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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Mrscarter(f): 9:25am On Jun 09
Blyzz:
O na dey see woman response. How she use smart tactic take discharge her grin

Lol i no discharge anybody. Is my opinion tho
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Blyzz(m): 11:14am On Jun 09
Mrscarter:


Lol i no discharge anybody. Is my opinion tho
Na so grin... If it a guy, you ladies will tag him as stinginess or a broke guy cheesy
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Blyzz(m): 11:18am On Jun 09
Mrscarter:


Lol i no discharge anybody. Is my opinion tho
Na so grin... If it a guy, you ladies will tag him as stinginess or a broke guy cheesy
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Yoighaman(m): 3:31pm On Jun 09
TonyeBarcanista:

Your experience, though regrettable, doesn't show that she was/is a bad woman. She saw a pest in you (trust me most women dread having men that are pests). Thing is, she didn't trust you enough! I can't fault nor justify her actions because I am not abreast with the situation save your own side, but I think splitting was in the best interest of you both.

But did you tell her it was a repayable loan with specific date/period of repayment?

Bro. or Sist.

Every experience should be converted to a lesson.

What is wrong in asking your partner for support?

So, asking for support is tantamount to being a pest?

Anyway, I thank God for that experience.

I met another woman about a year later, very good person but quite unfortunate she lost her lucrative job and was not really boxed up.

The lesson God taught me was made manifest in that relationship. She is not a pest, na money she nor get, nor be say she kill person.

I will never see her as a pest. She is a friend going through financial challenges which someday she would overcome. God bless her.

It is well with us all.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by DedeNkem: 10:07pm On Jun 09
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

Any woman who says it's a red flag to assist her guy financially, is a certified gold-digger.

If we should use the same st*upid logic, then why should a man assist a woman financially? What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Rosement: 8:43pm On Jun 10
It is not right for a guy or a lady to demand money while dating. If your partner gives you money without you asking, you are free to accept it or reject it but don't demand money from your partner.

Build yourself, learn to be financially independent. Let your partner know what is going on in your life, if your partner really loves instead of giving you money and encouraging you to be reliant, he/she will support your goals and dreams financially in order to make you financially independent.

If you are married, it is good for you and your partner to split expenses. For respect to exist in a relationship, it is not good for any of the partners to be reliant.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Mrscarter(f): 1:11pm On Jun 11
Blyzz:
Na so grin... If it a guy, you ladies will tag him as stinginess or a broke guy cheesy

Nope not me. Ppl cant give wat they dont have. Male or female.
Although there are stingly ppl of both sexes but thats their perogative.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Blyzz(m): 2:34pm On Jun 11
Mrscarter:


Nope not me. Ppl cant give wat they dont have. Male or female.
Although there are stingly ppl of both sexes but thats their perogative.
No qualms, noted smiley!!

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