Vision101:
@Kalapizim
My girlfriend and I hardly see because of work for both of us so she comes over on Thursdays till Saturdays.

This arrangement works fine for us




@me
What do you usually do when she comes?

kriss27:
Asking you out like he wants to have a fling with you? Or that’s he loves you? I don’t think I will like any of my girlfriend’s friend or sister around me. Don’t want no extra financial burden!

Fiscus105:



Learn how not to too close with a friend in her husband/guy house.

The beast wanted to take advantage of you, believing you melt already for all caring you see from him to ur friend.

So many guys enter pants of female friends of their gf/wife if they caring and rich

debbydams:
he is not staying with us he came to visit his Bea, nd I'm not staying with my friend I only came to visit her...financial burden kwa

debbydams:
lol u are right but nothing can keep a man that want to cheat o,
I came to visit my friend, she is so nice nd her bf use to cal her every seconds, video calls nd all that..I'm not jealous tho because I know men are scum..so yesterday her bf came to take us out because she has bn sick, we came back late nd he decided to sleep over.
I was playing with my phone while she's trying to cook for him can u imagine this guy Is asking me out telling me he will give me everything I want I left the room it was when my friend came in before I could sleep in peace..this a guy that showed my friend love nd my friend can vouch her kidney for this guy oo..I now believe that men are scum..the worst part is the guy promised her marriage,,he has even introduced her..men men chai

Beloved3:


Hmmm did you ever consider telling your friend what he did?

kriss27:
Okay ! What was the asking out all about ?

debbydams:
she knew

DrayZee:

You should’ve done this when you saw my first comment. Asked for my view, now you’re telling me it’s personal
Then again, I don’t think you’re stupid. You know fully well everything I’ve typed. You’re just here to blame only men, like the other one.
Goodluck in your endeavors.

Beloved3:


How did she know?

Beloved3:


Mag,

Truth is only a lad who is committed, focused and genuinely full of love will remain loyal to the relationship. I call him a good man

It doesn't matter if you 'formed' hard to get or not or how long. The more gets what he wants - sex, the more demystified he feels about you.

You know what they say about couples - Your man sees you in your worst while the world sees the best.

Meaning.....

You make up and dress very well, pad up the boobs and yansh and wear the tummy belt. You rock the best scented perfume and your high heels stand taller than the Paris tower. And then you step out looking amazing, all smiling. The world sees the beautiful you.

But you come back home to your man, remove the makeup, remove the wigs, throw away the padded bra (Hopefully the two clans haven't gone south), you jump into an old house t-shirt, use the toilet and flush but the strong shit smell lingers in the room, fart around not knowing your partner is around, you frown all day long and snap at the slightest provocation when the mood swings set in, etc.
Your man sees you at your worst.

Hence the reason behind my first sentence. Only a lad who's a good man will love you regardless of being demystified about you.
When I get to advise ladies looking to hook up in a relationship, I say find a good man. They are still out there.

Magnoliaa:


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debbydams:
I don't even know,, his whala I'm leaving in two days so his headache a beg.

kriss27:
If na just nack,una fit nack na! Afterall, all na sin

debbydams:
he is not staying with us he came to visit his Bea, nd I'm not staying with my friend I only came to visit her...financial burden kwa

debbydams:
I don't do that shit..

Magnoliaa:
.

debbydams:
I didnt even know..because I pretended to be drunk and she asked me...thank God I'm plain

Beloved3:

Interesting.

Probably her guy asks after you too often from her and she began to suspect he liked you, or she actually heard you guys discussing while she was in the kitchen but pretended not to.

Either ways, thank God you were plain like you wrote.

kriss27:
Abegi...I know your type

Phlinx:

on the same day? isnt that too much of a coincidence?

debbydams:
like i wrote lol, I told her everything today nd she opened up to me too.it is well

Beloved3:


That's nice. So how did she suspect and is she planning to confront him?

debbydams:
when the guy is disturbing I gave him my number,she saw my number on his phone that nite,they fought but I didnt know, the next day I pretend to be drunk when she checked my phone hoping to find his number but she didnt, meanwhile she deleted my number can u believe e went ahead and took my number from her phone again. Fast forward to yesterday the guy started disturbing my phone asking me to meet him in one joint I said no he said there's is something important we want to talk nd its an open place, I went der hoping to hear meaningful words from him, he was just saying rubbish I told him bluntly that I can't do that, he den said I should come and meet the next day which I declined, this morning I felt to disturb nd I told her everything, she den open up to me...saying he has bn doing it for long..I felt bad I swear..

Beloved3:


Hmmm. I'm sure she will be happy you opened up to her and that will increase her trust in you.

debbydams:
I'm telling you o..I doubt if I will ever visit her..chai men ehn

Beloved3:


Why is your friend still dating him when she knew he is like that. I guess he has money.

debbydams:
yes but not that,she has broke up with hom 3 times according to her, but the guy keep begging. now she want to finally leave him, I told her not rush things..I really feel bad for her..this girl has bn so nice to me since school days, I remember when I was sick she carried me in her back.that feelings, even till now she is really amazing, reason why I told her what happened I told her she can't marry that guy..

Beloved3:


Yea that was nice of you. Some ladies in your shoes would have jumped at him. Especially if the BoBo was handsome and rich. It shows you value friendship and you are principled.

By the way why did you pretend to be drunk?
You just wanted to know the kid of things your friend would do around you if you are drunk?

debbydams:
I didnt really pretend to be drunk tho I was drunk but I remembered our conversation..she actually made me drunk tho