lkillbrokehoes:
Must you lie to prove a point?

Talk about self-aggrandizement!

WibusJaga:
It's just to colonize the man & mark their territory so as to scare away potential competitors.

This is more like it which in it's own is a foolish move. Though it must be said that it has worked out well for a few, same can't be said for the majority.

Foolishness sounds too hard to use for me.

simplesearch:


Ignorance that's not acceptable before the law. Ignorance that will lead to hell fire, is that one ignorance or foolishness?

Calitoscassius:
Men are scum, that includes your scum brothers,uncles and father.


Keep dreaming, with this your kind of ignorant and obnoxious manner no man would come near your smelly vagina let alone marry you. i bet you are also ugelee and fat wears fake hair or wig.

why are so unfortunate,are u blind cant u see where I wrote most men, even if I said all men are scum why the Headache,why do u want to kill yourself over the post I made did I tag u? Mind your business pls

LordOfTheGame:


Yes of course, most of 'them' in your village are scums, especially the ones in your family from your father, uncles, brothers and male cousins.

abi oo they ar all scum,can u face front now..matured guy will actually read nd waka pass my post but the unfortunate ones will want to die over it..

pocohantas:
What exactly is free sex?

I keep seeing men use that word.

Either they say sex is free or they say she is cheap and can be fcked with ordinary indomie.

Does it mean subconsciously, men love to place high value on the pussy? Like they would rather pay a lot for it?

It's suppose to be paid for, as in the form of marriage. But now they're doing marriage duties and performing the responsibilities when the men haven't done the needful, that's what i think that statement means.

Because sex outside the confines of marriage is morally wrong as we know it. My opinion though

debbydams:
why are so unfortunate,are u blind cant u see where I wrote most men, even if I said all men are scum why the Headache,why do u want to kill yourself over the post I made did I tag u? Mind your business pls

You couldn't even read or understood your own comment.


Your father, brothers, uncles are scum, how many men have you met? You have met all the more than 3 billion men on earth to come to your dumb conclusions i guess. Go stab yourself in the eyes you sad and bitter ugelee baald headed woman.

debbydams:
smiles..I'm not one tho

Are you sure? Awon shina no dey miss road.

MondayOsunbor:



go to ABUJA and see am enough

it is called ABUJA MARRIAGE

tchidi066:
Last thing I'll ever do, and it's rampant in Abuja, i hardly allow men into my apartment, it's a rule i have, talk more of cohabiting with someone who isn't my husband, some guys would say I'm harsh

Hear this all the time. Never seen any "Abuja marriage". It's exaggerated.

Lagos .. no go worse pass Abuja for this kain thing?

This topic hmm,

I’m presently trying to stop this lady but she said no. We met in a bus going to mainland from lekki, we started talking and exchange numbers.

Days later we had sex and then on sex sex n more sex, she said she don’t want to marry again after she lose her husband.

Now she ve a sugar daddy taking care of her but he always travel and she needs me to feel the space.
My problem now is , I’m getting married this December doe my girl is not in Lagos, I told her all this but she not even angry even when making video calls
I just don’t know what to do again

tunapawizzy:
As long as the society preaches that being married to a man is the ultimate success/achievement in life, women will always do whatever they think will make a man marry them. Everybody wants to be successful and if the society defines marriage as ultimate success what do u expect a lady to do.
Whether cohabiting will make him marry you is a different issue all together, i wont blame anyone for trying that, it has worked for some and if you dont try something how will you know if its gona work for u or not.
BTW what do u mean by 'give men free sex' ? the woman no dey enjoy d sex? abi shes supposed to get paid for sex

money for hand, back for ground. There's nothing like free sex. I go fùck you after you chop my dough

I want to let you women in to the mind of me so that you will know how we men think. When you are dating a well to do guy, and he told you that you are the only woman in his life, thats a lie coz he has numerous girlfriend beside you, if eventually he decide to cohabit with you, that automatically makes you the main chick, and through cohabitation he will become so used to you and you will become his best friend, lets say you both had a fight or querrel and you pack your things and leave he will call any of numerous side chick to come over, but he is going to miss you and even cry because he has gotten so use to you, right there and then he will decide to do the needful and spend the rest of his life with you. This is how real men thinks and thats why we avoid cohabitation when we dont like the woman. But dont get me wrong oh because some useless men still cahabitate because of the free sex but las las he go still hook them leading to unplanned marriage and later divorce

debbydams:
lol u are right but nothing can keep a man that want to cheat o,
I came to visit my friend, she is so nice nd her bf use to cal her every seconds, video calls nd all that..I'm not jealous tho because I know men are scum..so yesterday her bf came to take us out because she has bn sick, we came back late nd he decided to sleep over.
I was playing with my phone while she's trying to cook for him can u imagine this guy Is asking me out telling me he will give me everything I want I left the room it was when my friend came in before I could sleep in peace..this a guy that showed my friend love nd my friend can vouch her kidney for this guy oo..I now believe that men are scum..the worst part is the guy promised her marriage,,he has even introduced her..men men chai

that he asked you out doesn't mean he no longer love your friend, he just want sex from you

PeaceJoyLove:
Poverty is the reason topics like this come up. Poverty is why a woman chooses to live with a man.

lies

what about well to do girls that brings a broke guy to live with them?

abobote:
Desperate people don't usually think of the outcome, and most of these are not usually planned, the just happened. I cohibbited with an ex for almost two years , and it ended well even though we didn't marry. We are both married to different people and still talk once in a while

why didn't you marry her? Abi she no sweet for bed

lastchild:
lies

what about well to do girls that brings a broke guy to live with them?

What you have brought up is true, but it doesnt mean what I said was a lie. It is a fact.

You are very wrong by categorizing all men as scums, common, i thought we have only intelligent minds here because there are still decent and real men out there but the bad eggs are more, infact it swing both ways because the same way you women are always yelling all men are scums, thats the same way we men are also yelling all women are scums too, have you suffered from real heart break before? Heart break fit make person use hammer take kill fly, all said and done trust me there are still decent and real women and men out there, they are rare to find and we keep attracting the opposite everytime

SmartPolician:
Please what's the meaning of "Give them free sex"?

Aren't the two parties supposed to enjoy it?

If the lady had HIV/AIDS, wouldn't the guy contract the deadly virus?

Please nobody gives anyone "free sex".

The two parties enjoy the activity.

more like transactional sex. Buy me things, i give u banana

PeaceJoyLove:

What you have brought up is true, but it doesnt mean what I said was a lie. It is a fact.

you are right but you could've make it under probability by saying some girls do that because of poverty

pocohantas:
What exactly is free sex?

I keep seeing men use that word.

Either they say sex is free or they say she is cheap and can be fcked with ordinary indomie.

Does it mean subconsciously, men love to place high value on the pussy? Like they would rather pay a lot for it?

free sex is conditional

pocohantas:


You didn’t answer the question.



Okay. So marriage is no more the greatest achievement for a woman? That means we can all go home and stop insulting single and divorced women. I like how you guys speak from all sides of the mouth.



I appreciate this straightforward answer.

Care to share how much is expensive enough and how you grade it?

Doesn't have to be monetary all the time.

Could be time, money or effort.

The greater the battle, the sweeter the victory.

For some at least.

This is in no way has any bearing on the act itself. You might spend a lot (of time, money or effort), and still find the sex unfulfilling at the end of the day.

But the fact that it took scaling several hurdles to clinch it can rank the trophy (the girl, not her vjay) higher up in your list of conquests.

Remember, males are hunters by nature.

Calitoscassius:
You couldn't even read or understood your own comment.


Your father, brothers, uncles are scum, how many men have you met? You have met all the more than 3 billion men on earth to come to your dumb conclusions i guess. Go stab yourself in the eyes you sad and bitter ugelee baald headed woman.

your signature says it all

At the end, most end in tears.
We are just battling with a case of a Security boy, co-habiting with a Delta state girl.
Third child birth, the girl gave up the ghost.
No drink , no dowry paid on top the girl's head.
She is in the morgue as we talk now.
The frustrated boy has been told to come and marry the corpse with a date ultimatum.

They will not hear, they will not listen to advice. They will keep falling victims of circumstances.
Life is all about planning

@OP point of correction it not free SEX.you talking as if the girl no they enjoy the fucking.women.enjoy sex the most.ur kind of statement will look as if men should buy sex as if the woman dont enjoy sex.As for cohabit with a man.see it depend on.how you look at it.characters mater alot.even if a girl does not cohabitate with a guy if he.no go marry you he no go marry you na your charcter matters.My woman today Cohabit with me right from university today she is the best wife.so that doesnt matter.na behaviour, good character na matter.Who quote me hug transformer.

Sysdatek:


Yes. Since you have nothing to discuss with your daughters

Only tryna let you know that cohabiting with your spouse before marriage isn't something to boast about. You did it? Yea, but that doesn't make it right. Let's stop celebrating immorality.

Most ladies in this category end in it due to condition, not all tho but most...

A babe lost her job, out of rent and decide to continue this hustle, when the going gets tough, the tough gets going... Move in.

Sometime ago, a babe came to me saying she needs to find job, she can't stay at home and go to farm, her back is aching this and that, okay so what's up... Considering she had stayed in my place some days before, no babe just me, she felt its time to move in to help her hustle, few days down she says no money to go job hunting, no money to start a biz, Babe where u wan see money, me no get shingba o... She relax de chop free food de watch zee world, 1 week turn 2 come turn 3 finally 1 month... I was now spending more than 3 times my normal expenses in a month... This is where I came to realise this is what gradually turns to abuja marriage, over two months of cohabiting, I pity the babe cos from home, call comes mummy is sick, no food, nepa cut light, bla bla bla... Babe wea nor de work, hustling to feed under a guy helping... After 2 month plus she said she was going to Lagos to learn catering, gave her some cash she packed out... Its really not the girls fault all the time... Life no balance as wear...

Quinex2:
Only tryna let you know that cohabiting with your spouse before marriage isn't something to boast about. You did it? Yea, but that doesn't make it right. Let's stop celebrating immorality.

Okay
Hope our morality has turned naija to london

Cannicus:


Doesn't have to be monetary all the time.

Could be time, money or effort.

The greater the battle, the sweeter the victory.

For some at least.

This is in no way has any bearing on the act itself. You might spend a lot (of time, money or effort), and still find the sex unfulfilling at the end of the day.

But the fact that it took scaling several hurdles to clinch it can rank the trophy (the girl, not her vjay) higher up in your list of conquests.

Remember, males are hunters by nature.

Lol. This makes sense. I hope my fellow sisters are reading. They like when you suffer them.

Sysdatek:


Okay
Hope our morality has turned naija to london

There's no basis for such comparison. Nigeria is as immoral as London, we're just more hypocritical.

ogeodi:
We call it abuja marriage. Living like married but officially single. Some say wen I move in with him he'll see the good in me and later fall in love.

Good luck with that

Free sex you say? Are they supposed to pay for it before?

donogaga:
When single ladies choose to cohabit with men, yielding to free sexual servicing, domestic chores and the likes, what exactly goes through their minds?

This is love?
This will make him marry me?
I am married and this is my duty?
This is what it takes to hold a man?

Which?

More importantly, why is it difficult for women to see this at this point.
Chances are many are reading this now telling themselves "no, this is not me. My own case is different. We are in love."

Okay then. Love.

What is love? What to you is love?

We cannot understand, you think.

Welcome to the journeys that led to the pregnancies that led to undesired marriages that became toxic and ended up in very hurtful divorces having one person bearing almost all the physical, financial and social cost of it as a single parent.

Welcome to the realities many of us currently live but then, maybe we don't understand.

If he truly loves you, he'd do the needful and marry you right. Don't be mistaken. When the right one comes along, he'd do away with all the excuses he's giving you and marry her. Unfortunately, many learnt this lesson the hard way.

The choice is yours.



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milann:
money for hand, back for ground. There's nothing like free sex. I go fùck you after you chop my dough

we dun normalize olosho be dat