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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by englishmart(m): 10:33am On Jul 20, 2021
vickydevoka:

How much u get
$1000 net worth.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Darevofpeace(m): 10:33am On Jul 20, 2021
dingbang:
So by 60, your kids will be entering uni? By that that you will be retired and not capable to support them in university.
This analysis is bias and myopic.Discover your "purpose" in life first.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by naijapips02: 10:34am On Jul 20, 2021
PAWG:



Don’t lose sight of why we’re here, go back and read the OP’s post then come back

I think you’re bipolar and can’t get your ideas together. Don’t be quick to comment so you don’t contradict yourself.

Same you said: At your older years ,you have more money, more influence, more wisdom

Same you still said: I don't want to be struggling with kids when I can barely take care of myself


A bad parent will be a bad parent regardless of age. More resources and wisdom will guarantee kids get a better life. That’s what I’m for.

Besides, I’m not imposing my ideas on you, choose whichever you prefer.

There’s enough space here to air your opinion, please leave me to mine if it contrasts with yours angry

I didn't quote the op for a reason. You made a stupid comment that should be corrected.

Dude at certain ages , you are not even able to parent whether good or bad.

It's a mark of laziness and tactlessness when youths like you avoid the responsibility of setting down. Don't influence others with your aimless life.
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Hassanmaye(m): 10:34am On Jul 20, 2021
Obakashdee:




which point abeg? Lol your father was senseless at age below 35 then when he married your mother even your brothers below 35 are all senseless
grin
Hahah
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by PAQ(m): 10:36am On Jul 20, 2021
It is not too early or too late to get married at 35, just as its never too early or too late to go to jail at 35! It aint normal either. grin
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Hassanmaye(m): 10:40am On Jul 20, 2021
Callisto1:
Peer pressure is one of the deadly diseases in Nigeria. dont let any oerson put pressure on u wen u are not ready. Marriage no be beans
My own is family pressure How can I avoid it
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by PAWG(m): 10:40am On Jul 20, 2021
naijapips02:


I didn't quote the op for a reason. You made a stupid comment that should be corrected.

Dude at certain ages , you are not even able to parent whether good or bad.

It's a mark of laziness and tactlessness when youths like you avoid the responsibility of setting down. Don't influence others with your aimless life.

If I made a stupid comment and anyone ignores yours to follow my advise it means you’re the daft one

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by donbenie(m): 10:41am On Jul 20, 2021
dingbang:
So by 60, your kids will be entering uni? By that that you will be retired and not capable to support them in university.
Seems you have it all figured out?
Those wey born by 25 and come die by 30 nkọ?
Abeg leave matter for Mathias..
Life no be mathematics..

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by donbenie(m): 10:50am On Jul 20, 2021
ibechris:




At retirement u will know if u are right or not.

Wait when pampass would be 10k.
Children Vaccines would be 10k
Milk would be 10k.

U better start reasoning now,the sleepness night men go through to assist their wife's can be frustrating and consuming at the same. Old age isn't good for nurturing children.
Time shall tell.
Leave all these stories.
They apply to the poor..
And you are more likely to raise your children in a poor state,if you marry early..
The ones that marry later,are most likely to be financially capable of giving their children a better upbringing..
Life is not mathematics..
Rushing to marry early when you are not financially comfortable,is a sure way
to misery and breakups..

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by kokoboy4life(m): 10:51am On Jul 20, 2021
frozen70:


All you wrote was like thinking in a backwards direction
How many men of these era fits into all you mentioned, including you considering the economic situation since this regime ?

I just tire, some ppl think life is so easy that all 35years old men would have established a business or acquired MSC, Phd

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by kay29000(m): 10:52am On Jul 20, 2021
dingbang:
So by 60, your kids will be entering uni? By that that you will be retired and not capable to support them in university.

I don't know why most Nigerians have this your myopic way of thinking.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Suigeneris9548(m): 10:56am On Jul 20, 2021
There's no official age for men to marry,
Getting married at 35 is not late, however it is always more interesting and profitable to marry early than 35 as a civil servant that wholly depend on salary for survival, because of retirement and inability to make money outside his job..
But as an entrepreneur, a thinker that know and understand the setting of this modern world with a productive mindset,having the mindset of passive cash flow, can marry at any age,
Practically making money has no stipulated age,it is all about you discovering yourself on exact valuable service you can render for humanity to be bringing in money for you..
That won't be a barrier in raising your kids with right education, finance and mindset,
If money predicament has been rightly fixed,getting married at any willful age is possible and worth venturing into.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by kay29000(m): 10:57am On Jul 20, 2021
PAWG:



35 is right bros. My dad is 77 and comfortably paid my younger bro’s fees (Bsc-PhD) and refused all form of assistance from us.


It’s better to marry late than bring kids to this world early to suffer, [/b]making money could be a competition but starting a family [b]shouldn’t be.

God bless you.
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by phemmyfour: 10:57am On Jul 20, 2021
gungab:


What happen to opening Education funds for the kids

He will enjoy his old age no matter what
Training kids involve both financial and mental strength
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by naijapips02: 10:57am On Jul 20, 2021
PAWG:


If I made a stupid comment and anyone ignores yours to follow my advise it means you’re the daft one

We have a lot of fools on this forum following stupid advice. The way to hell is wide and smooth, still doesn't make it right.
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Rubbiish(m): 10:58am On Jul 20, 2021
VTJN:
spot on

You are absolutely right

Naturally a girl child is intellectually ahead of a male child

Yet everything u are using today from technology to health to engineering, every sphere of life, were invented & discovered by men??
Are u sure u know the meaning of intellect??

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by berrystunn(m): 10:58am On Jul 20, 2021
VTJN:
yes you are absolutely right

My dad got married @27 and their marriage today is 37 years still counting forever

I guess something is foundamentally wrong with this generation guys honestly

I never wish or pray to raise my kids in this country

Expecially the female ones

Yes agree with you something is wrong with this generation. .

Who do we blame??
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Jsucre(m): 11:03am On Jul 20, 2021
dingbang:
So by 60, your kids will be entering uni? By that that you will be retired and not capable to support them in university.
baby sense

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Lostchild(m): 11:04am On Jul 20, 2021
englishmart:
I understand age is just a number, but all numbers are not equal still. The society tend to fix a standard for everything. Most guys will want to get married on or before they turn 30, but a couple of uncontrollable factors preclude that from happening.

What's your take concerning marrying at 35 for guys. Do you think it's a bit late?

Why are you worried over marriage? I have heard numerous times from western men who keep saying that "life start at 40"
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Dicedpineappple(f): 11:04am On Jul 20, 2021
simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by specialbabe: 11:06am On Jul 20, 2021
Life has no fixed timetable. Just know your purpose and follow your time. After all it's not always the oldest that dies first. Be an original not photocopying others.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Jsucre(m): 11:08am On Jul 20, 2021
StPete:
Do not let anyone deceive you, marrying at 35 is a tard late. Looking at the present state of Nigeria, except you have planned billions down for your unborn children, you will probably have to keep struggling in old age or after retirement to keep them alive and in school.

More so, research shows that the best time to give birth to healthy looking kids should be from 18-28 years.

There's nothing more proud than to see your grown child standing next to you and people assuming he/she is your sibling cheesy
does early child bearing determine lifespan? Do you understand the world "fulfilled life"?
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Nobody: 11:09am On Jul 20, 2021
its late cos at 50, your children are stil teenagers or younger
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Johncuppa(m): 11:09am On Jul 20, 2021
ibechris:




At retirement u will know if u are right or not.

Wait when pampass would be 10k.
Children Vaccines would be 10k
Milk would be 10k. Hi

U better start reasoning now,the sleepness night men go through to assist their wife's can be frustrating and consuming at the same. Old age isn't good for nurturing children.
Time shall tell.
Everybody will not end up a career or salary earner.
Some people actually are paying the price to build a generational wealth and as such money will be enough not to only take care of the children at old age, but also to take care of generation after them.

When people get marry late, ask them what they are doing before conclusion.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by PAWG(m): 11:09am On Jul 20, 2021
naijapips02:


We have a lot of fools on this forum following stupid advice. The way to hell is wide and smooth, still doesn't make it right.


You’re beginning to sound like an empty vessel, all over the place throwing tantrums. Putting a religious spin on things isn’t helping.

Rather than your comments making me see reasons with you, they’re making me thing more lowly of you.

SMH

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by donmik: 11:10am On Jul 20, 2021
StPete:
Do not let anyone deceive you, marrying at 35 is a tard late. Looking at the present state of Nigeria, except you have planned billions down for your unborn children, you will probably have to keep struggling in old age or after retirement to keep them alive and in school.

More so, research shows that the best time to give birth to healthy looking kids should be from 18-28 years.

There's nothing more proud than to see your grown child standing next to you and people assuming he/she is your sibling cheesy

You have spoken much well by theory.
Do u know that marriage if bad or good takes/add 90% of your joy or sorrow or life or death as it applies?
There are more to marriage than fashion.
Many have rushed someone else into it and that person got discovered he or she was not the right partner.
And divorce is an eternal cut in the heart of a family.
If u want early marriage, start early maturity.
When your mates are doing high school crush, look at what makes early marriage and pick working them out from then.
Unfortunately, only 2% of our generation thinks meaningfully about what a meaningful home entails at that age.
We many end up in youthful exuberance of pursuing sex and fashion then.
Sit your child down early and keep to that homework of advice if u love early marriage.
Thanks, OP
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Jsucre(m): 11:10am On Jul 20, 2021
Don't let anyone to deceive you. Any age you marry is the best. Well life fulfilled is the best.
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by naijapips02: 11:11am On Jul 20, 2021
PAWG:



You’re beginning to sound like an empty vessel, all over the place throwing tantrums. Putting a religious spin on things isn’t helping.

Rather than your comments making me see reasons with you, they’re making me thing more lowly of you.

SMH

When you have no point , you make it personal. Typical kid
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Nobody: 11:12am On Jul 20, 2021
simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.
yep, dts true

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