmarried when you now enter the bond? I forecast disaster. However, it's simple. Let her understand that their is a budget for wedding and after marriage. Lots of things come in. Youre the man better know when to damn all consequences and put your foot down. |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by yungchop: 2:26pm On May 18, 2021 |
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Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Degrezhaa: 2:27pm On May 18, 2021 |
Women this days don't want a marriage, it's the wedding they are interested in. Best of luck OP 1 Like |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Stefenijoan002(f): 2:27pm On May 18, 2021 |
Can't really say anything coz I don't know how you both started the ship!maybe you alway lavish on her and this has made her have the impression of my man is capable of anything . secondly just make her see reasons as to why you obliged to ur mum's opinion besides it for u both good !lastly give her time to think !don't worry she'll come around . 1 Like |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Nobody: 2:27pm On May 18, 2021 |
Annoms:You’ve spoken well but the only error you made here was discussing it with your mum first. This lady is going to be your wife so make her feel she matters it’s not your mum,s wedding. Sit her down alone without your mother and discuss the issue again perhaps there is a way to compromise. Like you say she is a Corper, so am assuming she is young even the bible talks about the foolishness of youth.You probably spoilt her with cash and she has earned bragging rights. In marriage,it is important how you start so common rice and Dj should not bring bad blood.She also has to mature really quickly as wedding pictures will not pay rent. 5 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Iamtonitoni: 2:27pm On May 18, 2021 |
Annoms: My brother run o! this one only wants wedding for the glitz and glamour not marriage proper. if u like no hear word! |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by uthlaw: 2:28pm On May 18, 2021 |
iamDrRhymes:who b dis one again! 1 Like |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by dake40(m): 2:28pm On May 18, 2021 |
You are a weak man. Its crystal clear. Im just being honest with you. 3 Likes |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by baralatie(m): 2:28pm On May 18, 2021 |
As in 4 million naira? 1 Like |
Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by Edusouls(m): 2:28pm On May 18, 2021 |
Sisi man spotted, am here crying day and night that my late mother ain’t there anymore to give me Good advices, nature still gave u the privilege of having such a sensible mother still alive, and ur listening to girl that after marrying that may mess up ur life tomorrow with out Remorse.all those men regretting their marriages u think they no spend more than u self.. 5 Likes |
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