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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by temitope27: 1:08pm On Jun 07
If she no even contribute, she's a liable. Yoruba will say kokoro ajenirun

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by OzziOhinoyi(m): 1:08pm On Jun 07
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Unsad(m): 1:08pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by dododawa1: 1:09pm On Jun 07
This life
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Wittyduchess: 1:09pm On Jun 07
Depending on the type of man.



A man like my sponsor, who sends money on errands,never misappropriates

Then there is my neighbor who his wife gave money to buy 30 bags of cement so they can start building, he used it to gamble, bought drinks for friends.


There are some type of men that even when you try to be their support ,they end up dragging you down.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by dododawa1: 1:09pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by berrystunn(m): 1:09pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by 900warriorz(m): 1:10pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by gigabyte13: 1:10pm On Jun 07
And what's wrong with that, if the motives for asking is not deceptive....??

Every man needs financial support at one point or the other, if your woman can be magnanimous enough to help out, why not ask and prevent your cashless ego from embarrassing you.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by yusluvad(m): 1:10pm On Jun 07
Yes offcourse...
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by MuhMubRaj(m): 1:10pm On Jun 07
If you ask your woman for some money while you are broke and she refuses to help, Run. That's a Maroon Red Flag.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by ZAMANI123(m): 1:10pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:11pm On Jun 07
If it is a repayable loan or there is urgency, there is nothing wrong.

But if it is non repayable loan, as in asking her to "bring" money to run stuffs at home regukatly, it is highly unmanly.

A man must be in charge of his home, both in authority and finances. Financial burden bearer is part of the responsibilities of husbands.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Desmond1233333: 1:12pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by ceede2: 1:14pm On Jun 07
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true
Since you can't ask 'em, come and ask me. Rubbish!
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by phemmyfour: 1:14pm On Jun 07
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true
Trust is the main issue. If you earn her trust, she ll give you her everything
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by vickydevoka(m): 1:14pm On Jun 07
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....
It all depends on your ego. People like us way no get shame. We de ask everything. I see my galfriend as a partner and friend I don't see her as my first child

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by generalwo(m): 1:14pm On Jun 07
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true
...... Nothing wrong with asking your woman for money but don't make it a habit or use it to take advantage of her.... Na small thing dey cause see finish and na small shit dey spoil yansh

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by meobizy(f): 1:16pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Yoighaman(m): 1:17pm On Jun 07
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

That is how it's meant to be, helping and supporting one another but this world is no longer normal, abnormality everywhere.

It depends on the nature, perspective and belief of the person you are dealing with.

I lost a relationship many years ago because I asked her for assistance, business had not picked up as envisaged and I was in dire need of funds.

I usually wouldn't ask, maybe because of my ego but I let them down and asked, but she saw it as a 'red flag', she saw me as a potential pest and stylishly ended the relationship. She was abroad and perhaps might have thought all of us in Nigeria are baggages.

I felt very sad but then, life goes on. Am I a better person now? Hell YES!

Thank God I went through that temporary financial challenge, I would have married the wrong woman.

So, it all depends on the particular man or woman you are in a relationship with, there is no 'one size fits all' answer.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by meobizy(f): 1:18pm On Jun 07
Being a girlfriend is not a poverty alleviation program. If she is unwise to aid with finances when needed — cut that idiot off. She’ll get more stingy as the years progress.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by FashionCookie(f): 1:18pm On Jun 07
If you are broke and decide to seek help from your wife or girlfriend, what's wrong in that? If you can't go to her for help who would you rather go to? She's called "help-mate" for a reason. If I be man and my woman no fit help me in time of need, of what use is she? And it's not as if it's a dash. I'll surely pay back to keep my self respect.
But first, you have to be a giver. No be say u go stingy your own and expect woman to dey borrow you all the time. Life na do 4 me, I do 4 you. Nobody be mumu.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by peacettw: 1:20pm On Jun 07
Yes
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by thatsleepboy1: 1:21pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Mrscarter(f): 1:23pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by MrDam(m): 1:24pm On Jun 07
My woman is always ready to give me if I ask anytime any day but when returning it she's like 2500+2500= 41000 that's why I'm tired to borrow from her

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Pim1: 1:25pm On Jun 07
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by stupidmod3: 1:26pm On Jun 07
very stupid question, sorry to say
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by tojahh(m): 1:26pm On Jun 07
If i tell you how much I dey owe my Girlfriend ehn.

Maybe na why she never leave me sha

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