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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Silentgroper(m): 8:22pm On Aug 04, 2021
Powerfly:



You made sense!
Lots of sense... But the generation I come from would never acknowledge this... cheesy
Sadly.... angry
*i came from*
what generation would dat be?

hi. Its been a while

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Emotionss: 8:26pm On Aug 04, 2021
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Adeesther56:
U are a wicked person,so u want to have sex with her then it would results in unwanted pregnancy then u abandoned her,why can't u think are u a dog that can't live without sex,,think.. because fornication is a sin,u sef know it,and u call yourself a Christian,you are a disgrace to christians aswear, it gona clock 4 years this year that hav been a celibate..just pity your life aswear....

Hmmmmm
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Silentgroper(m): 8:30pm On Aug 04, 2021
Goldiness:








May God deliver you from evil, you see your life, you dated a lady for good four years, no sex, you have spent money, and it's paining you, what stops you from marrying her throughout all these years, she is a wise lady to know that all you want is to use and dump her, if not you would have married her.how old are you that you should have a relationship that you are not ready to commit to, shame!!! She even try for you sef, if am her relative, I will tell her to leave you , forget about you long ago. If you love her, marry her and have legitimate sex, instead of wasting the both of you time on frivolities.

Now you have come for advice, so that your fellow pervert guys on narialand will advise you to forcefully have sex with her, because you have spent money. Like I said may God deliver you from evil.
ogbeni, shey u b simp abi u b woman b4 i knw hw to reply u.
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by FRANKOSKI(m): 8:31pm On Aug 04, 2021
Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?
IF THERE'S NO EVIDENCE OF HER CHEATING PLEASE KEEP HER .
IF SHE'S A VIRGIN ,MARRY HER.
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Hassanmaye(m): 8:32pm On Aug 04, 2021
ekitimanalways:

I can bet with one of my steel balls she is comfortably giving your sumptuous meal to another man. Walk away now!
grin How do you know though it's vagina people they can do the unthinkable
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Hassanmaye(m): 8:37pm On Aug 04, 2021
Stankovic22:
I dated my girl for 3½yrs before on her own she trusted me with her body.

In that 3½yrs I was celibate, faithful and focused...

I was busy working and planning for a future for us. She saw that and freed herself after believing she can trust me.

If your girl is a good girl, stay put and focused.

Sex isn't a big, I wonder why we magnify it... First day I made love with my fiancee, the roof didn't fall, I didn't see it as a big deal.

Don't join the bandwagon that girls are everywhere, yes they are everywhere but not all of them are worthy to be laid down.

I have two friends who are well to do but were chronic cheats, not keeping one woman but jumping from one pussy to another. Now they are looking for wife but have no woman they can call their own or have built something over the years with. When we are outside, they form champion but within they are troubled because marriage is calling but with their money it is hard for them to trust just any lady with their home.

When you come to a stage of maturity, you will seek to keep a good woman and grow with her rather than jumping from one nyash to another because of sex.


Is she worth it? If she is, wait for her to offer it herself...
Fornication make fornicators hard to trust any woman,

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Kyrestas: 8:39pm On Aug 04, 2021
She have some one special, she is just following you for money that you have been spending for her , maybe you have to Cute the way you are spending it .
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Brunosamel(m): 8:41pm On Aug 04, 2021
Rozcol:
Marry her and have all the sex you want with her,that's the right thing to do.
This is a bad advice marrying her does not guarantee he will get all sex he wants
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Hassanmaye(m): 8:41pm On Aug 04, 2021
Bryan88:
Bro u really try o...mine was jst for 4 str8 nights she told me she wasnt in d mood and d 5th night i kicked her out ...she cant be under my roof, eatin my money and every night she's not in d mood...but wil b in d mood to suck me dry, abi? Gone are those days...infact there was never days like that...and there wil never b...rubbish!!!
Haha grin grin So you will not agree Abi
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Nobody: 8:42pm On Aug 04, 2021
manhaley5:


Reach me on whatsapp
Okay
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Gfskw: 8:46pm On Aug 04, 2021
Rozcol:
Marry her and have all the sex you want with her,that's the right thing to do.

Marry her after spending a lot on her and be shocked that she is not a virgin abi and has been fuvvvking other dudes


Most of these girls trying to play smart will always end up in with the wrong guys. A guy has been spending on you no sex and sure she is not bringing anything meaningful to the relationship. He will now marry her as Virgin Mary right
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by MansoryMX(m): 8:46pm On Aug 04, 2021
Hassanmaye:

Hahahhahahaha So because she didn't give you to chop that's why you left her hmmm

YES

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Gfskw: 8:49pm On Aug 04, 2021
Better dump that retarddded hoe and get a good girl working class matured girls not all these young girls . The older ones will fuvvvkk you till you sleep off daily and also spend on you and support you because they are ready for marriage. Most of the young girls from age 28 to 23 years are not ready for marriage.

They are waiting for their own davido . And become baby mama eventually. They want everything without giving nothing.


When they are 31 and above they will then join their adult counterparts to go for night vigil daily and pray for any man and not davido anymore

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:51pm On Aug 04, 2021
Adeesther56:
U are a wicked person,so u want to have sex with her then it would results in unwanted pregnancy then u abandoned her,why can't u think are u a dog that can't live without sex,,think.. because fornication is a sin,u sef know it,and u call yourself a Christian,you are a disgrace to christians aswear, it gona clock 4 years this year that hav been a celibate..just pity your life aswear....


With your looks .. you should be celibate for life.. you don't deserve even a wack dick..
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:54pm On Aug 04, 2021
Op pls wait for another 6 year to complete it 10 years..

Ewu..
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by chieni(f): 8:56pm On Aug 04, 2021
Guys and their wahala. You will be the person to say she has 100 body counts you can't marry her and still be the same person to say I cannot marry her because she said no sex till marriage. What do you all actually want?

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Powerfly(f): 8:57pm On Aug 04, 2021
Silentgroper:
*i came from*
what generation would dat be?

hi. Its been a while

The 1990's generation....
Yea...I'm just on low-key here for now

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by bizhop01: 9:01pm On Aug 04, 2021
Must you have sex, what if she has no vagina?
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by EmpressT(f): 9:04pm On Aug 04, 2021
You want to have sex with a lady who refused by force? Prepare to die onto her and find yourself straight to hell. Very blunt right? I believe you are seeing stories of people dying on top of their sex partners because of discontentment.

It shows that you are not a real man but a dog expecting sex in return. You need to get your act together and look on the bright side. Premarital and extramarital sex have drown glories to dust. The wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord ~ Romans 6:23.

Fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee from the lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes and pride of life. Flee that you may not pay dearly with your life.

The ball is in your court.

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.
She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by TheRealOwner(m): 9:04pm On Aug 04, 2021
TheUndercover:
grin

Maybe you didn't include sex in your terms and conditions with her when you signed up for the relationship. Don't worry, wait few more years, she will consider you. Probably 4 more years. grin

LOL "Past experience" huh? grin What type of drug did the girl give you? It's very potent, like very potent. 4 years relationship? Damn! Is this the new format?
The potent drug made him impotent
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by fattprince(m): 9:06pm On Aug 04, 2021
Rozcol:
Marry her and have all the sex you want with her,that's the right thing to do.
Hi Zzor. We all know the sex will be for 6 month to a year after marriage then constant headache and body pain wouldn't allow her to give him the sex again after. It will now be a once in 3 months chore to be perform. You and I know the girl is getting the d elsewhere.
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by kennyholms2: 9:08pm On Aug 04, 2021
Check the girl very well, she might be given the stuff to someone else meanwhile she uses you for her spending achievements.
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Hassanmaye(m): 9:13pm On Aug 04, 2021
MansoryMX:


YES
grin grin ; grin bad boy
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by frozen70(f): 9:13pm On Aug 04, 2021
Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

Drop her if you can and if you can't, keep hoping on a lost game
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Elitehub(f): 9:17pm On Aug 04, 2021
frozen70:


Drop her if you can and if you can't, keep hoping on a lost game
marry her then if u so love her . Besides how can u date someone for 4 years without any good intention rather than sex?

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Nobody: 9:29pm On Aug 04, 2021
fattprince:

Hi Zzor. We all know the sex will be for 6 month to a year after marriage then constant headache and body pain wouldn't allow her to give him the sex again after. It will now be a once in 3 months chore to be perform. You and I know the girl is getting the d elsewhere.
That's what you redpillers always believe, there are still ladies out there who are loyal to the core and chaste plus sex outside marriage is dirty and a sacrilegious act to them but I don't blame you all sha some ladies are so cheap and easy to sleep with

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Spain007(m): 9:29pm On Aug 04, 2021
Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

Ring � her finger,then chew as u want
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by chieni(f): 9:30pm On Aug 04, 2021
Nehemiahjnr:


If you are the one in that ur profile pics
Why won’t you be celibate
she's actually right. Are you willing to take responsibility if she gets pregnant? Not telling her to abort and in future say you can't marry someone who has aborted a child.

please let her go
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Tundex911: 9:32pm On Aug 04, 2021
What if the place(V) is pithole just like Angel BBN nko

Rozcol:
Marry her and have all the sex you want with her,that's the right thing to do.
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Nobody: 9:37pm On Aug 04, 2021
Adeesther56:
U are a wicked person,so u want to have sex with her then it would results in unwanted pregnancy then u abandoned her,why can't u think are u a dog that can't live without sex,,think.. because fornication is a sin,u sef know it,and u call yourself a Christian,you are a disgrace to christians aswear, it gona clock 4 years this year that hav been a celibate..just pity your life aswear....
Puke*

Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by DAVE5(m): 9:45pm On Aug 04, 2021
divinehand2003:
Marry her first, sex will come afterwards

Then later he’d realize she has been the neighborhood kpekus that is free for all except him through out their 4 years of no sex situationship
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by timocruzcmbb(m): 9:49pm On Aug 04, 2021
TheUndercover:
grin

Maybe you didn't include sex in your terms and conditions with her when you signed up for the relationship. Don't worry, wait few more years, she will consider you. Probably 4 more years. grin

LOL "Past experience" huh? grin What type of drug did the girl give you? It's very potent, like very potent. 4 years relationship? Damn! Is this the new format?

Make I tell ham,(you be maga)

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