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CharisEleos:
How was I suppose to know when you didn't say?

see this one.. See wetin lack of exposure dey cause. No be everything be church church.. Try to explore.

Limitless72:
Evening folks...
So I've got a kind of GF/fiancé who's known to be very hard-headed and strong willed yet cries like a little girl when I berate her or try to get under her skin with words..

I've always wondered how someone as strong as her would behave so soft around me. This is someone that got her dad arrested, even her supposed bestie because they stepped on her toes.

There was a time I wanted to travel to Accra from Lagos for a short trip. She cried for three days straight. It's annoying..!

Please guys help me out here. What's really going on?. I've asked on different occasions what's going on, and she says she can't explain it either, that I'm some weak spot..

PS: She more than 27 years of age, a lawyer and a vibrant entrepreneur. She's not a kid..!!

She is in love with you and find it difficult to display her strong attitude on you

But the day she will do it, she will recover all

The only way is to treat her right

U are towing a dangerous path bro... Someone has d gut to get her father arrested after u her self acclaimed weak spot advised her against such attitude... She even blackmailed u to succumb in following her to the station..like someone said above,the day she will finally discover her tiger spot against u...it better imagined than be a reality

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Limitless72:
On this, my mind is divided...
If you say it's love, and an occasion when we would have one misunderstanding arises, nah to drag me to court be that...

She is doing you the more you see the less you understand.

Its called emotional manipulation.

She's acting that way to give you false impressions about herself na when you eventually marry her you go understand the difference.

frozen70:
She is in love with you and find it difficult to display her strong attitude on you

But the day she will do it, she will recover all

The only way is to treat her right

Can we ever satisfy women?

omotoshodontee1:
U are towing a dangerous path bro... Someone has d gut to get her father arrested after u her self acclaimed weak spot advised her against such attitude... She even blackmailed u to succumb in following her to the station..like someone said above,the day she will finally discover her tiger spot against u...it better imagined than be a reality

The arrest of her father to an extent was justified. Wasn't in Nigeria though, but such a gut still got me thinking sometimes..

Thanks for your opinion anyways

Emotionss:
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She is doing you the more you see the less you understand.

Its called emotional manipulation.

She's acting that way to give you false impressions about herself na when you eventually marry her you go understand the difference.

Emotional manipulation? YES!

Why she does it knowing well it doesn't work is still baffling

Cutehector:
see this one.. See wetin lack of exposure dey cause. No be everything be church church.. Try to explore.

Nollywood can do anything...

Limitless72:
Nollywood can do anything...

lol all these girls wey dey carry church upandan, carry dem enter street, dem no sabi anything.

Limitless72:
Can we ever satisfy women?

for where.. The same woman that you will give 50k like this will still end up hating you for not checking up on her. That is why i agree with mosdii all the time.

Cutehector:
lol all these girls wey dey carry church upandan, carry dem enter street, dem no sabi anything.

Nah Church girl bad pass oooo my brother...no go underate those people

Limitless72:
Emotional manipulation? YES!

Why she does it knowing well it doesn't work is still baffling

Keep baffling and don't use your head now. She feels one day it will work. Let me tell you something all the things she is doing is manipulation , the earlier you get it the better. The time you will know is when you have married her and you eventually do something that will trigger something, that day you will know that the soft spot was just to get you and she has finally gotten you. The rest is history. Those kind of people are usually over jealous and fear such people. They can go to any length if they sense any danger

Limitless72:
Can we ever satisfy women?

Yes,, men can satisfy women
Just give her your time and attention, that's the major things she need from you

Money is secondary

Crunchyg2:
Keep baffling and don't use your head now. She feels one day it will work. Let me tell you something all the things she is doing is manipulation , the earlier you get it the better. The time you will know is when you have married her and you eventually do something that will trigger something, that day you will know that the soft spot was just to get you and she has finally gotten you. The rest is history. Those kind of people are usually over jealous and fear such people. They can go to any length if they sense any danger

Ok..

frozen70:
Yes,, men can satisfy women
Just give her your time and attention, that's the major things she need from you

Money is secondary

Too much or enough time breeds disrespect, leads to see finish. Also time is very expensive, a very busy person too..

Hypergamy doesn't care about time, attention and money.... You understand what I mean?

That money is as important as time too, because words of affirmation ( "I love you" et al) go tire una one day...

Limitless72:
Too much or enough time breeds disrespect, leads to see finish. Also time is very expensive, a very busy person too..

Hypergamy doesn't care about time, attention and money.... You understand what I mean?

That money is as important as time too, because words of affirmation ( "I love you" et al) go tire una one day...

bros no worry yourself to dey explain to these small small girls wey wan ruin men this days. Pls continue to spend time on yourself and add value to yourself. Any woman that says you can satisfy her is worse than satan himself.