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Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by MrMacinterchi1(m): 11:01am On Jun 10
Vision101:
@Kalapizim
My girlfriend and I hardly see because of work for both of us so she comes over on Thursdays till Saturdays.

This arrangement works fine for us




@me
What do you usually do when she comes?
they look at each other.

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Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 12:06pm On Jun 10
kriss27:
Asking you out like he wants to have a fling with you? Or that’s he loves you? I don’t think I will like any of my girlfriend’s friend or sister around me. Don’t want no extra financial burden!
he is not staying with us he came to visit his Bea, nd I'm not staying with my friend I only came to visit her...financial burden kwa
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 12:15pm On Jun 10
Fiscus105:



Learn how not to too close with a friend in her husband/guy house.

The beast wanted to take advantage of you, believing you melt already for all caring you see from him to ur friend.

So many guys enter pants of female friends of their gf/wife if they caring and rich
yes u are right, we have bn friends before she met him nd the last time I saw my friend was 2017, nd ain't spending more than a week, nd he only came to visit her.., last nite me and my friend went out we took alcohol when we got home, I pretend to be High, can u imagine she used my thumb to unlock my phone if her bf cals me,I was just laughing..till now she tat I was drunk last nite.
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by kriss27(m): 4:15pm On Jun 10
debbydams:
he is not staying with us he came to visit his Bea, nd I'm not staying with my friend I only came to visit her...financial burden kwa
Okay ! What was the asking out all about ?
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Beloved3: 4:45pm On Jun 10
debbydams:
lol u are right but nothing can keep a man that want to cheat o,
I came to visit my friend, she is so nice nd her bf use to cal her every seconds, video calls nd all that..I'm not jealous tho because I know men are scum..so yesterday her bf came to take us out because she has bn sick, we came back late nd he decided to sleep over.
I was playing with my phone while she's trying to cook for him can u imagine this guy Is asking me out telling me he will give me everything I want I left the room it was when my friend came in before I could sleep in peace..this a guy that showed my friend love nd my friend can vouch her kidney for this guy oo..I now believe that men are scum..the worst part is the guy promised her marriage,,he has even introduced her..men men chai

Hmmm did you ever consider telling your friend what he did?
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 5:06pm On Jun 10
Beloved3:


Hmmm did you ever consider telling your friend what he did?
she knew
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 5:07pm On Jun 10
kriss27:
Okay ! What was the asking out all about ?
I don't even know,, his whala I'm leaving in two days so his headache a beg.
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Beloved3: 5:50pm On Jun 10
debbydams:
she knew

How did she know?
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Magnoliaa(f): 7:21pm On Jun 10
DrayZee:

You should’ve done this when you saw my first comment. Asked for my view, now you’re telling me it’s personal sad
Then again, I don’t think you’re stupid. You know fully well everything I’ve typed. You’re just here to blame only men, like the other one.
Goodluck in your endeavors.

Tanks. grin The Blaming Men Feministic Ministry (Alfa Altar Parish) moves on. It's what I was born for, after all. You can support the cause and donate to this account: Afolashade Akinratu UB A 2350167945

Our motto: don't take everything online seriously.
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 7:24pm On Jun 10
Beloved3:


How did she know?
I didnt even know..because I pretended to be drunk and she asked me...thank God I'm plain
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Magnoliaa(f): 7:26pm On Jun 10
Beloved3:


Mag,

Truth is only a lad who is committed, focused and genuinely full of love will remain loyal to the relationship. I call him a good man

It doesn't matter if you 'formed' hard to get or not or how long. The more gets what he wants - sex, the more demystified he feels about you.

You know what they say about couples - Your man sees you in your worst while the world sees the best.

Meaning.....

You make up and dress very well, pad up the boobs and yansh and wear the tummy belt. You rock the best scented perfume and your high heels stand taller than the Paris tower. And then you step out looking amazing, all smiling. The world sees the beautiful you.

But you come back home to your man, remove the makeup, remove the wigs, throw away the padded bra (Hopefully the two clans haven't gone south), you jump into an old house t-shirt, use the toilet and flush but the strong shit smell lingers in the room, fart around not knowing your partner is around, you frown all day long and snap at the slightest provocation when the mood swings set in, etc.
Your man sees you at your worst.

Hence the reason behind my first sentence. Only a lad who's a good man will love you regardless of being demystified about you.
When I get to advise ladies looking to hook up in a relationship, I say find a good man. They are still out there.

Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by DrayZee: 7:46pm On Jun 10
Magnoliaa:


Tanks. grin The Blaming Men Feministic Ministry (Alfa Altar Parish) moves on. It's what I was born for, after all. You can support the cause and donate to this account: Afolashade Akinratu UB A 2350167945

Our motto: don't take everything online seriously.
There’s a reason I referred to the other one a comedian. I wasn’t taking her comment or yours seriously.
Just replying based on what I saw.
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by kriss27(m): 8:24pm On Jun 10
debbydams:
I don't even know,, his whala I'm leaving in two days so his headache a beg.
If na just nack,una fit nack na! Afterall, all na sin
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 8:47pm On Jun 10
kriss27:
If na just nack,una fit nack na! Afterall, all na sin
I don't do that shit..
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Phlinx: 8:47pm On Jun 10
debbydams:
he is not staying with us he came to visit his Bea, nd I'm not staying with my friend I only came to visit her...financial burden kwa
on the same day? isnt that too much of a coincidence? grin grin wink
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by kriss27(m): 8:50pm On Jun 10
debbydams:
I don't do that shit..
Abegi...I know your type
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Beloved3: 9:00pm On Jun 10
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Beloved3: 9:04pm On Jun 10
debbydams:
I didnt even know..because I pretended to be drunk and she asked me...thank God I'm plain
Interesting.

Probably her guy asks after you too often from her and she began to suspect he liked you, or she actually heard you guys discussing while she was in the kitchen but pretended not to.

Either ways, thank God you were plain like you wrote.
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 1:31pm On Jun 11
Beloved3:

Interesting.

Probably her guy asks after you too often from her and she began to suspect he liked you, or she actually heard you guys discussing while she was in the kitchen but pretended not to.

Either ways, thank God you were plain like you wrote.
like i wrote lol, I told her everything today nd she opened up to me too.it is well
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 1:41pm On Jun 11
kriss27:
Abegi...I know your type
Mumu, I actually told her what her bf did tho..
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 1:42pm On Jun 11
Phlinx:

on the same day? isnt that too much of a coincidence? grin grin wink
how do u mean
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Beloved3: 3:17pm On Jun 11
debbydams:
like i wrote lol, I told her everything today nd she opened up to me too.it is well

That's nice. So how did she suspect and is she planning to confront him?
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 5:16pm On Jun 11
Beloved3:


That's nice. So how did she suspect and is she planning to confront him?
when the guy is disturbing I gave him my number,she saw my number on his phone that nite,they fought but I didnt know, the next day I pretend to be drunk when she checked my phone hoping to find his number but she didnt, meanwhile she deleted my number can u believe e went ahead and took my number from her phone again. Fast forward to yesterday the guy started disturbing my phone asking me to meet him in one joint I said no he said there's is something important we want to talk nd its an open place, I went der hoping to hear meaningful words from him, he was just saying rubbish I told him bluntly that I can't do that, he den said I should come and meet the next day which I declined, this morning I felt to disturb nd I told her everything, she den open up to me...saying he has bn doing it for long..I felt bad I swear..
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Beloved3: 5:20pm On Jun 11
debbydams:
when the guy is disturbing I gave him my number,she saw my number on his phone that nite,they fought but I didnt know, the next day I pretend to be drunk when she checked my phone hoping to find his number but she didnt, meanwhile she deleted my number can u believe e went ahead and took my number from her phone again. Fast forward to yesterday the guy started disturbing my phone asking me to meet him in one joint I said no he said there's is something important we want to talk nd its an open place, I went der hoping to hear meaningful words from him, he was just saying rubbish I told him bluntly that I can't do that, he den said I should come and meet the next day which I declined, this morning I felt to disturb nd I told her everything, she den open up to me...saying he has bn doing it for long..I felt bad I swear..

Hmmm. I'm sure she will be happy you opened up to her and that will increase her trust in you.
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 5:28pm On Jun 11
Beloved3:


Hmmm. I'm sure she will be happy you opened up to her and that will increase her trust in you.
I'm telling you o..I doubt if I will ever visit her..chai men ehn
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Beloved3: 5:31pm On Jun 11
debbydams:
I'm telling you o..I doubt if I will ever visit her..chai men ehn

Why is your friend still dating him when she knew he is like that. I guess he has money.
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 5:37pm On Jun 11
Beloved3:


Why is your friend still dating him when she knew he is like that. I guess he has money.
yes but not that,she has broke up with hom 3 times according to her, but the guy keep begging. now she want to finally leave him, I told her not rush things..I really feel bad for her..this girl has bn so nice to me since school days, I remember when I was sick she carried me in her back.that feelings, even till now she is really amazing, reason why I told her what happened I told her she can't marry that guy..
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Beloved3: 5:46pm On Jun 11
debbydams:
yes but not that,she has broke up with hom 3 times according to her, but the guy keep begging. now she want to finally leave him, I told her not rush things..I really feel bad for her..this girl has bn so nice to me since school days, I remember when I was sick she carried me in her back.that feelings, even till now she is really amazing, reason why I told her what happened I told her she can't marry that guy..

Yea that was nice of you. Some ladies in your shoes would have jumped at him. Especially if the BoBo was handsome and rich. It shows you value friendship and you are principled.

By the way why did you pretend to be drunk? grin
You just wanted to know the kid of things your friend would do around you if you are drunk? grin
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 6:20pm On Jun 11
Beloved3:


Yea that was nice of you. Some ladies in your shoes would have jumped at him. Especially if the BoBo was handsome and rich. It shows you value friendship and you are principled.

By the way why did you pretend to be drunk? grin
You just wanted to know the kid of things your friend would do around you if you are drunk? grin
I didnt really pretend to be drunk tho I was drunk but I remembered our conversation..she actually made me drunk tho
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Beloved3: 7:04pm On Jun 11
debbydams:
I didnt really pretend to be drunk tho I was drunk but I remembered our conversation..she actually made me drunk tho

Oh alright then. Fear women. She had to have you drunk so she could search you unhindered. grin grin grin
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by GreatChizzy: 7:16pm On Jun 11
What works for some may not work for others, to each their own ways. My wife and I got married on the fourth year of our cohabitation.
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by kriss27(m): 7:47pm On Jun 11
[quote author=debbydams post=102609955]Mumu, I actually told her what her bf did tho..[/quoteAnd you went there for him to take you both out! Fuckoff

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