punisha:
If you have moved on, why is this still your battle to fight again?

Ruke1989:
She has this useless middle aged man in her office she resumed 4 months back who has been toasting and threatening to seep with her at all cost. She told me two months back, I warned the man to refrain but he didn't stop

I got a call from her today that the man showed up in her apartment and forcefully penetrated her vagina with his penis. According to her she managed to hit him in the forehead with an object before he pulled out his plug. I asked her why didn't you shout? She claimed no neighbor were around that she screamed

I asked her how did he know your house given the fact I warned you to ensure he never comes to your house or be alone with you at any point? She has no response

I broke up with her. I feel pained though that I have to let her go because I was her first man and I called her a month back to come home and inform her parents about the relationship. I intended securing the marriage first before investing to support her education and I told her at least we need to do a traditional first before any such spending.

Unfortunately she had been raped by a man in Ibadan old enough to be her father. She is distraught and kept it to herself for 3 days before tells me today. She is from a poor background and only trying to work on a 30l job to save over N360k she needs to pay up before her school can let her pick her RN nursing certificate.

I feel disappointment and won't marry this girl anymore but I want this foolish man punished over this. He refuses to pick my call. His phone number is 0805 023 9636

Guys call him and if you know him let more details be exposed here.
He works in a skyline specialist hospital at Iwo road Ibadan and is a friend of the manager. The poor girl raped doesn't know how to go about this case but is an employee of that hospital from a really poor background. She is afraid police may make this harder for her by milking her money without result

Temmylee02:
All the female here commenting saying the op is wrong for his actions NAH OGUN LAKAYE GO KILL ALL OF UNAH, I REPEAT NAH SANGO GO MURDER ALL OF UNAH. You stupid vagina idiot with no mind of weighing matter correctly, you informed ur bf about a man that is disturbing u , threatening to rape you, and he gave you a stern warning don't talk to him again simple....DONT PICK HIS CALL OR CALL HIM AGAIN but as a stupid and useless Nigeria girl she is she won't listen to the boyfriend advice probably the man is supplying her some of her needs.
Now let's say the OLD MAN [/b]was able to locate the house, for someone who had [b] threatened to rape you immediately he knock on the door what your female protective brain post tell you is to be outside your house with him. On no circumstances should you allow him enter your house cuz he pose a big DANGER to you cuz he had made his intentions known earlier...... Madamthemadam plsss don't ever in your useless life insult the op cuz it's clear many of you ladies on this forum are garbage thanks.

At op I understand that you're angry, assuming you never tried to prevent this occurrence is a different ball game....but it has happen it has happened if you feel like you can let go of the thought fine but my advice is don't go back to that relationship even if nah my sister dey careless like this nah this same advice I will give her boyfriend you know why


: Trust no go dey for the relationship again
: Any small thing the guy fit dey refer to the issue
: Anytime intimate wan join them d guy go always dey remember and e go dey build up anger in the guy mind
: One day one day the guy go explode and he FIT use the anger on her unintentionally or intentionally.
Best thing is to just walk out gently like you did.

Coolliot:


Nah emotions dey do you, you haven't decide to use your brain......

GARBAGE IN GARBAGE OUT WAS SIMPLY NARRATING YOUR BIRTH PROCESS

madamthemadam:


I didnt finish reading the rubbish you wrote, because looking at the first 5 lines, its obvious its coming from a pussy ass gutter wretch with an empty brain, you are a fool and that ogun you mentioned will castrate you and drive you to your death.
See this gutter wretch, you have no brain for analysis. Support OP kill you there, thunder fire you and the useless idiots blaming the girl... Unlike you i am not a generalization freak, there are still sane nigerian men out there.
your type?, i know how to handle, so bring it on. Dumpster mouth...

Temmylee02:
It obvious the person that says GARBAGE IN GARBAGE OUT WAS SIMPLY NARRATING YOUR BIRTH PROCESS

Temmylee02:
It obvious the person that says GARBAGE IN GARBAGE OUT WAS SIMPLY NARRATING YOUR BIRTH PROCESS

madamthemadam:


there you go again with your half brain, you are mistaking your birth and upbringing with mine,
you are a gutter wretch and na una type dey make smelling noise pass....

Your parents must be ashamed of the nonsense they brought up.

madamthemadam:


oga when we are talking about people that have brain, shut up and listen and dont allow your stupid upbringing rule you. Idiot...awon brainy lot.... Mumu

Hathor5:
The story does not make any sense.

Coolliot:



I'm using my brain, you are using your feelings, that's why you expect people to overlook the gap in her excuse, that it's a rape.
And knowing how a lot of women like courting danger, in the game of eating their cake and having it, i think that what happened, and not rape, she didn't just know the guy would be able to break through her smoothly.
Or haven't you heard of girls in the heat of passion saying I can't believe this is happening, I love my boyfriend and after that day, they don't see you again for months and become cold towards the person, only for them to later become steady bleep partners.
All these your emotions are for teenagers and university boys, that don't know how manipulative women can be .

Ruke1989:
I don breakup. She appeared honest but I can't find answer to the question of how he knew her house, knew the time there won't be neighbours and how one who has been bragging to sleep with her at all cost will be welcome indoors seeing she is the only one in the compound if true

Temmylee02:
When a mad woman comes in a place hardly before you won't notice, madamthemadam (mymotherisamadwoman) Eleribu, eran ofo awon omo kasua ndede

ford101:
most girls just want to be raped.

Kondomatic:
Alright but calling me names won't change the fact that she has been raped.

The man threatened to sleep with her no matter what. He told her clearly that he would rape her if given the chance.

The right thing to do would have been to report him to the authorities or avoid him completely.

Did you read where the OP said that she stopped telling him about the man unless he asks? That was after he warned the man to stay away from her?

Why would she allow someone that threatened to rape her to come to her house?

Abi nah only insult full your brain?

dontrulee:


Perhaps he got her address from her file

Kondomatic:
Alright but calling me names won't change the fact that she has been raped.

The man threatened to sleep with her no matter what. He told her clearly that he would rape her if given the chance.

The right thing to do would have been to report him to the authorities or avoid him completely.

Did you read where the OP said that she stopped telling him about the man unless he asks? That was after he warned the man to stay away from her?

Why would she allow someone that threatened to rape her to come to her house?

Abi nah only insult full your brain?

madamthemadam:






Yes indeed, the world if full of wicked people, you are going round and round, ADDRESS IS NOT A BIG DEAL, she doesnt have to give him, he cant get it from anywhere, na today,

and like i said what if her door was already open? And again life is not a movie where you can pause, so you think during all this, she would have time to call her boyfriend like the man would wait so she makes the call abi, even if she does, he can't fly down, so her best bet will be to defend herself alone.

AutoChick4U:
So knowing her house is an encouragement to rape? Do u know if He called telling her he wanted to drop documents? Files?

1Sharon:


My God. My fellow women really let me down.

I see why men call you guys fish brain.