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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:17am On Jun 30, 2021
FreeSpirited:

Okay. Shes free to behave in a more terrible fashion...and see another level of discipline. Laslas, na divorce go end am...we go know who go cry pass
It would have been better he sent her to her house than living her out in the cold for such a minor issue.
So you are one of those kids that use divorce to scare women?
Let me tell you, if a woman stays with you just because they are scared of living you, you are a single man.
If she stays with you because she has no where else to go, you have failed as a man.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by FreeSpirited: 10:23am On Jun 30, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
It would have been better he sent her to her house than living her out in the cold for such a minor issue.
So you are one of those kids that use divorce to scare women?
Let me tell you, if a woman stays with you just because they are scared of living you, you are a single man.
If she stays with you because she has no where else to go, you have failed as a man.

Lol...See a woman giving a man the yardstick for masculine failure....These are hogwash manipulation nonsense..only work on simpy pvvsiee....
Yes sending her back to her father's house is another way to discipline her...
I'm sure the guy wont hesitate to invoke that one if her offense gets to that level....A woman who can't sit down to settle issue who storms out brawling like a bitch on the street will end up being thrown out on the street where she's more comfortable than a matrimonial home

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:26am On Jun 30, 2021
pocohantas:
You did the right thing. That house you could walk in by 5am to see someone sleeping at the verandah is where you locked someone out.

There would definitely be more misunderstandings, as such more locking out. So please don’t stop locking her out, after all, you are the head and owner of the house. People are here hailing you, but the day it will set, you will know that this life na only you waka come.
Don't mind the street urchin feeling like a man cos a lady agreed to settle down with him.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by FreeSpirited: 10:29am On Jun 30, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Don't mind the street urchin feeling like a man cos a lady agreed to settle down with him.
Agreed to settle down? There are thousands ready to settle down in that house in peace.. she can park her load for another person to come in

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Nobody: 10:29am On Jun 30, 2021
FreeSpirited:
Though it's a bit Harsh but u have sent a strong message and that's fine. Next time she won't try it as she knows if she's does it will come with dire consequences. That's how to handle a woman..
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If u allow bad behavior, they will disrespect you and do worse.

I love when men assert themselves not some pvssy as men whose wives turn to doormat, who will beg when their wives is wrong.
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The point is punish a woman if she shows bad behavior, or else..she will do worse tomorrow and get bolder ....
Exactly mahn
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:33am On Jun 30, 2021
undecided
FreeSpirited:

Agreed to settle down? There are thousands ready to settle down in that house in peace.. she can park her load for another person to come in

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by pocohantas(f): 10:45am On Jun 30, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Don't mind the street urchin feeling like a man cos a lady agreed to settle down with him.

I don’t know who taught Nigerian men to lock their wives out of the house. Something that they won’t even forgive their parents if it were done to them. You do it to your partner and convince yourself it is a way of showing you are the man.

Growing up we had this neighbour that was fond of locking out his stubborn son. That was how he lost that boy to the streets. Same way they lose their daughters to hoodlums and unwanted pregnancies.

No matter how angry you are, don’t deny the other party FOOD and SHELTER! Allow them to sleep inside the house, and allow them to eat. If at all you are tired, take her back to her parents SAFELY.

If you talk now, they’ll say feminism. Anyway, water wey hot go cold, no be Nigerian men again. Toor!

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by JovialJune(f): 10:46am On Jun 30, 2021
yorubarere:

But why do you find it easy to insult? You started insulting the moment you joined this thread instead of contributing to the thread. Insulting people you don't know is not a sign of intelligence.


I don't know why you think your opinion of me matters one bit, you are just a mere moniker, an inconsequential one at that, know this, accept it, and be at peace.

It is good you actually noticed when I joined this thread, it is also a shame that you are blind to my first comment on this thread directed at Op, it is, as expected, that you took it upon yourself to focus on my reply to lowlife urchins who took it upon themselves to insult females here calling them evening newspaper, old hag etc, the same schmucks you were edging on and hailing to continue with their insultive stupidity by quoting them and saying nonsense, so you are same as them, that is why I insulted you cos you deserve it, but being that you are hypocritical, lack wisdom and intelligence, you choose to overlook theirs and face mine,

So dude, I don't condone idiots, if you don't want to be an idiot, condemn all and sundry who insulted without being biased, have this in mind when next you quote me.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by JovialJune(f): 10:54am On Jun 30, 2021
yorubarere:

Easy girl. I already responded to him. By the way, why are most bittered girls worked up about my posts? I am not responsible for whatever you are going through babe, and I can't help you out of it even if I can.

You didn't have to respond to him cos I called out your hypocrisy, so why tell me? I don't know why all you bitter anti female urchins feel you are worth a pin in the sand on anything that has to do with ladies here, y'all are bunch of low life ranters, nothing more, nothing less kiss

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by abimic(m): 10:57am On Jun 30, 2021
No man likes been disrespected, i like that you needed stamp your authority been the head of your home, but you went about it the wrong way. I know having shown your person, she would not dare you again, at least not to try your patience. Always find what works for you guys in resolving your dispute, wisdom is profitable to direct. Your wife is just a church goer, but lacks the wisdom to support her home. A wise woman would do all to make her marriage work/peaceful so long it does not lead to sin or hurt her home. You both lack what ordinary communication would have resolved, but pride, ego took the better of you guys. Anyway, do not lock your wife outside again because you wanted to stamp your authority, it is harmful and dangerous. It is insulting for partners' to walk out on each other, I would not even take that either, but understanding each other is key. Apologize for what you did, I am sure she would apologize for her actions too, then talk to her to find more ways to make the marriage work, and reach a compromise, it is good for partners to find freedom even while married, marriage is not a cage. I like skimpy dresses too for a woman but to church, she needs to be more discreet, just as you said, make her see reasons with you. I pray your home finds the required peace to make it work.
..doggedfighter, primadonnao, what are your take on this?

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by PlayMaker14: 11:04am On Jun 30, 2021
SMH grin
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by infogenius(m): 11:04am On Jun 30, 2021
Kondomatic:
You owe me no apology. We all say what's not true sometimes, so no problem . Dude, you misunderstood me. Getting married is a choice, loving who married is a mandatory decision.

But you can't love and respect your partner no matter what. There's a limit to what will happen and you will love them no more.

The reason you've stayed married for years isn't because you love her no matter what, it's because she also loves and respects you.

The love and respect will vamoose when she cheats on you, beats up your mom, bathes you with acid, starves of you of sex, food and attention or murders your family.

The no matter what will disappear immediately.
You might just be the one to read your Bible because what I have just told you is one of the truths that Christians are unwilling and scared to accept.

There are so many conditions attached to God's love, one of them being that you must believe in Jesus. Judas was chosen and loved, he carried out his purpose and was hated, condemned and forgotten.


Let's hang it there.

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U try
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Triplerg: 11:13am On Jun 30, 2021
You went too far bro. Her safety never mattered to you, please apologize to her. Exercise more patience with her as your union is at the infancy level

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 11:51am On Jun 30, 2021
pocohantas:


I don’t know who taught Nigerian men to lock their wives out of the house. Something that they won’t even forgive their parents if it were done to them. You do it to your partner and convince yourself it is a way of showing you are the man.

Growing up we had this neighbour that was fond of locking out his stubborn son. That was how he lost that boy to the streets. Same way they lose their daughters to hoodlums and unwanted pregnancies.

No matter how angry you are, don’t deny the other party FOOD and SHELTER! Allow them to sleep inside the house, and allow them to eat. If at all you are tired, take her back to her parents SAFELY.

If you talk now, they’ll say feminism. Anyway, water wey hot go cold, no be Nigerian men again. Toor!
As a child in my house, they no born you well to deny food or run outside during beating.
They go beat you, give you food wey you fit finish as punishment on top the beating.
They guy can't even do it to his kid when kids start coming but he did it to his wife.
Wife not girlfriend or sister. Someone he claims to love. I reject that kind of love in Jesus name.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 12:02pm On Jun 30, 2021
JovialJune:


You didn't have to respond to him cos I called out your hypocrisy, so why tell me? I don't know why all you bitter anti female urchins feel you are worth a pin in the sand on anything that has to do with ladies here, y'all are bunch of low life ranters, nothing more, nothing less kiss
I already responded to his post before you start insulting me with it. I guessed you were too blinded with hates to see that. And this ur post is still full of insults as well. It is that mothers are raising bad mannered girls or you girls picked it up in your feminists covens?
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 12:04pm On Jun 30, 2021
JovialJune:



I don't know why you think your opinion of me matters one bit, you are just a mere moniker, an inconsequential one at that, know this, accept it, and be at peace.

It is good you actually noticed when I joined this thread, it is also a shame that you are blind to my first comment on this thread directed at Op, it is, as expected, that you took it upon yourself to focus on my reply to lowlife urchins who took it upon themselves to insult females here calling them evening newspaper, old hag etc, the same schmucks you were edging on and hailing to continue with their insultive stupidity by quoting them and saying nonsense, so you are same as them, that is why I insulted you cos you deserve it, but being that you are hypocritical, lack wisdom and intelligence, you choose to overlook theirs and face mine,

So dude, I don't condone idiots, if you don't want to be an idiot, condemn all and sundry who insulted without being biased, have this in mind when next you quote me.
Lol.... So much bitterness. I don't remember my posts addressing yours in any ways. You just got triggered on nothing.

Before I forget, insulting people is a sign of low IQ.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by JovialJune(f): 12:07pm On Jun 30, 2021
yorubarere:

I already responded to his post before you start insulting me with it. I guessed you were too blinded with hates to see that. And this ur post is still full of insults as well. It is that mothers are raising bad mannered girls or you girls picked it up in your feminists covens?


I guess your mother raised you to overlook and edge on guys who call females evening newspaper and old hag, she raised you badly or you took it up in your misogyny coven.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by JovialJune(f): 12:10pm On Jun 30, 2021
yorubarere:

Lol.... So much bitterness. I don't remember my posts addressing yours in any ways. You just got triggered on nothing.

Before I forget, insulting people is a sign of low IQ.

Your post didn't have to refer to me, you bitterness shows in your hailing guys calling ladies old hag and evening newspaper, also you insulting ishilove and others who disagree with you with marriage and calling men in their life a simp, shows your low IQ is below minus zero.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 12:19pm On Jun 30, 2021
JovialJune:



I guess your mother raised you to overlook and edge on guys who call females evening newspaper and old hag, she raised you badly or you took it up in your misogyny coven.
You are just badly raised I guess. Because I don't see any reasons for these unwarranted insults so far. Most guys here are just catching cruise with you which you girls could have returned back rather than insults. Work on your manners, it will take you where your education can't.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 12:23pm On Jun 30, 2021
JovialJune:


Your post didn't have to refer to me, you bitterness shows in your hailing guys calling ladies old hag and evening newspaper, also you insulting ishilove and others who disagree with you with marriage and calling men in their life a simp, shows your low IQ is below minus zero.
I didn't insult ishilove or whatever, she came at me with her cans of insults just like you. And I am not ready for a new girlfriend, definitely not an expired one or old hag as you guys call it cheesy

Moreover, why are you so worked up on the evening newspapers tag? Do you belong to that cabal? Just asking questions tho
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Ishilove: 12:23pm On Jun 30, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Don't mind the street urchin feeling like a man cos a lady agreed to settle down with him.
Ha! You are calling someborry's husband street urchin? shocked
Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by JovialJune(f): 12:27pm On Jun 30, 2021
yorubarere:

You are just badly raised I guess. Because I don't see any reasons for these unwarranted insults so far. Most guys here are just catching cruise with you which you girls could have returned back rather than insults. Work on your manners, it will take you where your education can't.


Oh so now you guys are catching cruise cos you all have been dished right back the nonsense you spill? You are pained cos I insulted you? Imagine how others felt when you insulted them or you want to deny you didn't insult anyone here?

You were obviously raised in a slut house that's why you are full of hypocrisy and semblance of worth when you and insults are one, where I've reached and being to in life, you can only dream and wish for in your next existence.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by yorubarere: 12:30pm On Jun 30, 2021
JovialJune:



Oh so now you guys are catching cruise cos you all have been dished right back the nonsense you spill? You are pained cos I insulted you? Imagine how others felt when you insulted them or you want to deny you didn't insult anyone here?

You were obviously raised in a slut house that's why you are full of hypocrisy and semblance of worth when you and insults are one, where I've reached and being to in life, you can only dream and wish for in your next existence.
Can you quote any post I insulted people and point out the insults pls? You are just looking for avenue to display your bad manners cheesy

Like I said, it was just and advise. Where you reached or where u will reach is none of my concerns. Bad manners is like a smoke, it will always expose you wherever you go to.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Techguy96(m): 12:31pm On Jun 30, 2021
AutoChick4U:
See better learn to stamp your authority as the man if not your talk no go carry weight. The op overdo sha by spending d night outside. D guy heartless
You wife is a human being n ur partner not ur property or subordinate

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by JovialJune(f): 12:35pm On Jun 30, 2021
yorubarere:

I didn't insult ishilove or whatever, she came at me with her cans of insults just like you. And I am not ready for a new girlfriend, definitely not an expired one or old hag as you guys call it cheesy

Moreover, why are you so worked up on the evening newspapers tag? Do you belong to that cabal? Just asking questions tho

I'm pretty sure you're a fool at 40 that's why you are amused with the stupid name tags you dolts dish out to females, ishi never even quoted you first, you took it upon yourself to quote her with insults and she served you right back, same way I never quoted you but you took it as a job to mention me at will, bring it on then, na u go tire,

And you guys should really develop a little bit of sense and realise that not all ladies who call out your bullshit or disagree with you is single, as in, hit your head on the wall multiple times so your sense organ will come back to you for this particular clarity.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Ginomel(m): 12:35pm On Jun 30, 2021
Romanoff:


Just pass by, cause this your own comment just off me.

Married people no dey argue abi?

Just dey go.

*stops the car a little while *

Someone must have hacked Romanoff Account, if not it is so unbelievable that you could make this point without insult.

I think you have learnt how to address issues without insult .A good way to go, if you continue like this at home, your husband will not be too hard on you as the thread.

CC yorubarere

*zooms off and continue my movement *

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Romanoff(f): 12:37pm On Jun 30, 2021
Ginomel:


*stops the car a little while *

Someone must have hacked Romanoff Account, if not it is so unbelievable that you could make this point without insult.

I think you have learnt how to address issues without insult .A good way to go, if you continue like this at home, your husband will not be too hard on you as the thread.

CC yorubarere

*zooms off and continue my movement *

My response is determined by any previous comment. I can be graceful and ratchet, it depends on how civil you are.

PS, leave my husband out of it.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Techguy96(m): 12:40pm On Jun 30, 2021
capnies:


ARE YOU MARRIED AM SURE NOT. DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT MEANS WHEN YOU TELL YOU WIFE NOT TO DO SOMETHING AND SHE GOES AHEAD TO DISOBEY; THAT IS WITCHCRAFT
Ogbeni shut up, I'm pretty sure u are not married, people like u are the reason we have so many failed marriage today.

You see ur wife a ur property or a subordinate. Y'all don't know what communication is, u just want to lord over ur wife hence having a failed marriage.

How many men listen n do what their wife tells them, is that not also witchcraft.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by JovialJune(f): 12:40pm On Jun 30, 2021
yorubarere:

Can you quote any post I insulted people and point out the insults pls? You are just looking for avenue to display your bad manners cheesy

Like I said, it was just and advise. Where you reached or where u will reach is none of my concerns. Bad manners is like a smoke, it will always expose you wherever you go to.


This one thinks his thoughts on my life outside here matters, a bad mannered man filled with insults and edging guys on to insult ladies want to school me on bad manners, talk about daftness lmao

You expect me to show you your previous comments cos you are blind and can't go through what you typed? You should accept what you dish out boy, it will be good for your existence.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Techguy96(m): 12:43pm On Jun 30, 2021
NiRfreak:

By the time u grow up to be a man . Ur brain will have a reset.....Shebi u are just 24 ...ride on in ur juvenile ignorance. Dem no dey teach person to geh sense with woman....e go soon reach u
Y'all with so much sense and experience but can't keep your marriage together.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Techguy96(m): 12:45pm On Jun 30, 2021
Josbreed:


He said he likes her in short/skimpy dresses but not to Church with them. Get your mind right.
I didn't see that part in the write up but still he's wrong for letting her sleep outside all night.

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Re: How I discipline My Wife For Disrespecting Me by Cerebellum: 12:46pm On Jun 30, 2021
Uncle93:
Dont do this with a woman who isn't loyal, shes ginna call another man and go spend time at his place till ure ready.. women areeeeeeeee

Iffa slap you uncle..that areeee you dey write go disappear nigrin

How ur side o my bossgrin

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