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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:27pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Yoighaman:Your experience, though regrettable, doesn't show that she was/is a bad woman. She saw a pest in you (trust me most women dread having men that are pests). Thing is, she didn't trust you enough! I can't fault nor justify her actions because I am not abreast with the situation save your own side, but I think splitting was in the best interest of you both. But did you tell her it was a repayable loan with specific date/period of repayment? |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by kpompey: 1:27pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Babara1994: Can I log into you then the first part is cleared. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:30pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
MrDam:This one is repayable loan... It's not bad. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by 15ssDRIVE(m): 1:33pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf: In this situation,it’s as delicate is riding bicycle without brake to Sabo junction. Good woman,you no even need to ask. Bad one ….. every time he is broke,am his only source of help … |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by ThierryHenrie(m): 1:33pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
ShitHead: Who will help a nairalander, having ulcer and haven't eaten for days now. It's terrible. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf:It makes you look less of a man. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by BRATISLAVA: 1:35pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Dependent men will come here crying for women to give them money. Yet they don't want dependent women. Shortly, they will talk about being men. The hypocrisy of men is never surprising. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Kondomatic(m): 1:37pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
extralargehead:Contribute to build the relationship? I don't understand what you mean by that. Can you please explain better? |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by youngreezy(m): 1:38pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Bola146:this one you say foods,abeg you fit specify the type of food? Because my mind wan spoil me here lol |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by abimic(m): 1:38pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
No big deal in that, even a relationship where it is only one side that is giving is even a red flag to me. Both parties must learn to help each other, that the man does not ask does not mean he is not in need of something, that is where the understanding comes in. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by mrksquare: 1:45pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf: I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other ..... If you ask with the view of paying back that's fine. My girlfriend borrows me money when I'm broke. And I always ensure that I pay her back with small interest the moment I'm liquid. On a general note, many a Nigeria ladies are very tight-fisted when it comes to freely given out their money to their supposed boyfriend or husband. And when they eventually give you their money they expect that you must pay back. They have been conditioned by our patriarchy system into believing that men are givers and not takers. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by deltateam: 1:46pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: "See finish" you mean. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by thatsleepboy1: 1:48pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Mrscarter: Good I'll say. Just kicking & many thanks. How's your family doing?. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by nedzuby: 1:49pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
sapphiere:Is there any place they wrote it? Relationship is a 2 way thing. The 2 people are meant to help each other.women asking men for money does not make them less a woman so why should it make a Man less a man? 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by richie240: 1:51pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
in d olden days the woman belongs to the man and that includes all she owns/inherited. Hence he Then, the man was the (literal) LORD of his wife. Nowadays na 'partnership', hence d man *asking*/begging/borrowing from his wife. Shior! |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Hathor5(f): 1:55pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Depends on the boyfriend and the circumstances but generally speaking I am of the opinion that in a loving relationship you help each other no matter what. I know many ladies who make way more money than their husbands and it's not a problem. It's only on NL that men pay all bills and can afford 3 wives and 5 concubines. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Saao(m): 1:56pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf:lol, time for insult never come. When you least expect it, she will insulting you. Avoid asking for money from partners |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by pocohantas(f): 1:58pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Hathor5: True. As for the closing part, every guy here na redpiller earning in 6-7 figures. Only on Nairaland. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by ehay(f): 1:58pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Wittyduchess:[color=#006600][/color] I agree 100% with you.... dragging you down and also insulting and threatening you on top of it... |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by pocohantas(f): 2:00pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Kondomatic: E wan invest am, thereby building the relationship. Men never request money for trivialities. Either they wan invest am for business or project. We women need to learn from them. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
ehay:The more reason what works for A will not work for B . Know the type of man you as a woman is married to , that lady A entrusted her husband with her project and he executed it doesn't mean your own case will be like that. I have seen men who used their wife's Money to womanize and flex instead of using it to plan for the family. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Madu123(m): 2:03pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
My girlfriend gives me money when am broke, even without asking her. She's an angel ❤️ |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Hathor5(f): 2:05pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
pocohantas: Internet heroes. Long time dear. How have you been? |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by mrkings84(m): 2:08pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
What is good for Paul is also good for Silas! |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by RightToReject(m): 2:09pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Yes, provided that it isn't resulting from self-centeredness, greed, complacency, and unambition - it's evil to project your need on her under any guise. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by pocohantas(f): 2:11pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Hathor5: Na you disappear, so long time to you. I am fine, guess you are fine too. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by KIDfurniture(m): 2:11pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
This one na werey o . Didnt u ask ur mama for money? Abi is ur girl friend not going to be a mama one day. Alaye steal.her money if u cant ask, if u r caught be a man about it.. |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by GoodBoi1(m): 2:11pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
What's the point of being in a marriage if you can't share finances? Two able adults living together and only one person carrying the load? 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Lamanii22(f): 2:14pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Yes now... A man can be broke sometimes... 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Hathor5(f): 2:14pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
pocohantas: I never disappear completely. I always check on those I like. 1 Like |
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