Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

Skyfornia:


If men can do it...women can do it too. Mind your business

MufasaLion:


Well, more reason you should think it through before considering such marriage.

IamCookie:
He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person.

omanzo02:

I wonder why men/women come to marry in Nigeria when there are enough quality women there thinking a typical Nigerian woman is more loyal. I will prefer to date and get to know someone where I live.

Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

MufasaLion:


People come for different reasons but most do come because they are used to the women of their tribe or country. So, they tend to believe they can live more comfortably with such women than a lady that has different cultural heritage, mentality etc.

But I have realised that some people that come home to marry do so becuase they want a woman they can contro, and a typical African woman will dance to the tune of her husband anytime.

Toks2008:

Your conclusion is twisted...

Guys come back home to marry SO THAT THEY CAN MARRY A WOMAN WHO WILL NOT CONTROL THEM.

Western ladies are mostly control freaks and you go weak when you see the ^AY they call the shots.

MufasaLion:


Not all are control freaks. Not all African women can be controlled also.

Toks2008:


Yeah I wrote "most"

But African women won't be control freaks cos they know it is not in their culture..

Western ladies believe it is their right to call the shot and that makes it crazy.

MufasaLion:



You're right, but I see no wrong in their mentality because they can still be tamed.

IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

Stupidquestions:

Honestly, sometimes, I wish I could be the other guy servicing the hort pvssy of the lonely wife. While they both deceive themselves on video call that they are faithful and miss each other...da kine nacking dey sweet

IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

Toks2008:


Ifahia?

Tame gini? Oh yeah you can take them by obeying them or by pretending to.

SarakiBukola:


Na neighbourhood babes and female colleagues go hear am.

Just know that your wife too might be serviced by white, brown and black c0cks.

MufasaLion:


People come for different reasons but most do come because they are used to the women of their tribe or country. So, they tend to believe they can live more comfortably with such women than a lady that has different cultural heritage, mentality etc.

But I have realised that some people that come home to marry do so becuase they want a woman they can contro, and a typical African woman will dance to the tune of her husband anytime.

omanzo02:

Typical African mentality that can't adapt, you can't force someone to be loyal and respectful, It's comes voluntarily, with dedication and self discipline.
I have always pull up with caucasian women and you can live with them comfortably and earn ultimate respect as long you understand and respect them, who doesn't like to be respected anyway?. If you understand their cultural heritage and mentality controlling western women is easy as ABC.

Toks2008:


I can tell you with near certainty that nobody is sleeping with their wives. Even the ladies wey dem born abroad sef never see man to do the do so nah the one wey carry herself come...

Pity the ladies not the men. It is easier for a lady to see a man to sleep with in naija than abroad.

Toks2008:


There is no justification for a lady doking outside her marriage. There are realistic sx toys that will keep the lady sexually active for years without the risk of infections... There are many ladies abroad who have been on intimacy gadgets for many years.

That guy try o to ever give his wife such advise.

SmartPolician:
How else do they cope? They are the ones who turn little girls and their neighbors' daughters into runz girls. I know a man whose family lives in Ireland and was sleeping around with my female colleague.

Kuriosmynd:

I only pity the husband