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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ruggedtimi(m): 9:39am On May 25, 2021
For her to call the guy in your presence...baba ur wife no get regard for you. Fix your house.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by lolipopandy(f): 9:54am On May 25, 2021
''.
ruggedtimi:
For her to call the guy in your presence...baba ur wife no get regard for you. Fix your house.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Austeeenxx: 9:57am On May 25, 2021
Why You go marry girl for her hoe phase?

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by richmond500: 9:59am On May 25, 2021
lolipopandy:
Sometimes the guilt you men feel for cheating make y'all feel your partner is doing so, looking for respect y'all can't give.
Ogbeni sharap, how many men do u know that call their female bestie in front of their wives?
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by lolipopandy(f): 10:01am On May 25, 2021
Cuz you do it in secret doesn't make you a saint,ogbeni sit down and FYI you can pass your message without insulting someone.
richmond500:
Ogbeni sharap, how many men do u know that call their female bestie in front of their wives?
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by richmond500: 10:05am On May 25, 2021
lolipopandy:
Cuz you do it in secret doesn't make you a saint,ogbeni sit down and FYI you can pass your message without insulting someone.
u are just an annoying feminist, the topic was about OP and his wife, but somehow u found a way to blame men.
How many people on this thread generalized it and insulted a particular gender except u?
BTW, I'm a demisexual so I don't cheat, u mollusk
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Nobody: 10:09am On May 25, 2021
When you're dating someone and you see something you don't like, if you can't get them to stop then, don't expect them to stop after marriage.

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Nonexisting: 10:19am On May 25, 2021
Now the boy is running from your wife, there is problem. Any time your wife catch him, they must fucck. You want to bet?

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Daum: 10:19am On May 25, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.
Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful she easily make friends where ever she find her self thats her nature and kind of personality. Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention her is lavishing on him, I have complain to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.
One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy have been trying to distance him self from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife where together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.
My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own, my wife is refusing to understand that in marriage they are things u will have to let go.


My bro
I have a female bestie.
She has a boyfriend. But we still bleep. We were bleeping before they started dating. We are still bleeping. Funny enough she tried to stay away from me. I told her I should block her and not call her again, she refused.
Communication continued and it led to bleeping again.

So bros
Cut of her communication with the dude
Before you do it
Try to meet him. Talk to him man to man. Just a beer talk. Then change your wife's line. Take her away from social media for a while. This might not be the best advice but bro.... Nothing like male best friend for a woman. They will and must Bleep
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by OSDD(m): 10:25am On May 25, 2021
dawnomike:
Invite the guy over to your house and make him your friend... You have to keep your 'enemies' closer in sight
#LawOfPower


This is gold
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Nobody: 10:49am On May 25, 2021
Your marriage is just two months old relax man.

With time, the bond between she and the bestie will wear off, by the time she gets pregnant and have a child, trust me, she may not even remember the name of that bestie.

It’s too early for insecurities please, give her time.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by aje55393: 11:18am On May 25, 2021
:Invite the guy over to your house and make him your friend... You have to keep your 'enemies' closer in sight #LawOfPowerThis is gold

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by poshestmina(f): 11:34am On May 25, 2021
A quick search on your topics shows how immature and silly you are.
Shey it was because of this your wife you ",dumped" and insults another babe?

Enjoy being the second husband to your wife grin grin
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by VlamesIffect(f): 11:36am On May 25, 2021
agbolahan1991:

Age has nothing to do with maturity...
Anyone can be a victim of any circumstances....
The fact that u are saved from a circumstance is GRACE not one is exempted from any circumstances...
I believe he loves the girl if not he wouldn't be too concerned...
Age has nothing to do with intelligence, maturity, wisdom and wealth...
It's GRACE

Which kind yeye grace,

a 22 yo girl isn't ready to settle down simple!!. Obviously if she was mature she will understand that this is marriage & put her head in one place to make it work.

The guts to call your "best friend" while with your husband is that maturity?

Stop being naive.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Mecka: 12:09pm On May 25, 2021
dederocs:

Apt, a girl in her 20's has not yet fully explored life, she can be easily bleeped and manipulated.
but she's highly fertile
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Mecka: 12:22pm On May 25, 2021
richmond500:
most girls in their early 20's are not marriageable.
That is the age when they want to explore their fantasies cos while in their teens, their parents always protect them and stop them from having intimacy with the opposite gender while their elder sisters and brothers always sleep out and have friends, all they do in their teen is masturbate and hope they get older to have a mind of their own too.

Getting married to the 20's is like denying them the right to explore the world they have longed for, at this age, they will be rebellious if u stop them cos they feel they are adults and adults do what they like.
When they get older and more experienced, they try to understand that being an adult is not thesame as doing what u like, at this stage, u can wife them and have peace of mind
Unfortunately, many nigerian girls don't mature with age. For instance, a 27 yr old girl can be acting like an 15 yr old, not becos she's deformed but becos she refuse to grow up

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Mecka: 12:43pm On May 25, 2021
At 22, you may have married her when she wasn't ready. A girl her age is still basking in the euphoria of youthfulness. Reality hasn't dawn on her yet. That is why she can be messing around with a male friend. The best you can do is call a family meeting or look for an elderly woman to advice her.

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Leece(m): 1:14pm On May 25, 2021
It's honestly going to be hard for you.

You are her husband but not her best-friend. This guys probably knows all your wife's insecurities and history so much so that if they have a conversation right in front of you, you might have nothing to add.

She isn't going to give up trying to get her best-friend and if she does, she will resent you for a longtime.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by bragamycin: 1:51pm On May 25, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.
Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful she easily make friends where ever she find her self thats her nature and kind of personality. Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention her is lavishing on him, I have complain to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.
One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy have been trying to distance him self from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife where together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.
My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own, my wife is refusing to understand that in marriage they are things u will have to let go.

You are not a nice person at all. You noticed BESTIE during ur relationship with her, you didn’t warn her or cut it off. U Jejely acted cool nd after u Deceived her into marriage , it’s now that u realized u are not comfortable with bestie. You wicked sha

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by bepositive11: 2:19pm On May 25, 2021
Meteng:
You mean "called the guy" in your presence? She obviously doesn't respect you and believe me, she loves the guy more than you. This one no be bestie, na her main guy, only say the guy no ready to marry prolly because of lack of funds, and the girl no fit wait again. Na you come be the fall guy

Exactly what I was thinking

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by jasonclement(m): 2:56pm On May 25, 2021
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by jasonclement(m): 2:57pm On May 25, 2021
ruggedtimi:
For her to call the guy in your presence...baba ur wife no get regard for you. Fix your house.
Gbam!!!
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Nobody: 3:19pm On May 25, 2021
agbolahan1991:

Don't invite him ooo.....
If your woman continue to see him, she will develop more interest.....
Women are flexible.
I repeat don't invite him to your house ...
Ignore them...
it takes only a gangster to deal with the situation using this method....after keeping the outsider closer, I'll also suggest he makes his mind known fast and finally scare him off with an offer he cannot refuse.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by stormborn28(m): 3:28pm On May 25, 2021
dederocs:

Apt, a girl in her 20's has not yet fully explored life, she can be easily bleeped and manipulated.
hmmmmmmmm
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by westlius(m): 3:49pm On May 25, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.
Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful she easily make friends where ever she find her self thats her nature and kind of personality. Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention her is lavishing on him, I have complain to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.
One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy have been trying to distance him self from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife where together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.
My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own, my wife is refusing to understand that in marriage they are things u will have to let go.
Get ur own female bestie too
When she frowns at it tell her u both should drop ur bestiess

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by favtex(m): 3:55pm On May 25, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.
Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful she easily make friends where ever she find her self thats her nature and kind of personality. Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention her is lavishing on him, I have complain to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.
One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy have been trying to distance him self from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife where together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.
My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own, my wife is refusing to understand that in marriage they are things u will have to let go.
Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.
Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful she easily make friends where ever she find her self thats her nature and kind of personality. Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention her is lavishing on him, I have complain to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.
One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy have been trying to distance him self from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife where together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.
My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own, my wife is refusing to understand that in marriage they are things u will have to let go.
Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.
Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful she easily make friends where ever she find her self thats her nature and kind of personality. Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention her is lavishing on him, I have complain to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.
One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy have been trying to distance him self from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife where together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.
My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own, my wife is refusing to understand that in marriage they are things u will have to let go.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by DEMZEE(m): 4:12pm On May 25, 2021
U are bloody simp for getting married to a lady that clearly doesn't respect you
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by EverythingFit: 4:18pm On May 25, 2021
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by richmond500: 4:21pm On May 25, 2021
westlius:

Get ur own female bestie too
When she frowns at it tell her u both should drop ur bestiess
that's like giving her the chance to go on with her male bestie.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Flamemignon1(m): 4:28pm On May 25, 2021
There's obviously a connection between them both.


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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by richmond500: 4:31pm On May 25, 2021
Lalasticlala myndd44 Dominique seun.
This thread no deserve FP?
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by HolyTitus(m): 4:43pm On May 25, 2021
richmond500:

An inexperienced lady is not an intelligent lady.

With age comes experience, with experience comes maturity, there may be few people that are old and stupid but in majority, age and maturity goes hand in hand.

that's the age when they feel they are adults and can do as they like, they are even rebellious at home to anyone who tries to advice them. You will even hear some of them saying "She no go go advice her pikin, is her daughter better than I am"
Humm

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