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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MeghaneMorgane(f): 4:35pm On Aug 08, 2021
Honestly I don’t know how those couples survive. It’s ok if it is for some months and if the couple have a strategic plan on how they intend to eventually be together after a definite period. Not leaving anything to fate or life to decide. If not, I don’t know how they do it staying apart for an indefinite period.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MadamVanessa(f): 4:35pm On Aug 08, 2021
You have given them opportunity officially to sample everything on skirt.
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by HiSEminent: 4:36pm On Aug 08, 2021
Olosho
Mistress
Side chick
Polygamy

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by aribisala0(m): 4:36pm On Aug 08, 2021
Let me quote my childhood friend Shinaydoo

Missis gara London so

ke rock e chuchu m

That is how it sounded in my ears please correct the spelling grin
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by iamtardey: 4:37pm On Aug 08, 2021
I no pass dah side
Sonnobax15:
grin
When I get to that particular bridge,I go know by then...
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by SonofGod231: 4:38pm On Aug 08, 2021
You May also want to come and tell us so we can learn from their experience,why or what the embassy said were their reasons for rejecting the Husband when the Wife is an RN working there already.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Aforxzy(f): 4:39pm On Aug 08, 2021
Married but living single..the loneliness can make either of the partners to seek alternatives.... ko easy jare..

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by pickatyouu: 4:39pm On Aug 08, 2021
No kill ur self with high blood pressure Biko.
Wetin go happen go happen.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by pooozeee(m): 4:41pm On Aug 08, 2021
There is a coping tablet they use
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Aug 08, 2021
Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

As long as the Nigerian man doesn't have to send money to her, the man will cope exceedingly well.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by seyz91(m): 4:43pm On Aug 08, 2021
cheesy
Stupidquestions:

Honestly, sometimes, I wish I could be the other guy servicing the hort pvssy of the lonely wife. While they both deceive themselves on video call that they are faithful and miss each other...da kine nacking dey sweet
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by SimplyShit: 4:44pm On Aug 08, 2021
IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

Are you that someone?

Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by DonTattaglia: 4:46pm On Aug 08, 2021
Stupidquestions:

Honestly, sometimes, I wish I could be the other guy servicing the hort pvssy of the lonely wife. While they both deceive themselves on video call that they are faithful and miss each other...da kine nacking dey sweet

Ok, u will understand d language of RIP.. Your head go sweet to chop bullet.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by SarakiBukola: 4:46pm On Aug 08, 2021
grin

Na neighbourhood babes and female colleagues go hear am.

Just know that your wife too might be serviced by white, brown and black c0cks.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by nedekid: 4:46pm On Aug 08, 2021
Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.
Any which way, it's still thesame result, leave your spouse for long period and someone will help you.
My paddies have their wifes and kids abroad, one with very big tits and the other very young with nice shape after 2 kids. Only them know deep down in their minds what may be happening, but they turn a blind eye, as far as them no catch them.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Kuriosmynd: 4:46pm On Aug 08, 2021
emrain:


As long as the Nigerian man doesn't have to send money to her, the man will cope exceedingly well.
How about the thought of her wife being pummeled by a coccck in a strange land.
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Skillsnigeria: 4:47pm On Aug 08, 2021
Forget the marriage
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by chrisj2(m): 4:48pm On Aug 08, 2021
I will consider myself lucky to have the burden far away and yet sending money while I enjoy myself thoroughly in Nja... Of course, it is no longer a real marriage but the same happens to more men than women.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Jerryherd: 4:48pm On Aug 08, 2021
My friend is married to a US woman, and the woman comes from time to time, however all attempts to get my friend spousal visa proved abortive even when they are truly in love

Well he copes by drinking and fvcking call girls.. and I think his wife is cool with that

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by IamCookie(f): 4:49pm On Aug 08, 2021
SimplyShit:


Are you that someone?

No, I am not the person. I don't have any husband in the USA smiley wink
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Opsylo: 4:49pm On Aug 08, 2021
They are just deceiving themselves.
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by SmartPolician: 4:50pm On Aug 08, 2021
How else do they cope? They are the ones who turn little girls and their neighbors' daughters into runz girls. I know a man whose family lives in Ireland and was sleeping around with my female colleague.

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by seyz91(m): 4:50pm On Aug 08, 2021
I dey tell you grin

You no lie
MufasaLion:
LMAO
Anything long distance is usually scam grin
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by seyz91(m): 4:51pm On Aug 08, 2021
For your mind
valentineuwakwe:
Nothing much so long as the woman keeps sending the money from abroad, we are ok.

The main thing here is trust n both partners being focus n committed. Distance will never be a barrier!
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by slithering: 4:51pm On Aug 08, 2021
it is childish to think sex is what people think about while hustling abroad

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by RodgersAkpafu: 4:54pm On Aug 08, 2021
Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.
What is strange about it
What is sauce for goose is sauce for gander

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Kuriosmynd: 4:54pm On Aug 08, 2021
SmartPolician:
How else do they cope? They are the ones who turn little girls and their neighbors' daughters into runz girls. I know a man whose family lives in Ireland and was sleeping around with my female colleague.
Think I know a man like that too..has a very pretty wife and children in Ireland...but stays back in Nigeria for business I think. The wife is so sexy, fashionable that u can almost predict she has a baby boy servicing her

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Euegene100001: 4:55pm On Aug 08, 2021
There are very faithful women in Nigeria who are abroad I’m a man and I can’t say the same thing for men

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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MufasaLion: 4:55pm On Aug 08, 2021
seyz91:
I dey tell you grin

You no lie

Swears, man! Especially in this our woke generation.
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by omanzo02: 4:56pm On Aug 08, 2021
MufasaLion:


Yes, there's no reason to shy away from such discussion but not all men can handle such burden grin grin grin
Those are the type of men that commit murder because of punany, Bleeping is human biological need, man or woman will be sexually tempted to fulfil that need and being married wouldn't stop it if the will exist especially when's that long.
Somebody beside you will surely have his/her turn when you are not available. Something most men has come to terms with.

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