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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by kay29000(m): 7:44pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
babyfaceafrica: Ahh! That's scary. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by authority2006(m): 7:45pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
ogashman: maak400: You gotta do what you gotta do. Look for a woman that will not expose your not-too-okay financial status to the world. One or two kids should be enough. Try something new for your source of income. Funny thing is that I know a man who is like 44 now, instead of raising family even if it is just husband, wife and a kid, the man is after building his own house that may take three or more years to complete. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Ruggman: 7:46pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Your write up is not totally correct, marriage is a life venture that requires maturity and godly wisdom not just money. Money is necessary for everyone and if you care to know some bachelor's spend far more than some married men on wasteful living. Major thing you need in marriage is God's favour to marry your own wife. It is important to pray very well and listen to advise, ask relevant questions about your supposed spouse before engaging in marriage. NB ------- *YOUR OWN WIFE WILL STAND WITH YOU WETHER GOOD OR BAD *IF YOU MARRY WHEN YOU HAVE MONEY, WHAT HAPPENS IF ALONG THE WAY THINGS TURN DOWNWARDS?, WILL YOU ASK THE WOMAN TO TAKE A BREAK FROM THE MARRIAGE UNTILL THINGS RETURN TO NORMAL?. * A BAD WIFE WILL MISBEHAVE EVEN WHEN YOU ARE GIVING HER HEAVEN AND EARTH. * MARRIAGE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES, EXPECT UPS AND DOWNS, HIGH AND LOW MOMENTS. MONEY OR NO MONEY CAN NOT CHANGE THIS FACT ABOUT MARRIAGE 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by mofedamijo(m): 7:47pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
aribisala0: What are you saying My point is simple. If you're with someone who is demanding and you don't have much, what are you suppose to do?? You have a woman who has never supported you. You're the only one spending in the relationship, yet you still want to marry such person. How will that person support your dreams and the family Choose wisely and don't say you won't know until you choose. 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by oloshun(m): 7:47pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
IgweOfNnewi: Bro, you make sense. I have come to realize that marriage is by luck. My former wife met me when I was much spending loud. We divorced and after few years that I came to my senses, I met my new wife who is even richer than me then, we have been happy together with kids for 6years. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by mofedamijo(m): 7:47pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
seanwilliam: If you can't comprehend, please don't ever quote me ignorantly. Shalom. |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by GodisFirst: 7:49pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Money matters a lot but you should not keep waiting for all the money in this world before getting married especially when age is not on your side and you have seen a good girl that you are sure of her love and wants to be with you. There are many good girls out there. Just be yourself, don't hand your clothes where your hands can't reach. Some can bring open doors to you as soon as you genuinely propose to them. The problem is if you pick a gold digger as a wife, the marriage will be in trouble. If you have a well paying job and you marry a gold digger, what happens if suddenly the job is no longer there as is the case with Nigeria. If you have something doing that could keep you and your family going and you can't wait, especially if you are the type that can't keep eyes off women, then go and marry and keep a low profile family life style, avoid life of competition, ensure you feed well and take care of your health, with time if the economy improves on your side, then you can adjust, but till then, maintain the basic. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Electrochemistry(m): 7:49pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
ogashman:My brother he's not telling you not to marry if you are not rich he's only telling you what you should expect if you marry as a poor man. Let's learn from one another. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by authority2006(m): 7:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
nextstep: And then, grow old as a poor lonely pitiable man! That would suck! 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by kay29000(m): 7:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Quim2: Interesting. |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Them no dey tell person. You go hear pkansa pkansa, in fela's voice. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by jesmond3945: 7:52pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
IgweOfNnewi:stubborn fly. If you like don't listen to Op |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Kayyus09(m): 7:53pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Son of man is getting old meh 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by sharpwriter(m): 7:55pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
tobe1985: You see in life, challenges will come. It depends on how we handle it with boldness even in the face of shame m Those who are less emotional and a bit selfish are those that won't listen to people's ranting. It's not an easy skill to be focused and tell others to shut up so you can achieve at your own convenient time. However, even being unmarried at 50 is another great shame. Dem for don call you into family meeting for more than 15 times So the life of man is very hard and shame is inevitable at some point unless person quickly tear eye as young adult with seriousness and focus on manly achievements. And sometimes with the help of a progressive guardian or mentor. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by aribisala0(m): 7:57pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
mofedamijo: What I am saying is no matter how wise you think you are women change after marriage. This is true for men too to be fair There is really no wisdom to predict what people will become after marriage. So whether it turns out how you want may be more down to serendipity than to insight or wisdom. Therefore the advice to choose wisely is mission impossible. No human being is that wise, some people are just lucky. 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by kzubyar(m): 7:57pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Inception:Queen of the South |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Blueelf: 7:58pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Ezehillary:Teenager spotted |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Revolva(m): 8:00pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Marriage of today won't work well because of economic wahala that is endless I advise any young stable man that need a child to just date. A babe and bang her and get her pregnant first from there play on...de renew the contract if she is doing you well..use it as a test of her faith before finally you can then put her in ur house Unless you will regret it o ..most girls of today have destroyed their womb and are lazy and can't do business or even endure small marital wahala ..Dem go find another man go... especially if na Dem Dem type of gals ..you carry for head as a lover.. Shit happens to people I have read many ...and seen many 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Blueelf: 8:02pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Let's be specific IF you're not making at least N500k per month (and you stay in a Major City like Lagos, Abuja and Port-Hacourt), please don't marry I used 30mins of my precious time to calculate it. Please marriage is not compulsory and women love your ability to provide, not you 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Lightway: 8:04pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Romanoff: But you're already married and yet you don't have a business |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by chaloskyx: 8:04pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
if you dont have money you have no biz getting married dont start procreating only to let your kids suffer with poverty its not fair |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Gjmff: 8:04pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Bad ideas No girl want to manage these days they rather insult you and end up cheating on you if you can’t pay the bills just plan your life and make money girls will flock round you like bees when you are rich you can marry anytime. Tb Joshua didn’t live that long for his children to feed him rather he left generational wealth for those children . Forget about the african mentality of growing old while raising your kids . The kids will survive whether they have something to survive on or not 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by labisibrass(m): 8:09pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
obembet: There's no how you people want to paint it, it's so bad to marry when you can barely feed two mouths let alone taking care of a child. Do you know why dependency rate is too much?. So many people marry with the mindset of depending on one young guy who's gainfully employed but also trying to stand well. You need to have them around you to really understand my point. Not all marriages open doors, most people are really suffering! 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Xpress24(m): 8:10pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
babyfaceafrica:bad guy 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Fiscus105(m): 8:10pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
aribisala0: Yes Jesus choose wisely, hope you know great exploit Peter did after Jesus left. No perfect being on Earth. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Michelle55: 8:12pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
dingbang:Absolutely! I do concur. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Romanoff(f): 8:12pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Lightway: And you know this how? |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Blueelf: 8:13pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
dingbang: What is good for the goose is good for the gander |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Fiscus105(m): 8:14pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Don't know that 90% can go to the way of op, because when Adeboye said it few years ago that ladies shouldn't marry jobless man, our people here on nairaland almost mob man of God. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Xj2020: 8:21pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
I married a virgin without experience like you advised and it's still same old same story. Money is everything in marriage if you must command the respect of any woman especially women that play the role of full time house wives IgweOfNnewi: |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Quim2: Teenage daughters who may not truly love you. While hustling you could've been on the lookout for a genuine person. Real friends are those who are there during your down time. 3 Likes |
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