Patience, contentment and tolerance are my pieces of advice. No marriage is made in heaven...no one is perfect. If you like, divorce one million times and keep remarrying , women exhibit same character. They're uniformly wired. Na wetin dem wan make you know, na im you go know, even if you built mansions for her, it doesn't change anything. Just keep praying for peace in your marriage and all will be well.

Eriokanmi:
Patience, contentment and tolerance are my pieces of advice. No marriage is made in heaven...no one is perfect.

I love this may God help me to emulate the 3 virtues.

b3llo:
I love this may God help me to emulate the 3 virtues.

amen

Just be prepared for the unknown. If you ask me, I would say only about 30% (if not lesser sef) of marriages get joy.

May ours be identified with the 30%.

Don’t marry

Please stay single

Belial06:
Spend less time on nairaland opening pointless immature childish threads and spend more time in the real world learning and developing yourself

Grow up

You may have degraded yourself by commenting on a supposed “immature childish thread” don’t you think?

dacblogger:
Don marry...it's just too stressful.

Or if you choose to marry ,DNT expect anything from your partner...go in there with strong mind or you will die of heartbreak.

You probably married wrong partner
Marriage is good if you marry your soulmate

Belial06:
Spend less time on nairaland opening pointless immature childish threads and spend more time in the real world learning and developing yourself

Grow up

God bless you for this comment

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

source?

Remain single

Lamanii22:
Marry who you love and find attractive..... It's not always rosy... Learn to tolerate your spouse... And to the ladies sex is always different after a baby... The dryness no be here oo.... And to the guys there are other ways to be intimate with your wife after a baby other than sex... Above all put God in your marriage...

tanks honey , you just made my night.. ever since my wife gave birth to our beautiful baby girl, this is exactly 1 year 3 month, I don join vaseline crew, imagine an active young man like me not having sex for more than a year.. I bin wan send am go him papa house. . But your words really change my mindset.

prettyheart:
Married people please gist us

Run your race. Avoid unnecessary comparism and competition. Love your man/woman and support each other to achieve success. Marriage is a blissful venture if you marry for the right reasons.

Wahala for who wan marry

prettyheart:
Married people please gist us

Whatever you try to overlook while dating will come back bigger after marriage ...

Belial06:
Spend less time on nairaland opening pointless immature childish threads and spend more time in the real world learning and developing yourself

Grow up

STFU, THE THREAD WAS USELESS AND POINTLESS, YET YOU WERE ALL OVER IT MASTURBATING VIGOROUSLY TO THE THREAD.
AND IF WE ASK YOU NOW HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE MADE AND HOW MUCH SO-CALLED SKILLS YOU HAVE LEARNT, YOU STILL HAVE NOTHING TO PROVE.

TALKING AS IF YOU HAVE GOTTEN 1/10 MILLIONTH OF DANGOTE'S MONEY WITH ALL THE THINGS YOU HAVE LEARNT AND DEVELOPED YOURSELF WITH.....
MUMU

Flier:
If you a lady, try to get married between the age of 21-26 if you meet a very serious man.DO NOT PROCASTINATE,you might never find the right man again (this is your pick DO NOT WASTE IT)
If you are man,... try get a stable high paying job and try to make as much money as possible before you get married

For this buhari time

Experience is the best advice.

For women, have something doing for youeself.
In othe words, build yourself ( financially).

Stop looking for rich men and look for a man with potentials that truely loves you.

If all you are bringing to a marriage is sex and cooking honey you are not ready.

You must work as hard as your husband so that you both can live in a condusive environment, enjoy life, and secure your children's future.

Your money is your husband's while your huaband's is yours.

You do not have to be a perfect chef but try as mush as you can to make tasty and healthy meals for your family.

Your husband's family is your family.

Your husbands friends are your friends, but don't call his friends or visit them in his absence.

Always praise your husband and love him unconditionally.

It's okay to be angry, but think before you speak, because you cannot take your words back.

Never ever ever ever and ever compare your husband's look, finances, job, or anything with that of others.

Make time to have fun with your husband.

Don't ever lie or steal from your husband. It's like lying and stealing from yourself.

Eat healthy and exercise at least 4 days in a week.

Make sure you mantain a toned figure and a flat belly always.

Even after you had a baby, go on crash diet together with running and power lifting to get your figure back.

Spend money on sexy underwears, dresses, and hair.

Always suprise your husband with giftts and banging Hot sex every day or frequently.

Sex should be enjoyed between you and your husband always!

I will come back and drop my advice for the man later... I mean, what do I know?

Belial06:


Well looking at how fast you escalated to ghetto mode I was right.

I am sure women dislike you with a passion

I'd block your posts if I could. You nauseate me.

Get an excellent CV! Get job or study abroad opportunities.

prettyheart:
Married people please gist us

No marry for beauty or good job alone!
Never fail to chop for house, even if na one spoon.
Woman be like toy, dem dey too emotional.
Always gist with your spouse.
No keep secret from each other.
Make una dey pray always.
I wan sleep.

They should remain single to avoid marriage wahala

prettyheart:
Married people please gist us

Abort mission... It's a trap

With these comments I'm reading, it's like this marriage palava is not easy o

Have one or two kids at most, dont turn having children to competition, economy is really dealing with many Nigerians these days.

As for men, purge yourself of any bitterness you have for females before you get married. Many of you seem to hate women for no reason. You have been dealt with in relationships, fine. That doesn't mean you should move around with bitterness in your heart forever, females also get their share of heartbreaks.


Lastly, sex after marriage does not decline. The wife loses interest because she doesn't enjoy sex with her husband
Sex without orgasm or satisfaction or hy a man who treats her like crap is just like being used or taken advantage of by many women that is why they start to lose interest, this is something married women discuss, its not empty talk.
That advice was for males that are already planning how to cheat after mattiage because they were told that married women lose interest in sex.

Be happy and fulfilled as single before you marry.

Ficient:
Make sure the friendship bond is very strong, don't marry bcuz of big yansh

Naija ladies especially the igbo ladies are making many of themselves non mariagable at young age..as they seek only people with big money and rush to normal guyz when they are old..

Again..naija girls hate to date theor friends always looking for who is not looking for them,thereby causing problems up and down in marriages

You are more useless sir.

sanmtiago:
Nigerian girls are useless