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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by baralatie(m): 5:36pm On May 21, 2021
Karozy:


In my own opinion it’s not necessary, it’s insecurity that will make a guy wanna go such direction, it’s about meeting the right person and trusting God for things to work out, the truth is a girl most times will always have several admirers that’s the truth so guys have to live with that.
I disagree with the last.
Guys need to be aware that such possibility exist but does not mean that guys should become complacent

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by baralatie(m): 5:37pm On May 21, 2021
Amuochicha:
i hate men
Why such an extreme thought?
There is always the right man for every woman
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by faithfuld: 5:37pm On May 21, 2021
BigBashiru:


If a guy told me this a few years ago, I wouldn't have believed it.... the bolded seems part of female nature and I would like us to discuss it more on this thread..... male cheating does not typically result in children outside wedlock but when women do so, they also have the effontry to bring the bastard children for the unlucky man to raise..... women have been doing this for a while.....




Escabado:
A guy should. But unfortunately marriage doesn't benefit men . Is better u do baby mama things . Nigerian girls of today are so un-productive and very u.suuless. Marrying them is a waste of money because you will regret it at last . She will cheat on u and bring other men children for you to raise . So young men should be careful.
Like seriously.

I was sleeping with my Ex while her mum later told me she is married all those we were doing it. We broke up later. In 5 months, d told me she just delivered off a baby and I called her she said she is married. Am hundred percent sure d baby is mine. But I don't want to cause problem in her marriage. Bcoz I I calculated d Tim we were making raw. She later even told me she wants to go and see my mum. But then it was too late, I was already married and living with my present wife

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by Sicilyjoe: 5:38pm On May 21, 2021
ishowdotgmail:
God knows girls no dey use me play. I select who I Dey date sef and friend zone many.

Most time I just imagine some guys without a single girlfriend while I can count 8 to be the ones I’m dating.


Life no balance grin

Hmmmmm the thing no balance at all, but when u talk they tell u girls full everywhere yet some guys don't have a single girlfriend

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by chatinent: 5:39pm On May 21, 2021
BeautyO:




How can I like this post ten times ....



@op. ┐( ˘_˘)┌

Dear pest, making money has no gender roles.


I would never settle for less.

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by emmy56(m): 5:39pm On May 21, 2021
Ugolistikp:


It shouldn't be about making money alone..rather, about being the best version of urself in all spheres of life..
Even bill gate and Jeff bezos wives leave them ..

Because their wives saw an opportunity to cashout big time.
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by ThePlugg(m): 5:39pm On May 21, 2021
Plan A to Z don't even surprises me... I know the kind of women Naija de produce undecided undecided undecided
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by Karozy: 5:40pm On May 21, 2021
baralatie:

I disagree with the last.
Guys need to be aware that such possibility exist but does not mean that guys should become complacent

That’s your own opinion, am not saying a lady should double date because she has several admirers but a guy must have it at the back of his mind that guys will always toss their girlfriend along the line,it’s about trust and understanding, love inclusive.
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by Geonigga(m): 5:42pm On May 21, 2021
I started dating one babe so sometime in October, 2019, within two months interval into the relationship, this babe was giving me an ultimatum to get married to her or she will end the relationship, she even offered to support the wedding financially, but I stood my ground insisting that we have to know each other well that her request is very premature. Do u know that after December, 2019 this babe broke up with me. Immediately after the eased of lockdown last year, she did her wedding with another guy.

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by baralatie(m): 5:43pm On May 21, 2021
BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?
This your snooty is not the way it works.this is what you are saying:

Tiwa Amina Nneji has 7 boyfriends who are chasing her hand in marriage or for relationship.
Therefore.Nduka Ayo Bala should have 14 girlfriends so that he can compensate.

Can you see that the analogy is completely flawed and not practical.

Tiwa may not end up agreeing to any of the 7 suitors and all the girlfriend that Nduka is chasing may end up with straws
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by Nobody: 5:45pm On May 21, 2021
CrazyCrane:
Everyone got a backup plan.
A year ago I came home from work and I heard my neighbor having heated argument with his fiance, it's not my duty to separate fight.. I walked straight into my apartment.
We were just two living in the compound, few minutes I saw her leaving with her bags...
A month later, I went to visit a colleague, at her busstop, I saw a banner that caught my attention "this my neighbor's fiance na" I exclaimed but this not my neighbor undecided
To cut the story short
She got married to someone else within a month cry
my ex left me that year 2013..few days to valentines day which happened to be my birthday...only for me to get a facebook notification of her update on valentines day and it was Valentine pictures with another guy she went out with....the kin cold I felt that day is still fresh in my memory till this day...even felt it typing this

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by baralatie(m): 5:46pm On May 21, 2021
Karozy:


That’s your own opinion, am not saying a lady should double date because she has several admirers but a guy must have it at the back of his mind that guys will always toss their girlfriend along the line,it’s about trust and understanding, love inclusive.
If a man and a woman in relationship have. developed trust, understanding and love what do you think is the notable characteristic of that union?
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by InvertedHammer: 5:47pm On May 21, 2021
BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?
/
Blame the ladies. But then look at who is out there in the dating pool. Men born after year 2000-- all spoiled brats and "mummy Thank ma". Some of them will prefer to be ladies if they could.

Actually I feel sorry for the young ladies.

/

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by RuddyFusion(m): 5:47pm On May 21, 2021
Came4amod:
Make money and let the jobless ones figure plan A to Z .. u will be everyone’s plan A )

How can I like this 1000 times biko nu
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by kennylesy122(m): 5:48pm On May 21, 2021
You guys take girls matter for head like big deal.....it just normal for girls to have many admirers even the one wey go marry ham sharply go dey....Omor just make money
MAKE MONEY
HUSTLE AND GET ENOUGH MONEY
JUST HUSTLE MAKE ENOUGH MONEY FOR YOURSELF

Girls, ladies, Hoe would come around na u go choose the one you want......

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by Echara: 5:48pm On May 21, 2021
BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

Poor, little boys instead of them to concentrate on being financially useful, they'll be here discussing plan a-z for girls.

Listen to me, mature men don't go looking for girls and being disappointed. Women come looking for them because they have the capacity and confident needed.

Take this as advice from a senior citizen, make yourself useful, women will be the once making plans a-z in case you leave them.

Cheers guy!

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by Kabri: 5:48pm On May 21, 2021
Make d guys first get dere money before thinking about this thing

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by baralatie(m): 5:49pm On May 21, 2021
Geonigga:
I started dating one babe so sometime in October, 2019, within two months interval into the relationship, this babe was giving me an ultimatum to get married to her or she will end the relationship, she even offered to support the wedding fininancially, but I stood my ground insisting that we have to know each other well that her request is very premature. Do u know that after December, 2019 this babe broke up with me and thereafter immediately after the lockdown last year she did her wedding with another guy.
You should thank God nah!
You were not ready to marry such a person nah

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by WaffenSS(m): 5:49pm On May 21, 2021
Faber:


E get people wey there money no dey finish. Abi you don't know that one. Invest in a business that stands even the most troublesome of the pandemic. I knew a guy that bought houses cos covid19 skyrocketed his net worth

He deals on medicals.

Some who are into sports franchises. How can their money finnish everyday there are leagues and matches going on. Even while you are sleeping some guys are in stadium locking horns. Scoring goals. You wake up to met money in your account.

Some saved their money in foreign currency and once exchange rates go up they cash out.

Some are into transportation... Whether you like it or not their money comes everyday. If NNPC increase fuel price... E no concern them... They increase the tfares grin


There's no type of business that revenues cannot dry up.

Businesses by their very nature are volatile to many internal and external forces.

There's no business segment that did not feel the impact of covid-19. Even pharmaceuticals, because logistics, supply chains and credit lines were affected.

Also, all businesses are interdependent on each other: the customers of the sports goods company and drugstores have to earn money elsewhere to spend in the respective sports items and drugs. If a grocer is under lock down, he can't make sales, if he can't make sales, he can't afford sports goods and drugs, and if the sports goods and drugstores can't make sales, revenues dry up, and your rich person suddenly isn't so rich anymore.

As for your fuel hike and transportation business analogy, you do know there's a domino effect. The increased transport fare will have its purchasing power reduced because all other costs go up, including costs of spare parts and maintenance, and the cost of living of the transportation people.

You're ruinously caught in static while the world is in flux.

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by emonis88: 5:49pm On May 21, 2021
[quote author=powerbank6000 post=101926647][b]That should not be your headache, make money and shine, they will come looking for you with halogen lamp.

If money grew on trees, Nigerian women would be married to monkeys !!!

Guy na true o! If money grew on trees , Nigerian girls go dey marry monkey!!! She just tell u dat " she took him to d best spa in town ,he is so handsome" grin grin
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by Nobody: 5:50pm On May 21, 2021
Came4amod:
Make money and let the jobless ones figure plan A to Z .. u will be everyone’s plan A )
This your advice should be meant for both genders
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by orikoku: 5:51pm On May 21, 2021
Am interested in this topic. Coming back.
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by AntagonistKKK(m): 5:52pm On May 21, 2021
Tread of the week.
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by debbydams(f): 5:58pm On May 21, 2021
BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?
common sense is not common embarassed
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by anoziechi(f): 5:59pm On May 21, 2021
Escabado:
A guy should. But unfortunately marriage doesn't benefit men . Is better u do baby mama things . Nigerian girls of today are so un-productive and very u.suuless. Marrying them is a waste of money because you will regret it at last . She will cheat on u and bring other men children for you to raise . So young men should be careful.
shataaap anakogheri.... What happened to help build her to your taste
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by DEMZEE(m): 6:03pm On May 21, 2021
Just play the game, If u loose u loose. If u win u win... It's that simple
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by Nobody: 6:03pm On May 21, 2021
BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

Only Adults who are "GREAT FOOLS" still dedicate most of their time reasoning about Vagina People and are still yet to know most of the Gimmicks about the Vagina People In Year 2021......

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by ofiko123(m): 6:05pm On May 21, 2021
May God help us all. .
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by DEMZEE(m): 6:06pm On May 21, 2021
Guys spin as many plates in ur 20s and never settle for an exclusive relationship in your 20s.
By the time u are in ur 30s u will b well equipped to make sensible exclusive relationship decisions, as u are spinning plates also ensure you are increasing your value as a man.

The sexual market value peak for females is 23yrs and for men is 38yrs fellas, never settle for less guys

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by AgentGoat: 6:08pm On May 21, 2021
WaffenSS:



There's no type of business that revenues cannot dry up.

Businesses by their very nature are volatile to many internal and external forces.

There's no business segment that did not feel the impact of covid-19. Even pharmaceuticals, because logistics, supply chains and credit lines were affected.

Also, all businesses are interdependent on each other: the customers of the sports goods company and drugstores have to earn money elsewhere to spend in the respective sports items and drugs. If a grocer is under lock down, he can't make sales, if he can't make sales, he can't afford sports goods and drugs, and if the sports goods and drugstores can't make sales, revenues dry up, and your rich person suddenly isn't so rich anymore.

As for your fuel hike and transportation business analogy, you do know there's a domino effect. The increased transport fare will have its purchasing power reduced because all other costs go up, including costs of spare parts and maintenance, and the cost of living of the transportation people.

You're ruinously caught in static while the world is in flux.


Don't mind that small boy. They don't know what life is. There's nothing that goes up and won't come down. What about world billionaires that went bankrupt?

Money is important in a relationship/marriage. But it's not always the all. So many jobless graduates doing menial jobs are married to beautiful ladies that are not cheating on them because they don't have money. Me personally am not looking for money to impress any woman. My money is to make myself happy. And i ll spend reasonably on any woman i will marry.

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Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by Uniique(m): 6:08pm On May 21, 2021
Amuochicha:
i hate men
Na ur problem be that
Re: Most Girls Already Have Back Up Plans Of Various Guys - How To Deal With This by jaxxy(m): 6:09pm On May 21, 2021
BigBashiru:
Any girl you are approaching - either for dating or marriage already has at least 7 guys propositioning her at any given time.... and are constantly evaluating their options.... this explains why a girl could say no to you one weekend and then you will hear a month down the line she has just done a wedding....

Should a guy also have 7 girls in the pipeline to keep the power dynamics equal?

When ure not married to that person it’s wise to assume they have options, how serious those options are is the question. Bt they are and should be free to have options. A relationship can always still be broken so I have no problems in a gal having options unless we both agree to make it Totally Exclusive because we are now seeing a wedding in view. Asides that pls let her breed alittle. Don’t choke each other. It’s healthy. Lol

If u don’t want options MARRY HER right away or begin the plans with a set date in view.

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