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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by kinzation(m): 5:04pm On Jun 07
Come
Make I fvck you
I go give you 10k
Babara1994:

Please dear. I need 2k
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by cridbak(m): 5:08pm On Jun 07
frozen70:

You must have been tickled after reading this

Lol.. wasn’t tickled. I laughed because I have been there and experienced it grin grin grin
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Babara1994(f): 5:10pm On Jun 07
kinzation:
Come
Make I fvck you
I go give you 10k
Mtchew
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by larryjonze: 5:46pm On Jun 07
pocohantas:


True. As for the closing part, every guy here na redpiller earning in 6-7 figures. Only on Nairaland.



Just as every gurl here are feminist & independent, never asked or collect money from a man. coincidentally there body count is alway two. Only on Nairaland

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by jaxxy(m): 6:07pm On Jun 07
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

If he gives her then she can equally give him based the level of their relationship. A man is a human being just like she is. He's not a robot or Atm dispenser. Even Some Atm's now collect cash undecided
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Kondomatic(m): 6:24pm On Jun 07
pocohantas:


E wan invest am, thereby building the relationship. Men never request money for trivialities. Either they wan invest am for business or project. We women need to learn from them. cheesy cheesy
No kill me with laugh abeg gringrin.


I doubt if the guy knew what he was saying, he Prolly said that to justify collecting money from women, which to me is not necessary.

There's always going to be a reason to collect money from your partner. Banks can change their minds and not allow your transactions to go through, business can be delayed, brokenness can overtake one over night and the next person one should reach out to in a time like that is his partner.

I mean, if a man has beautiful relationship, he plays his part and supports her when need arises then why should he need a justification to ask his woman for financial support?

Nah destructive ego go kill us las las.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Olamilekan08(m): 6:44pm On Jun 07
In this our economy. Some days the son of man can be broke.

I ask money (of course I mean borrow) from my friends - boys and girls alike, sisters, mother anyone that happens to be at hand.

Na man I be, I no be superman

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by pocohantas(f): 7:34pm On Jun 07
Kondomatic:
No kill me with laugh abeg gringrin.


I doubt if the guy knew what he was saying, he Prolly said that to justify collecting money from women, which to me is not necessary.

There's always going to be a reason to collect money from your partner. Banks can change their minds and not allow your transactions to go through, business can be delayed, brokenness can overtake one over night and the next person one should reach out to in a time like that is his partner.

I mean, if a man has beautiful relationship, he plays his part and supports her when need arises then why should he need a justification to ask his woman for financial support?

Nah destructive ego go kill us las las.

I know it was unnecessary, but you know with you guys, any small thing, she is not contributing to the relationship. It is always an easy way out to justify anything. So the brother played that card as expected.

The ego is a serious issue o. It has its good and bad side sha. cheesy
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by chikeorji123(m): 8:08pm On Jun 07
Yes l do ask my girlfriend then,or wife now money.. funny enough I never pay back..
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by witworth(m): 8:43pm On Jun 07
No, na monkey make him ask her for, nonsense question
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Ritzybeauty(f): 9:32pm On Jun 07
Asianjollof007:


Are you on twitter?

Nah.. Ig
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Ritzybeauty(f): 9:32pm On Jun 07
deltateam:


"See finish" you mean.

Yeah if you see it that way
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by armyofone(m): 10:17pm On Jun 07
Yes. No biggie cool
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Gfskw: 10:27pm On Jun 07
Yes offcourse is it’s 2 by 4
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Asianjollof007: 10:33pm On Jun 07
Ritzybeauty:

Nah.. Ig
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by larryjonze: 10:36pm On Jun 07
Hathor5:
Depends on the boyfriend and the circumstances but generally speaking I am of the opinion that in a loving relationship you help each other no matter what. I know many ladies who make way more money than their husbands and it's not a problem. It's only on NL that men pay all bills and can afford 3 wives and 5 concubines. grin



fact check,
*are you the one paying your boyfriends bills
*sunday igboho has over 3 wives, ned has over more wives and ubi franklin, timaya, tuface have more than two baby mamas, apparently ubi franklin has more than five concubine ... are all these people not men.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Asianjollof007: 10:38pm On Jun 07
Ritzybeauty:

Nah.. Ig
Dear, i would love to stalk your i.g page to see more of your pretty face
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Ritzybeauty(f): 11:19pm On Jun 07
Asianjollof007:


Dear, i would love to stalk your i.g page to see more of your pretty face


LOL.. Sweet mouth
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Goldbw122: 11:57pm On Jun 07
It is a wise and good woman who want his husband to be good in future, that will contribute to the development of the family, but you know some women will go ahead and hid and start building some secret project some where without letting their husband know about it.. am just wondering why...
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Asianjollof007: 12:21am On Jun 08
Ritzybeauty:


LOL.. Sweet mouth
Actually, i am damn serious
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by spiceadole: 4:00am On Jun 08
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

As a girlfriend, I cannot give a man my money.. even if it's 5 naira.. in cash or in material gift or even a meal..(And the man should not give me)

As a wife, well.. it depends.. I may give him my money, but if it becomes a habit, it has to stop.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Makawhizzy: 6:13am On Jun 08
When it comes to relationships whatever both parties in it decides on as one is the best way for them cox it’s both of you in it not you and the world views.
My own family rule has been simple before marriage, every funds that come in from either party belongs to both of us no matter how small or big so we are both accountable to each other when running expenses. My wife doesn’t need my permission to spend even from my account certain expenses same way I can ask her to transfer from her account to mine or a third party. Nothing like this is my own personal money in my own family since we both agreed during our relationship on how best to run finances.
So discuss with your gf or wife on what you guys think is best and stick to it, no shame in spending each other’s money according to my own opinion. Last time I used the word borrow me money was a year before our wedding officially since then it’s total access to each other’s funds
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by kinzation(m): 9:11am On Jun 08
Babara1994:

Mtchew

Take my offer grin grin

Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by dairykidd(m): 11:34am On Jun 08
Vision101:
You want to chop double abi? Chop her money and chop her vmobile. When you are comfortable you will start asking her of what she is bringing to the table.
Lol @vmobile e done tey i hear that term grin

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by CoachBEE(f): 12:06pm On Jun 08
Why not, either of the spouses is in need at a certain point, he or she can freely ask as the need may be.
Love, understanding, and trust are what matter most in every relationship. Don't measure your relationship at the expense of others around!. When the three pillars in your relationship are strong, then borrowing or giving your spouse a particular need is necessary and good.
Peace is my greatest element! I come in peace.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by nedzuby: 12:34pm On Jun 08
sapphiere:
Woman is helping a man by taking care of the house. Don't be greedy

And what does the man do? Provide money alone?

I think we should stop comparing roles of the Man and women in relationships. We should just concentrate on strengthening the relationship. Anybody can bring money and anybody can also take care of the house ( all depending on understanding from the couples involved not a third party)

So my dear anybody can be broke and the other person who has is required to assist.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by nedzuby: 12:37pm On Jun 08
CoachBEE:
Why not, either of the spouses is in need at a certain point, he or she can freely ask as the need may be.
Love, understanding, and trust are what matter most in every relationship. Don't measure your relationship at the expense of others around!. When the three pillars in your relationship are strong, then borrowing or giving your spouse a particular need is necessary and good.
Peace is my greatest element! I come in peace.

Gbam.

Relationship is not competition it is 2 people coming together to strengthen one another in times of their weakness. And also building one another.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Kondomatic(m): 1:11pm On Jun 08
pocohantas:


I know it was unnecessary, but you know with you guys, any small thing, she is not contributing to the relationship. It is always an easy way out to justify anything. So the brother played that card as expected.

The ego is a serious issue o. It has its good and bad side sha. cheesy
It's a normal trait that everyone has but it becomes destructive when it stops one from conforming to the demands of reality.



Makes one wonder if the ego itself is "high" on pride grin.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by pocohantas(f): 2:08pm On Jun 08
Kondomatic:
It's a normal trait that everyone has but it becomes destructive when it stops one from conforming to the demands of reality.

Makes one wonder if the ego itself is "high" on pride grin.

I like one kind ego in my man o. Let him just be fighting himself and upgrading my phone and car. grin grin
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Kondomatic(m): 2:12pm On Jun 08
pocohantas:


I like one kind ego in my man o. Let him just be fighting himself and upgrading my phone and car. grin grin
Your wahala no many but they're big gringrin
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by iampeterben(m): 6:22pm On Jun 08
sapphiere:
It makes you look less of a man.
This only becomes true when it is frequent you can ask for emergency purpose rather than stealing.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Marisujuaku(f): 9:16am On Jun 09
My boyfriend collects from me but it's in a coded way. Like
Honey, I want to prepare catfish pepper soup. He knows I love it so much. He'll say, ' Obim, just take some money from your purse and go to the market. I'll give you when I come back from the shop'.
When he comes back, and I request for it back, he would laugh and say, ' baby okwa ego mu na gi' and we'll laugh it off. Other than that, he doesn't collect a dime from me, rather he gives me

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