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Re: Confused! by apatheticme(f):
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Re: Confused! by BRATISLAVA: 8:54am On Jul 06, 2021
apatheticme:
Dude's just so insufferable!

He's still stuck in the stone age.

Btw, How've you been bro??
Don't sweat it with TRP/MGTOW.

I'm okay and, from your robust responses, I can tell that you are too. grin
Re: Confused! by dobnina(f): 8:58am On Jul 06, 2021
Lizzyangel:
Hello everyone.
To God be the glory,schools resumed in Ondo state yesterday, I had to go back home on Sunday Evening to check if I can get Diye's uniforms and Kiishi's needs, the door is locked but I could find my way in through the exit door, resuming coupled with my current restlessness led to my tiredness and inability to update this last night.


I've searched round Ore looking for a room for my kids and I to live,as we're still living and being fed in a stranger's house for the past six days without a single call from folykaze to ask about his kid's welfare,(I guess it's a dream come through for him, victory at last!). So, I'm not comfortable living here, I don't like being a burden on others, though our host ain't complaining,but I shouldn't over-stay my welcome, they've really tried feeding, housing and clothing us for the past 6days, I pray that God almighty will continue to enrich their pockets and answer their prayers IJN.

The houses have been seeing are 1-2bedroom flats, which ranges 80-100k, I can't afford this cos whatever loan the school would be giving me, I'm to compulsorily pay back before the end of the term(3months) the minimum loan I was able to get is 50k,to be gradually deducted monthly, coupled with my kids tuition fees, my basic salary is 30k (extra lessons-exclusive)after the tax and compulsory savings reductions.


Restructuring may be hard and tasky ,but I'm surely moving on, if not for the urgency in my predicament, I'd have Done a thrift with my colleagues to enable me meet up my budget, but alas! I've been in a dilemma. I so much wish I could leave this my host's house before the end of this week.


This brings me to doing this again, I know many people will insult me again, and call me name, while few others that God will use will surely help us, for the sake of this innocent kids, please MAs/ Sirs, whatever God laid in your heart to help us with, it will go a long way in getting them an abode, their welfare is Paramount to me, right now I'm having the 50k loan gotten from school with me,we'd be needing more for the rents, little consumables, foodstuffs, diapers and others,(I've got loan to repay monthly, salary may not be enough for now), no little amount from your side that will go un-appreciated ma/sir.

0221204562
Wema bank

I might not be able to reply mentions during the day cos, we ain't allowed to use phones in the classroom,but I'd definitely reply in the evening/@night.

I'd gladly accept every insult coming to me for begging for my kid's sake, I'm not going back,I've come this far, please HELP US!!!
Finally, the main objective of the thread has been achieved.
I said all these sob stories were just a ploy to beg for money and you didn't disappoint me.
Madam, you are too proud.
People begged you to go and beg your dad, you refused and you were looking for a house to rent when you can barely feed the kids.
Your pride did not even allow you to start from the scratch by getting a room, you are looking for a a self con and a 2bedroom apartment.
This just shows how serious you are.
I only pity the people that will send money to you rather than giving people that really need the money.
If you pay 100k for rent this year, how will you renew the rent next year with your meagre salary and heavy responsibilities.
Re: Confused! by BRATISLAVA: 8:58am On Jul 06, 2021
pocohantas:
Oga getaut. No be so you sef dey beg Nlders to rescue you from the mess your manhood put you into? The topics still dey your profile na. No difference between the two of you when it comes to begging. Maybe na wetin bring una two together sef.
grin

You're noticing it, too. After this, money accumulated could be used to get condoms and resume. Seems the mind-blowing, toe-curling, breath-seizing, spine-tingling make up sex after these online spats could be great.

Or maybe it's been a monologue.

This forum.
Re: Confused! by apotek: 9:28am On Jul 06, 2021
FOLYKAZE:
And here we go, begging on public forum for a rescue from the mess you put yourself in. Don't you have families? Is your granddad property not in Ore? What about those that kept encouraging you to leave, can't they give you money? They cannot play the tune in the background and leave you dance publicly naked. Afterall they have divorced more than twice and wanted you in the party, but you are only dumb not to have backup before leaping out. In Ajegunle, you were known as serial begger. In Canaanland, you've begged almost everyone one way or the other for stipends. How many times are we going to talk about this?

Madam, please do not drag me into your embarrassment. I have had enough of this madness. These kids were your only cards but please you've raised it too many times. Remember you said you wanted out. I gave you all the chance to prepare shey! And I promised to pay for your rent, Alhaji only advised me against that. In the whole Ore, you couldn't find a single room, na bedroom flat you dey see, na craze dey worry you.

My Dad have been calling you since like forever. You stubbornly refused to answer his calls, meaning you have no regards for him or whatsoever. But you can give my number to your proprietor to speak with me.

Ogbeni, I knew you would come to pick one or two things, that is why I haven't changed the lock since you left. I only pity those that would send you money which you will soonest exhaust. I bet you will come again cuz it's in the blood.

It's your show, but please do not drag me into it. No mention me again shameless dolt. Im out.
Are you just going to ignore your kids? Bros!
Re: Confused! by apotek: 9:29am On Jul 06, 2021
pocohantas:
Oga getaut. No be so you sef dey beg Nlders to rescue you from the mess your manhood put you into? The topics still dey your profile na. No difference between the two of you when it comes to begging. Maybe na wetin bring una two together sef.
Lolzz.. na wa o..
Re: Confused! by pocohantas(f): 10:00am On Jul 06, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
grin

You're noticing it, too. After this, money accumulated could be used to get condoms and resume. Seems the mind-blowing, toe-curling, breath-seizing, spine-tingling make up sex after these online spats could be great.

Or maybe it's been a monologue.

This forum.
When they are done, they will makeup. She learns to be submissive and he learns to love her. Happily ever after.


apatheticme:
When you give fools attention and try to engage in intellectual discourse, you quickly discover that they're not only bereft of ideas but also daft beyond measure!

If this unintelligible gibberish is the best comeback you could offer to my last comment, then I must have overestimated your intellect!

Your IQ is obviously lower than that of a roach!
Understatement. There are guys on here that even though I don’t agree with all their views, I just have to agree they are sound. But you see that creature you quoted, VERY DULL.
Re: Confused! by budaatum: 10:23am On Jul 06, 2021
Michelle55:
I've followed your post from the beginning to this post right here and I must admit, you didn't disappoint at all in dropping your account number. All my mind was telling me was that, it's only going to end in begging and you did just that.

How you feel comfortable staying in a stranger's house all this time with your kids, letting them feed and clothe you boggle my mind when your parents are still very much alive. No matter how mad your dad might be, he would never turn a blind eye to your pleadings but as usual, you are too proud to swallow what's left of your pride to crawl before him to seek forgiveness but you've willingly subjected yourself to daily torture and humiliation to a man who isn't even fit to be called a man neither a husband and a father.

How you decided to be this foolish and less concerned about your own personal welfare and that of your kids still baffles me, which made me to wonder if this isn't another ploy to rip nairalanders off their hard earned money. So, after all the advice and pleading for you to return home, you still didn't listen but choose to stay close to your predator (that's the best name to describe him at this moment) make I ask you fess, na so the preeq take sweet reach that you couldn't leave and stay far away from him? I know your type too well, you will be praying inwardly for him to change and come back to you eventually, just keep waiting.

You didn't even look for a single room to begin with, na 1 bedroom apartment and the rest your eyes go, boya you think Nairaland is NGO in charge of providing funds to silly women and men who doesn't want to reason for themselves, whatever happens to single room for easy start up since you've decided to die in Ore? I don't know about you oh but if my mom is living in a thatch house, that's where I would go with my kids and gradually pick up my life back but na only you know wetin you dey gain for there.

All this my big big yarns still boils down to you're not a serious person and I'm beginning to think that both you and your baby daddy wants to use this platform cash out.. Goodluck!
Begging, or should I call it scamming, on NL does sounds like their modus operandi! Did they not get us to pay for the birth of their child too?

Someone post links to their prior beggings so its known please.
Re: Confused! by budaatum: 10:29am On Jul 06, 2021
apatheticme:
When you give fools attention and try to engage in intellectual discourse, you quickly discover that they're not only bereft of ideas but also daft beyond measure!

If this unintelligible gibberish is the best comeback you could offer to my last comment, then I must have overestimated your intellect!


Your IQ is obviously lower than that of a roach!

Sadly, your type are the majority in society, and y'all easily have the bandwagon mentality, nothing to make you stand out/or stand up for what you believe in. You'll rather follow the misguided crowd, cuss out anyone who dares to have a contrary opinion or idea. No wonder Africa is the way it is!

I won't be engaging you further than this, because bantering with you is obviously an insult to my intellect!

Have a good day!
You had enough lol. And while I was so enjoying you despite my initial advice. grin
Re: Confused! by budaatum: 10:32am On Jul 06, 2021
dobnina:
Finally, the main objective of the thread has been achieved.
I said all these sob stories were just a ploy to beg for money and you didn't disappoint me.
Madam, you are too proud.
People begged you to go and beg your dad, you refused and you were looking for a house to rent when you can barely feed the kids.
Your pride did not even allow you to start from the scratch by getting a room, you are looking for a a self con and a 2bedroom apartment.
This just shows how serious you are.
I only pity the people that will send money to you rather than giving people that really need the money.
If you pay 100k for rent this year, how will you renew the rent next year with your meagre salary and heavy responsibilities.
Open a thread and beg again on Nairaland, of course.

It's clearly become a profession now and new scamable Nairalanders register everyday.
Re: Confused! by CHoccolaTE: 10:33am On Jul 06, 2021
I am just feeling sorry for the poor children caught up in this mess. One is even still a baby wearing diapers.
sad

Madam lizzy try going to your church for help. You are not likely to get any money from nairalanders.

Meanwhile the man that had unprotected sex with a 19 year old child and started this mess does not even have the conscience to help his children.
Re: Confused! by ahnie: 10:55am On Jul 06, 2021
Drama left,right and center
Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 11:01am On Jul 06, 2021
CHoccolaTE:
I am just feeling sorry for the poor children caught up in this mess. One is even still a baby wearing diapers.
sad

Madam lizzy try going to your church for help. You are not likely to get any money from nairalanders.

Meanwhile the man that had unprotected sex with a 19 year old child and started this mess does not even have the conscience to help his children.
How are we even sure they have children?

Nobody can tell here what is the truth and what is a lie.

They might even be living comfortably together with or without the children laughing at us here.

They are scammers.

Who can even tell if it is a couple, one person or even two men.

I don't believe anything.
Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 11:01am On Jul 06, 2021
budaatum:
Open a thread and beg again on Nairaland, of course.

It's clearly become a profession now and new scamable Nairalanders register everyday.
Exactly!
Re: Confused! by Nobody: 11:09am On Jul 06, 2021
apatheticme:
When you give fools attention and try to engage in intellectual discourse, you quickly discover that they're not only bereft of ideas but also daft beyond measure!

If this unintelligible gibberish is the best comeback you could offer to my last comment, then I must have overestimated your intellect!


Your IQ is obviously lower than that of a roach!

Sadly, your type are the majority in society, and y'all easily have the bandwagon mentality, nothing to make you stand out/or stand up for what you believe in. You'll rather follow the misguided crowd, cuss out anyone who dares to have a contrary opinion or idea. No wonder Africa is the way it is!

I won't be engaging you further than this, because bantering with you is obviously an insult to my intellect!

Have a good day!
Goodmorning whu is this

Re: Confused! by Mustiboy(m): 11:14am On Jul 06, 2021
Read this thread from the beginning up to this point late into last night, and I feel bad for what you're going through.

But I must admit that you, Madam Lizzy, have no shame whatsoever. And as for the miserable, egoistic pauper you call husband, I reserve my comment for that one.

Come to think of it, this is the same Nairaland family who has helped you and your husband on many occasions, yet you still had the effrontery to let this matter get up to the point of soliciting for funds yet again?

I thought this is your breakthrough? I thought this is the time when you finally leave the abusive cohabitation with your husband and finally try to weather the storm?

Nobody is having it easy out here, and we all have our difficulties to contend with. Why should you bother anyone here again knowing fully well that these same people have helped in the past? I see nothing but shamelessness here.

If you know what's good for you, swallow your pride and return to your family. I know you don't want to return probably because of the shame, but tell me, why should you be ashamed? You brought all this upon yourself, Lizzy. And, trust me, things wouldn't have gotten this bad if you had damned the consequences long ago and left this situation you call marriage. And to think you two aren't even legally married sef. Nonsense!


I may send you the little I can not because of you, but because of your kids. But I want you to take those kids outta wherever you are and stop being a burden to a stranger. You have your own family. Return to them.


People here might seem harsh, but they only just want you to use your brain and stop being irritating. Nobody hates you; you've surfered enough. But please return to your family.


You seem difficult to advise sef, gosh!
Re: Confused! by Mstick: 11:39am On Jul 06, 2021
The account number has dropped! If by now you don't know lemme tell you, this whole thread is being written by two clowns Folykaze and lizzyangel, he posts with her moniker and sometimes she also posts with it.

This fictional story she created few days ago was just a ruse to get money since Folykaze asked for money earlier and he wasn't given so what do they do? Plan to use their kids because they know people will be sympathetic if they hear that a woman's going through DV and she has kids, since that didn't work they tried the "he wants to throw us out" game.

Check the comments the moniker Lizzyangel has dropped on this thread you will notice two different writing styles. Like the comment where she posted her account number, copy it then go back to the thread where Folykaze was begging for money for their "imaginary" baby in the hospital. Same writing style.


It's sad that people like this will keep blocking genuine help seekers but at the end of it all it's good. If you're in need your immediate community should be your first call of help not the internet.


It's crazy how with your education all both of you can think about is how to swindle people.


Lizzyangel you've cried wolf, hopefully when you're in real need you will look back at the bridges you've burnt.
Re: Confused! by CHoccolaTE: 11:40am On Jul 06, 2021
Hathor5:
How are we even sure they have children?

Nobody can tell here what is the truth and what is a lie.

They might even be living comfortably together with or without the children laughing at us here.

They are scammers.

Who can even tell if it is a couple, one person or even two men.

I don't believe anything.
I believe they are two different people.
Their post history shows it.

But I an kind of hoping the whole thing is a farce and made up to decieve nairalanders because I am really feeling bad for the small baby in the story.
Re: Confused! by Mustiboy(m): 12:10pm On Jul 06, 2021
Mstick:
The account number has dropped! If by now you don't know lemme tell you, this whole thread is being written by two clowns Folykaze and lizzyangel, he posts with her moniker and sometimes she also posts with it.

This fictional story she created few days ago was just a ruse to get money since Folykaze asked for money earlier and he wasn't given so what do they do? Plan to use their kids because they know people will be sympathetic if they hear that a woman's going through DV and she has kids, since that didn't work they tried the "he wants to throw us out" game.

Check the comments the moniker Lizzyangel has dropped on this thread you will notice two different writing styles. Like the comment where she posted her account number, copy it then go back to the thread where Folykaze was begging for money for their "imaginary" baby in the hospital. Same writing style.


It's sad that people like this will keep blocking genuine help seekers but at the end of it all it's good. If you're in need your immediate community should be your first call of help not the internet.


It's crazy how with your education all both of you can think about is how to swindle people.


Lizzyangel you've cried wolf, hopefully when you're in real need you will look back at the bridges you've burnt.
I believe they are two different persons, and the story is genuine. It's just the motive behind the whole public ranting that I doubt.
Re: Confused! by FloraEC(f): 12:16pm On Jul 06, 2021
Lizzyangel:
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I'd gladly accept every insult coming to me for begging for my kid's sake I'm not going back,I've come this far, please HELP US!!!
Begging for which children's sake, don't drag them into your drama.

Go to your parents house and quietly save up.
You have a teaching experience
A beautiful handwork too

Even if they provide a roof over your head and few necessary things; work and complement others.

Ahhh

Begging on behalf of my kids

Nonsense and yen yenyenyen yen

If you want assistance, beg with your full chest biko.

Shalom

Mtcheww
Re: Confused! by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jul 06, 2021
#sobbing
Re: Confused! by apatheticme(f): 12:25pm On Jul 06, 2021
pocohantas:
When they are done, they will makeup. She learns to be submissive and he learns to love her. Happily ever after.




Understatement. There are guys on here that even though I don’t agree with all their views, I just have to agree they are sound. But you see that creature you quoted, VERY DULL.
Lol @the bolded!

Only God knows where vermins like these crawl out from!
Re: Confused! by apatheticme(f):
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Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 12:43pm On Jul 06, 2021
CHoccolaTE:
I believe they are two different people.
Their post history shows it.

But I an kind of hoping the whole thing is a farce and made up to decieve nairalanders because I am really feeling bad for the small baby in the story.
That's how they want you to feel.
Re: Confused! by cayorday89(m): 1:09pm On Jul 06, 2021
Lizzyangel:
#sobbing
There is no point sobbing when you have an option of returning to your parents and picking up yourself you rather want to live large on the benevolence of people online who are probably managing themselves, some of us na free opera we dey use access Nairaland ooo. You are not even willing to get a low cost house but one you can't even afford in the near future (not writing you off but one needs to be realistic, even if you can, it's better you use it for the welfare of those children.. My own father told me he wants to get me a room and parlor self-con as a struggling guy and I refused that I will be okay with a single room apartment telling him will I have to come back to him to pay for the subsequent year if I can't afford it again and you are here trying to live large on the sweat of total strangers for your own complete comfortability ... Things don't work that way...
Re: Confused! by CsRockefeller(m): 1:16pm On Jul 06, 2021
It's well.
Re: Confused! by kkins25(m): 1:19pm On Jul 06, 2021
two couples who have gone through some hard times are now so attached that they can't exist independently without finding a way to bring themselves back into all this drama. This is just an online version of my own parents.

Science says women do have stronger attachments to their man, even when the man is abusive or maltreats them. So your behaviour(of not leaving) is not suprising considering the circumstances that gave rise to the relationahip. Moreso, kids are now involved.


You do have a job and i believe FOLYK is aslo employed, if you guys just discuss this thing without leting emotions get in the way, i believe a resolution would present itself.

If you two are tired of the relationship(I think you, ma, are not ready to leave. my mom didn't and it didn't play out well).

should you continue, if truly what you say is true, then just know say na the genesis of tensions be this.
when the tension of raising teenagers join, thats when the true tribulations would begin.

It is not going well for my parents oh, my mum was jumping from one disease to another. Heart problems, depression, liver problems, etc. She lives a healthy lifestyle so it baffles docs how she's generating this illnesses.

Docs advise her to leave her "marriage" as they were begining to suspect her problems were rising from emotional trauma.

the effects on the kids are not so obvious because we've been taught to blend in with society perfectly, so much so- that even though we come from broken homes we were never victims of drugs abuse, associate with "bad kids", etc. As a matter of fact, people compliment my mother for raising such respectabke kids.

Little do they know, that at home our conversation as a family doesn't go beyond; "good morning", "Yes-No", "What foodstuff do we need", and other one liners. we- 5 kids, all suffer from social anxiety.

My immediate younger brother cant cope in minor social conflicts, he has anger management issues i guess. He quit his job recently, with no plans whatsoever because his boss mocks him a few times.

I cant stop twitching my toes even on one on one conversations, and other siblings avoid social gatherings at all cost.

All am saying is, nobody ends up happy in this journey the two of you have chosen to travel. It would definitely affect your kids. two of you just remind me of my parents. we did alot of "begging" too. Bless those who supported us, i hope to do the same to others who need help.

oh, getting more money didn't help either. if you think money would solve your problems. Cuz there came a time, my old man had 7 figures, but our problems quadrupled.
Re: Confused! by budaatum: 1:30pm On Jul 06, 2021
Lizzyangel:
#sobbing
Why? Truth finally hitting home?
Re: Confused! by Michelle55: 1:37pm On Jul 06, 2021
cayorday89:
There is no point sobbing when you have an option of returning to your parents and picking up yourself you rather want to live large on the benevolence of people online who are probably managing themselves, some of us na free opera we dey use access Nairaland ooo. You are not even willing to get a low cost house but one you can't even afford in the near future (not writing you off but one needs to be realistic, even if you can, it's better you use it for the welfare of those children.. My own father told me he wants to get me a room and parlor self-con as a struggling guy and I refused that I will be okay with a single room apartment telling him will I have to come back to him to pay for the subsequent year if I can't afford it again and you are here trying to live large on the sweat of total strangers for your own complete comfortability ... Things don't work that way...
No advice will work here, all they are after is money. Anything other than money won't be taken serious, I was patiently waiting for the account number and trust me, she didn't disappoint me.
Re: Confused! by Michelle55: 1:39pm On Jul 06, 2021
budaatum:
Why? Truth finally hitting home?
Nah.. Una no gree drop money, na why she dey cry.. She wasn't expecting the backlash and super glue hands meted out to her, she think say this year go be like last year when dem cash out big smiley
Re: Confused! by ahnie: 1:46pm On Jul 06, 2021
You people are really giving it to this woman bumper to bumper not giving her a breather.

Let her just kuku deactivate her account.
Mehn the blasting is chest gripping.
Re: Confused! by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jul 06, 2021
cayorday89:
There is no point sobbing when you have an option of returning to your parents and picking up yourself you rather want to live large on the benevolence of people online who are probably managing themselves, some of us na free opera we dey use access Nairaland ooo. You are not even willing to get a low cost house but one you can't even afford in the near future (not writing you off but one needs to be realistic, even if you can, it's better you use it for the welfare of those children.. My own father told me he wants to get me a room and parlor self-con as a struggling guy and I refused that I will be okay with a single room apartment telling him will I have to come back to him to pay for the subsequent year if I can't afford it again and you are here trying to live large on the sweat of total strangers for your own complete comfortability ... Things don't work that way...
Ok.
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