Lamanii22:
Did you deflower her... Or you were waiting til she's ready?.... I think the best thing is to move on.... And be far from each other... I'm really sorry about what happened between you two...

Is that all u could ask?

The earlier you move on and forget about her the better for you..

We were crying like babies yen yen yen.. craze dey una two head

Nezzjnr:
Please if they're sharing rice in the wedding... Do well to inform us abeg.

That's the only thing that matters

Abi?,bad luck cus I've been on isolation since morning,how could if attend even if I'm willing to?I can't cus I fit just collapse or go insane...

Educationalserv:
U be simp .she scopping you we called it soft landing make u no retaliate. a richer guy came in the she grap the oppurtunity.

Lol...if that's what makes one simp,then I am one,but for sure he's not riche than I am and that I know with facts...she alone knows her reasons,but money can't be one of them...


Thank you.

Patented:
Jejely block her everywhere. As for the pain....e go pass with time. Much faster if u city off all communication.

Doing that first thing tomorrow morning after my last marriage wish to her,almost allher friends have been calling me just know where I've been, I only picked those that I know what they stands for...most of them are even in shock too.

RapLawd:


Abi?,bad luck cus I've been on isolation since morning,how could if attend even if I'm willing to?I can't cus I fit just collapse or go insane...

Baba better get your shits together and move on... You dodged a Hoe... Be happy man

fernandez1:
Dis one get tendency to cheat

We have tradition down here in nsukka,she can't dare do that,and besides with who?me?... she's not the only girl that still roams this Earth...

I don't do any how cus I hate it's results—seeing anyhow!

tunize:
Set of girls i’m scared of are the type that can hardly take self decision or those ones still standing on the fence o.p life goes on move on

Bruh, e weak me die...no direction,no focus and no commitment at all...

donbachi:
Ur best is yet to come...cease the tears.

Exact words from my mum...and for tears,they have all dried up... I'm waking up tomorrow stronger, and so I believe.

josh123:
forget her bro, end all means of communication and put all your energy in ur business. The right girl will come ur way. Note!!!! Forget her she don become another person wife

Thanks.

RisenJoe:
Just like in the movies, carry her and run away then come back 8 months time with pregnancy

Lol...do such still happen in real life? I doubt

Juliusmalema2:

Is that all u could ask?

I'm really sorry about my question... It's just a big part of it.... Every other person can ask other questions that may seem more important....

Jack005:
Person wife you still dey say you love her... I wish the husband to be will find out and deal with both you mercilessly. ...Simp of the highest order.

I loved her, still do...but now towards a different direction, you don't expect me to hate her, even though I was hurt and I felt betrayed, I've forgiven her and that's why I wish her well...

The husband?,deal with us as in?i have no issue with him, to me he doesn't exist!

Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In modii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

All of them? Like real?

BREYZ:


Young man, concentrate on yourself. Leave girl matter and make money

Making money has always been the plan and my relationship don't and never will it affect my biz, whom to spend and live together with is now the problem.

But still thanks,

RapLawd:


I doubt that, did my research, dude is an electrician, no way he can be richer... Than I am... I'm not bragging bruh I'm doing well financially with multiple investment and other source of income, there's more to this than meets the eye, but which ever way, she's made her choice and I respect and wish her good...

So y not marry her? She wanna marry and u wasting her time

Lamanii22:
Did you deflower her... Or you were waiting til she's ready?.... I think the best thing is to move on.... And be far from each other... I'm really sorry about what happened between you two...

At the bold, no...

Yes I was waiting, believing that she will come around as she said, but I was wrong!.


Yes, I'm stopping all communication... For the sake of her home...I can be her weak spot and I won't let myself be a stumbling block in another man's home, never!

evil1:
Real Love never do u before nai make

For sure, it make one go insane when things goes north (nut).

Goldenrod1:
She wants to make you a plan B incase the marriage no latter work . Block her by all means

Then she's in for a very long ride.

RapLawd:


At the bold, no...

Yes I was waiting, believing that she will come around as she said, but I was wrong!.


Yes, I'm stopping all communication... For the sake of her home...I can be her weak spot and I won't let myself be a stumbling block in another man's home, never!

Awwwwwn.... I'm really sorry... Your broken heart will be mended... You will find somebody better but make sure you heal first...

BREYZ:


Young man, concentrate on yourself. Leave girl matter and make money

So to you a girl cannot dump a rich dude? Or guys who get heartbroken are all broke?

You'll be filled with frustrstion when you make this money but unable to find a suitable spouse.

Xenry:
That's sad!

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From your post, It seems like the girl is getting married to her EX out of desperation because she wasn't sure of your plans with her... That's their nature — they date who they like, and marry who is ready. So it's better not to take a girl that serious, or keep her for marriage unless you have made your intentions/plans known to her.

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Know this and know peace!

Not her ex.

My intention was open to her right from the beginning, but I believe she was confused and naive, which she is still is, but I can't do anything about anymore, she's gone and I'm moving on...

She wasn't mine and that's why I lost her.

obinna58:
The girl na mumu you should be happy

She can't be mumu,just that maybe she over played herself, and as young and Nigerian girl, she can't open her mouth to ask me to marry her...my thoughts though,now she's has gone the way of someone else and still yet, she's not satisfied,I feel her pains too,cus I know what I saw in her the last time we discussed.
She's worried.

SmellingAnus:
that babe go cheat... Sometimes na we men dey cause am... When we go snatch another person babe marry, what do you expect

Some just see it like say na royal rumble,but you don't blame anyone entirely,how do you know if she's in a serious relationship or if she is single? You don't bruh.

Because now, when I'm through with this, I'm just gonna go look for someone that match my spec and move on with her...I'm done getting into any relationship for now. It's marriage or nothing!

AmazingELixir:



I'm still struggling to understand why people love so deeply like this.

Me that in my hey days I silently pray my girl friends start up new relationships to give me leeway to add to my girl friends list..

Something might be wrong with me I don't feel so deeply about any female at all.

Op as e don be like this try move on nau.....unless you wan be side husband because if you wan continue to dey cruise the babe she go allow you...because for that babe na you be her authentic guy.

With mine,I can just tell you that it's inbuilt,we can't control that feeling when it comes to the person you hearts so much– it's supernatural.

flokii:
The earlier you move on and forget about her the better for you..

We were crying like babies yen yen yen.. craze dey una two head

My head is cleared now,yes I cried,not cus I'm a baby, but because I lost something I cherished so much...even gods do cry,it's normal.

Nezzjnr:

Baba better get your shits together and move on... You dodged a Hoe... Be happy man

Who knows. I just gat to move on.

AutoChick4U:
So y not marry her? She wanna marry and u wasting her time

She gave me timeframe,I was using her timetable,not knowing that after that little break, she's has changed her, and she never mentioned to me in any way/form that she wanna marry,why will I waste her time when I am the one waiting on her?.

Lamanii22:



Awwwwwn.... I'm really sorry... Your broken heart will be mended... You will find somebody better but make sure you heal first...

Thanks

AutoChick4U:
So to you a girl cannot dump a rich dude? Or guys who get heartbroken are all broke?

You'll be filled with frustrstion when you make this money but unable to find a suitable spouse.

Some don't get it, somethings are not just as it seems,like in my case, money can't be the reason...only her knows what happened that made her leave...

RapLawd:


She gave me timeframe,I was using her timetable,not knowing that after that little break, she's has changed her, and she never mentioned to me in any way/form that she wanna marry,why will I waste her time when I am the one waiting on her?.

Sorry it wasn't meant to be. Move on

Bro.... I hear you ... understand your pain. Blocking her is the first step ... but the pain will remain. Don't stress yourself by trying to figure out why she did you wrong... how much time and money you invested in her....why she didn't tell you before ... if what she is saying is the full truth ... if she really agreed to the marriage but telling you something different.... having all these thoughts streaming in your head will lead to depression ... depression can cause you to lose your business.... then your mind ... or the will to live... which leads to suicidal thoughts.... all because of one babe.
Look back on the relationship.... try to find signs that you missed ... things that she said that were yellow flags which you brushed aside ... look back to learn from the mistakes you made. See this as a blessing in disguise .... ask yourself.... if you got married to her... will she be really loyal to you? If she can keep this relationship secretive... can you imagine the secrets in marriage? She is not married as yet... but wants to continue with you in secret... unknown to the husband. It is women like her that give their husbands children that don't belong to them. The signs are all there .... she is deceitful ... she is not loyal and she is secretive... why should you be in pain because the yoke has been removed from your neck? Consider yourself lucky .... gather yourself together.... take a deep breath in .... exhale ... count yourself lucky and move on with your life.