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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by tunnex190: 8:39pm On May 21, 2021 |
I am familiar with this situation in so many ways. I know how business like this is done. If you are short of staff, you can use the limited time that you have while you are not attending to customers to do the dishes. When you do have customers, you can stop and continue when you are done with them. That's multitasking. What would she have done, if he hadn't come when he did? Also, the wife need to understand that the husband has given her warning by looking at her in a strange way and she's not supposed to repeat herself again. Like many here have said, a man/husband without job is an angry man. He's going through a lot at that moment and you don't need to compound it. Although he's very wrong to slap you. He can just walk away |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Apktotheworld: 8:41pm On May 21, 2021 |
obimag:Jehovah ekueme bless your cranium jare. Iono know wassup with African men. Thick skinned apes and resistant to change. No be ordinary business. But if na the man tell her to wash plate and she no do am, it will be seen as insubordination... Radarada buruku. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by AFONAMARO: 8:43pm On May 21, 2021 |
richmond500: Brain dead. Your type deserve to live alone as you consider women to be inferior and second class citizens 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ibechris(m): 8:48pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hardgun: What then is marriage if the man can't help his wife? Nawa...for ur statement. It shows that there are more stupid men in Nigeria than normal ones. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by nakamoraa(m): 8:48pm On May 21, 2021 |
Na small small like this insult dey take start. Na fromhelp me buy snuff, person dey enter market. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by bukolabeauty09(f): 8:50pm On May 21, 2021 |
Most time the tone in our voice brings alot of effect. Telling him to wash plates isn't the issue but the way you said it is the issue. Also you should have at least allow him rest first person was just coming in from somewhere you don't know what state he was and you just gave him instruction to go wash plate. That's very unreasonable of you....if he wasn't around wont you find a way of washing the plates? Why not then allow him to rest before engaging him and also say this in a more secretive and polite way. You ordered him around in the presence of the customers and brought his self esteem down and also didn't consider his mental state at that moment those are the things you did wrong. Anyways he is still very annoyed when he is not convenient in his friend place he'll come home. Allow him cool down and beg for his forgiveness later and also pray he gets job ontime. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by richmond500: 8:51pm On May 21, 2021 |
AFONAMARO:insulting me doesn't make u better than a simp, set ur boundaries. There are things as a husband u will do to help ur wife, do go about washing plates in a restaurant, people deh big pass some things |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by jacoik(m): 8:52pm On May 21, 2021 |
Elporo:may our ancestors bless you my guy |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ChiefSweetus: 8:54pm On May 21, 2021 |
Theboy21: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by AFONAMARO: 8:59pm On May 21, 2021 |
richmond500: You are obviously a kid. You called me a fool and that wasn't an insult to you. But when I returned your lack of civility, you come crying like a child. You obviously need mentoring on what marriage entails. Now, run along, kiddo 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Willybos(m): 9:02pm On May 21, 2021 |
Gbest90:We're not 100% Mr. English |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Masterito(m): 9:03pm On May 21, 2021 |
I don't need to explain anything to you. Let experience be your teacher. Trust me you know nothing about marriage. I won't be surprised if you are single. MOVIC6: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 9:06pm On May 21, 2021 |
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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by eseelvis: 9:07pm On May 21, 2021 |
DaCharis2016:I believe the lady speak with a harsh voice and maybe the husband is not in good mood, but raising hand at your wife is never the best, 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Willybos(m): 9:08pm On May 21, 2021 |
Gbest90:We're not 100% Mr. English bukolabeauty09: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by richmond500: 9:11pm On May 21, 2021 |
AFONAMARO:I called u a simp which u are obviously a simp, if u think u are also a fool, then I didn't know. I am sorry for ur misfortune 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 9:11pm On May 21, 2021 |
cococandy: If you TRUELY respect ur husband in the 1st place you won't even wish him to wash plate or sweep the floor talkless of outside. Lets imagine the man had come down from is SUV on a starched native/shirt with mess wey choke ... can that woman try that nonsense. naa see finish cause am. As a woman if the crown of your head (ade ori) can be washing plate outside then such woman is shameless & deserves no respect from bachelors in that area. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Dahmum(f): 9:12pm On May 21, 2021 |
Honestly you need more slap. So degrading. You could have used other method. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by AFONAMARO: 9:14pm On May 21, 2021 |
richmond500: You do not even know the meaning of a simp, coward. Go to bed, kids are asleep already |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by harmony75: 9:16pm On May 21, 2021 |
This man does not need any job he already has one " the restaurant" So washing dishes makes him less a man?! The man lacks wisdom so sad!!! |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by gymnasium(m): 9:20pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hardgun: Oga there is nothing wrong with telling him to help her out.....what's with this ego handling from men ah ah your own wife for that matter The man(boy) no try at all |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by luluman: 9:23pm On May 21, 2021 |
Jeon:Birds of a feather. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by romoruyi(m): 9:25pm On May 21, 2021 |
I do not see anything wrong with washing plate for a lady who has done her part to take care of things while he's down. She is a wife and not ur enemy, 2 shall become one. Love covers multitude of sin; insecurity and low self esteem can speak to a man's heart because he has nothing towards maltreating his wife but if you are wise to observe, I tell you that woman called ur wife, means well and not bad. The one person to understand her more is her husband. Pride is not what makes a man but wisdom rather. Not unless she has stepped over the lines, then you can simply walk away. You are set over her not by just strength but by being the head. Swallow ur pride as a man and get job and get things fixed but strike her not, that is what it means for a man to be the HEAD! |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by oneju: 9:29pm On May 21, 2021 |
At the moment this is the business that is taking care of the home, paying the rent and school fees for the children. a little help or support will not kill the man..so the woman will do all the work.and come home and still do bed work.. madam to me you are not wrong |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by richmond500: 9:29pm On May 21, 2021 |
AFONAMARO:u are also a coward? Damn, I am sorry for u |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by bigtt76(f): 9:36pm On May 21, 2021 |
Why would you want to insult me? Did I insult you? What is wrong in a man without good source of income supporting his wife in any venture she decides to go into to assist the family? It's people like you that tend to discourage others from a humble beginning. benji93: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Ekugbeh(m): 9:36pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy:calm down dear. There's more to this story |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 9:37pm On May 21, 2021 |
There is always a problem when a woman becomes the bread winner of the family |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hogan17: 9:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
Galaxydon1:I don't see anything wrong with the fact that you are dumb |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ACE1010: 9:45pm On May 21, 2021 |
He should have added a SUPER KICK to make more brutal ..... nonsense upon foolishness 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by brownemmanuel43(m): 9:50pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy:Will I keep quiet, see your mouth man do this man do that. I wasn't surprised with your comment, after all what do women of nowadays know 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by MOVIC6: 9:53pm On May 21, 2021 |
People like you will see yout woman changing babes diaper and still want her to come dish your food out, people like you will see your woman doing yout laundry still expect the woman to do they children’s homework, people like will see that the woman is tired from work and still want to climb her, people like you don’t deserve marriage, you better go be a priest where you can expect much respect. Oga you are not yet matured enough yo give advice in marriage. Jus go and sit down. Marriage is not jus respect or pride, is not about the man but the both of you. If your experience is ur idea, I reject it many times and over. Rest this case please Masterito: |
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